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AfroKnight:

Yes, when she asked I buy her a bottle of plastic coke and suya last night and I told her to go to her church where she had building shares that they would give her there.
To my surprise she began crying and started heading home, it took me series of begging before she could calm down.
I now believe that women are often devoid of logical reasoning.

fineberry:
1)To be a Christian is one thing and to be a child of God is another thing.

2)Your gf may sleep in church, attend all church programs that can make her a "CHRISTIAN" but not a child of God.


3) It not everywhere people gather with singing, drum set, dancing and an organizer aka pastor that is a church.

My thoughts, my view.

To be Christ like (Christian) and to be a child of God are same thing, some are just mere followers.

mmadu4:
she is forking her pastor . not obsessed with church .

She's not a Lesbian, say what you know.

tosik:
lemme ask you this are you giving to church(pastors)or to God??

God doesn't come down from Heaven to collect the money we sow, The church heads do that, I now give to those in need and I am no longer a fan of the church.

samwash:
Everyone has a choice to make, if she is the church going type without pretence then let her be, & don't distract her relationship with God.
Sowing that seed to God shouldn't be ur business, it's her money, & moreover she didn't give it to her pastor.
A girl you have not married to, you still want to have control over her body.

Bro, it's actually my money, I gave her 10k to keep for me, so I could use as a last resort, because I was having financial losses. I asked her for it earlier this month and she said she has used it.
Now she has received her salary and I asked for assistance and then she told me how she spent 7k at the church and also used the remaining money for her family.
I am not trying to control her, but considering the fact that I was complaining of finance to her, she should have considered me first.

godlessmind:
let her be she is already in love with jesus christ.

Hmm, I pray it favours us.

NobleSeed:
Next time when she won go church ehn, tell her say make she tell her pastor make him cut soap give her come give you.

I wish I could get one Bro, LoL

tosik:
u wasted more on "house of God"or i didn't get you??

Yes, there was a time I was spending on the church, but after all that transpired during the covid-19 pandemic last year, when the church didn't help or refused to give to the poor, I realized they were actually scam.

Raysleek:
Take my advise and work hard no one will tell you the bitter truth. You can twist it anyhow you like.

I don't need your bitter truth.

AfroKnight:
You can actually accept it by looking the other way. You would have noticed something common among middled-aged married men. When madam does something they should naturally react to, they won't talk immediately. They will just take shift their focus elsewhere or change the topic and move on.

My late "uncle" was a protestant and his wife is a member of a pentecostal church. I call him uncle but we are not related by blood. She will start with some strange prayer points and songs in the mid-morning after breakfast when he has guests. What he will do is take his guests to the private sitting room or the garden to discuss. He never attended her church till he died but he didn't stop her either. They found balance somehow.

If you cannot comot your mind, then you guys should break up. It is far easier than trying to change her spiritual beliefs.

Ok Bro
You are experienced, I will need to this your advice on the positive side, we aren't even thinking of break-up. I noticed she even gets annoyed when I talk about what she did.

tosik:
abeg leave the girl alone na she get her money, she can use it to do anything she want whether giving it to her pastor, or beggars,its none of your business...if you continue like this,she will soon tell you that you aren't my type...

But I do give her and the worst part is that she thinks she's right for that. I have been there and back, I wasted more on these churches before realizing my mistakes.

AfroKnight:
Why would you date someone so focused on her church when you can't tolerate the concept? Both of you are deceiving yourselves thinking you can be together in harmony.

Religion/spirituality is a very potent and fundamental part of a religious person's life. If you cannot accept their beliefs, you will just punish yourself by hanging on. Conviction is an important part of religion. How do you sway someone who is convinced in their heart that they are doing the right things spiritually? You want to frustrate yourself. You either accept her or leave.

Bro how will I accept unnecessary spending, it can wreck any man, it's uncalled for, these churches are scams.

Righteousness2:


So without the Fasting program, you and "Your Lady" Engage in Immorality and Fornication!

Going to Church 24hrs and 7 days a week does not Make u Heaven Bound.
Sowing or Giving your cash to the Church does not make you a child of GOD.
A Sinner is not a Christian and a Christian is not a Sinner!

The both of you are not Serious!
You Both Need a Genuie relationship with JESUS

Is kissing now regarded as fornication or immorality

Raysleek:
You no dey shame, after asking a girl you haven't married to help you, you still come and expose yourself online. Girl that you will leave immediately you get another higher paying girlfriend. If you can't afford 7k for your own needs, you have no business getting married. Stop using marriage to deceive young girls.

Just keep quiet please, I am as young as she is, and the money I asked of her is the 10k I gave her to keep for me because I was having financial losses, so i requested she kept it for me, each time I asked her, she will tell me she has used it.
I kept mute most times,.now she received her monthly salary and when I asked her for money, she then told me that she has nothing before finally telling me what happened.

I have been having financial difficulties in the last two months due to some failed Investments and scams.
My girlfriend whom I asked for assistance, literally said she had nothing but she went to sow a seed of 7k at her useless church, they initially asked members to bring 100k and she wanted to volunteer but owning to the fact she doesn't even have half that amount, she left that part and went ahead to give her pastor a whole 7k.
Recently she said her pastor told the women in the church not to have anything intimate with their spouses till the end of their two weeks fastings and prayers, for a week now, no kisses and intimate touches for me.
Aside the fact that I hate the church business venture, I cannot tell her not to go to church, I am so confused right now, I don't want to act irrational else she might do more and won't let me know.
My fear is what if I marry her someday, I can't cope with this foolish attitude, I need your guidance please.

