₦airaland Forum

sweetrace:
Op, you are responsible for your family’s upkeep irrespective of your wife’s earnings. She lied to you about her income because you obviously can’t handle it. We have a number of Nigerian men who will do nothing if they know their wives earn a great deal. These days we have men who are gold diggers. I’m not calling you one. I’m telling you why women now hide their earnings. She did not tell you because she wanted to be treated like a woman: loved and pampered by her husband irrespective of his earnings. She lived the lifestyle you could provide and you’re complaining!

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright
We go just dey kill this beautiful reptiles anyhow
Have been saying it
a human-snake cohabitation is very possible if we keep our cool
The one way pain me pass ....na that python own...we too dey kill that snake....soon python go go into extinct
Pythons are very friendly and different from boas

These creatures are damnnnnn beautiful we must learn how to live with them....they don't bite to attack...they only swallow small animals


Even the cobra, black mamba and Taipan that are poisonous only bite to defend
Because i dey reason am why he be say if snake come meet us for house them nor dey harm us. Sometimes self you fit live with snake for two years inside house them nor go do you anything

There is no way you can be bitten by a snake in a residential building
Which means they respect us
So lets learn how to respect them
Please lets learn to live and stay with this beautiful creature called snake

HappyCreative:
100% correct. Some men just have fragile egos and can't stand a women saying they are incorrect about anything or having the audacity to have a good job and earn more money than them.

kunkelhanspeter:
Some said 300-500k
But if you were given bride price list of 300-500k you will call it expensive.
Calling our culture too expensive but willing to spend such money on white man culture.

HappyCreative:
Other guys in this thread take note. Common sense is not difficult.

HappyCreative:
That's why I don't go for average men.

HappyCreative:
That's why I don't go for average men.

HappyCreative:
1) why should I date a beta male if there is such a thing?
2) I'm living my best life actually. Happy and taken
3)in not Catholic, why would i join? Why would I want multiple dicks?

HappyCreative:
1) why should I date a beta male if there is such a thing? 2) I'm living my best life actually. Happy and taken 3)in not Catholic, why would i join? Why would I want multiple dicks?

HappyCreative:
2x 500 notes and 1x 1000 naira note both come to the same amount of money do they not? They are not the same though.

HappyCreative:
Why do you believe I deserve this? It is men who self deprecate their own gender using terms like alpha and beta males.

BLOODYSPERM:
With her comments it seems she wants to debunk the females nature and blame men for the inconsistency in women

DEMZEE:
Noooo

There's nothing like a good spouse

A good woman is a myth

AWALT!

As a man u must first prioritize yasef and make yasef ur mental point of origin in all situations of ur life.

One of the differences between a high value alpha male and beta male is a high value alpha male controls the frame of his marriage while a beta male doesn't. An high valued alpha male doesn't condoles infidelity from his woman or women while beta males do.

HappyCreative:
The fall of the Roman empire for example, happened because the empire failed to enforce its rule. If they don't have the power they once had, they have to move with the times.

In regard to your other message. I'm not a feminist per se, women should have more equal rights though. For revamps getting the same pay for doing the same job.

HappyCreative:
Have you lived in the West for you to be spouting your opinions as facts?

The women are the ones who get who get the pick of the men, yet men think they are the ones with the power.

HappyCreative:
Where are the Roman and Greek empires now?

They are no longer a thing because something better came along.

HappyCreative:
100% Nigerian. I am aware of how to question things, not just do things because 'that's the way they've always been done'.

If people have that mentality, how will we grow?

HappyCreative:
I would listen to King B, because they are the ones helping King A. How can you be accepting help from King B, but still demanding how things are done? You better take the help you can get if you say yes to accepting the help. You find very few true philanthropists.

HappyCreative:
Good thing I don't live in Africa then isn't it.
Respect goes both ways.

HappyCreative:
I would listen to King B, because they are the ones helping King A. How can you be accepting help from King B, but still demanding how things are done? You better take the help you can get if you say yes to accepting the help. You find very few true philanthropists.

HappyCreative:
No that's not what I'm saying, but quite a few people in this thread are saying, the woman can't earn more than the man because the man then won't feel superior.

It doesn't matter to me. But all I'm saying is if a woman is earning more, surely she should have more of a say what happens with the household income.

HappyCreative:
I knew it. That's all I wanted to hear. Men are scared of women who can hold their own because they have nothing else to provide. Women will always be able to find a better man, but men have to work really hard to just get the number of one woman.

HappyCreative:
Must of the time it's men who lose their job and still expect the same level of authority.

Some men can be very hard headed.

HappyCreative:
So you think its emasculating to think that a woman is smarter and has a better paid job than you?

I get that to an extent, but some men don't even bother to want to get a job or achieve more, but still expect the wife to do everything including work.

HappyCreative:
But when you see 'Nigerian women are useless' all over this forum, you'll be keke'ing along with them though, abi?

HappyCreative:
I wouldn't categorise them as insults, rather facts and suggestions.

Sorry that you feel triggered.

Jeon:
Pls don't remind me about the past you're making me crying now.
I don't want to think about the past.
it's better we stop here.

HappyCreative:
I don't think I insulted you, but apologies if you feel this way.

You just seem to get upset if someone tells you that you are incorrect.

Men, it's OK to be wrong sometimes. Use it as a learning point and grow from it.