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It's bad for any economy. I have been scammed severally by my fellow Nigerians on the cyber space, it's not because of greed but due to trust and love for my brothers but it was used against me.
I have lost life changing opportunities due to stereotypic sentiments that Nigerians are scammers.
The fan base of CyberCrime is now much especially in Delta State where I reside, but it's funny how some people try to defend it by saying "there are no jobs", "the governments are the major thieves", "we are returning our father's stolen wealth/unpaid debts".
Laws should be made to persecute any criminal be it Politician or Commoner live on Nigeria National TV by hanging or manslaughter.
CyberCrime kills it victims at same pace as covid-19, it shouldn't be appraised.

Irennediva:
Who marriage help Everybody should remain single. I want a situation where women will stay on their own, men will stay on their own. Must Men and Women stay together Can't people stay without each other. I hate these Men and Women cohabitation. Men stay without Women, Women stay without Men, is that too much to ask I hate it when Men and Women come together, they should be separated. Who friendship help

Just say you are gay.
Why stress yourself by typing long epistles.

Eriokanmi:
Tarr. I got married inside one room apartment with our kitchen located outside the house. ..no cars, na box tv we dey use, no single chair...visitors must sit on our bed. Today, we're blessed with good things of life. Our kids attend one of the best schools in the country. We built our house in a choice location in lagos and have travelled the world.

Don't despise your little beginning. You didn't create yourself, God did so your survival mustn't be dependent on the Nigerian economy or any government. Suffice it to say I've dined with world leaders, including Barak Obama right inside the Daughters of American Revolution (DAR) Constitution Hall near the white House in Washington DC on invitation by an organisation in recognition of my business activities in Nigeria. What more can I say?

Drop any girl who's saying you must get married in a 2-bed apartment or organise a talk of the town wedding when you don't have the power or resources to do so. She won't make a good wife. We are blessed with 3 wonderful children...one girl and 2 boys.

If you didn't get married while Buhari was/is in power, please just keep quiet.
Everything is expensive, #200 nor dae reach Person eat simple lunch. Mini Bread #120, Pepsi/Coke #120, Groundnut/Sachet Water, that's #250 or more.
Then Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner == #250 x 3 = 750 x 30 days = #22,500.
Then minus it from the minimum wage the government pays. E nor reach pay rent or other bills and man cannot live by bread alone.
Person nor fit feed himself finish, na to kor go carry another person pikin join. It was easy for you, e nor mean say other wey follow your footsteps nor still poor till date.
All these motivational speakers na God go punish all of una.

I will advise you stay in Zaria and establish yourself by saving and investing alot.
You can go to Lagos and other big cities for vacation when you have enough money.
The ratrace in Lagos is semi-hell according to my sister who works for a firm there.
Cost of living is high like the ransom Nigerian bandits demand.

paulolee:
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noise pollution is real bro..argument n noise no allow me sleep coming from EPL boys wey de argue agyerdt yesterday game..

The noise would be more if Chelsea wins the UCL final. The Governor would only cause trouble if he arrests fans. Football is one joy giver in this evil country.
Checkmate if Rivers United achieve such fan base, then he would ban those who celebrate causing noises everywhere.
It's just for one day, that Governor is just being petty.

Is this man normal?

I had witnessed a similar story like yours, in this case she cooks and jumps their fence at 10pm -1am midnight to give her boyfriend food and this happened for more than 5yrs.
In 2020 the guy became a millionaire, now the family that hated him now sees him like Adenuga. The only difference in both story is that she didn't have a stupid sister like you, moreover she was the only girl.
I will advise you mind your business because she knew what the guy did for her when he had his job. For your information securing a job in Nigeria is like getting an approved U.S Visa.
You should be happy that the guy doesn't see your sister as the cause of his ill fate.

posty56:
and i will advice to not invest first if you do not know what you are doing, first of all gain knowledge if not you will be lost and aslo don't hope to start making money stock market is not a get rich quick stuff.

Okay Noted.
Thanks

posty56:
first of to tell you yhe investing small amount in the a stock market won't do you any good is like planting a seed and expect it to turn into a farm, the larger your funds the larger your return, so my advice if you have money keep adding it (note don't put money that you need immediately and don't borrow money the stock market is for those who have patience) ,now your last line it seems you are new go to business section there is a thread about stock market for U. S start from the beginning to read you will gain small knowledge, if you are still confuse join bamboo group on telegram there are many mentors there.

