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She's apparently moved on.
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Reasons why your wife fvcks your friend and your first son doesn't belong to you.

supersystemsng:
Well ma. I'm sorry i took you as a male... na wa, you have the wisdom of a man..i'm sure you're elderly..or advanced in experience, one of both...How's your holiday going?

Are you married with kids?

Explain 'the wisdom of a man'

I'm Igbo and I'm not anti social justice

Humanistme:
LOL I'm sure the Op is a Nigerian extremist trump supporter and probably Igbo.

they are usually anti social justice and feminism


Nigerian extreme trump supporters are as dumb as the American ones

EgunMogaji:
Oh please stop with all the hullabaloo and poppycock.

She'll be gbensed and nothing will happen.

That's if she's not already doing it

Dummies

paschu:
Cry me an ocean.

Ain't that all you gat?
Sexist prig

http://www.kwch.com/content/news/Wichita-woman-headed-to-Houston-with-Harvey-relief-442414683.html

http://sanfrancisco.cbslocal.com/2017/08/29/sf-woman-real-time-mapping-app-harvey-rescue-relief/

http://bakersfieldnow.com/news/local/bakersfield-woman-headed-to-houston-to-help-with-harvey-relief

Just a few links for women helping out. Because they are not posing for pictures lifting people out of water doesn't mean they are sitting down doing nothing.
Many of the volunteers and donors to this cause are women. And I'm pained to a sexist asshat trying to use this disaster/death/suffering to further the cause of misogyny.

Thousands Women are working round the clock in shelter homes (free of charge) and overtime in the hospitals taking care of people who have been injured.

Maybe next time you want to be a sexist slowpoke, do your research first.

so some slowpoke brought this shit to nairaland. Seen it being parroted about on the media.

Like the idiot I suppose you are, you failed to research or acknowledge how women have helped immensely during these times. Typical of evil patriarchal snots like the original poster to try to rewrite history by ignoring the contributions of women. Trying to further your agenda by using people's pain and suffering? Despicable

And to further buttress your idiocy, you failed to realize that this post was originally created to support rednekc racists who made it to try to diminish their effects of their racism.

This is just stupid.
I know tonto isn't among the smartest of the bunch and I don't side with her egomaniac ex but this? This is plain low level reasoning that I don't expect from her.

Majority of girls are dull? No majority of your relatives are dull. That's why you didn't inherit any sense:

Hehehe
I'm not a porn or romance writer

DarkRebel69:
Really? Only six summers ago? In 2011? The same year my sister broke my playstation 2? You should definitely write a monograph on the subject; my curiosity is most certainly piqued. I should like to read how it happened. Every single thing that transpired on that day, down to the minutest detail.

To do discretion no harm, you can always post under an anonymous sobriquet on either of these two websites (Just make sure to suffuse your story with perculiarities easily associated with you so I can easily discern your story from the rest of the pack). And if you're not motivated enough to drink pen and ink then narrate your experience to my two attentive ears and I shall readily be your loyal Boswell. Pleaseeeeee, CocoPops, do well to oblige me :

https://literotica.com/

http://www.deolububble.com/general/ndb/

Mindfulness:
How about they do it (boys and girls) because nature calls them to do it?

I know some do because of nature. You know hormones and what not.

But many do it out of pressure.

dangotesmummy:
na wa o.see as you don yellow

Your pishore don dey make me wanna bleach and be yellow like you

By the way how's small coco?

I'm not yellow. just chocolate

Please don't bleach. Black is gold

loshybab:
It will surely be hard because it's what you assumed.

hmmmm! how do you know who's pained?
That's simply because you are pained...and if u think I'm as pained as you are,you are on a long thing.

Lmao. What did you just say? I couldn't understand

dangotesmummy:
by adult you mean how old?

According to Nigerian standard an adult is 18 and for me 18 is wayyyy too young.I think from 24 years upwards is personally what I consider an adult old enough to take responsibility for his/her sexual actions

by adult I mean over 20. My first time I was 21 and I think I was very mature for sex at that time.

