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I can't even believe what I just read.
Dude move on please. Let her marry her mother. Useless group of people.
Get a lawyer and demand shared custody!

I hope they are put to death. Soulless brainless maniacs

Not news. At least to me

So he's celebrating the young boy and the others that were killed today?
I wonder why God does nothing when things like this happen

I think anyone who still supports buhari and apc government needs their head checked

I hope a prominent lawyer stands up for these parents and sues the heck out of the useless government

Mindfulness:
Irrelevant. Her life must revolve around her husband.

Exactly. Sigh

What a demented old man. Useless president

Who's husband is she eyeing now

There's probably a lot she accomplished besides being his wife. But I'm sure we won't hear about it.

I like it

EmekaBlue:
okay.

lol that's me. Your software is fake. I hope you don't depend on it

EmekaBlue:
sorry for the initial quote i gave u,coz ur dp got my attention.... after using my software to process into you account kinda, I found out thats not you on your profile. You are making so much feminine meow here but u dont even have self esteem. its better u take it down than use the beautiful lady to be behaving like this. Thankyou

I won't take it down. She gave me her permission

Obalende:
Why would a man want to prevent a woman from getting help? I cant think of any reason.... you make this sound personal/ gender war... typical US strains of the movement.... I dey tell you....

did you read the initial responses on this thread?

Why don't we get all the insults out of the way and see if somehow something sensible can come out of you.

1) I'm olosho. Agreed
2) I'm bitter. Agreed very much
3) I need to find a man so my bitterness will turn to sweetness . Oh wait I have one already. I guess he's not a real man then because what real man would be okay with a woman has a voice and cares about female oppression. Sigh.
4) I'm ugly and men don't want me that's why I hate men.
5) there's really nothing else left to insult me with.

Now that I've made your job easier. What sensible thing do you have to say? Oh I forgot you didn't want to 'descend' to my level of discourse. you prefer the high road of calling me a slut as a debate response. Dimwits like you come a dime a dozen and I've been doing this for a while now so I already know that take away those preprogrammed responses listed above, you have nothing meaningful to say. It's like a minion lord some where made your little minds and put nothing else but those in it. You're naked in a debate without the ability to call the woman a slut.


You should go to hell where you belong

Daboomb:
Olosho, Gerrof my mention joor.
Bitterness is eating-away and destroying what is left of your miserable and it shows in every line you post.
Frustrated animal forming "women defender"!

I said l wont come down to your gutter-level and l hope the person defending you has seen a snippet of who you are.
Ill-mannered, uncultured, frustrated and bitter loser.


L-O-O-S-E-R!

Sounds like a good start

But at the end you yet again revealed your deep problems. Helplessness at the site of a vagina. It is well

Daboomb:
I think the Blame lies squarely at the door steps of we "Fathers".
We dont train our male child to see sex as an "fleeting feeling".... like having a Lollipop or Ice cream.
You may want it but you must be able to say "I wont have it now". SELF CONTROL
We must tell our Sons that putting it in and psushing it out doesnot change you, make you better or even make you happier.
Its just an "intense feeling of a few seconds" that can destroy you for a whole life, if not properly managed.

Most importantly, we must tell our Sons that "You are not yet a man, if you cant say "No" to anything and everything, even food".
My own sons know that their "test of manhood" is when they can deny themselves of that which they desire most, at any time.
When anyone matures to that stage, then you have almost everything under control, including those that think having something between the legs, make them superior.

I'm sorry if calling out the obvious truth strikes you guys are man hating.


Maybe just maybe you people wouldn't have so much bullshit to be called out on if you did the right things?


Just saying.

BTW I'm a product of the Nigerian misogynistic hellhole. If I didn't live the bullshiyt life, I wouldn't know would I?

Obalende:
lady it seems you are a product of the US feminist system. Its all well and good... Truth is we men need the ladies to help us curb our toxic masculinities... that is the truth.... this is real female empowerment.... how many men could you help? Please help us.

However, I would do well to recommend to you to guard against the hating strain of the movement.... as long as you balanced you are good.... you may have been brought up taught men are evil etc..... its good to review ones beliefs from time to time.

You're the one with lack of self control and somehow it's the women's fault?
Are you a brainless goat?

I don't think anyone is stopping you from teaching young men what needs to be taught. But are you? No you're not. You're looking for where young girls are getting help to derail it.

Devil's first son

Daboomb:
Spot on!
This is what needs to be preached and taught.

Boys and Men must exercise a high degree of self-control at all times, especially in sexual matters and not allow some manipulating women to turn them into objects controlled by a punanny.
Men should be able to look at a naked woman and say: Phuck-off, I dont need you or your sexual orifice.

