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AlabiJ:
.. FFK is destined to rule Biafra. One day that dream shall come true. Chukwu Okike Obama shall see to it.

The first lady of Biafra land

simpleseyi:
I think the CAN meant one day FFK will rule Biafra.

He will become a pastor and rule CAN.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WMzV-pD9iLA

Nairalandhero:
Why Women Find Pastors Irresistible,

The things that ordinary men are so incapable of engaging in, especially with their wives and girlfriends, happen to be among the things that women find attractive about men of God.

Whatever the time of day, whatever the circumstance, the man of God will always make time to listen and to throw in his thought and his spiritual words to any person who needs it.

Most of the time, it is the women who approach them with their problems and the men of God don’t disappoint. The men of God throw in something else - they empathise with the women as they listen to their problems and help them search for little solutions to their issues.

Be it spiritual, financial, emotional or career related, the men of God will have something soothing to say. The new evangelical churches that have come up all over the country have introduced a new dimension to the nature of men of God.

The pastors at these churches are mostly young men, are charismatic, articulate, and well groomed. You have probably seen them on Sundays and Saturday. They have fresh faces that have been scrubbed at the salon. They spot neat haircuts and have well-tailored suits and impossibly well-polished shoes.

In some way, the preachers and pastors end up looking way above the ordinary man in terms of his once-a-week grooming ritual. Their sharp appearance together with a good command of English, well- modulated voices and agile and theatrical performance on the stage will leave any single or married woman mushy.

Women are attractef to control,power,fame and money.

guy222:
Useless pastor, please i want to ask a question. On the last day, are we going to heaven naked or they are going to sew a cloth for everybody?

You came to the world naked so you shall be naked in heaven like Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden.

Narcissism in the pulpit
Pastoral abuse
90% of pastors are highly narcissistic
30% of pastors have full blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder

The key term to describe a narcissist is “self-aggrandizement.” All of us to one degree or another manifest some narcissistic characteristics, particularly when we are younger or in our youth, but most of us grow out of it as we mature.

There are those, though, who because of their unique temperament, combined with improper upbringing and training that often includes trauma, who develop warped belief structures about themselves and others by their teen years. Unfortunately they not only do not grow out of it, but they become firmly entrenched and concerned with “Me, My, I, and Myself.” They live out a life of “It’s all about Me: my wishes, my desires, my kingdom come...” In essence another person with a certifiable personality disorder is unleashed upon the world.

One mistaken belief is that a narcissist is in love with himself, but in reality he is in love with an image of himself– an image he creates and believes about himself based upon his perception of how he perceives that other people view him.

Unfortunately, to love only images renders the individual unable to really love and care for the person who is behind the image. The
narcissist does not really love himself or others around him. He loves his projected image and the image he projects onto others (more about this later).
A personality disorder is a repeatable pattern of abnormal behavior that doesn’t change even though it upsets and causes emotional trouble with other people at work and in personal relationships. “It is not limited to episodes of mental illness, and it is not caused by drug or alcohol use, head injury, or illness. There are about a dozen different behavior patterns classified as personality disorders by DSM-IV. All the personality disorders show up as deviations from normal in one or more of the following areas:
1. cognition– i.e., perception, thinking, and interpretation of oneself, other people, and events
2. affectivity– i.e., emotional responses (range, intensity, lability, appropriateness)
3. interpersonal functions
4. impulsivity.” (Ashmun)

Why do narcissists love churches?
Narcissists often see church as a valuable source of attention. ... Just like a leech, narcissists gain their energy from the admiration of those around them. Church is the perfect place for the narcissist to be able to parade their accomplishments and spiritual sincerity to others.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tw50KlV15uk

https://www.epiclesis.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Narcissism-in-the-Pulpit.pdf

Localchampion:
I'm really confused about my boyfriend if hes worthy of getting married to.
We are in a long distant relationship, we hardly see, sometimes thrice in a year, but I believe the reason we are still together is because its a distant relationship, as each time I go to Enugu to greet him and stay for 2weeks, my love for him is always reduced.
So much this time around, we haven't seen for a year, and I had something important to do in Enugu, so I decided to stay in his place and use the opportunity to greet him. The first 4days, we were totally fine with each other, as I was busy with doing the stuff I came to do. Meanwhile, I didn't spend his money, as I came with my money and give him money to buy me food, so for the first 3days he was the one buying the cooked foods we ate, but I would give him 1k. Naturally, I don't eat outside, nor do I eat junks, but because he said he doesn't have money, I just pitied him and did not mention the fact that he should get foodstuffs, I don't want him to start feeling bad that he has no money plus I was even busy, remember I came for a purpose. And I don't use it as attitudes for him, I'm a very happy enduring lady.

