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setobaba:I agree with most of your points...nice one. Get more closer to him and out what led him to alcoholisim. Replace his addiction with some worth while, productive and safe. Disconnect him from anybody& anything that triggers alcoholisim in him. |
Augustwife:Hello dear, pls disregard anyone suggesting divorce as a solution to you...don't give the devil or home breakers a chance. Such advice is evil& not with good intentions. You don't run away from challenges because the problems you solve makes you a winner&elevates you in life. This is the time your partner needs you, in his time of weakness &trust me this is another test of that love you say you have for him..so prove it and by the time he comes out of this, he will never forget your good deeds in his lowest time. From your story, your husband seems to be a good person just that he has an addiction with alcoholism..So it means he needs help. You have to understand that he is not happy with the life he is living, he wants to change and be a better man but lacks the will power to change....so with this understanding approach the situation in a much wiser way. I understand the challenge is much&seems overwhelming but I can also see that you are a very good wife so continue to do your best and don't allow anyone decieve you or take advantage because of this your situation. Enroll him for therapy for some longer time, deny him anything that triggers desire for alcohol...(money, alcoholic drinks, cut off his drinking friends, alcoholic adverts, events were alcohol will be served etc) to he becomes sober. Probably, he needs a rude awakening that will shock him and make him stay away from alcohol but we pray it won't be something sad or his health. Don't allow yourself to be under pressure for the sake of your health &kids....allow genuine, well meaning people(family &friends) to support you now so you won't get overwhelmed with the situation. Above all know that this too shall pass, continue in prayers(very important) as well as your human efforts and God will help your family. Your husband will come out of this and you will surely thank God. Best wishes. |
FERNANDEZISBACK:This is an evil advice...don't shatter other people marriage with your wrong advice. Not everything can be solved with divorce. Marriage is friendship& partnership, you don't run away when the person needs you the most. It's obvious she has a huge challenge but her husband needs her now to overcome his addiction. He isn't doing it because he likes it but because it's an addiction so needs help from a better person to come out of it. |
Aonkuuse:The animals that committed this evil must pay in a miserable way. |
ijustdey:Evil heartless people. The disgraced accountant general (Idris Made) is wicked and fisted on people's sweat which affected the educational system and other public servants& many families negatively. Him, all the persons involved and people like him should be dealt with harshly so others will be detered. |
ijustdey:Very wrong move with grave consequences. This foolish Europeans want to drag the world into unnecessary conflict because of their pride& foolishness to please US&UK. Russia has never been a treat to them, they just want to put their hands in what doesn't concern them based on manipulations. Russia will surely respond one way or another and when they do let know one blame them. |
NigerianSage:Nobody is rubbishing Russia. Cuba& Venezuela for years defiled US&Allies with the help of Russia and nobody spoke about it. Recently it was Assad of Syria(Small Syria) messed up the whole of NATO. They failed wholefully in Syria, all because Russia came in and changed the game. This is the same thing NATO wants to do to Russia in Ukraine but Russia is the master of such game. It will only take time but their goals they are achieving silently as they keep NATO guessing what their goals are, this is the reason why Russia never gave out their timeline for the military operation in Ukraine instead the western media created one for themselves. |
1stGenAmerican:Who told you China is bothered about your sanctions because she has enough to withstand them. Weithet they fight or not they know the west will sanction them sooner or later. The US&allies can't afford to sanction China too...the pain& consequences will be too brutal for them. Ask Mr. Trump, he tried and the Chinese responded in kind and the US dropped the idea like hot plate. China is just observing and waiting for when push will get to sholve so as to respond with tact. As for south American countries...alot of them tactly support Russia& will join in if matter escalates. Mexico, Venezuela, Argentina, Cuba, Brazil are watching keenly. Many Arab nations too are watching keenly. Hope you know Turkey can likely switch sides to support Russia. In Asia, India, China, N/Korea, Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos etc watching. In Africa..others are watching...even south Africa& Egypt refused to join the sanctions. Ethiopia,Algeria&Sudan are Putin's allies. Russia keeps making western nations to guess her objectives in Ukraine while she goes ahead to achieve them silently. Mind you, Russia is more than capable to fight on multiple fronts (atleast 4 fronts) they have prepared for this for long. Europe should stop trying to always drag the world back through wars and conflicts because they will bear the most consequences of this conflict and this time is may be more devastating for them. |