Thanks.

posty56:
i am not real into crypto i an stock market guy, but let me recommend someone for you go to telegram join a called "wealth hackers" ask about brother keeper he will teach you, but mind you, you will pay a small amount to gain knowledge, as for how long it takes to earn? well no right answer for that you can earn today, next month, next week.

Bro I did like to go into stock market.
I invested through Trove App, although it's small money for trial but it seems their service fees is greater than my profits.
Please put me in the right path.

Oghenerobo2002:
Oghenerobo2002

Thanks Bro.
It took some seconds before I could find your comment in my post.
I love the job I am doing at Frigoglass/Beta Plc Nigeria. But I am yet to be a full a staff so the 30k salary is very frustrating.
I also love coding but the educational Structure here is whack including the lecturers, but there's no money to study abroad or pay for an IT Institute, I only bought one python course on Udemy, but learning alone goes with alot of headaches.
Sometimes I feel I should drop out, save money and find an IT Training Institute in Warri to learn Coding and AI.
On the Negative side my family won't buy the idea, but they don't know that we aren't learning anything in today's university, the lecturers are always after on 30th and bribes from students.

NigPatriot:


Don't overwhelm yourself with the thought that you have many things to do or accomplish in this life. One is enough, but let that one thing be your everything. Just do one thing very well that's all you need.

As you enter 20, Let "this one thing I do" be your centre focus. Learn one skill and perfect it, date one lady and be contented. Let your life be free of all clusters of distractions. You'll be happy man with less distractions.

I love your advice bro
But I am overwhelmed by many things I want to achieve, I can write, sing, I now have an industrial skill ( hollow glass production), I am learning coding partly and I am also schooling(100l).
I have just one girlfriend and we find ourselves cool.
Now I find it hard to leave one skill for another and I sometimes get into depression because I am always stressed up.
Sometimes I feel like I need a consultant/adviser, but I don't know any and everyone seems too busy to listen to your advice.

Beckham14:
This is really nice.

It reminds me of when one Spider-Man was banging in goals for Borussia Dortmund but when Spider-Man decided to move to one North London club, he transformed from Spider-Man to a mere Bar-Man.

Just say Pierre-Emerick Aubameyang

Nice

I am contemplating contacting some of my fraudster friends by the weekend, I have nothing left in my account, even if it's ritual I don't mind.
Company underpays you and they care less about you because you are a casual worker, aside that 30k isn't enough to feed and pay bills, everything is way too high in the market, despite doing other petty jobs to support, I still dae owe debts.
Good Values and Morality are good, but so far I haven't seen it put food on my table rather people mock me.
I am sorry if I disappoint those who look up to me, I didn't wish to be born and die of hunger.
*Blessed are those not born into this cruel world*

If you are without concrete connections or not into fraudulent activities, then your lifespan will surely reduce and you won't find the supposed joy you seek.
People are making it in smaller cities, just save some money and go to low cost of living environment, and establish yourself and also get a job if you can.
Perhaps you can try that alternative of visiting MFM, some suggested to you.

Yes, you sure need one and she must be a very good cook.
Na wetin them dae serve gangsters for Okere Prison be this na.
You march the yam abi na how you do am pass and e be like say those your beans dae quarrel with themselves.
Moreover I suspect you are a moderator, because this your topic nor suppose reach front page.

Telstar:
OP does not know how to handle women. I'm sure he's asked the girl out but she refused.

That's his business for now, I am more concerned about the insecurity in Nigeria, how I will be able to make an impact.

akpota:
That is one area, I pointed out ASAP. He could have thought of what to do to the water problem. The babe ran out of idea and she looked up to him for a solution but he felt a bit unconcerned. Although, the girl couldn’t decode that he doesn’t like the idea she proposed of going to the Neigbour upstairs. At worst, they could have bought a bag of water.
Let me share my experience in school. My roommate sister used to cook for us. The well in our school is very deep(those well you have to row) if I see the way she struggles to get water as a guy, Omo I assist her to get the water. You need to see the smile on her face. Her elder bro, my roommate also does that too. Till today, she is a good lady. She was a minister of women affairs lolz

She can't decode what he meant, they aren't logical beings, he could have related it to her straight away.
She's snubbing him for the last few days because she's had been developing some feelings and she didn't expect him to treat her that way.
Women are complicated to handle.

I can't judge better, it's a one end story.
But I observed you were being bossy when you told that do her friends bring their food to your apartment for cooking when they run out of water, that was harsh and must have been said in a harsh tone.
You could have simply said No, I don't like that idea, and you could do well to show her where to get water.
Moreover a lady needs to bath at least twice a day, so forget the part where you said she used the water,. Because if she doesn't, you might perceive foul odours and still complain.
Like I said, it's best I hear from both parties.