Now after the fourth day that I finished the program I originally came for, I lost my money, about 150,000, truth is when I'm sad, im usually harsher, and would not talk much, would become exessively quiet, because if I talk, I may start to cry, this is when problem started between us, he acted unconcerned about my predicament, I just ignored him, trying to see how I can get back my money. And the truth is, if I get the money, I will surely give him part of the money, there's no time I will make money and not give him. So for like two days, I was in depression due to my money, I didnt sweep, I was just sighning, and not cheerful to him, the next day afterwards, was when he bursted, and started talking
1. He said I'm useless to him
2. He compared me with other people's girlfriend, how they take care of their boyfriend, how they cook for them, cook extremely homey food for them.
3. He said his friends couldn't visit him because I'm in his house, and thus hes missing because the fact that I'm in his house I'm useless, not doing anything for him, and yet his friends couldn't come.
4. He said his cousins girl did this and that.
5. He said I'm talking of marriage, he said what is he marrying, he said when I'm not even showing any readiness bla bla bla
6. He said I should look at his house, does it look like a girl is there, he said his friend told him that since I'm around now, his cheeks would become bigger, and in his mind, he knew he would only grow thinner.
7. He said I should leave his house first thing tomorrow morning, since I'm not useful.
8. He said at this point, hes confused, if i want to break up, I should just let him know, because what is the point of our stay together
He said just too many hurtful things and those are the ones I could remember.
I was able to record some of those things, so I can relisten to them later. But he collected my phone and deleted all I recorded.

All through, I was just quiet and smiling because I don't even know where to start replying him and he was very serious, his face was in a fight mood, I don't wanna talk because I really don't like problems or fight. Then later, he said I must say something, he seized my phone, and almost made me loose a deal.

I just kept quiet, later when I started talking, he denied having said USELESS, something he mentioned more than twice and apologized swiftly.

All his accusations were wrong because the reason I didn't cook is because he has no single food at home and hes the one always complaining he has no money, so I just taught that, I wouldn't make my stay to disrupt his life, he knew I hate eating outside, and the fact that we buy food is something I am enduring, because the foods makes me nauseated each time I eat them. He knows how much i cook for him when he comes visiting me, I will cook several things, what I can't even eat myself due to financial problems, I am the one always fighting him to cook that Junks are unhealthy. But just because I was pitying him, I didn't bring up the idea of cooking, he accused me of being useless, he said I'm the one to bring up the idea as a girlfriend, bla bla bla.

Later that day, I brought the idea and he gave me 5k to the market, I cooked and did everything. I didn't buy a single food I could eat (I don't eat pasters), because the money isn't enough, so I just bought foods he likes and made a nice sauce. His friend came visiting, I packed foods for her and did normal. His friend called him to relate how I treated her, this is when my boyfriend started filling extremely happy, and thanking God for meeting me, saying nice things.

Since then, he has been saying stuffs of how much he's been gifted to have me bla bla bla, to me, whatever I have for him has greatly reduced, because I don't know the Essence of the relationship, because to him, its a roleship, where I must do my roles and if I miss, he won't even think why could I have missed it, if its intentionally, was it because I'm sad, the next thing he would be saying is if we should break up or not. Now, this is someone I never compared with anyone, I don't even compare people, I just do normal to him, like I will do to a brother, plan for him, etc, yet he compares me all the time and wants me to live like the other average girls that are using iphones.

I told him yesterday that since he wants a roleship, he would also man up, and for the first time in our 5years relationship, I started behaving like the normal girls, I asked him for money to make my hair, he doesn't have, I asked him for money for cream, he doesn't have and he has been angry because I told him I don't care whether he has money or not, since I must do my roles, he should also do his roles, and for the first time I also compared him and told him what men are doing for their girls.

He has been frowning and sad since I said those words to him, because they are deep, I just served him exactly what he did to me. I'm not happy, I'm doing that to him, I'm even sad I'm telling him all these because this is not me. I'm still going to make him realize how useless he is in my life, absolutely useless, and that is the truth, since he sees our relationship as a role one, then hes useless.

I can't marry him like this, God forbids, someone who can't endure due to the situation of things and understand, and he wants me to understand his own and endure for him, its not just possible for me, and he's good at talking, abusing, bullying, etc. Hes the one that will tell me to snap pictures for him, I will tell him I don't have clothes, he will say ''Go and Buy now'', He will bully me with my hair and compare it with that of other girls. He wasn't broke before the lockdown, but I didn't collect money from him because I want him to achieve and grow with the money, so that by the time we get married, he would be financially very okay.