But they would not teach or preach this because these feminazzis know that ones men develop that will-power to 'turn it off', they become FREE and cannot be manipulated anymore.
The Women lose Power over their male counterpart.

JeffreyJamez:
No one is trying to take away "women's well-being". Y'all should just stop trying to make it seem men are beast and women are saints. Dazall.

If the shoe fits. By all means wear them.

The OP doesn't demonize any gender. You're seeing and saying things that aren't there because you don't want to admit that you're irked by the concept of women getting help. Keep deflecting

Daboomb:
If you want to know what all these "feminazzis" are all about, all you need do is go over their previous posts and you will see their agenda and know their personality.
All these pretences they are making here, na wash.

yea such evil agenda. To make sure that women are represented and that young girls whose lives are ruined by the excesses of randy men can pick up their lives and make something meaningful out of it. How dare they.

The Man has, as one of his duties, to defend and protect the 'Women' (Women who remian Women).

You men are doing a mighty fine job of that. With all the kidnapping, rape, terrorism and what not. We feel very protected by the decisions men are making. Said no woman ever.

Take away reproductive duties for a second and imagine a world without men. Yea not so full of pain, unnecessary wars, jungle justice and untimely death is it? Way to protect us.

That role has not changed in man or any living specie, for that matter

. I'm sure many women who have been victims of toxic masculinity will beg to disagree

But these set of hateful, frsutrated women who call themselves NGO's have lost the opportunity "to be defended" (intentionally or toherwise) and want to upset the rules such that Women can see Men as their enemy.

A woman who was gang raped doesn't need to be told who her enemy is. A woman who has been beaten and deprived of her rights doesn't need to be told either. You're the ones doing all the telling with your actions

These sort of Women are the real Satan trying to create a Gender War!
Stopping them in every little way, is the duty of anyone who respects and upholds humanity

Classic delusional conspiracy theorist. Don't address the problem. Attack those trying to help the victims. Blame anyone but the perpetrators. Asiwin

JeffreyJamez:
Yeah,cos you know me so well ....

Yea well prove me wrong.

Henceforth, let's see you advocate for men without trying to distract from female victims.

Then we will know you're serious about men's wellbeing versus trying to take away from women's wellbeing .

If such happens, They will be the one on the thread telling the young boy to stop complaining.
I'm tired of the hypocrisy

pocohantas:
I will have to agree with this post. The only time I see men complain of sexual abuse is when they get it from the back, once it's a woman...majority of them see no wrong in it.

I am surprised they are claiming it's women standing against them.

I can swear I've stood up for more male victims in my life than you ever have.
The problem with people like you is the 'what about me?' Complex.

You use it to try to sabotage the wellbeing of others because at the moment those people are being taken care of and you can't stand not being the center of attention. If they weren't doing it, you wouldn't have remembered it.

Where are your threads addressing male victims of rape? Where are your comments about teaching sexual awareness to boys (rather than encouraging sex as a male victory)? Where have you ever seen women stand against men getting help? Is there any thread for male victims that you see women come to shit on like you people are doing here?

Instead what we see are men like you standing up to deflect the attention from real victims who in many cases are female just because you can't stand seeing women get help.

So You're not among the men who teach other men not to cry and thus encourage toxic masculinity which makes young boys think that having sex at a young age is an achievement for them and speaking up about abuse is a sign of weakness?

Why don't you 'group of guys' gather to help first and let see which women will come to destroy it with their 'evil and devious ways'. You haven't even tried and you are already speculating about how women will destroy it.

I'm sure you won't do that. Instead stay here and try to tear down this platform that's helping victims. Meanwhile your boy friends and brothers and fathers are going about town destroying the futures of young children.

JeffreyJamez:
Men are raping Children, agreed. And you know this because of the media. Now ask yourself why has there never been a news of young male boys being raped by their maids, neighbors and aunties?.... because non of you would believe the boy child...or would try to cover it up. ..90% of Sexually active boys today are victims of child abuse...but nobody is talking about that and the perptrators are shining teeth Everywhere...it's always about the female child....Even if a group of guys gather to help, it is you same women that will use your devious and evil means to bring it down....

JeffreyJamez:
Did you seriously read that article with Male victims in mind?

No I read it with female victims in mind.

If you're pained, go write the one that resonates with male victims.

Or write the one that will compel men to stop raping. Last time I checked more men are raping children (both male and female) than are women.

Maybe if we get you raping guys under control, we wouldn't have to worry about the gender of the victims since the gender doing the raping is the main problem. Nonsense

If men are so concerned about each other? What's stopping you people from looking out for male victim of rape or forming your own rape prevention organizations instead of trying to come in the way of help being offered to females?

It Shows it's not about getting help for men but about preventing women from getting help. You guys never remember anything until women want to do it for themselves then you're all like 'what about men?'
All in a bid to derail the course of women's wellbeing.

