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dodoatirice:
E mean say you fit rent this cain house gove your parents make dem for dey enjoy say you be good pikin na

What baffles me is how you keep trying to defend your stupidity.

The government are the ones who owe the widows good house structures.

He has done his best and has donated to the society.

It's better off you say it online, because if you say this in public you will surely go home in injuries that's if you escape death.

FineDragon:
Drop your contact and message you on WhatsApp

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FineDragon:
This is my first post on nairaland and I'm deeply an introvert, I actually have a young family that I'm raising, my son just completed a year and I'm trying very hard to always provide food for my family, but my hustle is very risky because I'm a crypto trader, and that's all I have, but I'm not deep into it, I just deal with gift cards and sell bitcoins only, but I still struggle, why?? Because I do have vices though but I'm looking to have other streams please what advice will you give me

Bro I will like to chat you up in WhatsApp.
Lately some people have been contacting me in my school that they heard I sell gift cards.

I know about gift cards and some rates, But I am wondering how will I make my profit or who will I sell to and make profit if I buy from these people coming to me and how do I know an original one from a fake one.

Please assist a brother, I told them that I am on Break and I will resume next year.

Nawa

Mad People full everywhere oh.

Even Nairaland is not left out.

This better be a good fiction and not a reality.

Nawa.

Woman still dae carry hair for there.

Nawa oh

Ladycewhy:
Me trouble? Nah I don't do that shit. It just deliver consequences to actions.

Rugged Lady

Nawa Oh

Ladycewhy:
Good for them. But I am a realist. The possibility of having such a partner from the dating pool now is like finding a treasure chest in the Bermuda triangle.

Then you are your problem

If you focus on negativity then you will get one and you become pessimistic too.

Observe the good qualities first.

Then later when you notice the bad ones you can do a balancing of redox equation to see if you are compatible together.

Ladycewhy:
I live on the tower of Babylon.

No wonder

Troublesome Babylonian

Ladycewhy:
so na only blissful marriages all your neighbors ,uncles , relatives ,viallge people, colleagues etc get? Wow please do you live in lala land? .


And if you marry someone like me, you will be sure of loyalty and care until you fvck up .


And by the way, I think a robot will suit you for a wife ,you know those ones that still kneel down to serve their husbands food and say yes sir and wear the wife tag like some medal.

I dae tell you.

Only blissful marriages.

Abi you no like am

Ladycewhy:
nor too cram o be like say no too much cramming dey affect you so

Where you dae

I wan come beat you

Ladycewhy:
so na only blissful marriages all your neighbors ,uncles , relatives ,viallge people, colleagues etc get? Wow please do you live in lala land? .


And if you marry someone like me, you will be sure of loyalty and care until you fvck up .


And by the way, I think a robot will suit you for a wife ,you know those ones that still kneel down to serve their husbands food and say yes sir and wear the wife tag like some medal.

Abeg carry your wahala dae go.

Everybody dae fuckup, If you can't forgive forget about marriage. Nor be to dae sharp mouth.

Some other time please.

I have exams to read for.

Ladycewhy:
You don't have neighbors ,uncles, brothers, relatives, colleagues? .

You don't have to analyze people's marriages to see the obvious. Or you live in a cocoon ?

Yes I live in a cocoon

Your mouth no good at all. See wetin enter your mind.

I see these things daily but most blissful marriages I have seen are based on respect, compatibility and probably love too.

Be good and optimist you will get the best.

Understand your partner and don't try to make them feel bad or do things they hate.

Marriages no really hard abeg.

I can notice you have bad mouth from our convo, it ain't a quality.

If I marry someone like you, I will surely die young because emotional abuses or shouting makes me depressed and angry too.

Ladycewhy:
If you easily get angry that's a good thing, just use your hot temper to cook since gas is now expensive.


And as for your dad, good for your mother,by aside your dad can you give me any other examples?

Because I can give you 20 more examples of women who have been taught a bitter lesson for being " the virtuous wife" and carrying the "my husband tag " on their head like gala. Infact one of them the marriage is over 30 years ,she still complains bitterly till date ,no changes in the man ,na so she go bear enter grave .

The bolded part, So you mean I should be smiling with the current inflation, I am not rich at the moment and I am getting sick even my meagre salary doesn't last up to a month now despite how prudent I am.

It's not as if I am going to transfer aggression on you but I just want to stay calm with anyone's distorting my calmness.

The drunks, theives, rapists, prostitutes and so many other bad kinds of people will all get married some day and they will get married to either a good or bad person.

So do you except a rose flower from a bitter leaf plant. No I guess

These girls following fraudsters here and there and getting married to them, will definitely lay complaints at some points but they easily forgot they knew who he was before getting married to him. Likewise for men turning hoes to wives.

Moreover I can't speak for other men,I haven't had time to do in-depth analysis of people's marriages.

Ladycewhy:
yen yen yen.

The reality is giving a Nigerian man money is not the same as giving any other man money in sane clime.


Nigerian marriages don't protect women. You can help raise a man up and the next thing he throws you out of the house for putting too much pepper in his soup and the next day his yellow sisi side chick is in the house you built with your sweat and nothing , absolutely nothing will be done not by the law or traditional council. You will only be relegated to one corner licking your wounds.


And this is if you don't die before your time. Men in the western world who know your money pays his bills will be ready to do things around the house to lesses your stress and burden but Nigerian men, you will feed them ,clothe them ,house them ,take care of the home ,the kids ,him ,his family and even cook pounded yam and soup ,still kneel down and serve him intop. why ?