Please should I marry this kind of Man? I really don't know why I should because it seems his happiness towards me, his affection and romance is dependent on fulfilling ROLES in his head.

You might be dealing with a narcissist.Read the link below.


Here is a list of what Abusers/Narcissists usually do to their targets :

- Insults their target very often. Then lie when confronted about it, or say it was a joke.
- When confronted with their behavior, they pretend to be innocent and play the victim.
- Everything is always your fault, even when it's obviously not.
- They always have a justification for every bad thing they do. They think they're always right.
- Very controlling, they tell you how to live, but they can live anyway they want. Very hypocritical.
- They accuse you of what they're doing to you (RED FLAG!), it's called Projection.
- Portraying themselves as angels outside, when they are actually demons with their family and especially their target.
- They want you to fail, while pretending to want you to succeed (they're very convincing).
- They never say they are sorry for hurting you (RED FLAG!).
- Poison your favorite activities, they don't want you to be happy or to get pleasure. They also poison other useful activities like important skills which will help you in the future. They DO NOT want you to have skills, they want you to be as weak as possible. They don't teach you anything.
- Subtly lead a smear campaign against their target, so they isolate it and make sure they don't get help.
- When you want to leave the relationship with a narcissist, they beg you to stay with them and cry crocodile tears. They are the best actors.
- Sometimes nice, sometimes cruel. You never know where you stand with them.
- They pretend to be "victims", and they blame the target for their own behavior.
- They are incredibly arrogant and sadistic. They see the target as weak, and deserving to suffer.
- They think they are models to be followed.
- They are spiritually dead although they might loudly profess some kind of Spiritual Belief.

https://www.nairaland.com/5855395/main-difference-narcissistic-men-women#89506775

FFK ,President of commander in chief of Goat forces in the Republic of Chinwenduland

Dmano:
To be honest the journalist ask a stupid question but Femi too supposed maintain his cool

He could have said no comment.

DIGIMARKETER:
Stupid is a word used to qualify someone that acts like it. If someone ask you a question that you deem stupid then you can call such a person stupid. From all the videos i have seen the journalists asked him stupid questions and he can call them stupid for it. I assume it would have been okay if he had called them intelligent for asking him stupid questions.

These guys are not on his level and he had to make them know. simple. In Nigeria of today , a person born and bred in Mushin or Agege will be forming levels with someone that was born and bred in VI. There was indeed a country

Nonsense Economic status is not a justification to insult others.Mutual respect should be the order of the day.
FFK is a nonentity,he is a crack cocaine addict who only make noise and fight for his pocket.

OhBiafra:
Kayode says it just as it is. The greatest Yoruba man dead or alive. Far greater than Awolowo

Maybe greater than Azikwe.He has never done anything for the Yoruba trube.He is Osu in Yorubaland,Ibos can claim him with snowhite.��

A hateful speech of a person who instrumentalize the Christian belief.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQmyjHMVcro

cpu2006:
Femi Fani KAyode........our Next President.

In Biafraland

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Pimpmaride:
In all honesty, this govt is not doing good at all..

Dss has their fault.
Ipobs too have theirs

Enough of all these loss of lives..

We are not happy seeing this.... If they can do this to igbos, they will do it to another tribe oo


Who shall we believe self?

Ip0bs said they killed their people

Dss said the same things..


But the two cud have happened but I still don't bliv Dss part...


Kanu shud let Ip0bs come down a bit... Enough of this blood shed..


I am a westerners but mehnn, I can't take this killing from the hands of a northerner...

They can't just be killing us here na......

Where is Dss in Kaduna south?

Army nko, nowhere..

Our military are now reduced to civilian level..


See, we can't thrive together...

Let's go separate jare. Enough of all these


https://www.nairaland.com/6072904/dss-reacts-ipob-members-kill

https://www.nairaland.com/6072124/police-ipob-clash-enugu-two

All the tribes in Nigeria should boycott all British products in the country for creating the Nigerian self destructive entity.Hausa is not your enemy but a house nigger trying to survive too and please his master.

FrLukas:
And to think that Turkey used to be a Christian state before.

Exactly what will happen to us if we allow the children of Dan Fodio to take our land in the South.

In the days of old,the masses follow the religion of their conqueror to get some priviledges,sense of belonging and prevent further attacks.So religion was like fashion where you can switch depending on the circumstances.

