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Kobojunkie:
So long as you are not here advocating, like the OP, to receive a crown for your choice, that sounds sane.

I am not saying it to impress you, it's my personal decision, I don't need a woman that would be very busy to raise and take care of my children neither do I need a complete housewife.

I worry less about the finances, I care about my peace of mind the most.

The table you seem to be talking about here is a financial table.

Well If my wife chooses to assist me financially in our daily/monthly expenses then I will be glad and grateful too.

But what I value the most is for her to help me financially when I am very broke and that's why I can't marry a woman without money making skills or a brain that knows how to make money.

Does she act by her words?

Most women don't do as they say.

If she's supportive then marry her otherwise it's very safe to runaway.

Nigga was a fool.

Who goes into war with a red carpet ceremony.

The time he should have used to strategize and enter Ukraine unnoticed and do damages.

He was using it to gain popularity and showoff on social media, forgetting that there are so many deadly snipers in Russia without popularity.

It's very possible he's dead and I will believe very well if the western media drops no news about him again because it would be a shame and threat to foreign fighters to announce his death.

cooltola:
Living in the society that Nigeria is , one must do everything that he or she can do to prevent the interviewer not hiring you. Leg brace or nose ring , tattoo might not be an issue if you are interviewing in England- You can even color your hair blonde but In Nigeria- stuff like that might not fly. Nigeria is still traditional in some extend. I will end by saying when you are Rome do as romans do

Get your facts right please.

Nigerians are overly religious not traditional.

It's all lies abeg

Women have sat down and brought up a fascinating story so that they can hook men with someone else's child and claim it's Chimera abi Chidera.

Once the DNA is not mine, forget about it, There's nothing like ignorance in this case.

Yeye Name sef

MCKitchen:
Dash am person buy another one. That person you dash will return with information and then the second one wey u go buy take am start higher purchase.
OR
Why can't you buy the Keke and cruise around the town get familiar with the agbero routine before you charge person pikin.

Person no suppose mumu like this

Nawa Oh

Betterprospect:
Good day Nairalander. I'm single, 30 years old. I studied agriculture related course at University level, and I presently worked in that field and I earned about 120k monthly.

I feel unfulfilled and I'm lacking interest day after day. The unfulfillment brewed mostly from my bosses egoistic and narcissistic approach to his employee, the insane working hours, and the lack of liberty, and most importantly, I feel I could do better. Now I have a meagre 2 million naira saved up, small? I know. Buy I'd like to pursue my passion in tech albeit from ground zero.

Now my dilemma is:

1. Seeing that I'm old and already past my prime for a career change at 30 yrs old, does a pursue of another career make sense?

2. Knowing that 2 million is small and would not last long. Does is it make sense to just up and leave?

3. I have a small biz I ideal which I feel could give me close to 50k monthly, but thing is, this is Nigeria and I might be wrong.

4. Should I just suck it up and continue for another year or two? Everyone I asked seems to think I should.

P,S. I worked 12 hours a day and its impossible I merge the two together.

In whatever you are trying to do, don't leave your job until you are have gotten a string foundation in your new found career.

Bad/Wicked Bosses are everywhere, only the lucky ones get good bosses.

nurez305:
The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.

I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.

The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come

My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend


After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.

I bought her the phone,
Pay her school fee,
Give her money whenever she ask
When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.


I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.

I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.

The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.


NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE
After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.

I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.


Foolish olosho

Chaii

You did the right thing absolutely.

You could have made them stay in cell for atleast 8 weeks.

That's the more reason I don't on women, they can never know the importance.

toobusy:
........I just saw a thread where you were complaining about your brother who is constantly monitoring you, restricting you from all social network and wouldn't let u Ming with others,you also claimed to be in ur mid-teen.......how come you already had a date to the extent of observing a turn off at the beginning..... are we supposed to believe you have already started dating in ur mid-teen or was the other thread all about chasing shadows?.

That Brother is doing a good job, I saw the thread too.

This girl is about to be damaged sef.

frozen70:
Is because you are a beast that's why you are masturbating on a woman topic

Nothing Surprising because your daft brain has nothing meaningful to say.

