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Family › Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 3:38pm On Jul 05, 2014
pickabeau1: These are well worn and well argued positions but dont reflect the issues on ground
A child is in the picture
what should a man do
answer
a child doesn't just come into the picture. my condom just broke & the deed is already done......

i have no control from that point henceforth. the woman still has plenty of control. morning after pills can still be administered, there are enough injections she could take to get rid even before she misses her next period.

in the eventuality that all these methods fail, there's abortion process. why do women not take these measures? if she carries the baby to term while i have registered my complaints that i ain't ready for the child then she should bear the cost. the man should never ever be forced by the courts to pay a dime on what he didn't want.
Family › Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 3:33pm On Jul 05, 2014
Ewuro1: See bolded ^^ - stop pussyfooting around the truth Coogar, every Adult should be responsible for their own Reckless actions ...

By the way where have you been , missed you plenty grin

#PRO LIFE
his condom could have broken! he could have been lied to that she was on the pill or all sort of fraudulent schemes women deploy when they want to force parenthood on a man.

i went to chibok to bringbackthegirls!

njokusboy: . Kia, so when a man does not state categorically that he doesn't want a baby, u automatically assume that he wants one.... Infact I don tire for this thing.... How many men have you slept with and how many children do you have nowhuh?? Answer sharp sharp, so we can move on.....
don't mind the fraudulent gits!
when women are forced to have sex by criminals or addle-brained men. they know their way to the clinic to get rid of the debris.....

however, the moment the guy is well-to-do or he's got the potential, then abortion becomes a taboo in their dictionary. that's when they will remember what their pastor told them about abortion - arrant nonsense!
Family › Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar:
pickabeau1: Dude... you are barking up the wrong tree
I am not interested in the rightness or wrongness
so it doesn't have to be right, we should just take the moral grounds because a kid is involved. you are reaching.....

This was my initial post
I am not interested inpower games.. this is a kid we talking about
then you shouldn't be on this thread cos the OP is interested in why men are made to pay for a child he didn't want from the outset......

my stance is men should not pay. if an unplanned pregnancy occurs that a man is not interested in participating in, a woman should get rid of it. point - blank - period!

why would any woman want to have a baby with a dude that doesn't want to be a dad? it's unfair to all parties involved including the child. i don’t know how many other women are in the business of forcing parenthood onto men, but it's the most disgusting selfish behaviour on this planet.

women should spare me all this crap that they can't get an abortion. they can! as we speak millions of women are undergoing abortion process. where were all these morals when they were having irresponsible sex with an unfit partner? all of a sudden she's religious the moment she conceived?
Family › Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 3:14pm On Jul 05, 2014
Ewuro1: "Forced" ?? Was he forced to put his bare Kini during the do?
so because a man desires to sleep with a woman means he wants her to be a mother of his children? what kinda logic is this?

sex between unmarried people is for recreation. why would a woman think otherwise that sex automatically means her partner wants a child?
Family › Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 3:04pm On Jul 05, 2014
pickabeau1: recreation but there is a potential consequence of that recreational activity
This q only arises as a result of moral decadence

In the old days.. you will wife that girl either as first or second wife
You have ur opinion... i also have mine
lets agree to disagree
it's hilarious this is even up for debate.
what's the percentage of people that are having sex for procreation outside marriage? i am sure it's less than 1%

unmarried people have sex solely for recreation. the difference is that she has control of reproduction, he has none. you seem to think that’s fair. i don’t.

he didn’t cause the condom to break, she didn’t use the pill or an IUD, he and she wasn’t married, neither of them wanted to get pregnant, and he has no right over what she does with her body.

and yet you still think it’s perfectly fair for her to choose to have the child against his wishes and force him to support the child in all circumstances?

you are hilarious!
Family › Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 1:11pm On Jul 05, 2014
pickabeau1: You miss my point.. condoms are almost always foolproof... yes there are instances of mistakes... yes.. but not common

Should a man be responsible for his child... hell yes. That is what a man does

But i am not interested in a long debate on the merits and demerits of feminism vs paternity now
That is why i advocate for protection or avoidance of sex
i will just pretend i didn't read this comment - especially coming from you. are you kidding me? sex between unmarried people is almost always for recreation not procreation - don't mix the two together. just like a man ought to have protected himself, a woman should protect herself too from any accident.

if the precautions fail......then they have to unanimously get the same verdict: keep the baby or abort it there should never be one saying yes & the other saying no. just like i have no say in what a woman does with her body, she shouldn't have any say to what i do with my wallet. it goes both ways.

