₦airaland Forum

daytona500:
Mrs Chima. I am just pointing out what i have witnessed. Most hotels are full of Ibos, I am not saying that Igbos are hoes. Please do not twist my words.

As per yoruba men marrying Ibo women, that shows you that yoruba do not care about ethnicity when it comes to marriages unlike your igbo brothers. Yoruba men marry outside their tribes more than other tribes because our cultures tolorate others unlike your cultures which is so strict.

civilization started in lagos.
the yorubas shunned tribalism when the other parts of nigeria are still engrossed in it. yoruba women were marrying igbo men freely when most igbo parents won't let their daughters marry yoruba men because of the wounds of biafra.

thankfully, the igbos are getting there little by little.

publisher:
[size=15pt]My dear 'ceremonies' are different from 'owambes'!!![/size]

in lagos, it's the same technically.

those owambes aren't just parties. they are naming ceremonies, burial ceremonies, etc that got overdoped with excessive food, drinks, live band and so on and so forth! yorubas love to party. they worked hard for their money and if they decide to squander it the way they want - whose business?

publisher:
I dont think Yoruba women are exclusive daters i.e prefering only Yoruba men.
As a matter of fact,i dare say that Yoruba women tend to be attracted to 'polished' igbo and non-Yoruba guys. The only sad truth is that such marriages  hardly last,either due to cultural complications or the fact that married Yoruba women are still addicted to owambes and social functions. Igbo men tend not to like it when their wives want to attend every owambe party or social gathering they are invited to.

Yoruba men on the other hand are cool with owambes (home & abroad),unfortunately,these setting constitutes breeding grounds for infidelity,thus the high rate of divorce amongst Yoruba couples

so igbo people don't organize parties? christ!
i can actually boast i have been to more igbo parties than yorubas. people generalize because most users of nairaland in nigeria are based in lagos(a yoruba state) and any party(be it igbo, hausa, edo, etc) are thought to be organized by yoruba people.

daytona500:
Inter-cultural marriage is common in Nigeria. I know of a few Ibo men who are married to yoruba women. Also are marriages between Hausa men and yoruba women. So to say that yoruba women are the worst in Nigeria is a pure lie. If I were to choose,it will definitely be yoruba. In every tribe,there are a few people who make it look bad for others. So please yoruba is not worse that Igbo o Hausa.

in the subject of promiscuity, there's no best/worst in nigeria. they all do the ish in equal proportions.

BlueDiva:
It looks that way because he has been playing there for about 4 years.
He is too slow in passing the ball. Mikel kills potential attacks.

that's the way they are meant to play.
the equivalent in the other clubs are carrick, lucas busquets and denilson of arsenal.

they are meant to play short passes, sideways, backwards and forward(the passes should not be too daring or risky).
in a nutshell, they are deployed to retain possession. they are not proactive players. they are reactive(destroy the game plan of their opponents).

Makelele played in that role too, remember.
Heck, Makelele even managed to score a few goals.

makelele didn't become a legend until he joined madrid at the age of 27.
mikel is still 24 and i doubt claude makelele @ 24 was better than mikel.

Mikel doesn't even know how to defend.
He is quite good at passing but that is about it.

mikel defends pretty well. i dunno how you watch your football.
you don't have to be a tackler to be a successful defensive midfielder. how many times have you seen carrick snapping at the heels of the opponents like a bulldog? or busquets? or lucas? reading of the game is far important than last-ditch tackles. if you know a defensive midfielder who attracts cards like a Arrow, it's because he's positionally fraudulent.

The little i've seen of Romeu, i'm convienced that he'll be better.
Anyways, just my opinion.

stick romeu - a rookie in a high calibre game like chelsea vs liverpool?
what is romeu's credentials to get a start in such a high profile game?

bluediva, with this knowledge of yours in football matters, i am amazed nigeria failed to make the nations cup.
your brilliance in this subject is exemplary. i think keshi should make you an assistant.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=808541.msg9610508#msg9610508 date=1321981759]I am not denouncing prostitution rate in various tribes but why are Yoruba men marrying Igbo women in droves? 