Mehn

The Western and American Media be deceiving people everyday.

One person is the entire Nigerian Girls or Majority

Abeg Gettout.

Naija Girls are fine but aren't amongst the most finest worldwide.

frozen70:
Am I your uncle wife ?
If you had a bad experience it's not my business

If you don't know what to say just keep quiet

I spoke for myself not your uncle wife

Ewu

It's obvious you don't even have sense.



If she sends other children errands and leaves her own children, that's not hatred probably she fees those ones are more matured for the job

Women loves children irrespective if who gave birth to who

So far you are a mother you will live them all, especially at children level


Tell me that the bolded is about yourself alone and I will know that you are completely foolish.

frozen70:
It depends on what you mean by love

If she sends other children errands and leaves her own children, that's not hatred probably she fees those ones are more matured for the job

Women loves children irrespective if who gave birth to who

So far you are a mother you will live them all, especially at children level

If a child comes me that he is hungry I must give that child food Wether I know him or not but if I refuse to give him food, then that's hatred

Be typing rubbish you hear.

If you don't know what to say, just keep quiet.

There are so many persons here that were maltreated by our aunts, uncle's wife and brother's wife. The worst is when the so called relation of yours has money than your family.
His wife can kill you.

My Uncle's Wife is begging for forgiveness now they even organized a family meeting because they can now see that we are grown, successful and can do without them.

But I will rather go to Ukraine and fight for that Comedian President than forgive her.

Spits.

Jennyclay:
I created a thread early January this year seeking for an advice about how my boyfriend is keeping malice with his father for over 3 years, even till today without opening up to me about what actually happened. Mind you he's a great guy with good qualities. But I saw that "malice" as a big red flag. But most nairalanders were saying Men are scares, you better continue with the relationship.

What if we had little misunderstanding in marriage will he forgive me or keep malice with me for years? If he can't forgive his father despite I've tried severally to talk to him politely, will he even forgive me? That was a very big red flag for me. I don't want to feel lonely in marriage.

If you're in a potential relationship and he/she is displaying some unwanted characters and you're seeing the signal clearly that it's a red flag but you're hoping he/she is gonna change, hmmm.. Honestly it's not easy to change a full grown man/woman. Don't give yourself false hope he/she will change.

Being in a Relationship is not all about Intercourse But interview. What do you do during an interview? You have a chance to communicate and study each other personality and character, it would be so easy to detect red flags. Don't be carried away by sex, money and gifts.

If he tells you why they are keeping malice, what will you do then, what if his Dad raped his sister or killed someone close to him, do you expect him to forgive his Dad, for me I can't, it's either I kill you or we remain at malice forever.

Over curiosity kills a cat, it's even better you leave him, you clearly said he's a great guy, and if believe If you are worthy of hearing what happened he will definitely tell you, but I doubt you would keep your lips shut without letting a third ear hear about it.

Don't even try to say he hasn't forgiven in your relationship because both sides err in a relationship.

I guess he went back to heaven.

If only his mother was around to give him guidance and advice, she raised him well but he's foolish naturally.

Theres no Heaven for you Obed, na Hell Straight.

Of all ways to die you choose to die because of a who doesn't love you.

Spits.

Lol

Somebody is mentioning winning Champions League and Man Utd in the same sentence.

The only problem I see here is that you are emotional and that's because you are a woman and I don't blame you.

Shey the young man has a father na, My younger ones don't have fear for my mum or dad because they are like You, but once they hear my name everyone behaves because I beat you like we are agemates.

I throw away emotional when I am lecturing them because it's for the betterness of their future, my younger bro friend recently got a girl pregnant and my bro was secretly telling his friends that I was the one that made him stay away from that guy and the girlfriend that was allocated to him.

Today he has successfully completed learning a tailoring skill, and he's still thankful to me for that because most times I beat him and disgrace him publicly so that he would go to work after closing from school or in holidays.

NB: A little conversation is what does it all, be direct and blunt when conversing and don't show emotions, well you can't do it properly because you aren't a man.

That Blogger is definitely from the middle east, where are Italian and Ethiopian cities, Even the Almighty Egypt and some other Scandinavian cities.