a man should not be forced to pay any dime to a baby he never wanted in the first place. there's no accidental pregnancy - only a foolish man would believe such nonsense - women who get pregnant & see the baby to term had it premeditatedly planned out.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by coogar: 12:19pm On Jul 05, 2014
StarBoard: so how come Enyeama saved the first free kick from behind the wall?
it was from a longer distance - he had time to quickly move his feet to palm the first effort away. the second freekick was closer.

https://cdn.fansided.com/gif/NA12.gif

where should enyeama have stood? middle of the goal?
Family › Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 12:17pm On Jul 05, 2014
Ezeed: Understand that he's asked to provide upkeep/support for the child, not as a gratutious favour to the woman, but simply cos the innocent party-- the child-- should not be made to pay for their indiscretion.
who gets to spend the money? the child or the mother? in some of the cases, the paying father never even gets to see the child & the child support money is calculated based on the man's income. how is this fair to the men?
Family › Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 12:12pm On Jul 05, 2014
Tallesty1: What are you even saying? If you are bold enough to fvck and impregnate a gal then you must also be strong and brave enough to stand up and be a father. Stop denying your responsibilities.
if you are bold enough to enter into a car, you must also be strong and brave enough to withstand automobile accident.

it's this kind of thinking that has screwed the world. in consenting to sex, neither a man nor a woman gives consent to become a parent. if the woman now decides to leave the baby when the man has clearly told her he doesn't want a child, then she should shoulder all the responsibilities for that child.


pickabeau1: While you have some merits... men too should ensure the have iron clad protection
Too many kids born out of wedlock
Abortion is not childs play
Birth control has hormonal impacts on women
what iron clad protection?
do condoms not leak? what other choice does a man have if his condom leaks? feminism have long held that women should not be punished for being sëxually active by taking away their options when an accidental pregnancy occurs. why then do our policies now aim to punish and shame men for their sexuäl promïscuity?
Family › Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 12:01pm On Jul 05, 2014
it's one of the biggest frauds perpetrated by feminism in the 21st century. women don't demand child support when they go to spërm banks, why should men who have clearly stated they don't want a child be forced to pay child support for 18 years?
Family › Re: false reasons why some people believe feminists hate men by coogar: 11:55am On Jul 05, 2014
Dantedasz: There are NO real feminists on Nairaland. All we have on these boards are amateur male bashers.
These kind of women are not looking for equality with any man. Most of them are trophy wives safely enshrined in their husbands houses while preaching feminism on Nairaland.

I wonder why these pocket feminists did not kick against marriage rites on the day a mere man brought coco yams,palm oil,bags of rice and money to pay their dowries.

A real feminist should throw down the gauntlet and tell her parents-"Daddy and Mummy,I am not going through this buying and selling ritual because I am a feminist!"


As some one said earlier-yeye dey smell.
https://cdn.skincaretalk.com/8/89/366x232px-89ffecee_laugh.gif
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by coogar: 11:48am On Jul 05, 2014
JayKayMaybachz: Coogar !!, Where ve you been all the day while?
i was in chibok. cool
Rap Battles › Re: Flow For Rank by coogar: 11:05am On Jul 05, 2014
willsofsteel: Some animals read back and see them
and this is why i am carnivorous.....eating animals is my best hobby. the next vermin that says nonsense about me is getting destroyed here instantly. i am tired of lunatics spewing baloney to seek attention.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by coogar: 11:01am On Jul 05, 2014
StarBoard: Yes.
His positioning was AWFUL. Especially since he had saved a similar free kick earlier on.
his positioning wasn't awful - praise messi for a brilliant freekick. if the goalie gets beaten from where the wall stood then the keeper has no blame. you can only blame the goalie if he gets beaten on the side of the post he's covering just before the freekick was taken.
Rap Battles › Re: Flow For Rank by coogar: 12:14am On Jul 05, 2014
JigsawKillah: is that it? Dope i must admit but i was expecting something more

SAW
you are lucky you even got a snippet from me. ordinarily, i wouldn't have responded at all.

mikuz: See love!!!
So na cossa say you see Cooger you come dey misspell? WTF . . Next time you'll tell us you missed your period cos he called ya name! That's if his posts haven't started making you wet . . grin grin grin
I thought I told you he's married?
Don't know what's wrong with Nigerian girls these days - I no just know wetin dem see for Sugar Daddies!!
grin grin
kim, what's up?
what did you do to our thread? what did you do to the phoenix mob?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Frank Onyeachonam, Yahoo Boy Jailed In London by coogar: 8:49pm On Jul 04, 2014
Chrisbenogor: grin grin grin

The dude was making it rain init !
it's a rainstorm.....see your guy.....

