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The childhood origins of narcissism

This video will explain in a very understandable way the parenting style that sets the stage for narcissism and the parenting style that protects against the development of narcissism.

To avoid anger and punishment, children of narcissistic parents often resort to complying with their parent's every demand. This affects both the child's well-being and their ability to make logical decisions on their own, and as adults they often lack self confidence and the ability to gain control over their life.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SeVj_0r0swg

Benjaminbassey1:
mind ur words, don't say that no one warn you...!! be wise

mind my words because your pastor is a demi god.If i start my church in NAIJA ALL YOUR PASTORS GO CLOSE BUSINESS CENTRE.Religion in Nigeria is cultism.I prophecise that mother mary incarnate will appear in Africa soon.

TMSMedia:
Leke Adeboye, son of clergyman, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, general overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God RCCG, has thrown shade at people who despite having broken marriages, always attacked his dad's preachings on marriage.

Leke threw the shade while celebrating his parents on their 53rd wedding anniversary on Tuesday, September 8, 2020, IgbereTV reports.

Posting a photo of his parents, Leke wrote:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CE4930HlYPn/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Leke is silly for attacking people with broken marriages.As far as i know Jesus and Paul were never married.Getting married as a christian is abnormal,if you truly want to live as your founder.

Golan007:
Who is Ibieyomie's father?

Oyedepo is his adopted father.

Toyboyz:
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A 7- year-old girl identified as Juwairiya Auwal was slaughtered by a suspected female ritualist inside a hut in Jos Museum, Plateau State.

It was gathered that on Saturday, September 5, Juwairiya Auwal and her elder sister Fatima Auwal, went out as usual to hawk brooms around Tudun OC in Rikkos community, Jos north local government area of the state, when they were accosted by an unknown Fulani woman.

Narrating how her younger sister was killed, Fatima said they were hawking when they met the Fulani woman who initially pretended to be a prospective costomer.

The woman asked them to give her a broom free of charge but they refused. Suddenly, she touched their heads and they found themselves in a hut in the popular Jos Museum.

According to Fatima, when she opened her eyes she found the elderly woman slaughtering Jumairiya. She managed to escape to look for help.

“I ran looking for help, I met a man reading a newspaper and narrate what happened to him, but before we got back to the hut, the old woman had disappeared. The man rushed to the nearest police station and reported the incident. The police arrived and picked up the corpse of my sister to Plateau State Specialist Hospital. The strange thing is that, my sister was slaughtered, but no trace of her blood on the ground or her body”.

The latest incident happened few weeks after a young boy named Faruk Abubakar was slaughtered for ritual purpose by unknown persons in Tudun Fera area of Jos.

Sharing photos of the little girl, one Assiddiq Jibrin Abubakar revealed that Fatima and Jumairiya's father was killed by the police during a crisis in October 2019, while their mother is unemployed. The family live at Yanshanu Nassarawa Gwom in Jos Local Government Area of Plateau State.

The police released the body to the family and she has since been buried.

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2020/9/7-year-old-girl-slaughtered-by-unknown-woman-for-ritual-purpose-while-hawking-brooms-in-jos.html

Man eats man Society.

Tajbol4splend:
Vagina people

Like your mother.

LaboPolitics:
yoruba were rejoicing because they want a leeway to steal Igbo men properties by marrying Igbo daughters and insulting Igbo customs, a custom that even settles Igbo daughters with properties upon marriage. Kolewerk!

Let the same yoruba SC judge Bode Rhodes-Vivour also make a judgment that women in yorubaland have the right to be Oba of Lagos, Ooni of Ife and Alaafin of Oyo.

If he won't do it, I'm sure an Igbo judge or Hausa judge will be glad to do so, since both men and women are now culturally equal in law.

Didnt your Ibo daughter take the case to court in the first place?Yoruba women can challenge to be Alaafin or Ooni in a court of law,if they please.

There was once a female Alaafin and Ooni of Ife in the past.Alaafin oronpoto and Queen Luwo of Ife.Google is your friend.Islam and Christianity bans women from becoming what they were in the traditional religion.i.e head of a kingdom etc.

ggirl4real:
OP this is not the right section for this info.

Move it to the right section.

To the topic, if the Pastor bought the car with his personal money, then there's no need for tongue-lashing him.

However, if he used tithes and offerings of customers, sorry members, then his church business is paying off.

It's a win-win for the Pastor.

The real yahoo boys are in the religious,political and banking sectors in Nigeria.