1stGenAmerican:Aid from a heavily indebted country like US..? A country that owes practically most of other nations& stills gives them aid just to boast her ego...with minimal expansionist exploitation of others, Russia&China have built huge real wealth enough for themselves without noise. Check the debt profile, foreign reserves, internal reserves, gold reserves & energy reserves of Russia&USA and come back to tell me which is truly wealthy. Wealth is when your real economy is not debt induced or theory. |
bankylan:Retarded dummy. Keep living in Nollywood fantasy of US |
HonNL:Sweden&Finland has just made foolish decisions. This is what you get when a country like USA manipulates the whole of western Europe. USA can't try these with most Asian nations. Why involve your self in a battle that doesn't concern you? This is another reason why feminist leaders are a no go area...always reasoning with sentiments. NATO is real the agressor here by always advancing towards Russia using Ukraine as bait&pretending to be innocent.....to those cheering Sweden and Finland, hope you know that this move puts the entire world at risk. If China, Iran, Arab nations&India decides to act on the side of Russia the world will become very volatile. To cheerers of NATO, answer these questions with sincerity..(If Russia kept to their own side of the agreement by not expanding again towards the US via Cuba why can't the west respect their own agreement too)??, Why push Ukraine against Russia..? Has NATO not invaded more nations in history..? So what changed with this particular one..? If Russia decides to reacts, the world will not be a safe place. It is a dangerous thing to dare a powerful nation fighting for her security. Besides Russia can decide to activate her allies in in south America like Venezuela, Cuba as base for nuclear armament to unsettle USA. Europeans have show themselves to be foolish people that want to drag the world into conflicts&wars. What is the aim of provoking Russia by expanding eastwards...?? To those who say Putin's Russian is weak....I laugh at your nauseating ignorance. Ask yourselves why an organization like NATO exists and why 32 nations have to gather to just fight against 1 nation if that nation isn't powerful enough to take them on. Economic indices is mostly on paper and if war breaks out, Russia will show the difference between theories&real. Russia is financially, natural resources rich and has a vast landmass, armies, science and industrial complex with big population to wage wars. If not for the indirect interference of NATO&Russia soft approach because of their shared history, Ukraine would have been decimated since. In Ukraine Russia is already fighting NATO as well as Ukraine and for NATO this is also a revenge to Russia for interfering and defeating them in Syria where NATO's agenda to remove Mr. Assad failed. Remember China is watching keenly and if Russia decides to activate their Chinese allies(they both have no limits technical cooperation allegiance agreement) then it's officially a troubled world. Believe me Alot of non-western/Europe countries hate that NATO group and will capitalize on any opportunity to see to it's destruction if any conflict of global scale arises. This is why most non-western/European nations have refused to join NATO against Russia or sanction them because NATO was created to subdue others not in their gang. These Nordic countries have decided to move away from a place of safety that comes with neutrality into a place of insecurity/conflicts that comes with alliegance. As it seems Turkey(another coded ally of Russia) may likely scuffle the plans of these Nordic nations)...beside the membership approval& joining process is another long haul. This why the Spaniards &Portuguese are always smart because they know how to thread with caution in transnational conflicts such as this by not heavily involving themselves but keeping to the safe interest of their nations. The UN has shown itself to be a manipulated,biased& toothless organization with no teeth and lacks the ability to engineer world peace. Anyone that cherises world peace will not applaud the move of these Nordic countries (Sweden&Finland) to join NATO because it is a senseless move to excalate issues and drag the world into conflicts as this move will can create deadly chain reactions. NATO&USA are shooting itself in the leg here because after this conflict is over, they will find it hard to invade anyother nation as usual because the world will remind them how they all treated and reacted towards Russia. The ultimate goals of Putin is to put these NATO nations in check&ensure a bipolar world for the good of every man...also to make his country totally self sufficient &reallied against their adversaries....and these he is achieving silently. NATO stay in your lane while Russia stays in hers, non should cross each other's sphere of influence...period! |