Your ancestors were traditionalists before the whitemen and Arabs came with their slavery,colonialisation and religion.If shrines were converted to a church or mosque ,you wont bat an eyelid.

Arabs(Conquest/Jihad),Turks(Ottoman Empire)and Europeans(Crusades) have a long history of stealing from each other through slavery,wars,control,paying tributes.

Turks,Arabs and Europeans aka bandits using religion as cover are two sides of the same coin.
Any black man/woman defending any of these parties is wasting his time.

Their histories have nothing to do with blacks except slavery.Blacks are only good for them as mercenaries for wars or soldiers,servants.How can blacks care about their oppressors so much when they give no damn about you,forget their eye service.

okoroemeka:
the biggest betrayal was when an elder statesman in the west preffered to be a finance minister instead of the first president of a new Yoruba nation,if he worked in sync with ojukwu as planned we will not be in this mess called Nigeria,you can call col ojukwu whatever name you like but never call him a coward,we know who the true coward is.

Yorubas didnt create Nigeria All the kingdoms in Nigeria were forced to be in the British company Nigger area.

Why cant Ibos in diaspora protest and do hunger strike infront of the British parliament for creating the Nigerian mess? .

SegFault:
Look at this dumb slowpoke. We are talking about inventions you are talking about looting, ewo I can feel your pains, unfortunately your slave morality will not cure it. studied history in Europe my ass.

You are the dumb slowpoke ,bad belle is allowed .Didnt the foolish you read about Imohtep the father of medicine before Avicenna?I know you are an Arab slave no wonder Arabs treat your kind like trash in their country because you believed you never contributed anything to humanity.

Unfortunately Nigerians hate to read before arguing blindly.I will make no more replies to a person with a shallow mind.Du är outbildade.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESaB-mHcXwQ

SegFault:
Keep quiet my friend. Lost inventions my ass, most of the places in Africa that were greatly civilised was due to Arab influence and how would we know much about a history that was not documented, even the Mfecane in Zululand was not documented yet it was so close to the arrival of voortrekkers in South Africa. You guys should leave this nonsense and move forward. Understood.

Typical brainwashed fool who doesnt read but argue out of thin air thinking he is making sense.
Arabs looted Africa first Before Europeans .Read about Arab slavery of Africans.I studied history in Europe so i know what i am talking about.
Next time read and study before you come online to make silly statements.

No wonder Whites see us as fools.They teach their children in schools what happened to them in 600Bc but African are only reminded of slavery.Europeans underwent slavery too in the Arab world and Turkey up until 1800’s.
Did Africans never lived a good life or civilized before Arabs and Europeans came to your land?

History of a conquered people are destroyed and rewritten by the conqueror.

SegFault:
Is that all? Now if we start listing the things the rest of the world invented would a single post contain it. We should bury this mentality and move forward for fvck's sakes.

I cannot list all because Black civilisation has been white washed for centuries.Inventions by blacks were credited to Arabs or a white man.Our history has been supressed and not thought except slavery.Africans recovering their lost inventions will be a study of a lifetime.

African ancestors built the pyramids of Egypt ,the white study about Egyptology in their universities.It was ruled by nubians not Asian Arabs.

Sudan has more pyramid than those discoveredin Egypt.The blacks created the myth of life and death,gods,Pyramid structure of the society hierachy,Gold minning,Calculating dates and calenders Etc.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_c0cvuAD5jc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vs9J7n77gB0

RichBoy247:
But the white men are now paying our lazy youths millions of naira to go steal the same devilish African gods. What are the white men doing with the devilish African gods?

Using it for power ,control and studying African mysticism.

SegFault:
Invented all the good things of life Please list the others let us hear.

If blacks were foolish ,how come your ancestors left you a land full of wealth and ariable farmland but the white ancestors left them in a land of cold temperature and snow. African owns over 50% of the world resources.

EUROPE WILL ONLY CONTROL THE WORLD AS LONG AS THEY CONTROL AFRICA’s resources.That is why they gave you their religions to take you away from reality and true history of your mighty ancestors.Your prophets in the bible and Quran are your black ancestors whitewashed by Arabs and Europeans
Original Arabs were blacks before the fake ones appeared on African soil to replace them through war and slavery.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.history.com/.amp/news/8-black-inventors-african-american

https://www.blackhistorymonth.org.uk/article/section/history-of-slavery/africa-before-transatlantic-enslavement/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vs9J7n77gB0

CodeTemplar:
Just congratulate the celebrant or get lost. Our gods couldn't help us invent dry gin or mirror talk less or crude oil and cars.