Mobi47:
Daddy freez was actually wrong with that interpretation. But the Pastor went too far sha...however, how can one redress a stubborn man like daddy freez, without going too far. He is totally wrong this time and very disrespectful. He nogo fit try all this stupid talks with Muslim imams na

Dont deceive yourself MUSLIMS disgrace useless Alfas when they cross the line.There is one popular Alfa,Alfulany trending on social media for stealing mosques fund ,come and marry tactics And sleeping with peoples wives.

Muslims dont seal our mouths when things are not right.Nigerian Pastors and Alfas are same.Their bellies called them not God.Alfas can become pastors tommorrow.I know some who have dont that.

I am tempted to change profession because Nigerians no wan get sense.
Very soon MOTHER MARY incarnate go land NAIJA SOON.

kuntash:
This guy has a good heart!

An opportunity for him a second time would be nice!

He got funds from Italy.

naptu2:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2020/8/governor-ikpeazu-shuts-down-bakasi-market-after-attack-on-fire-service-vehicles-2.html

Nigerian society is an illiterate one.They are not bothered to research into anything and educate themselves outside the classroom.

favor914:
Go and ask Adeboye, Oyedepo, or Oyakhilome if they believe Nigeria will break up, and how they will share their churches amongst the different countries, ie Winners Enugu, Republic of Biafra? Winners Edo, Mid West Republic?

They will apply for residence permit for their Yoruba pastors like they do in Europe,Asia etc.

rottable:
Where is your testimony offering?

Which offering oyibo wey manufacture the electronics collect?Nigerians and scamming in the name of religion.

God doesnt need anybody’s money to enter paradise or get favours.Money is a man made creation.Oyibos dont go to church but they live in paradise on earth. Stop pouring your hardwork in the basket.

Made4naijalove:
A video making rounds online captured moment an unidentified Nigerian man harassed a Nigerian lady for wearing a short dress.

In the incident which happened in a foreign country, the Nigerian man was heard threatening to assault the Nigerian lady who he accused of losing her "African morals" upon arriving the country.

The visibly angry lady however dared the Nigerian man to try same on a white lady.

Watch video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDh1QuQproY

The lady could have Called the police on him for stalking.Jobless man who doesnt mind his biz.

Nigeria is a country of 206 million which is expected to increase.The human population is the energy of any country that is why countries with low birth rate are constantly seeking migrants or increased birth rate.Our problem is not overpopůlation.

Nigeria is a consumption based economy inspite of the increasing poverty.The countries you buy your products (tourism,automoblie,Accesories etc)from are getting richer taking your money and creating employment for their children.
We the consumption based country keep sinking in poverty because we spend more than we can afford.

In Sweden,they value their volvo cars and Scania trucks.Volvo buses are used for Public transport.Remember that when you buy from China you put money in the pocket of the chinese man to provide for his children or youth.

We Nigerians love to complain without proffering solutions to the problems facing us as a people.
Government cannot do everything.

Nigerians need to produce what we use ,eat and wear,we have the large population to make a lot from one another keeping the money in our pockets and economy.

Every family should go back to the days when families had a special skill like Gold smith,hunters,Traders,farmers etc passes onto to all children of the family aside schooling

The Scandinavians no matter their level of edication always have a special skill or learn new skill for side hustle.

I read a news about increasing rise of food products.The solution is plant more food crops and watch the prices go down.Subsistemce farming can also help some families to cushion the effect of high food prices.
What are your solutions to the unemployment in the country?
Lets create our paradise in Nigeria and learn from each other.

Jannuxajj:
I am too get inside for that but I will try sha

Never go for public toilets. Try date hardworking and employed women to avoid gold diggers.

dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.

I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.

I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.

The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.

Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.

I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......

Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.

I hope this makes front page

Try to create a small biz for her so she understand the value of money.

donproject:
See Igbos ehn...that's how they will run their republic if given. Experience I had with them in Enugu last week chai, I hate them more with passion. They call it smartness but these people are the reason Nigerians are known worldwide for their corruptions. It runs in their blood....ole, gbewiri, apomolekun jaye, jaguda paali, awon alafowora bi shina rambo.

I won't say much...I was defrauded in that same Alaba by a guy known as Bright in 2016, I swear for him shah but to my disdain, the guy is now in Italy after duping his boss and ran

Stop leaving these criminals for God,deal with them mercilessly if you can deal with a woman who stole pepper in the market.

mabeni:
BEN, you and your colleagues will never know peace for defrauding me my hard earned money. You even had the guts to tell me that you too wants to driver BENZ.

Carry police or soldier to go deal with those scammers.They must refund including the money you take carry police

CzarChris:
I'm kinda lost here, what has King Leopold's atrocities have to do with the topic at hand? Please enlighten me.

Poverty is man made and the religious institutions contributed to it both Islam and christianity.Arabs and Europeans who brought religion to us live in paradise on earth while we pay to their God to grant us paradise after death.