How old is she?
Because it seems she is yet to have sense.

He wants to view the entire Lagos from the Apex.
Naija life hard sha, person suppose dae this kind spot once in a while to cool off the head.
It's not for those that are scared of heights, else you won't catch the cruise.

Taa! If you know anybody that wants to serve another human for 5 years for just 500k. Refer them to me. I will give the person 1 million naira free of charge! You are an evil man!.

Bro I actually served my Uncle for 3 years in his boutique businesses and he accused me of stealing their money because I saved my #200 feeding money to buy clothes because I had only one I use everyday, I had to leave them because I hated being called a thief.
He later came begging that it was mistake that his wife caused it.
People are evil, I even had ulcer because of saving money.
I am now doing a minimum wage job but I prefer it than going back there, if you have a better offer I am ready to accept it.

Ok Sir

I am writing with a broken heart, majority of the people that tutored me about obeying God's words while I was still tender are now the ones benefitting from the proceeds of CyberCrime directly or indirectly with their families.
It's difficult surviving in Nigeria without indulging in any form of crime, I earn the minimum wage and it's way too small for survival.
I don't go to church anymore because all I find there are evil people including the men at the pulpits and it makes me fill up with anger each time I hear them say what they do not practice.
My parents are not rich but they made sure we never lacked in the aspect of feeding and I respect them for that but my regrets now is being raised well by my Good parents, I find it difficult to cope in this damaged economy.
I do not know if I can continue any longer.

FOLYKAZE:
You don't have to lie to substantiate your points. Where are they selling cement at ₦5,000 per bag? Can you show us receipt evidence?

Even if DCP pays you, it doesn't change the fact that you are still stupid.
Cement was sold for 5.5k in Ughelli Delta State around December last year, and it's still sold at 4k here.
Dangote and his group of inflators will know no peace in their lives, forget about their money.
And if you still need evidence, then come to Delta State and confirm.
Devil punish you.

First of all, ignore those people saying they can't do a minimum wage job because if you send them your CV or ask them for financial aid, they will not help you, they only care about themselves or sometimes their family.
Secondly, if the status of the 30k job is that of a contract staff and you are in a good department then they will surely make you a permanent staff and you will now be paid a salary and not wage anymore.
somehow you will fill up your fares with some overtimes or side jobs.
You can do your 60k jamb work and save at least 20k if the company that offers to pay you 30k doesn't have a good promotion record.
Lastly, you are the ultimate decision maker.
I respect you for being a good citizen and not indulging in fraudulent activities.

playapayaski:
Except u are lazy, totally helpless and not motivated.. and except she's totally dependent on u too then don't. 9 fuckingggg months is a long time to fix up at least 120k. Thing is we worry too much about what we can't get while neglecting what's right in front of us.
Non of those fuckstards rulling us now went to private uni, d president don't even have a degree. But nowadays we kill ourselves to send our children to 500k schools which don't guarantee intelligence and smartness to that child.. do as ur hand reach while working for better, love yours and take risks. That's what makes u human, try or fail but don't stay stagnant. Ur choice bro

A wise man once spoke like you, you be senior man, I respect you.

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So True Bro
That's why there has been a rise on sports betting sites, more difficult options, lower odds unlike back in 2010 in the days of 1960bet.
It's very profitable for the owners when you have more options, higher bonus, and most of all lie about having the highest odds.
If you win 50k three times in a row, your next winning will be when all your money are gone, Juju dae the matter.
Forget those guys displaying winnings from sportybet and other betting sites, they all Photoshopped and they are scammers, you would mostly find them in Telegram.
I am try to remove myself from this scam.

They aren't even fine sef.

Sunnysides:

Scam

Mhimi007:
make out time to check out my profile sir and I think I revealed the reason i followed her.I have lots of female friends and that doesn't mean i make friends with them because of sex.once again sire I'll advice you make out time to visit my profile and the reason I follow her was because of a post she created about her been a victim of rape it was shared to me I thought she was like an NGO or a public attorney or something

Chairman relax your mind, we all make mistakes in life and as you don see say she no get any atom of wisdom, you just have count your loss and stay away from her in future too.
Stop defending yourself, na that part dae vex me, you only wanted to connect, we didn't see any message you sent, bring your mind down.
It's a lady who has only sex to offer that thinks all men coming her way are doing so just fill her hole.
Forget those redpill stuff if you are one because at some point in life, no matter how many doses you have taken you would simp for your wife or any other woman.

SavageResponse:
You don't even have an account in Access Bank so STFU!

I had an account with the prestigious Diamond Bank until Access Bank took over.
Now I don't even have any interest on my savings rather consistent deductions for stamp duty, card maintenance and miscellaneous that they don't send me notice.
If you doubt me then deposit #200000 and leave it untouched for atleast 4 months then you would understand me.

FFF241:
Cry me a river. We think it’s by who has the loudest voice

Because you benefit from it, then you cease to say the Truth.
I see stupidity reeking over you.

After stealing our money through unnoticed deductions, they are now buying banks up and down and advancing their empire.
Some people do not really care how others feel, all they know is money.
Woe to the number 1 Fraudulent Bank in Nigeria.

Okay