Africans invented all the good things of life you see today. What the whites and Arabs stole from you is what they rebranded to resell to you.
They took your religion ,knowledge and gods to their lands to become prosperous. The father of medicine is called Imhotep a black man.Arabs and whites copied from us And made us slaves.Slavery destroyed the black history.Our history is written by our conquerors orvoppressors.

Female’s harem

LaEvilIMiss:
The Middle-East is the worlds worst source of Religion (CHristian and Muslims are all the same) rapists, pedophiles, hypocrites and genocidal maniacs

The Jews are the godfathers setting up Mislims and christians to maim and kill each other .They also all aspect of life in the modern world

Gjrich:
It is a known fact that the establishment of the State of Israel in 1948, after she conquered the Arab world enraged a lot of countries of the world.
Virtually all the Arab countries refused to recognize Israel. Saudi Arabia is one of the many Arab countries that have refused to recognize the sovereign state of Israel.


However, the irony here is, Saudi Arabia buys military equipment from Israel that she doesn't recognize. One of the military equipment she bought from Israel is Pegasus, the electronic spyware so many countries are desirous of getting. It is a powerful mobile phone software used to spy on people. The spyware helped Saudi Arabia in killing the dissident journalist, Jamal khashoggi some time ago.

Similarly, so many other Israeli Enemies are seeking ways to establish ties with Israel. This is because the creativity of the Jewish people is unprecedented. Their technologies are miraculous in nature, and irresistible. Israel is not up to 80 years, but her military and technology have advanced more than those of countries that have spanned through centuries.

Though Israel very small in size, the country may still topple America as the Super Power in the future.
But that is only possible when the position of super power consists not in size and population.

What are your thoughts on this?

Please comment below,

Saudi Arabia and Israel are two sides of the same coin.Arabs and Jews are the same blood dont let anyone fool you.They are only fighting over power ,land and control.

Openbusiness:
those are mixed people, not pure blacks. Scandinavians are European Caucasians and the black population in Scandinavia region came about through slave trade. Scandinavians have huge population of blue eyes. Along the line of history, of course the black slaves before/after emancipation etc would have mixed with some whites, and introduced the blue eyes genes to their lineage gene pool. This girl's case is different. This is a naturally occurring blue eyes from nature, for a 100% black person. From the story, it can be deduced that her parents didn't have blue eyes. It started with her and passed to her kids. It is extremely rare. Maybe 1 in every 100 million blacks.

Have you lived in Scandinavia before?It is a recessive gene.There are blacks with blonde hair in Solomon Islands and they have no white ancestry.

Openbusiness:
those are mixed people, not pure blacks. Scandinavians are European Caucasians and the black population in Scandinavia region came about through slave trade. Scandinavians have huge population of blue eyes. Along the line of history, of course the black slaves before/after emancipation etc would have mixed with some whites, and introduced the blue eyes genes to their lineage gene pool. This girl's case is different. This is a naturally occurring blue eyes from nature, for a 100% black person. From the story, it can be deduced that her parents didn't have blue eyes. It started with her and passed to her kids. It is extremely rare. Maybe 1 in every 100 million blacks.

They are not slaves.I dont know why blacks have inferiority complex.Blacks populated the earth before the whites.Only a black man and woman can birth all races.

We are the prototype race.We civilised the world not the other way round.The day we realise this is the day power will change hands.

Blacks existed before slavery and lived a wealthy life in Egypt and we occupied the four corners of the earth before Arabs and Europeans came with their cultism lumped into religion to brainwash us and keep us in their shackles till this day.
It will surprise you that Arabs and some white folks have Nigeria in their DNA results.

The only reason you believed whites are honest is because Jesus is white or muhammed is Arab.
Whites are no different from blacks,we are all a duplication of multiple traits,character and looks.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.rt.com/news/451766-swedes-outraged-ancestors-documentary/amp/

GoldenStreaks:
Lol. This family just used Nigerian's to play tennis. And some gullible people still believe them

Didn't the husband notice her eyes when he was marrying her? Didn't he notice her eyes when he was also fvcking her to give her two children? Abi he was blind when he was doing all this and suddenly he can now see

Lots of deluded goats in the country

You can plan the same trick with your spouse or partner to trend on social media.

Openbusiness:
OMG, see blue eyes on a chocolate skin ............God is great. Am mesmerized

The scandinavian ancestors were blacks with blue eyes.