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Jeon:
me and siblings can say this out anywhere
he left us in Lagos after school to another state 2years we did not see his message or call before the Lord.

It's fine, I am sorry for that, you just have to be different to your children.
My Dad is actually worse than that, he left us & ran to the village for two & a half years, he never told us the reason but we knew there was. But he never for once kept us hungry at his own will because we do not take sides between himself & his wife courtesy of me despite all the bid of my mom to do so.
He's still my Father whether or not I like him, some were rejected on delivery but he took claim of us, abeg nothing dae the life bros, appreciate your dad, people own worse pass am.

Jeon:
yes, I will! and you see the double favours.

Do change that gender to the appropriate one, it's not easy to be a man, don't claim it.

HappyCreative:
You really need psychological help.

Why is the woman too tired? It's because the man isn't helping.

It's fine, don't quote me anymore.
I don't welcome insults & I am sorry if I insulted you
Do what you like & don't blame anyone.

Jeon:
stop saying nonsense.
those things can't lead to failure in marriages. unless you want to.

It's ok, get married then try it and see if it favours you.

HappyCreative:
Were you there?

How can you be telling this lady her own experience when you weren't even there?

The lady is saying that her father didn't give her any advice and you're telling her that she just misunderstood?

You are mad.

Calm your rage, I don't quarrel with women neither do I like giving out insults to them because they can't handle them.
It's only a child that didn't live with his Father that can boldy say he didn't offer any support either morally or socially.
When you let the negative features of someone outweigh the positive ones, then you can never see anything good about that person, even if you do then you can't admit it.

HappyCreative:
So you're saying the only reason people get divorced is because of the woman?

You're a clown.

Why don't men ever admit that they can do wrong.

Is it everyday blame women for everything? Are you not tired?

Ever heard the proverb that said a woman controls the home despite the man being the head, if you see a broken home, do proper investigation you would notice that at some point the woman made a mistake.
Some women feel too tired to cook or have sex, that's why you see married men patronize restaurants & hotels at nights, should they force her or rape her? The answer I believe is No.
Marriage isn't a fairy tale script but most women always think so, it's work.

Jeon:
yes put money aside.

we talking about Fatherly Care [ sorry to say this out my dad have never showed me this Fatherly Care never gave me a single advice in life ] but thanks to mom for giving me more.

You actually killed yourself, your weaknesses are better left undisplayed, I refuse to insult you.
I am sorry for that, not because he didn't do it, but because you didn't understood him, fathers care for their children by their actions, unlike our mothers that spends 10k on you & always remind you of what she went through to get it so that you would feel pity for her.

Jeon:
you are the one with low IQ, you want to be on top with no value for the one below you.. this is one of the examples of bad leadership.

Two Kings cannot lead a clan, a subject is as important as a King if only he knows his position, you cannot contest the decision of a King & then complain when he unleashes his wrath

Jeon:
yet some kids can't eat 3times a day not to mention the rest.

Can't you see where she said, I should put money aside

Jeon:
stop lying to urself with also we still have divorce marriage in our society especially in our Era.

Like I said earlier, Divorce is of the Westerners not African, if you copy them, then you should also expect what they get.
There are so many failed marriages because women are now overly ambitious & they forget to take care of their husbands the supposed African way.
In respect of that, the sharp unmarried girls usually snatches these men that are lacking feminine care by either performing the wifely duties or using kanyamata. Do I explain more?

Jeon:
if you want a woman that is calm you have to be calm too. two parties can't work together unless they read and agree with the terms and conditions.

Your EQ is still low, one partner usually covers for the other, it's not compulsory I must be calm to get a quiet/calm lady for marriage.

HappyCreative:
Why are you just picking bits of the bible to suit you. It also says husbands should submit to the wife too, or are you forgetting that bit because it doesn't suit your narrative?

Your own written/pirated Bible said men should submit to women, the one others know said men should love their wives, abi that one no join?

HappyCreative:
Why can't a woman be wealthier than you? You're so worried because you think it's emasculating.


Apart from money or something relating to money, name me one thing a man can bring.

This is why you don't want a woman who is wealthier than you, its because it's the only thing you're bringing.