Prostitution is attractive to them?   [/quote]yoruba men are the most attractive in nigeria(according to the nigerian ladies). they have got the "swag" and they are sweet talkers. an average igbo man cannot woo a woman without mentioning money. an average igbo man sees a woman as a commodity or like a family pet. "marry me and i will take care of you - i will spend money on you and blah blah blah". a trend the educated igbo ladies are beginning to frown at!

if you see any igbo man who can "sweet talk", he was probably raised in a yoruba city and he's learnt the art of wooing a woman without making her look like she's poverty stricken with the "i will spoil you with money" rants. on top of this all, most igbo boys cannot afford to date their women because of the exorbitant bride price. an average igbo man marries at 40 - as he cannot afford to marry until he's saved a lot to fund the acquisition of his bride.

there are other reasons but i cannot be arsed right now.

chamotex:
Why is Petr Cech still wearing that head guard though?
The head injury he suffered happened about 3 years ago . . . is he that mentally weak?

he is mentally eroded.

Da Doctor:
YOU KNOW ABOUT NIGERIANS ON NL? MIND U NL WILL PAINT BLACK TO BE WHITE FOR YOU. ONLY A FEW SINCERE POSTS EXIST HERE. LET YOUR EXPERIENCE TEACH ABOUT NAIJA NOT NL.
I COME ON BOARD ,DEAL MY POST AND LEAVE YOU TO PONDER.
THE FUTURE WILL TEACH U AND INFORM YOU MORE.

know about nigerians on nl, how? i will probably sell you for 12 pieces of silver in that lagos state.
what makes you think i don't travel to nigeria to see things for myself? you just sat down and you concluded my opinion is based on what i read here?

maybe this is the same way you think yoruba women are posion. no facts, no research, no statistics.
da doctor? what kind of doctorate degree do you hold? my educated guess would be - herbal doctor!

Da Doctor:

Good conclusion. DO I CARE? NOPE. WE ARE ALL FACELESS INDIVIDUALS AND DONT KNOW FROM ADAM YET LEARNING FROM POSTS ON HERE AS NEED BE.

I cant agree more. Your futuristic findings and research will throw u back to remembering all you read here today.

it isnt a debate but ab exposition. Mind you i told you they are hygiwenically ok. if i hated them i wud have to castigated them

wishing you all the best. But never stop looking out and observing to find out the reality about the yorubas.

WONDERFUL PEOPLE THEY ARE. LMAO

laughing my expensive butt off.
so if you had said their hygiene is nothing to write home about then means it's a fact?

you are a joker!

Da Doctor:
ALL IN ALL I DONT DISAGREE WITH YOU. BUT WHAT WE ARE TALKING ABOUT IS RATE AND FREQUENCY. WHAT PERCENT OF THE IBOS ,YORUBAS AND HAUSA'S DO EACH OF THE ABOVE STATED. FIND OUT AND DRAW YOUR CONCLUSION.

the rate and frequency is pretty much the same. i have got tonnes of mates in nigeria who went for nysc and shagged married women there. the rate of infidelity was pretty much the same ish among the tribes there. igbo, hausa, efik, calabar, edo, delta, middle-belt. all their women were there and they were all having the "fun" of their lives.

I AM NOT TYPING TO CONVINCE YOU OR ANY ONE. BUT ITS MY EXPERIENCES I SHARE. THEY ARE FOR REAL.

of course, it's not about convincing me and you have the freedom of speech but please. . . .don't abuse the privilege.
you cannot misinform the army of bloggers reading this forum right now in the name of your hidden agenda against the yorubas.