Sageez:This your statement here is the problem. Remember "from the days of John the Baptist, the kingdom of God suffers violence and takes it by force". David fought, Joshua, fought, the early Christian crusaders fought too. Keeping quiet and allowing enemies attack your life is foolishness and you will be held to account for that foolishness. Agreed no one should insult another's religion or talk anyhow about his own religion...however Muslims insult christians but they haven't been killed like goats for it. Nigerian Christiaina wake up and all nonsense will stop. |
Persephone1:Trash talk. If you like don't learn from it so you can be a better woman for your man until reality will hit you hard. Nobody tolerates nonsense anymore. |
Candidlady:In as much as I don't support some of his reactions but you don't push your man to the wall and expect him not to react. It is not about the amount of money involved, what it is to be used for or if it money was available....but the mindset&how with which some women make demands. You can not be jobless, be entitled &troublesome.. that's an evil combo. Women, make senseable demands with sensitivity, gratitude and reality. How can someone who isn't working or contributing to the financial goals of her home make ridiculous demands with entitled mindset under the pretense of religion. Some of these women act as if they know God more than their spouses or others. As a woman, know that you can never please God with an insorbodiate spirit and disregard for your husband...study your Bible truthfully it's there. Obey your man at all times not some times,regard and give him peace always then he will do things you ask of him....it is not rocket science. In as much as it is not her money and even if it was her money, making such financial moves without her husband's approval is wrong...anything she does, no matter how good the intensions are will probably be nullified. |
Persephone1:You will just open your mouth waaa and say things you know not of. Is it your story?....are you the one who had the experience? Why is it hard for you to believe him but can believe he isn't telling the truth and that the said wife is innocent. Can't you decipher that he has been having the said problem probably on repeat with the wife for their parents not to have scolded him for his reactions. This is the mindset that creates problems in homes. A man is here telling you his ordeal instead of you to drop your advice, you resorted to funny talks. If you like carry this same kind of behavior into your marriage and see if your husband will not finish you. |
[quote author= post=112786676]MumuReno on the beat again... Day in Day out, he keeps making his brainwashed swines of supporters look like fools. He floored and knocked Obituary the Pandora thief and liar, Broke down the bones of his supporters, floored them down with innuendos. We remembered how he has been a god to children of hate, frustrations and perdition cos of their joint hatred for Baba. Now they are on the receiving ends. We warned y'all, but your hatred and bigotry blinded y'all. Same thing the foolish FFK did to you guys, that you were all calling him the greatest man from the West! All your empty brains will be used by these politicians collectively till una get sense and drop politics of bitterness.[/quote]Most of your comments are often irritating and trashy. What brought Mr. Obi or his supporters into this Reno's ranting..? Do you use this same energy to call out others or APC politicians from other region with obvious flaws. Address Reno or the message at hand and don't drag others into your physco "We" nonsense. I have observed that you have issues with anything Igbos/South Easterners and you hide under various pretenses. your Southwestern agenda is open to the blind, so focus your energy there or your APC BMC contract. The way you come alive and spill trash whenever political issues involving Igbos come up is evident. You are quick to attribute or drag if not Igbos, it will be IPob into topics/matters that doesn't obviously concern them. A lot nonsense goes on under this regime but you always avoid to comment or speak up on it and pretend not to know. Your problems are beyond politics but character/moral flaws and no chameleon like pretenses can save you because tomorrow will pay you back brutally. Patriotism is to one's country not to individuals, tribe, region, party, religion and definitely not to your stomach. Change, that's if you are redeemable. |
christaddicted:Great thread.... beautiful and impactive posts. Thank you. |
obembet:What sort of of mischievous comment is this? This comment is in bad taste and must you drag mischief into things...pls you can do better. |
Odewaleadesoye:Truly an extremely beautiful and wealthy country with rich culture, national pride and ingenuity. |
eloquentclient:You are a smart and observant Nigerian. You have spoken rightly...that is Mr. Reno game plan, expect more public opinion manipulations but all that will be prone to failure. |