They are too many my dear, they are;
Spermatozoa (the children)
Fatherly Care ( a child deviod of this always ends up a simpleton)
Erotic Love ( No woman can be happy without this)
Protection ( you can explain this one better)
Problem Solving Skill ( women barely solve their major problems as they lack the logicality)
Sexual Satisfaction ( Forget lesbianism & dildos, they can never match up to a dick)
Secret Keeper ( tell your secrets to your female friend or even yourself & you risk being betrayed, but with your husband, the vault is permanently sealed even when you quarrel)
They are too many, you never smart reach that way.

Jeon:
one of the Nigerian male with many ego.

It's not a matter of having high ego, it's our culture & tradition which has always favoured our society.
In a bid to copy the Westerners, that's the reason you see so many Nigerians in relationships but not in marriages.
If you cannot submit to a man regardless of his social status, age, physique or financial stability, then it's better you don't marry a Nigerian man because divorce would be the end result.

HappyCreative:
Why do I need to, as you say, 'respect men a lot'? I'll respect people who are worthy of respect, men and women.

man and woman are created equally in the image of God and together have dominion over the earth (Gen 1:26–27).
Now what?

I'm so stupid? Please explain why, so I can learn.

As an African/Nigerian, I don't need an overly ambitious woman i.e N.O.I, you cannot be more wealthier than me, just do my home the African Queen way, teach my children good culture & not to chase only after money.
You are so stupid because you actually think Nigerian men bring nothing into marriage instead of the reverse
The only thing a woman can boastly talk about to me is her virginity and that's if I took it, because it's priceless.
If it's any other thing then forget I no send

Personally I don't care if my wife works or not but the day I hear this foolish statement of yours from her mouth, or she supports someone like you.
Then there's problem whether I provide or not, whether I have a job or not, whether I am rich or poor, I am not your equal.
You need to respect men alot and don't generalize because lazy men are in your family or environment and you see them everyday.
You are so stupid, abeg no add to my anger this morning.

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Sarang:
Then I pity your girlfriend
Cause you have a girlfriend doesn’t make you a GOOD LOVER

Your problem be say you nor just know anything.
Don't be like the OP, try as much to keep quiet and stop nagging.
You never placed emphasis on the actual reason that would make me stay single forever.
We quarrel, we both have flaws but I tell you 24 hrs is too long.
I won't tell you more about my relationship because you will be too pained about your sad life that you would wish for it and also curse/hate me too

Sarang:
With this mentality... if you really believe EVERYTHING you wrote up here, you might remain single ALL YOUR LIFE. I am telling you the truth!

Don't you think It's better I remain single all my life then live with someone who can't depend when people talk about me, that's evil.
I don't know the type of single hood you are talking about but I have a girlfriend whom we have been dating for sometime now, she has her own flaws but at least she has defended once and I know that.

It's sad that your husband isn't seeing all these, but I pray he does, so he could know he got married to a demon.
"You nor fit even use one sentence praise the man sef"
Your bad attitudes are top notch and too much for one man to handle, I seriously applaud your husband.
Only you dae nag, talk too much, claim financial independence and untop that you nor fit even defend am when some Nairaland witches dae insult am.
I personally won't want any mother to come spend time in my home, I abhor it, some of them are home destroyers.
Since you aren't the one to cover the financial costs of bringing your mother to your based country, you shouldn't have just concluded that "of course my mother".
For the part where you claimed after 17 years abroad he still believes in traditional dieties, can't you also see that after so much time abroad you still believe the wife's mother is always the one to come for 1st Omugo.
He really loves you, I swear you are lucky, if na me ehn...
Make I nor just talk.

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The Nigerian Economy isn't friendly at all, unless you are well to do and don't expect much from your partner then you won't enjoy the full benefits of dating instead you will be frustrated.
Everyone is a Gold digger right now.

Anthonyo15:
2021 (FEBRUARY - MARCH)

Thanks, can I buy the form now?

Hello Everyone,
I want to apply for NOUN as an undergraduate but I would like to wait till the next semester, please when will the next semester begin?

I wanted to suggest a solution to your problem but after reading to the end, I couldn't see where you listed your specs.
You might be in need of a short rapist or a handsome arm robber or a very tall player or a rich banker, but you nor gree tell us.

Mr 10munites you are very correct.
I believe what Nigeria need are collective protests to #EndCorruption, but it won't have much supporters because alot of Nigerians are actively involved in it.
I wish this energy was channeled to #EndCorruption instead of this stupid #EndSars.

It may be your destiny bro.
But I know that when you experience something very serious, no one will tell you to deviate from Gambling.
But I pray it doesn't kill you.