You are just as foolish as my ex, the more the number of exes and dicks taken, the more likely you would be unable to understand love and maintain a relationship or marriage.

I refused to believe all Nigerian Girls are Foolish because I have seen some who know exactly what they want and they grab without looking back and they burn bridges too.

Be Wise my Dear.

Continue with your Job bro.

This strike would last for at least 2 months.

If you know any aged/young single person in your family or friend as the case maybe that doesn't mind paying the bride price of your supposed mother in-law. Then you should go ahead with the marriage.

Otherwise you have to back off, you can't marry a young mother and daughter without sleeping with the mother someday, you will be tempted and you will fall.

Look for someone to pay her bride price then you pay that of your fiancee.

yorubarere:
I was discussing this with someone like 2days ago. How to attack a people is to attack their cultures. They made our people believe black is bad. Now, most of us are trying to be white which we can never be, and we have lost our black ways. It means we are no longer blacks while trying to be whites, we no longer have identities, hence, the confusion.

The African Blood still flows in Us.

That's why in homeland there are sacred traditional rules that an Igbo cannot break, it doesn't matter if you are a Christian or Muslim, once you break any these rules, you will face the repercussions even if you travel to Europe or Asia.

I love our African Culture, At least there's less hypocrisy compared to Christianity.

God bless our Motherland.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I gave you justifications for USA'S action all I need is for you to give me a justification for Russia's illegal invasion now..
And concerning the Cuba missile crisis we will get to that from here.. bring it on..

You keep defending your Foolishness.

I am marvelled, If you have a personal issue with Putin or Russia, I think you should quote or tag them on Twitter and say your mind with your real face on your profile picture.

I am tired of seeing your comments on every single thread about this European War spilling trash, Even if everything I need is being provided for me, I can't be this jobless, I will rather wash my dirty clothes or plates.

You are getting out of hand.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
What do you expect from a remote that's being controlled by putin the bloody monster?
Putin should keep sending his thousands of army to Ukraine .. they will never ever survive and achieve their evil motive against Ukraine and the world...
A bully and evil should be wiped out of earth.. this will serve as a lesson to any upcoming dictator terrorist planning to disturb the world's peace..thy shalt be cut off by the mighty hands of the great America..

Are you a Nigerian?

I am surprised oh, you getting out of hand oh.

yorubarere:
I do not admire them too but many of us does. I think effects of neo-colonialism. Speaking of fluent English is now a measure of intelligence for a Blackman.

Very True.

That's what we are being taught in the University, That's how the word Illiterate is being used derogatorily.

Well I can't do much until I have the power to do so.

They will explain how our native Gods are evil while Western and Arab Gods are not.

I find it hard to believe that we have been separated from our Motherland Origin to a Foreigners Culture and I don't feel happy till date even though I was born into Christian home.

They call our Gods demonic but theirs is angelic and good. I know very well that one day Africans will come to their senses.

yorubarere:
Make he sha no drag nairaland into mud.

I swear I like the forum because of the monetary and romance info I get here.

He has flooded Nairaland with the western media news, but we barely saw news about the Ethiopian-Tagray War.

It will be very wise that Nigerians stay away from this European Crisis, we have too many internal crisis to solve already.

Africans were contented people until the West came and did their damages, now see how our Society looks like.

I do not admire the West one bit, they damaged our Society to a very low length, Even my superiors I work with know that I don't like them one bit, but they do need my services so they can't ditch me yet.

yorubarere:
At all at all and he has been forcing it. Both local and international. He should rest it out.

He should understand that being popular doesn't mean you must have a say in every occurrences or trends.

Make he no go dae fall him hand for cyber space.

yorubarere:
Seun are you politically naive or just chasing clout?

Cos seriously you are just showing your followers you are naive.

I think you should avoid politics and face your tech business cos obviously, you are not good in both local and international politics.

And what dfk is "compassionate capitalism"?

This Nairaland Founder has no Political Knowledge at all.

The attack on Libya was in 1940 right? Abi the assassination of the Iranian General.

It's best he remains silent and don't take sides indirectly.

bmdmix11:
or u just stupid to think u making sense.
mumu

Very Well Then.

Enjoy your Wisdom.