ESPECIALLY IN ARRIAGE. THE YORUBAS ARENT WORTH THE STRESS, LITTLE WONDER THEY CLAIM TO RETURN BRIDE PRICE SO U DONT SUBJECT THEIR DOTA TO PAINS.

that to me is the seed of civilization. marriage isn't slavery.
if i marry my daughter out to a wife-beater, i have the right to go back there and take my daughter from him before he kills her.
if other tribes don't value their daughters in the name of archaic traditions, the yorubas do! it has nothing to do to promiscuity in marriage.

LETS END THE DISCUSSION. IF U ARE INTEREST TO KNOW THE TRUTH OPEN ANODA UNBIASED OPINION THREAD BECAUSE I BELIEVE YOU REALLY WANA LEARN.

GO ONN DO THAT AND BE SHOCKED.

i am not interested to know or learn anything further. i probably know more than you do about nigerians.
and after extensive research, i came to the conclusion that nigerians are the same everywhere. north, east, south, north and even the ones in hell are the same all over. no tribe is more promiscuous, no tribe is more violent.

mustspin:
thanks so much bro, you couldnt av said it any better. go to the north and u'll give the yoruba some respect. flirting is not a thing of a particular tribe, its cross across all board

cheers, bro.
da doctor is a forum-troll.

debosky:
Don't you know sluts attract sluts? A madman thinks everyone is mad too.

we can conclude da doctor is a male slut then. he is dirty, unfaithful, moronic, spastic, mentally-eroded and myopic. since his in-laws and his tenants and every other individual around him exhibit the same character!

Da Doctor:
Oga i am not in a debate with you. or trying to convince you. you know that all a yoruba woman/man wants if 'FAJI'/'ENJOYMENT'

same as the army of youths in igboland, hausa, niger-delta etc.
all a nigerian man/woman want is faji/enjoyment - it is not set in stone that others don't enjoy. you are probably saying this because you were raised in a yorubaland. you would have experienced the same thing in any igbo community or hausa community.

Born breed and buttered here . i am no longer a stranger but a citizen. i speak yoruba like mad. i left yoruba due to my work just for few years and now have been here cos i lecture in the SW schools too. All i tell you is reality. In our quest for knowledge we may apply inductive or deductive approaches, i have applied both and arrived at the fact that YOU ALL ARE SAME NO MATA WAT.

your inductive/deductive approaches are a bit myopic. if you had worked harder, you would have arrived at the fact that nigerians are the same no matter what. just like there's infidelity in the south-west so it is in the north, south, east and other regions of the country. to actually say only yoruba people are promiscuous is a felonious statement when igbo states, niger-delta, calabar, edo/delta are still at large.

Mind you, i have lots of yoruba inlaws, they married early enough and today i kep advising them to stick to their wives alone and leave little smelling ladies. Atleast they werent forced into marriage. Most run away from Doc or hide their dealings for the fear of my cahstisement. THE WORST IS THAT THEY SEE IT AS NOTHING, THEY SEE IT AS A 'NORMAL' THING TO HAVE AN 'OMOGE' as they put it. these are educated lads.

they hide their dealings from you now means what? that you have philandering in-laws means squat! i know a truckload of igbo armed robbers, does that make every male from the east a potential armed robber? for bleeps' sake, your deductive approach is shallow and your sample size is too small to form any objective opinion. nigerians love "enjoyment", nigerians love sëx!

Da Doctor:


The first point of truth is the conscience. i sure know u know the truth.

NOW I HAVE THEM AS TENANT. Initially i opted for single male and later allowed for just married all with a corporate background cos i live in the house too especially when i am off duty call.

you cant believe that thissingle guys comes home each friday late and with different ladies. i mean every week oh. he is gonna quit soon though.
the newly married would even bring in sorts of ladies cos the wife is a banker all in the name of sister, but truly i see no resemblance, but just have to wait till their dues expire by year end.
THESE PEOPLE CANT CHANGE, EDUCATED OR NOT, MARRIED OR NOT, CHRISTIAN OR NOT.

