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Lmao. Useless boys

pocohantas:
It's the hustle...Why is he acting like a learner? He wants to use his hand to spoil things.

Naija men no too get better foreign exchange value, we're used to them marrying older women for green card. The wife remains in Nigeria as homebased. He sends dollars home and comes to impregnate her as at when due. Everyone is taken care of.

Why does Ude Uche Ude wanna complicate a painless procedure that has worked for years? How did he divorce her without her consent?

He should better appease his Naija wife, Naija women are easier to appease

That someone is nude doesn't mean they want to have sex with you

Get that into your thick skull

FemiEddy:
How can she complain of rape when she takes half naked pictures, she's raping our eyes too na

Buhari is Nigeria's Donald Trump. Useless presidents

Because both of you speak for everyone else?

What nonsense did I just read

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Mtchew. SMH

Zodiac61:
I give up.
I just hope stupidity is not hereditary. If it is, I fear for your children.

Lmao. I gave up before you. Can't teach dead brains

Hello I'm sorry if you have felt insulted.
Yes I'm married with a child. so I'd like if you stop quoting me everywhere on NL with comments of how I'm pretty and you want us to get close.

Note I don't think it's cool to insult people when they compliment you. Hence I always accept compliments graciously.

But The first time is usually a compliment, afterwards it's like you're wooing the person or something like that.
I know many nairalanders don't understand that if one has their prolife picture up, it doesn't mean they want to be wooed. Hard concept but very simple indeed.

Also I somehow got the impression that you're very young hence the aunty comment. I'm 27 years old and close to my 28th year (next February). For some reason (maybe the way you type) you seem under 20. If I'm wrong about that, I'm sorry.

Have a very very nice day.

Donjazzy12:
How do you know what they want, if you are not a lesbian yourself?

I'm sure they state what they want every day. You're just not listening.

Keep obsessing about my sex life. Perv!

They wouldn't need a parade if folks like you didn't marginalize them.

Heterosexuals don't demand anything because they already have the things homosexuals are fighting for. Freedom to kiss in public without people going 'eww'. Freedom to get married and have their own families.
In some countries they are still being jailed. What are you talking about.

Smh

alexis:
It's hard to be "left alone" when you have gay parades and pretend to be something you are not in the full view of our kids. I am against harming anyone because of their "sexual orientation" as you call it. Yet, they live in a society with everyone else and demand we treat them with kids glove.

Heterosexuals don't demand anything from anyone. We don't shout and scream when we get married, we don't have a straight day parade either. We don't persecute others just because they refuse to bake a cake for us.

Nobody gives a fvck. Give yours and leave toke's alone. She didn't criticize your own so called philanthropy. Wonder why you had to post your stupid comment in the first place.

SalamRushdie:
So buying a a Hyundai for someone now amounts to being a rich man ..Omo I am is still working my ass of to make something of my life so you should do so too , I have no reason to brag to anyone because I stay in my Lane I only did this because that idiot asked how much I have given people , I have given a one million naira to a couple of people in cash that have never even done way things for me infact one went ahead to backstab me for no reason after that .. I used to pray for the day I could give out brand new cars to people I love and now I pray to to give out brand new Mercedes-Benz out and I you never know OOO I might soon . I I have taken all the pics off that idiot just tried to make make it I don't help

People are really stupid . Why not give your own instead of criticizing what she gave?

Nigerian men ruining the future generation. Is there a day that can go bye without a man somewhere raping a child? Disgusting!!!

Disgusting human being

Donjazzy12:
You are a terrible lady to be attacking him like this. It it your entire generation that does not deserve happiness!
What is there to deflower? What of him, didn't she also take his virginity? If it takes ten years to make a good decision, what is wrong with that?

Donjazzy12:
The hypocrite is the one who hides behind Christianity to sell the homosexual agenda.

Nobody is selling anything to you. Nobody is asking you to become homosexual. All they want is to be left alone the same same heterosexual people are left alone to practice their sexuality: Live you heterosexual life and leave others to their homosexuality. Too hard? Self centered prig!

FortuneTeller:
Madam please go somewhere with such nonsense. A machine in the place of a human being? Haba!

A machine can't replace a human. But it's not a horrible idea. Even people with partners who can makes love right, also use intimacy gadgets to spice things up.

Couldn't have said it better. Marriage is only good to a woman who marries a kind and loving man.

Otherwise it's torture

MizzD:
Women have too much to give in marriage and this really bothers me. The moment you get married, you get pressured into having kids. You successfully achieve that, you worry about nurturing them, sometimes career sacrifices are made for these kids. You endure sleepless nights to nuture these kids, and while sacrificing it all, you have to worry about getting your body (Tommy, vagina, what have you) back in shape to prevent your husband from straying. You worry about picking up your career or academics where you left it.

If you're unable to bear kids or choose to delay a little to focus more on your career, you are also at a risk of losing this man to aspiring baby mamas or crazy exes.