CzarChris:
Are you happy with what is currently happening in the body of Christ in Nigeria now? Pastors live lavishly to the glareing improvishment of their members. I always use my pastor as an example, he is always blessed by people who he mentored in prayers and who are moving high in every aspect of life, but he never describes the church as his or an investment. He always let's everybody know that the church belongs to God. His humility is infective, I have never ever in my life seen a man that humble. Whatever comes to him, he shares with the less preveiladged, he only takes that sufficient for his family the rest goes to charity. Now that's the outlook of a true man of God, even the Bible says that "by their fruits you shall know them". Why and how did Islam take over Turkey? It was because of the corruption in the church, Nigerian churches are currently doing way worst than what the Turkish churches did. It's by the Grace of God that we are not yet consumed. If this view of seeing a church as a business venture continues, the fate of Turkey and Rome under Emperor Nero, will be child's play to the persecution will be facing as the body of Christ.

BTW, I googled the meaning of the word Taqiyya and it meant "the practice of denying one's religion, permissible when one is faced with persecution, especially by Sunnites: regarded as a means of protecting the religion." So the meaning you are trying to convey here is not context to the point you are making.

European missionaties style of xtianity.Here is a letter of king leopold to congo missionaries.
Reverends, Fathers and Dear Compatriots: The task that is given to fulfill is very delicate and requires much tact. You will go certainly to evangelize, but your evangelization must inspire above all Belgium interests. Your principal objective in our mission in the Congo is never to teach the niggers to know God, this they know already.

“They speak and submit to a Mungu, one Nzambi, one Nzakomba, and what else I don’t know. They know that to kill, to sleep with someone else’s wife, to lie and to insult is bad. Have courage to admit it; you are not going to teach them what they know already. Your essential role is to facilitate the task of administrators and industrials, which means you will go to interpret the gospel in the way it will be the best to protect your interests in that part of the world.

“For these things, you have to keep watch on disinteresting our savages from the richness that is plenty [in their underground. To avoid that, they get interested in it, and make you murderous] competition and dream one day to overthrow you. Your knowledge of the gospel will allow you to find texts ordering, and encouraging your followers to love poverty, like “Happier are the poor because they will inherit the heaven” and, “It’s very difficult for the rich to enter the kingdom of God.” You have to detach from them and make them disrespect everything which gives courage to affront us. I make reference to their Mystic System and their war fetish – warfare protection – which they pretend not to want to abandon, and you must do everything in your power to make it disappear. Your action will be directed essentially to the younger ones, for they won’t revolt when the recommendation of the priest is contradictory to their parent’s teachings.

“The children have to learn to obey what the missionary recommends, who is the father of their soul. You must singularly insist on their total submission and obedience, avoid developing the spirit in the schools, teach students to read and not to reason. There, dear patriots, are some of the principles that you must apply. You will find many other books, which will be given to you at the end of this conference. Evangelize the negroes so that they stay forever in submission to the white colonialists, so they never revolt against the restraints they are undergoing. Recite every day – “Happy are those who are weeping because the kingdom of God is for them.”

Kingspin:
Those people in Europe build school, roads and employment. I even hear the government give money to religious bodies.

Pls fact, not fiction

It is a fact.

https://www.nairaland.com/6059184/church-tax-europe-america

jaxxy:
Shud churches be regulated? Well there are churches abusing their privileges both in unGodly and unethical ways.

Shud the government come in to regularize or monitor them? I’m not sure. Can’t CAN handle that

In Europe ,Govt regulate the churches,NGOs and mosques.In sweden for example ,the govt takes 1% church tax on behalf of the Churches from devotees(optional) and they can apply for grants also.
Religious (Jew,Xtian and Muslim)secondary and primary schools are free in Sweden.

LawLab247:
Is that a remedy? Do you honestly believe that? Thing is, most of this fraudsters are not in it for the basic necessities of life, rather, for luxury.

Some start scamming out of necessity.I know sone universities who suffer to feed in school even girls need to prostitute to pay school fees and feeding.
Northerners get bursaries except North central.Southerners hardly pay except Lagos.

Niger delta oil belongs to the British.The Notherner elites only hold it as front for them.Fulani is the house nigger/slaves,other tribes are the plantation nigger/slaves.

haiti007:
My thought: the Money her husband garnering for the family will be spent be who?

For retirement abroad.

seunmsg:
How low can our political elites go? This one is using her childlessness to score cheap political points. Smh!

Theresa May used the same thing in Britasin to become a prime minister.

AlabiJ:
I think FFK might prefer Bianca instead. Just saying.

Bianca is old mama,na ayonje FFK want,the woman he can control.