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Religion / Re: What If Jesus Did Not Resurrect? by concept65: 8:29am On Apr 04, 2021 |
He didn't die on that cross in the first place |
Travel / Re: Safety Tips Whenever You Visit A Hotel by concept65: 4:23pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
This might sound funny but maybe we should include the importance of checking that your hotel bed doesn't have bedbugs? I kid you not, I travelled to east Africa in late 2019 and picked up the nasty creatures from one of the hotels we stayed in, and all the hotels we booked were pretty decent. I haven't been able to shake these things off since, wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by concept65: 12:43pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1: No it has nothing to do with past beliefs. I wouldn't share my husband because I love him a lot and I perform my wifely duties wholeheartedly. If I lack somewhere I would rather like him to let me know and I will do my best to improve in that area, same as I let him know when Im not satisfied or unhappy and I give him an opportunity to correct it or improve. I love having sex with him still after all these years and he never has to beg for it, and I know attraction and romance fizzles out after sometime between a couple, we just both need to work together to always re-candle our love and romance. No need to bring outsiders. Most importantly, my peace of mind is right up there at the top of my priority list. I wouldn't have peace of mind in a polygamous marriage, I would be lying to myself and the man. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by concept65: 11:42am On Jan 18, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1: I'm kind of not surprised that your wife agreed to this polygamy, you seem be the kind of man similar to the men I was raised by and grew up around. Very manly, not like these squirrels running around calling themselves "alpha males" here on this forum. Refreshing to have engaged someone like you on this topic. I too would have almost agreed if I had a husband your type, but almost. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by concept65: 11:15am On Jan 18, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1: Ok oo! Im all glad to hear that your wife is an educated, working professional. I'll assume she's smart too and therefore isn't being manipulated into polygamy, so she'll walk out if she chooses to if this doesn't work out for her. I don't subscribe to feminism either, i think its trash. |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by concept65: 10:29am On Jan 18, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1: Lol gosh you are so dreamy... you really live in fantasy land....or it is that the women in your village can be manipulated in this way? Set them up in polygamous mess and watch them fight over u? Even women in the most backward of villages value themselves these days and wouldn't allow such. Wake up! This is the 21st century! 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: South African Comedian, Trevor Noah Set To Host 2021 Grammys by concept65: 10:49am On Jan 17, 2021 |
JohnDazzy: Lol don't be a party pooper a girl is allowed to dream, besides, you'll never know |
Celebrities / Re: South African Comedian, Trevor Noah Set To Host 2021 Grammys by concept65: 10:46am On Jan 17, 2021 |
LimeLyte: Why are you guys so pained? what is wrong with a lady shooting her shot? To the extent of calling u her an amoeba |
Education / Re: How Is Your Class Topper Fairing In Life So Far? by concept65: 8:09pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
33bandit: Please will you tell me more about this "neurological aspect"? I always seem to hit a snag in one particular area of my life and I've always thought there has to be something causing it along these lines. We can take the conversation offline if you don't mind? Can I send u a PM? |
Education / Re: How Is Your Class Topper Fairing In Life So Far? by concept65: 7:56pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
chetmann: You seem to be very self absorbed. He clearly stated that he is asking about how class toppers are now fairing in life and you have also in your statement said you were not a class topper, yet you have made this completely about yourself. We need to learn to read and comprehend and answer what is asked. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: bugs by concept65: 8:25pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
damesilver: Hi damesilver, have you finally found a solution to this issue please? my battle has been people telling me to pour this and that on affected areas and I've searched and searched but I cant find where their harborage is. I wash and dry my linen weekly, vacuum and steam my floors and curtains weekly, I use pesticides but the problem still persists. If you do/have found a solution please share it with me |
Family / Re: 24hours Bedbug Killer!!! by concept65: 8:21pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
jacoik: That's been my battle, people telling me to pour this and that on affected areas and I've searched and searched but I cant find where their harborage is. I wash and dry my linen weekly, vacuum and steam my floors and curtains weekly also but the problem still persists. If you do/have found a solution please share it with me |
Romance / Re: If Cheating Is Normal For All Men-how Do I Keep My Marriage Going? by concept65: 8:08pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1: Can i just ask u RisenPhoenix1, is it then ok for the wife who contributes 50% financially towards the home and is on contraceptive to also cheat in the marriage? Going by your points above. She is fulfilling her financial responsibility by her 50% contribution and there is no possibility of pregnancy since she will be using protection and is on a contraceptive. Please I would really like a genuine answer from you, no getting upset or fighting. |
Romance / Re: God Did Not Only Butter My Bread, He Added Fried Egg On Top by concept65: 8:11am On Apr 17, 2020 |
BrilliantGigolo: You are both bitter and sour. Who told you she's a liability? And who told you that he won't be looking after his mom and dad? And who told you that he has no savings plan? Very bitter and sour 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: God Did Not Only Butter My Bread, He Added Fried Egg On Top by concept65: 8:07am On Apr 17, 2020 |
ElasticStone: A big congratulations to you! Keep up that gratitude and expectant attitude and surely more goodness will come your way. I love good news and I love people who share good news, it gives us hope and reminds us that grace abounds... inspite of challenges. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Health / Re: COVID-19: Kutlwano Selaledi Commits Suicide Over 28-Day Lockdown In Botswana by concept65: 5:39pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