ITS IN THEM. REALLY.

They have to leave before they corrupt my children especially my gals

hilarious!
now i know you are a joker!

Da Doctor:

In my days my dear. It was an ibo lady who dumped me and re applied when  it was rosy and was dumped into hell after i bruised her.

Yoruba ladies i dated only gave me GOOD S/EX AND THEIR BIG Bottom. HARDLY CUD DEY COOK. IT WAS PEPPER ALL THE WAY IN MY POTS. AND 'iya olonje', jaye jaye, one even tried wooing my bros not knowing that in my part of the igbo, our culture forbids 2 bros dating or eating from 1 same punny, ,,,, I must confess that they are experts in pregnancy mgt through 'agbo'. Finally,,,,,,, i cudnt marry a yoruba woman for the fear of their infidelity even in marriage. my wife is TSEK and they sure HAVE A GOOD CULTURE AND RESPECT FOR MARRIAGE.


The truth hurts but we have to take it that way

so you formed this opinion based on the few sluts you were able to attract in your days?
i mean, the fact that i have slept with 20 igbo babes mean igbo women in general are promiscuous?

how did you guys graduate from any citadel of learning?

20 chics out of 40 million yoruba women and this is what you have to say about them?

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=807732.msg9608282#msg9608282 date=1321964041]So what do women find attractive in older men with wrinkled skin, saggy belly and backside that has fallen apart?.[/quote]same reason - money, power, influence.

BlueDiva:
People are tired of him, that's why he is being blamed.
Nobody really blamed Terry for messing up against Arsenal.

Mikel can't defend, can't score, he's too slow.
Miereles/Romeu are better option.

Mikel is a problem to us.

mikel is your best player in the role he is deployed.

he's the only player in chelsea disciplined enough to maintain his position and protect his back four. ramirez is a better tackler but he's not positionally disciplined to protect the back four. forget lampard in that position. he's too old now to run the midfield from a deep position.

meirelez is not a better defensive midfielder than mikel. that's not possible. he's only better going forward than mikel which means he is also prone to getting carried away when he's in possession of the ball. petr cech is the major culprit of the first goal. his pass put mikel in a very difficult position. adam read the pass very well and he was on mikel like a rash before mikel took the 2nd touch to turn.

as expected, the trolls are having their daily circus!

myopic topic, idiotic original poster, large percentage of moronic comments.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=808541.msg9605461#msg9605461 date=1321922848]
Coogar.

Why are you assuming I have an iPhone/iPad/iPod ?
Anyways, My intuition tells me you're sexy. You sound "sexy".  [/quote]cute!
are you a yoruba chic?

lefulefu:
Most of these young guys married to old women still have young girlfriends by the side that their old wives dont know about.Abeg ppl should stop decieving themselves jor.The motive that these guys who run after older have is $$$$

don't mind them. . . . .i am yet to see a young boy chasing after a wretched old woman in nigeria. you see chidi mokeme fuckin senator ita-giwa and claiming it's love. why isn't he running after iya rainbow?

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=808541.msg9605409#msg9605409 date=1321922142]Hm.The probability of you being sexy is 0.5.
Are you light-skinned? Light-skinned Igbo boys are sexier. No offeiencse.[/quote]i don't blow my trumpet!
gimme your phone number, let's i-message! i will show you the definition of "sexy"

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=808541.msg9605358#msg9605358 date=1321921413]^are you Igbo?[/quote]yes now.
do you find me s[i]e[/i]xy?

lefulefu:
Question: why do 25 yr old men run after 40 something to 50 something yr old women?
Answer: the reason na for the women money or anything material thing wey dem fit benefit
If una no believe den make una tell me wether una don see any twenty something yr old man wey go wan date a woman in her 40s or 50s wey no get money?
Of course this can never happen because all the small boys for town na the rich old women dem want and not the poor old women .Abeg shine your eye well well.The only reason wey a young man go wan date an old money na for the money wey she get .No sane young man go prefer old wrinkled punny over a young fresh punny if not for money

excellent point, lefulefu
you only see such examples with rich old women. why don't we say younger men marrying poor older women? if this does not tell the old women young men are after their money to buy ipads, trainers and other perks boys want to possess. women can be gullible though. tell them you are in love and they believe the lie line hook and sinker!