However I'm going to be realistic and hope that she will listen until she's at least 19.
Most teenagers get pressured into sex way too early. The boys do it because they have to prove to their friends that they are men and the girls do it because they want to prove to their boyfriends that they love them.

Peer pressure is not to be undermined

Haha

Mindfulness:
See Buka wants to restrict and oppress boys now too.

Wait till marriage?

I would have s.ex in my 30s for the first time.

Abeg!

I'll teach my child to wait until she's an adult. That way she understands and is more equipped to handle the implications of whatever she chooses to do.

I'm not going to teach her to wait until marriage.

bukatyne:
I am happy you really have the true picture of side chics and I laugh when women say theor husbands come back to them.

I really agree with you that a lot of women aren't in tune with their sexuality that's why they see sex as a chore/duty/favour to their husbands.

I think a balance is needed; teach boys and girls to wait for marriage and gradual introduction into the beauty/importance of sex and sexuality as they grow by both parents.

BabaRamota1980:
Coco, see as you dey show off.
You dont need to say it...your glow alone let me know you are getting love. Dash ya brother this iphone, this one for mah hand get broke screen broke key broke speaker broke cover. Wetin u say?

What did I do now?

ibkayee:
See the kitchen he's even beckoning somebody to occupy, tufia

Like a dump house

Well what do you expect when women are constantly slut shamed for the same behaviors that men are praised for? Those mothers are so concerned about what people will say because they understand that they live among judgmental people hypocrites.

ibkayee:
This is what I imagine most guys here look like when they create threads with similar requests, yeesh

exactly. Some are even worse looking

loshybab:
To this question,
I AM NOT PAINED!
I believe I've answered your question, and if you need some explanations, i owe you none!

Thank you!

Hard to believe you're not pained. You sound like that

why are you pained about someone else's relationship status?

loshybab:
seconded!
In other words,they are birds of the same feather that flock together.


And to think they ain't ready to even change that annoys the fvck outta me coz their bad situation is only going to get worst.

To cap it up,they stupidly support their fvckd sentences like.....
'is it a must one gets married'
'my happiness is my priority and I am,as a single'....

when indeed they ain't or they cn bcme happier being married.


Baba! in a nutshell, i just weak for their matter!

Lmao

ponziponzi:
You don't understand, many of these ladies are unmarried and are close to (or more than) 29. They are simply venting their anger on the poor guy. What else will they do?

are you married and how old are you?

Are you married? How old are you?

Destined2win:
I don't know why a lot of ladies try to hide a bad attitude and character under the guise of 'marriage is not for everybody'. The ladies above are failing to address the real issue here.

OP, your sister has a bad attitude and is disrespectful. You were observant enough to notice that it might have caused her a guy who would have married her. And if she continues like, no man will marry her. If she eventually does, she will become a problem to a peaceful man and his family. The truth is that a larger part of ladies who are of age and not married have a disgusting attitude and they try to defend this in their own words yet deep within them, they want to get married and raise their own flesh and blood.

Pray for your sister. Be bold enough to advise her anytime you deem fit and defend your parents from her onslaught else she will be doomed if they ever lay a curse on her.

holyboii:
most of all the ladies above are singles.

its not even about she getting married okay shebi she want to slay let her leave the house and stop disturbing people

senseless ladies everywhere

Are you married?

What does she fight your parents about?

oluwatymylehyn:
The life of the formal olori is doomed. No one can marry her again. One one dares try it.

Dummy. Where do people like you keep your brains before coming online?

itohanphait:
She is his third wife the ooni definitely has a problem

Clear as day

He's most likely a shameless flirt. If not how did he end up with another woman so fast? Means she has always been in the background. I don't blame the first wife and the subsequent ones for leaving.
Those disgusting double standard kind of men are not worth it. No matter the title.

At the end of the day, what you need is a friend , a lover and a partner. The title won't give you happiness if the person you're sharing it with is an asshole