SweetDipBenny: I wish i could give you a thousand likes for what u just said, people really don't dont realize. It takes grace and tremendous mental strength to pull yourself out |
Family / Re: What Has The Lockdown Opened Your Eyes To? by concept65: 11:06am On Apr 07, 2020 |
That we need to be humble - we walk around and act as if we have it all figured out, yet we ain't know shìt. Our world changed at a blink of an eye, life is showing us whose boss. 89 Likes 5 Shares |
Health / Re: Coronavirus: South Africa Reports First Case Of Deadly Virus by concept65: 6:50pm On Mar 05, 2020 |
Righteousness89: The affected is a White South African (responding to your black race comment) 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Please Help, I'm Getting More Interested In Fcking Other People's GF by concept65: 8:41pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
You just enjoy being a side bìtch for now - nothing wrong with that - just enjoy yourself. Time will come when you feel like committing/settling down - you will also act accordingly when that time comes. I see no issue here |
Romance / Re: The Character I Like Is In A Body I Don't Like What Should I Do? by concept65: 8:26pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Most people will settle |
Family / Re: How Do You Handle Moms And Their Unending WhatsApp Broadcast? by concept65: 8:31pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Me im just looking at that round asś in those fishnet stockings on the boy's screen 49 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by concept65: 6:32pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
You belong in a trashcan, she needs to dump you very quickly. Getting your dìck up planning abuse in advance, what fùckin nonsense? 10 Likes |
Romance / Re: He Stripped Me Naked,threw Me Out Of His House ,now Wants Me Back by concept65: 6:34pm On Jan 28, 2020 |
Don't go back! He has physically and emotionally abused you, put u at risk for STD's and humiliated you. Move on, or he'll do you worse and worse, mark my words. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Don't Know How To Move On From Her. by concept65: 5:58pm On Jan 28, 2020 |
What u feel is normal, most of us have been there. You love her and have been together for a long time, completely normal that you would feel this way. There is NO force holding you back, just the fear of starting over and the feelings you still have for this woman. Just be strong and move on, the pain will get better soon, give yourself time and allow yourself to 'mourn' the relationship. You don't deserve such treatment and there's certainly a lot of good people out there. You deserve good things, just tell yourself that. You also need to know that human beings are very fickle and that good deeds are not always returned in kind. Carry your cross and move on. 9 Likes |
Romance / Re: The Kush Lounge: Stoners Only by concept65: 11:18am On Jan 19, 2020 |
QUESTION TO ALL STONERS! DOES WEED AFFECT YOUR LIBIDO IN ANY WAY? |
Romance / Re: Am I Taking The Right Decision To Love This Girl? by concept65: 2:31pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
The girl is wisely keeping her options open whilst you are desperately trying to hang on to her. She is way ahead of you in playing this game - she is not one bit confused between the two of you and clearly the overseas guy has one up on you. Guy, just fucck the bìtch and enjoy it whilst it lasts and work on easing up your emotional attachment to her. A woman should never make u compare yourself with other men, did she tell u the name of this guy and u looked up his possessions or did she tell u herself of his accomplishments? This girl is cleverly keeping u on your toes. Ease up on this relationship, focus on making your money. This girl ain't for u. |
Romance / Re: I Just Saved A Union And I Am So Proud Of Myself! by concept65: 9:35pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Their love for each other saved them. Ease-up on that egotistical self-praise sister please. 1 Like |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by concept65: 7:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
luminouz: I really like this write up of yours - I totally get it. Please read my two posts advising the OP and tell me if you agree. My advise if a polite version of your option B |
Celebrities / Re: Wizkid And Akon Perform On Stage At Afro Nation 2019 Ghana by concept65: 6:24pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
englishmart: And why the unnecessary comparison? : 1 Like |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by concept65: 6:20pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
concept65: I also totally disagree with folks who keep saying how lucky you are that your wife still wants to have sex with you even after disagreements. She is not doing you any favors, it is your conjugal right. It is also your right to be listened to and heard when you have any concerns to express in your marriage, she is failing to emotionally take care of you. Once you master showing her who's boss around the house as per my humble advice above - she will soften up and you will find ways to make her listen to you and you will find ways to talk and listen to each other and iron out any arising issues maturely as any married couple should. |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by concept65: 6:10pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
byna: OP i don't have time now to read through the replies - not sure if someone has already given you this advice. Your seem to be very emotionally intelligent which your wife totally lacks. She is also very prideful of which you have demonstrated some humility in this post. Your wife needs you to "man up" and Im not being insultive here, I am talking from her standpoint. Her perception of you is that you are a "softie" and her type needs very "firm" hand. I am talking from experience, you need to change a little bit from the way you usually do things around the house, even if its outside your comfort zone. You need to bark orders once in a while and not ask politely, rough her up a little bit during sex, alternate and have gentle sex sometimes, find ways to keep your wife on her toes most of the time without being abusive. This is what she needs. I grew up around "alpha males" and my ex was an alpha male too. My husband is the sweetest and most humble, gentle man ever, but I am emotionally intelligent enough and mature enough to appreciate that that is how he is, I don't see it as a weakness but I do wish he had some "alphaness in him" though I dare not show him. Be more domineering, you seem intelligent, Im sure you'll find balance. |
Religion / Re: I Keep Seeing My Dead Nephew In My Dreams! by concept65: 5:21pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
oglalasioux: Another sensible post - thanks so much. Im so sick and tired of all these witches and wizards busy prophesying doom upon the OPs life. Chef2000 please come read above post 1 Like |
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