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=808541.msg9605332#msg9605332 date=1321921151]^lol. where did that question come from? I don't love them. I just think/know they are sexy.[/quote]you don't love sexy things then i guess - you prefer the fuglies!

talina:
How did 25 and 41 turn into 19 and 50

same difference - since we are in the subject of older women vs young boys!

talina:
And,by the way I wouldnt tell my 19 year old brother( if I had one) who he can and cannot sleep with.

typical!

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=807732.msg9605316#msg9605316 date=1321920968]not sure why coogar is ripping his pantaloons over the subject.[/quote]tape it shut and scram to your yoruba dating thread!

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=808541.msg9605272#msg9605272 date=1321920132]Igbo guys are sexy! (I'm generalizing).  [/quote]so you love igbo men?

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=807732.msg9605300#msg9605300 date=1321920619]@Coogar, what has physical fitness gotta do with this?.[/quote]stamina in bed!
no woman in her 40s will match a blooming 20 yr old full of life and vitality. why do aristos go to university of lagos to pluck young flowers?

talina:
Not always. These women arent all like some king of predator! And whos to say that they "should have" been dating the younger women to begin with? Things happen for a reason.

so you would let your 19-yr old brother sleep with a 50 yr-old woman, right?

talina:
^^^ Ok then, if thats your argument, then I dont know if one can compare a fit 19 year old and fit 40 year old. I didnt say anything about an obese 19 year old.
Ive wondered why, when many women reach their 40s, they are more compatable sexually with a 20 something man. Just saying,

the ones with hyper-active s[i]e[/i]x-drive. . . . . .the men in their category cannot cope with them so these women fish for young men and entice them with perks. mind, these boys know why they are being desired and sooner than later, they dump the older women for the younger babes they should be dating in the first place!

talina:
^^^^ Sometimes I suppose. It would depend on the fitness of the individual. Some 40 year olds are fitter than a 25 year old.

i don't disagree with this.
but we should compare like for like.

don't compare a 40 yr old physically fit woman with a 19 yr old obese girl when there are millions of 19 yr old physically fit girls.
my argument is the 19 yr old physically fit woman would be stronger than a 40 yr old physically fit woman(no matter how small).

talina:
Ok Coogar , Ive known many women in their 40s who actually were more sexually compatable with a man in his 20s because the men around their age did not have the stamina to keep up with them! This is sometimes the case!

i agree with this.
but don't you think a younger woman in her 20s with the same s[i]e[/i]x-drive would be fitter than the women in their 40s with the same s[i]e[/i]x drive?

lindabon:

Well, not really. It basically depends on the guy you see. Some guys naturally are attracted to older women out of preference. A cheat will always be a cheat regardless of who he marries.
As for stamina, do you think a 24 year old obese unfit female, will have more stamina than a 41 year old woman who is physically fit?? I don't think so. Maybe at 55, age will catch up.

the comparison is unfair.
the question should be, do i think a 24 year old physically fit woman have more stamina than a 41 year old woman who is physically fit?

talina:
Coogar,sorry but that simply isnt true.

educate me about the truth, please!

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=807732.msg9597378#msg9597378 date=1321821157]Do you agree with her comment?. Please vote.[/quote]i agree.

no 41 yr old woman would be good enough for a 25 yr-old hag!
let's get things straight here - what stamina has a 41-yr old woman got to cope with a youth? it's a mismatch.
no amount of surgery can boost the stamina of demi moore and there are sexier chics out there for the 25-year-old!