Raysleek:
You are still a child. Firstly you bring your private issues to social media, moreso you reject correction and you lack understanding. There is a higher life, a man is the head of the home and the things of God are not useless. You don't deserve the young lady, you deserve the ones that invest in wigs, hair, tattoos, iphones and clothes.
Send your account number let me give you back your 10k.

Don't worry use it to go buy a pack of wisdom at Alaba Int'l Market, you seriously need it.

Raysleek:
Did anyone put gun on your head to give? Muslims that Sponsor terrorism with billions of dollars no dey make noise.
Anyone that hears you talking will think you have spent millions on a church. Talk true how much you dey give as offerings? Because of your profanity that's why you keep falling prey to get rich schemes.

I regret why I answered you, you are just plain stupid.
Do not ever qoute me anywhere in your entire life.

Raysleek:
A married man has the right cos he is legally married. But a boy that is still doing girlfriend with your daughter for example but already has the mindset that she is his source of providence.
If you need 7k, ask your father na, why you dey ask another person daughter?

You are very uncalculative, I qouted you earlier and told you what happened. Let's say you gave your sister 10k to keep for you and she used it.
Then you kept quiet because she's dear to you, then she received some money and you requested for 7k for support, and she told you she has nothing whereas she wants to use it for something useless.
NB. I didn't make mention that it should be from my 10k because I believe in that saying "Do for me, I do for you".
Bro it's very easy to understand.

lastclaire4:
Is this just a female bashing thread? Cos the way u people write these things online never ceases to amaze me.

Please try not to quote this post again.
I did not in any way or manner insult her or bash her like you claim, I respect her far above that.

ictjobber:
Okay... It's good you are sticking to her... Anyways... When she sows your son's school fees to her church don't come here asking for advice.

I am just trying to be optimistic, although you seem to be correct.
Hmm
Nawa oh
The matter get as e be
I will try to do some negotiations, if she doesn't agree, then I will call it quits.

ictjobber:
It's a surefire sign that she is dumb.... Dump her

Bro those words are too harsh, please you aren't in an ICT Centre. I am not planning to leave her, her attributes outnumbers her flaws.

averageguy:
I'm not sure what you are looking for here. You know exactly who she is. She values her church, will continue donating money to them, and listening to their advice. If you have issues with her contributions or the advice the church gives, please let her go early. If you're not happy that she is unable to repay your money too, please let her go. Everyone should work to find another person that fits their values, or be sure they can handle it otherwise. You are not married and you don't have kids; life is not this hard.

Ok Bro.
I will weigh my options properly.

phemy36:
Nigerian females should be avoided by all means

I don't support that, even Ghanian ladies and Latinas have their own problems, I just want her to be considerate.

Anfield247:
Hmmm... Bola tosin, take it easy, besides everybody is not good at all area, he may be a good f*cker!

You are more stupid than that 'Bola146', I ignored because she's a woman and I understand they have enough tendency to be illogical, but look at you.

aroundtheearth:
Because you're not her spouse and not entitled to any. The same way you're not entitled to her money.

Then you supposedly meant I should get all of it since I am not her spouse, for the money part she used mine, I did nothing then I asked her for support when she received her salary, then she said she had nothing. She's hasn't been fair, but I am less bothered about that, my main problem now is that she took the money to the church and it's a waste already. they are full time scammers.

SweetCunt97:
She's not your partner. Get sense

You can do well by saying something that's related to what you quoted.

Vision101:
@Connected1

I have been having financial difficulties in the last two months due to some failed Investments and scams.
My girlfriend whom I asked for assistance, literally said she had nothing but she went to sow a seed of 7k at her useless church, they initially asked members to bring 100k and she wanted to volunteer but owning to the fact she doesn't even have half that amount, she left that part and went ahead to give her pastor a whole 7k.
Recently she said her pastor told the women in the church not to have anything intimate with their spouses till the end of their two weeks fastings and prayers, for a week now, no kisses and intimate touches for me.
Aside the fact that I hate the church business venture, I cannot tell her not to go to church, I am so confused right now, I don't want to act irrational else she might do more and won't let me know.
My fear is what if I marry her someday, I can't cope with this foolish attitude, I need your guidance please.




She loves Jesus more than you. Don't lead her to hell.

So you mean someone went there and back, then he told you there was hell.
Where are you from?