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2014/07/03/1404412991524_wps_1_Pic_shows_Buzz_Lightyear_.jpg
Rap Battles › Re: Flow For Rank by coogar: 8:33pm On Jul 04, 2014
teddybiyasi: Jesus of Nazareth demn
teddy, don't mind them.......kim is trying to distract the attention of the house. he was responsible for the virus that stormed NL because he lost a battle.

willsofsteel: Ok, Coogar is here now. Where r those fools saying am himhuh
who said such? please name them - let me send the 4 apocalyptic horsemen to their abode.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Frank Onyeachonam, Yahoo Boy Jailed In London by coogar: 8:29pm On Jul 04, 2014
shymexx: Black people always fall my hand with that dumb flossing nonsense. And these uncles are in their late 30s and 40s. Scrounging for £10 everywhere, despite driving Range Rover. grin And gullible chics always buy the dream they're selling. Anyway, each to their own.
it's in the blood of black people in every continent. they must exaggerate their status...:asians underscore theirs. you can never know what those asians are about - they dress so simple but they are multi-millionaires.

With the money involved in his case, that's also money laundering, and I believe he was also charged for that. Most times, it also depends on the judges, and whoever the defense lawyer is. Also, the only reason why most folks might think the UK is lenient is because London(The City) thrives on money laundering and all kinds of financial crimes - so best believe there's absolutely no way they would allow the kind of sentencing you lot want. The plutocrats and vested interests won't allow it. All kinds of money go through the city everyday - this is the city of gods where money rules everything.
this dude wasn't washing his money - he was consuming it himself. look at his fridge & his mgbeke brain-cells. it's a lotto scam - there's no complexity involved whatsoever. there was no reason to whisk money off to russian accounts. fizzy was just spending it on himself. cheesy grin

He would most likely be deported. I doubt he's British, and with the new law, once you spend more than 18 months in prison as a foreign national - your legal status can be revoked.
fizzy is a son of the soil.....look at his passport(s). grin cheesy

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2014/07/03/1404410036370_wps_7_National_News_and_Picture.jpg

Muthaphuck the fraudsters, they destroyed the game by selling dreams to these fish-brained chics. grin
stop playa-hating. grin
don't hate the player, hate the game. cool
Rap Battles › Re: Flow For Rank by coogar: 6:57pm On Jul 04, 2014
ELYMAXiimus: i'm good Sire! We've been missing ur vibe here! grin
where's kim? grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: Frank Onyeachonam, Yahoo Boy Jailed In London by coogar: 6:53pm On Jul 04, 2014
oyb: the guy targeted the old and helpless. . . which a lot of people even crooks may see as unforgivable, i'm sure hes getting justice right now , drinking the bodily fluids of prisoners
there's no prison rapë in the UK. he's on vacation there. very soon, he would be transferred to an open prison where he gets to leave the prison premises and return in the night. he didn't commit a violent crime so he's in good hands.
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 6:49pm On Jul 04, 2014
cococandy: Even if I put pictures you wouldn't know if it me or not.

Who bullied you?
Lmao. See class bully saying he's been bullied. grin
Shey the person who wan bully you chop
stone?
gentle soul like me?

Meanwhile have you heard from yellowpp?
She's been conspicuously absent.
i saw her last night at the village.... she's well. she sends her regards. cheesy

edwife: shocked shocked shocked,Oh Coogar! Who did this to you?
Poor sis Sarah embarassed
poor sister sarah? she would be thanking you tomorrow for the introduction you made. your bank account go get belle by monday.
Rap Battles › Re: Flow For Rank by coogar: 6:45pm On Jul 04, 2014
JigsawKillah: both
SAW
jigsawkillah is very stüpid/he wants a taste of teddy's püssy/i should piss in his drink & have his cherry ruined/....or make him watch his dad die of HIV like femi kuti/
Foreign Affairs › Re: Frank Onyeachonam, Yahoo Boy Jailed In London by coogar: 6:34pm On Jul 04, 2014
Chrisbenogor: The fridge just shows a mentality is all, if he spent that much to have his fridge on point grin I wish he actually thought of properly stashing it.....if only avon listened to stringer bell grin grin
you are correct though!
a guy that can spend that much is not likely to have any savings. it's a lotto scam so the money kept pouring everyday. he's lucky he's not in the US.
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 6:32pm On Jul 04, 2014
cococandy: Is that why you won't say how you are? smiley