Pocohantas is right though. Where did the thread specify that it's all about females? But your wickedness towards women will never let you see that. You saw help and women in the same sentence and your vile nature couldn't let it be.

Stupid things.

ELKHALIFAISIS:
I see favouritism here , what of male victims meanwhile buhari and his AFONJA slaves will not like this

Daboomb:
Dont mind all these frustrated women that wake-up and set-up "NGO office" claiming to protect female rights!
That is where all the chalatans go, forming N.G.O!

JeffreyJamez:
You dey mind them

JeffreyJamez:
Read that post again and tell me if it's not "female victims" written all over it or you just choose to be stupid this night?

pocohantas:
Are NL guys naturally dumb or what?

I read that post three times and all I saw was victims and minors. No where did I see female victims, young girls or little girls.

These women took it upon themselves to handle such issues and una still complain. Okay, if you men feel they are not doing enough, start your own! Haba!

SweetJoystick:
I dey find woman wey go rape me

babyfaceafrica:
If a.man was raped,who should he talk to?

pcguru1:
Am sure a demographic on age would have helped in this matter.

Probably

Stilly they don't change that much as they grow do they?

Asshole

ecoeco:
...

B4 you all start coming here to blame the husband

It doesn't make sense 4 d husband to call her 4 settlement nd den kill her nd leave her private parts jst like dat

This is wat actually happened

Husband : calls wife into the room
Wife: enters room(with facial expression of anger)

Husband : pls let us settle this matter i am sorry
Wife: thats wat u always say nd den u do it again useless man

Husband : i said i am sorry(looking a bit angry)
Wife : see ur mate ar living in 3 bedroom flat comfortably... But all u do is starve me nd d children in dis ur 1 room nd go around pursuing women with ur truck

Husband : (slaps wife)
Wife : (screams)terkaa You will kill me today(rushes to the door, locks it, puts d key in her bra)

Husband : you are very stupid
Wife : comes close to husband nd starts fighting him

They hand wrestle for bit...

Husband: (trying to avoid her blow)
Wide: (seeing she's not inflicting enough pain, bites him on the hand deep)

Husband : ahhhh ( angrily starts beating up wife)

Wife : you will kill me today (breaks free frm husband, rushes to the cupboard, brings out a hammer)

Husband : lucy don't try me o lucy
Wife: throws hammer at husband nd misses

Husband : rushes towards wife
Wife: (seeing husband drawing close rushes to pick up an axe)

Husband : (seeing wife picking up axe, grabs her collects the axe pushes her to the floor)
Wife : (stands up, rushes to the other end of the room nd picks up the second axe)

( Survival status kicks 4 both parties nd @ dis point anybdy can kill anybdy out of survival instincts)

Husband : hits wife first.... Sees his mistake.... Escapes frm the window

Underlining assumption :
1. The husband couldn't hav called her nd locked d door immediately

2. The husband couldn't hav used 2 axes nd a hammer jst to kill one woman

3 It has been proven that the female starts every domestic fight either by their words or action during conversation

4 99% of wat causes a quarrel btw a couple is either s*x related or money related

5. 99% of men will slap a woman who calls dem "useless ' or compares them to" their mates"

6. Since it's a 1 room apartment objects like axe nd hammer will be close @ any point in time


#Eco99#

You have over 300 likes on that post.
Goes to show why your country is the way it is.
Led by inept men who can't take care of their own basic needs much less lead a whole country

Disgusting

NwaAmaikpe:


A wise woman should know that men are not domesticated.
She should have begged a female friend to fill in for her or gotten a young female help.

Men are wired to thrive outside the home front. Household chores are solely the responsibility of the wife.

A man might not be able to wash his own plates at home but he will toil and labour like a pig under the sun all day just to bring something back home.

Any man who washes dishes at home is a sîssy.


I dedicate my FTC to StephDamieola, Ishilove, Italianwine, YoungDaNaval and the new female househelp Ndifreke that I just got.
She's the true reason for my absence.

I'd rather die single than share one husband with another woman. This clueless imp is 'lucky' to meet one of those women who only wants him to settle her financially and he's letting his useless stinginess ruin it.

Well he's already caught. He will go back to nigeria and start his life afresh. Mumu

sisisioge:


He indeed messed up. Many naija men do this with their naija wives and girlfriends in the know. Most of the time though, the women lose out. That's, both the naija and abroad wives. The guys usually outgrow the women...just like threeeesome eventually loses its allure. But, there's always a good settlement involved. Ude should have paid his dues...now he might lose everything including his freedom. How dare he underestimated the power of a calculative angry woman!

Gold digging mofo. I hope his visa is revoked