You are also expected to bring something to the table hustle with the man, while you perform all wifely duties alongside. Sometimes i think these sacrifices can be so challenging and when a woman is unfortunate to have a husband who doesn't appreciate all that is done to keep it all together, you begin to wonder if it's ever really worth it.

Madam Op, the solution to your problem lies between you two. If your husband does not encourage verbal communication, pls write to him. There's no point reaching out to him via social media when you can pen all these frustrations down for him to read too.

Except you are being punished for a sin or you married a robot, you should demand and get a response / reaction or whatever and then you take it from there. Be firm and sort things out. Demand answers. Be ready to accept and admit your flaws. Address ALL related and unrelated issues that got you both to this stage and get yourself out of this misery. The outcome of your communication will determine your next line of action.

Lastly, if you keep nursing the thoughts of killing anyone, pls stay away from that environment to cool off. We have enough murder cases biko.

amliftedhigher:
I don't support rape but raping lesbians should be legalized

slowpoke

Donjazzy12:
How can you be so wicked? You are a lesbian but you went and married a man. Why? You are everywhere on Nairaland defending homosexuals and lesbians. Yet you claim you are a christian.

Their is nothing Christian or heterosexual about you.

I'm the one who's wicked? Not the person calling for innocent people to raped. Me I'm the one who's wicked. Fantastic.

You're a indeed a Christian. You hypocrite that sees no problem with her evil comment. What a nice Christian you are. 'God is probably very happy with you for thinking lesbians should be raped. Anu .

If I am gay or straight, it's actually none of your business.

Maybe she should be raped since she likes dyke? Stupid human

jaksmillioniar:
baby I sware u are d most beautiful girl in d rooms

I'm your aunty. Stop calling me a baby

PDPGuy:
You have the strength to keep replying to these people oh. It's obvious that some are still stuck in 19th century beliefs and will never change

Maybe one day I'll get through to one of them. Sigh

VargasVee:
Lol. When is it ever the women's fault?

When she beats the man to death. Or even beats him at all. Then it her fault.

If that's not the case, stop your sexist and misogynistic acts of deflection and place the blame where it belongs.

Radarada. Blaming someone else for your own acts of violence. nonsense

Be taking Panadol for someone's headache.

You're probably more promiscuous than a ram yourself but self righteously feel you can call someone who's better than you an olosho

Daboomb:
I dont understand why all you boneheads are focusing on what happened in the past (him grabbing his legal wife's boobs)?
If he does not, you will say he is unromantic, if he does, you will say it is inappropriate like i tis your wife's boobs he is grabbing!
You all just need an excuse to blame the man, forgetting Amara herself said she was the one responsible for dumping the marriage "because it is good for her" (and she added the kids to make it sound sweet)

Questions no one is asking the Amara of a wife are:
*If it is good for you, what about whether it is good for your husband?
Or is it that his interest does not count or matter?
*Is marriage supposed to be this selfish?
*If she claimed 'domestic violence' in the first broken marriage, will she claim "excessive love violence" in this one
*Is it not apparent that this woman cant just make a wife?
*Is it not very clear that this Amara is NOT a wife material?

Okay, husband number three loading.... jumping from one deeick to another

Olosho claiming wifey.

whether we like it or not, Marriage as it has become today, has outlived its usefulness.
Sex or kids, you can get without making yourself a victim of this trap called marriage

Or maybe it's the fault of the men that nobody is spending time to train into becoming responsible husbands.
Just maybe.

VargasVee:
I heard about this lady's story some few years back, how she suffered domestic violence for many years before she walked away. I was sorry for her but

Another broken marriage? Is this one also a wife beater? Some of these ladies got to sit down and reevaluate their lives. Ish might be from you

At least if nothing else, think about your kids you keep changing homes for, most of it usually have a traumatic effect on their lives.

Everyone would turn to the man as being the evil one here but there's Abs no need for you to walk into sth you're unsure of, most of you lot should stop playing victims like Tonto and co is doing.

truthsayer009:
You are obviously reading the wrong thread or maybe its english you can't read

Buzz off

Retardd

Lloydfolarin:
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Who is this idiot?

I presumed you r one of those useless and worthless pigs called ladies hence you responded to my write up in frustration

I didn't want to dignify a living dead like you with a response but i felt like, sometimes, an hoe needs to be treated like an hoe.

Just before i go Dimwit, i can assure you that i won't respond to your foolishness after this. Bleep off now Cunt.

kizyalex10:
this is exactly what am saying,u can't make ur point without insulting,guess u take it to a man's house nd expect to have a happy home.

What in the world makes you think you deserve any form of respect?
When the first thing you can think of at the sight of dead woman and her infant is that it must have been her fault. I'm sorry you don't deserve basic human respect because of your obvious lack of humanity

AuroraB:
Jackals
They've gathered, foaming from both sides of 'em mouths
Always looking for the worse

exactly

Obviously written by a hater

People are really mean and miserable when they see others happy