ROTFL: grin
It's lorretta. The hurricane seun did some unpleasant numbers to my old account so I deactivated it.
pictures or idontbelievethis.

loretta transformed to cococandy?? cheesy cheesy who are the other transformees? did chillisauce & byvan make it? i hope not! those 2 monikers have consistently bullied me here.

edwife: grin grin grin,I was wondering what in the world happened to you?
These past two weeks have been dry,how is summer treating you? cheesy
i was baby-dancing with sister sarah. cheesy

alutacontinua: @bolded, yes!
the men in my village are gentlemen, they don't overstress their women wink
ask the men in your village to do the pounding then. ituku men are subsistent farmers. we don't cook.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Frank Onyeachonam, Yahoo Boy Jailed In London by coogar: 6:21pm On Jul 04, 2014
Atmmachine: Ohhhh !!!!!!!!!

In london ?? He will be out in a week time
He's so lucky he wasn't in the US
in the US, i am sure he would get nothing less than 250 years prison sentence. america's judiciary is a joke!
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 6:19pm On Jul 04, 2014
cococandy: Coogar how are you?
huh huh who is cococandy?

edwife: Coogarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr grin grin grin
edwife grin
i came back because of tomorrow's thanksgiving service. grin don't be late.
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 6:14pm On Jul 04, 2014
alutacontinua: did you bring yam for moi?
you fit pound am? embarassed
men dey pound yam for your village? kitchen business is exclusive to the women. the men do the farming, the women do their science in the kitchen.
Rap Battles › Re: Flow For Rank by coogar: 6:12pm On Jul 04, 2014
teddybiyasi: he lives but pure sand for him body to confirm wella
teddy-miyaki!
you survived the tsunami? cheesy

ELYMAXiimus: lol,, cooger tha "prince of persia" cheesy welcome
thank you, bro! how are you?

JigsawKillah: i like to see try fool!
SAW
how do you want it served? lyrically or physically?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Frank Onyeachonam, Yahoo Boy Jailed In London by coogar: 6:09pm On Jul 04, 2014
Chrisbenogor: Looking at that his fridge.......I doubt grin grin
but he took £30m.....at least £10m would have been his share. that fridge is a drop in the ocean.
Family › Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 6:01pm On Jul 04, 2014
alutacontinua: where have you been, bald head?
missed you around here angry
My mat's been swept away by the wind, I need money for a new one embarassed
i was at the yam festival in ituku ozalla. grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: Frank Onyeachonam, Yahoo Boy Jailed In London by coogar: 5:56pm On Jul 04, 2014
shymexx: Lmao...you and I know that cars, champagne, and women are what naij fraudsters spend all their money on. Only a naij fraudster would buy a Range Rover, yet he still lives in a shared flat with about four other friends, with no money for fuel. And most times, survive on noodles. Almost all of them are like that, hence I don't rate them at all.
it's in the blood......we must floss by force! grin

This is a fraud case here:
this isn't purely a fraud case - money laundering was involved. besides, it was HMRC they stole from. one would almost get a capital punishment in the UK to hit anything that belongs to the queen. if it was a private organisation like barclays or HSBC they defrauded, they would be very unlucky to even get 3 years......never steal from the queen! cheesy

Anyway, they're going to confiscate everything...even whatever he has in naij, and he'll come out dead broke like those who got shifted before him. He'll most likely be deported as well.
deport to where?
fizzy is a british citizen. he also carries a zimbabwe & south african passports. i think he might also be an american citizen as one of his passports is deep blue.

fizzy is going nowhere - he cannot be that daft not to have stacked his loot somewhere in zurich or monaco. if they get everything from him, he deserves the ALUU treatment but in cases like this, they would do a deal with him.
Rap Battles › Re: Flow For Rank by coogar: 5:32pm On Jul 04, 2014
Iceskidd: i tried to laugh tho. cheesy
where's kim?
GHCQ traced the virus to benin.....somewhere near kim's house. he deleted our battle thread and made sure he killed the dreams of the phoenix order. grin

JigsawKillah: u dey ask me? U forget where google dey?
SAW
you are a swine!
who are you giving such attitude? you want me to lift your head off your neck?

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