shortIGBOman:First time you have made a meaningful and useful contribution on this forum. You should behave more reasonable like this often you know...it is nice. |
[quote author=Jeon post=112390723][/quote]Nice Thank you. |
Jeon:Hello, Pls kindly remove that picture on your signature...it's disgusting and offends ones sensibility. Such picture shouldn't be displayed publicly like that. Thanks. |
Bluntdude:... Amazing and diligent. Well-done OP |
atna3325:You did well for a positive change in NL type of posts and for sharing profitable info to the general public. Kudos� |
donlyone:True. Well-done � |
ArewaNorth:FFk might be an unserious, stomach motivated clown but I agree with him on this one....sorry to say but I respect him for being intelligent and observant of times in our nation. Most Nigerians are annoyingly naive and too distracted (politics, religion,tribe, trivialities and daily struggle to survive) for my liking and won't think for themselves to save their lives. It is part of the plan as they created these distractions to keep the people in the dark. The western foreign powers with their intelligence agencies are highly active in the whole of Africa and Nigeria. (US,UK,France, Isreal, Germany, Canada&EU in general) It is not a hidden fact, I have always known this. Nigerians need to wake up and demand genuie change and leadership. There are so many moles within our system, they have infiltrated almost every aspect of our national life and they need to be weeded out. Now China, Russia, Turkey, Iran, India, Aussies and co have understood the game and they too are trying to join in on manipulation games in other to catch up with the western nations schemes in Nigeria& Africa in general. Most of these their big multinational companies, agencies NGOs, humanitarian organizations, religious& international organizations are all fronts and formats. No nation is ever truely your friend out there especially the no 1 world manipulators in (US,UK&France). Most of our leaders that died on seat were assassinated including some of our top military & security chief who wanted to make a difference or change from the expected norms or stepped on powerful toes. These were made very possible because of their numerous local collaborators. B*har*' too is a suspect and any leader that goes to Chatham house for that nonsense dialogue or tropes abroad to these western nations to campaign is a suspect and Tinubu&others are towing that same line. All they go there to do is to lobby for acceptance by these powerful Nations at term detriment to our sovereignty & collect good. Little wonder all these useless western ambassadors & their assest are visiting our our politicians and presidential aspirants during election seasons and other strategic times. Let's shine our eyes to elect genuie patriots and support them against the rough tides that will be cooked up against them by these powerful elements when they want to stand their ground for our collective good. Let's elect people who won't bow to foreign powers. The battle is for Nigeria's enormous resources& geopolitical influence. To keep Nigeria bound so she won't rise to her potentials but I know that one day.... These game of manipulations will end and Nigeria/Nigerians will awake to her glory. How it will happen I don't know. A time will come real patriots will arise and create an unpenetrateable system and pull Nigeria out of these traps and they won't see it coming nor be able to do anything to stop it. Nigeria is like a morning that can't be stopped from breaking. God bless Nigeria&Nigerians. |
InternetWebM082:Your phone is probably bugged with viruses from the factory that's if it's still a new phone or recent buy. Does your phone data connection turn on by itself ?, Does some app install by themselves whenever you go online ?, Does unwanted ads pop up on your phone screen by itself whenever you go online..?, Does your phone always feel hot when in use ? If these are yes, then it's obvious a factory infection. Check and uninstall any unwanted apps infact disable& deny those apps data access from your phones app settings. install apps cleaner that will clean up apps running at the background and cool your phone processors. Also make sure you always put off your phone data connection when asleep. Finally, check your phone charger type and electricity source for phone charging as it can greatly affect your phone battery. But if your phone is not a new phone or recent buy, then your phone battery is getting weak, meaning you will need to change it. With these steps in place, I believe it will help your situation. |
superCleanworks:Rants.. |
superCleanworks:Continue to shine in your stupidity. |
superCleanworks:Get thee behind me and stay there with your rubbish. That Apostle Peter and co was crucified too doesn't make the crucifixion and cross of Jesus same with theirs or something to be played around with. Christianity and her symbols must be respected and that's all. If you want to form and remain "woke" do it with another religion. |
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