Get married to a Foreign Man then.

No dae disturb me abeg.

My mom has not been to the market in last 20 years to buy food for my paternal family except on events or special occasions, even as far to cooking sef, it's like a part time job for her.

My old man literally does all of it.

You did love my dad if he were a young and single guy because he's quiet, handsome, tall and dark too but I am not sure you can condone his excesses/bad attitudes , I am speaking in reference to your words though.

I once to you not to be stereotypical.

And please try to talk less now, I easily get angry now, the inflation is seriously hitting me.

Ladycewhy:
If you want loan go bank.If you want guarantor I go stand for you as a helper role wey God give me.

Life lessons , psychology even the ancestors have confirmed that it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for man to borrow money from his wife and pay back.


Since you call it a loan will you as a person be willing to sign the necessary documents before your wife gives you the "ordinary loans"?

As long as she is not neglecting her duty as a wife and helper. Na so my aunt take give her husband money wey e take go dey carry okpo for club , nonsense ingrates.

And you think it's easy to borrow money from a woman and have rest of mind, unless she ain't Nigerian.

You are just being stereotypic.

You need to think intensively.

Everyman is not your Aunt's Husband.

I won't talk much to you sef.

This Kind of woman should not locate me abeg.

Ordinary Loan na be issue.

Some people just too wicked.

Even if the man was richer, at some point he would still need a loan from his wife sef.

Nigeria can never produce a true feminist abeg.

Even though she was richer, she was still a leech.

Wow

This Dangote Group no get conscience oh.

100k for donation for something of 90m.

It's better not to drop at all na.

That's mediocre of them.

This guy's wife is fine sha.

Money is lite.

He's definitely proud of his wife.

Nawa.

She's right.

The bad road is the reason robbers cloud the communities.

I personally can't marry from such a place, I am not high on love. I value my life first.I

bcomputer101:
Na this advanced CANOE you dey call GUNBOAT?




Your locality as eaten the better part of your brain

Keep quiet, look at where we are coming from and where we are now.

From small ideas comes bigger ones, if you condemn this little innovation in this manner to the hearing of the inventors, they may feel discouraged and stop bringing new ideas into reality.

I pray you never get to that height where you will kill dreams and hope of those who intend to build this nation.

The Nations you admire, were not built that way. Be good to your people, I believe that in your field of study you have no personal innovations that's up to international standards. Why condemn those who try their best.

I call that Wickedness, you are against the progress of the Nation.

Atleast good things and good news still come out from Nigeria early in the morning and not Tiwa Savage Sex Scandal or Peter Obi Pandora Case .

We need to reduce our dependency on Importation drastically, this is definitely a good development, with more touches and new ideas, we would the export market of gunboat sellers.

Why did they not take the exams?

They only took tests.

There's more to the story.

I don't pity the guy at all.

What's the difference if you marry her and allow her complete her medical school after, he went and agree on rubbish.

Some people nor dae use their brain know say them wan scam them sef.

Bolarineliza202:
It's not a matter of me meeting with the wrong person.I don't approach guys and I will never do so no matter what.
You can never know if I am crushing on a guy as well,I be strong lady and I love keeping my crush like that,feelings are meant to be controlled and I will keep on controlling my feelings no matter what.

Na your mata oh.

Nor vex say I quote you.

Bolarineliza202:
I did hurt myself,but I am happy about it,atleast now that I suppressed it,that means I will be able to control even something bigger than that,which I surprisingly did later.
It's indeed Nigeria's mentality,guys tend to tell their friends or so about girls crushing on them and even coming to them and they feel they are on top of the world and they will start misbehaving,knowing other girls will crush on them,if the current girl leaves.

You were actually meeting the wrong persons.

Don't generalize okay.

Personally, I hate girls who pretend emotionally alot, I know women have so much dramas, but there's a limit I can condone.

If as a girl, you were crushing on me seriously and you couldn't tell me and you allowed me to date someone that's doesn't like me back.

I swear wahala go dae, e go just shock you if I mistakenly hear say you dae like me.

You made my day.

I appreciate you OP.

I am glad there are people like me in this Nigeria.

Imagine my ex girlfriend and my boss at work comparing me a senior son with 4 children behind me to my last born friends who are from well to do homes and few responsibilities to themselves.

Before the money come sef, I don spend am.

The last time I bought clothes was at Onitsha last year, I couldn't afford a new phone after my Samsung a30 was stolen. Infact I have denied myself of so much pleasures and desires just to save the face of my family from shame.

Drella:
Even on an online forum, you're this toxic.How about offline?

A man shouldn't behave this way.
As a man, ignoring somethings will make you respected.You can't be like this offline and expect your wife to give you respect.No!

Yeah, I acknowledge my mistake.

Drella:
Did you just type that?

Okay I was in a bad mood then, but I expected to see something that would cheer me up on Nairaland.

But then I came upon a very stupid comment.

siofra:
The truth is bitter and sensitive, no wonder you're so triggered.

For your mind.

I don't argue with women.

It's either I walk away or I will beat you, then when I am done I will make you understand the reality.

siofra:
This is how bad the misogyny on nairaland is

You are a fool.

Just learn to keep quiet.

In the whole wide world, Nigerian Men protect their women more.

Infact no allow me see you physically talk like this.

I will slap you and I don't care what will happen.

Imagine what all the struggles my dad and other men and even myself go through to make sure our wife and children are safe both at home and far from home.

You will now be saying rubbish. You are just a fool. Fool.

It's not offensive

Well unless you truly have someone bankrolling you.