₦airaland Forum

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

You have a point, man.

Marriage is not something men should just jump into simply because it is heavier on them should things go bust!

Angelfrost:
Nengi??! Why??!... What informed your choice??!...

A lot of people are rooting for Ozoemena or Wathoni.

I like beautiful people.

During the introduction, there's something she said that caught my attention.

She said she wants to show people that she ain't all about good looks alone but she got smarts too.

So I really wanna see her smartness play out.

Actually, I like beautiful and smart people.

vickydevoka:
How him take look local. Don't judge some one by de amount of bleaching de rub of surgery de do. Besides de guy has a good profile. Believe u in me I hated de first de because he wasn't acting up untill de second day he drew people's attention

Don't blame me.

There's something called First Impression.

And in his introduction, the guy was talking about him being a Sex Enthusiasts who likes talking about sex and all that _bullshit.

And I was like who the _fuck is this agbero sef?

Angelfrost:
Ohhh.. I see now. I understand your perspective.

Well, that's why there's a wide range of viewing voters.

Exactly.

Now guess who I want to win the show?

Nengi!!!

Angelfrost:
Local??! What's wrong with being 'local'??! And how do you mean by 'out of place'??!

Is BBNaija no longer an indigenous Nigerian show open to every Nigerian from all parts of Nigeria??!... Is it now solely for the affluent, bourgeois, and spoiled brats of society's elite class??!

If this is the case, they should stop using the Naija term for it... Naija stands for the streets!!! For every true born Nigerian!!! That's who Laycon is or represents.

Well, what else can I say?

Everyone is right in their own opinion.

Actually, nothing is wrong with being from the streets and if that will help him win the game in the end, then good for him.

But in my own view, if I am the person solely making the decision on who leaves or who stays in the house, laycon will be the first person I will cast out.

Because I don't like anybody or anything that represents the streets at all!

stanliwise:

My better platform is anywhere in the world that I will flourish.

You think by calling Npower you can make a point? I don’t play does simple mind games.

Someday I will be side by side with the likes of Amazon, Facebook and Google coders with the pace I am going.

I don’t need to tell you about my self but all I know is time to come I will have to leave Africa society. It may never give me the platform to grow to my best. So when I was saying good platform I basically wasn’t referring to Nigeria.

Who the _fuck has time to play mind games with a lost and confused fellow like you?

So you even had a nice and ambitious place you were heading to, and yet you still had to stop to come and be wasting your time on the trivial things I said, huh?

Na wa o!

Of course, you don't have to tell me your 'story' because anybody online can come up with any 'story'.

Na dem sabi.

You may think you are so important because you are heading in the direction of Google and Amazon at the moment, but then, what makes you think I am not heading in a similar direction too?

Why would you disparage me because of what I typed on Nairaland just because it didn't sit well with you?

My advice for you is this: STOP TAKING NAIRALAND TOO SERIOUS.

vickydevoka:
Watin him do u

Angelfrost:
He is weird, introverted, talented, and unique...

That's the opinion of thousands currently 'feeling' him right now... Different strokes!

Everyone can't be loud, boisterous, and flirtatious!!!

To me, he looks too local and out of place...

They should also try to publish online let's see how obaseki agents will try to block the website too.

I no dey feel this laycon at all at all.

Left for me, he should be the first to be evicted.

This is one thing I will always hate about women.

Why do these women always feel like the must tell the whole world what's up with them?

Why?

stanliwise:
I am not in the medical line and in my own line I dey do as body fit reach, I pray for a better platform someday.
But I won’t stoop so low to talk this kind of una talk, people dey do better una Dey yarn off point

Look at this young man!

You are still hoping abi praying for a better platform that someone else probably has to create for you abi?

Someone seeing you condemning me earlier might think you are the Elon Musk of our time!

Meanwhile...

In reality, You are probably just a struggling young man probably hoping on government to pay you Npower allawee.

It's really a Pity.

stanliwise:
Wen una go get sense for this country. Countries all over the world in the news day in day out with update on research.
Naija hand nor dey anyone yet some ignorant people like una go still dey yan kpatakpata. I Dey shame for us I swear.

Almost all the so-called vaccines you use today are they not the one producing them. Like you said our own na to fold hand dey look until them go shock the world bring cure and claim the glory.

Who cares?

Abeg who glory epp?

The worst part be say with all the shaming wey you dey shame since, still you sef never invent any meaningful thing.

In fact oga, you are the true definition of a shameless man.

lefulefu:
even if the older woman is american or european?

.

Na dat one even worse pass.

You never as oyibo dey take age so fast?

How can I accept to marry a woman older than me?

Except say dem use jazz on me.

Sunofgod:
Good for them....let them experiment on their kids.....and we will monitor the side effects!

I support you.

After all na dem create am.

So make dem also find a cure.

Our own na to just dey watch dem destroying themselves.

safarigirl:
Maybe he's flaunting thighs for Tochi

Hahahaha.... It's possible o.

Vic2Ree:
Sounds like Ebuka to me

It's definitely ebuka.

safarigirl:
When Eric was parading shirtless, why didn't go express concern for the ladies?

This earring boy has even been parading with bum shorts, showing off man thighs everywhere.

All man to their conji

That ear ring man seems gay.

veekid:
See, you don't know what you don't know and what you don't know don already pass you... You see this Dorothy abi na dorathy? She's FAT! Kilodey forget the big water melons on her chest jooor, she will look disgusting while naked

You have a point.

This is very very hilarious.

She's crying in front of a camera and you want me to take her serious?

Mba.

sammysneh:
so Nicki Minaj has finally settled down..

Yes na.

She don already sabi wetin dey.

It's now or never for her.

You know say age no dey pity for women at all.

humilitypays:
A well rounded and bouncing buttocks
Average sized standing boobs (must not be too big or tiny nor flat)
Straight full legs
Some folds on her neck
Flat tummy like slippers (her tummy must not be big at all )
Full lips is perfect

With the above features, forget Linda Ikeji, she will hammer

Thank you so much for giving her this solid reply.

I think this is exactly what she needs to hear.

Is blogging now a gender based profession?

Is there any difference now between male bloggers and female bloggers?

With the said weight of his crimes, if he's lucky, he'll be getting nothing less than 100 years behind bars in the US!!!

Moral lesson: Say No To Crime!!!

jidamsel43:
There was indication or he truly died of Covid-19?

Some news are misleading.

Every death is attributed to Covid-19 now.

He had not been confirmed to be Covid-19 positive before how could he possibly die of Covid-19

That's the game plan now.

Every death is attributed to COVID.

These people are now making it seem like people have not been dying from other causes since the beginning of time!

Truancy will keep some people in this life!

pokenose:
You guys are completely missing an important point in her message. She says the reason why Africa has not seen much death is because Africans have not undergone widespread testing. That should make you think: "why do we need to undergo widespread testing before we see dead bodies on the street?" "Does it mean that the virus is in the tests? Since the virus has been in Africa since February, with testing or no testing we should already be seeing dead bodies on the streets, right? So I think what this evil woman is trying to tell us is this: "Just wait till we convince your governments to do widespread testing, we'll inject you with more of the virus, you will infect your friends and families & the deaths will fill the streets!" And when that happens, she will run and tell the whole world: "I told you so! Africans now have widespread testing and see the deaths we predicted." And some ignorant fools are here clapping for bill and Melinda gates.

You're right on point.

That woman is nothing but pure evil.

I'm so glad now people are waking up and seeing these evil Bill Gates, his wife and their entire evil vaccination plan for what it really is.

Italy don jam.

I thank God for Africa o!

brainhgeek:
Well, He is not to me. He is real. I have experienced Him. I hope you do too

Hahaha

Experience indeed!

Well sha, your thoughts are real and since God only exists in your thoughts, it equally means God is real... to you.

I get that.

Oblitz:
Tell him to his face. If he doesn't want to propose, he should let you go. Time is running...............

Look at this one o!

Yeye advisers every where!

Was he holding her in captive against her will before?

Of course, she's knows she's free to go anytime she wants to go.

The problem is does she really wanna go?

brainhgeek:
Sounds very logical too. I also never thought of blaming Illuminati for whatever. We all are doing one job self-destructing our planet already. We don't need an organization to bring down hell.
On Corona virus, only God knows the fact. We can only make up theories.

Yeah right.

Man's own is just to theorize.

Hope you know that even the God you mentioned is also one of such man's theories?