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Flytefalls: I thought you seemed a bit PEDO. Jermaine is such a name for a Jamo cousin but no

adaobi123: Which village are you from ?

adaobi123: Afam. Are you going to help me win BGT ?

If not I'll go and ask the elders in my village for help.

adaobi123: Thanks for voting for us.
Shymexx has to vote for me anyways.

"£20 token"
He should also add Awka south LGA too, we wanna win by a huge margin.

adaobi123: Will you and shymexx vote for us ?

shymexx: Afrobeat has been killing the club scene out here for like 2-3 yrs now, so she's defo on the hype as well...

MacLovington: Afam the International socio-anthroplogy expert.

Where did you hear all this? From the grapevine?

I have dated both British and American girls (caucasians). People are just individuals and can be reserved or bubbly, not because of nationality.

shymexx: Alesha Dixon was hyped!!
I wanna kiss her...

Afam4eva: American chikalas just know how to express themselves while British girls are bored and stiff to the core. They're not social.

adaobi123:

Errmmm thanks.

We just need the black people to vote for us.

Afam4eva: British Ladies are more reserved, that's why. You can't compare a scripture union lady to a party going babe.

adaobi123: SE as in south east London ?

Afam4eva: You London boys and woman sha. Could it be because British ladies are too self absorbed as alluded by Russel Peters.

adabeke12: good riddance to bad rubbish

kulyie: first of all this thread is 5years old so i presume the poster must have had a kid now between the age of 3-5 years old.2ndly as per the post, women are naturally loving people and care is what God has programmed in them so for poster whinning and nagging about it shows that the husband too is not fullfilling his own part of the bargain-showing love,care,empathy and concern for your wife. i even wonder why these generation of men are like this sef.when you guys are courting,they are all lovey dovey,so all over you,they show so much care,concern and are generally sweet but as soon as they wife you,they gradually stop what they are doing.however i believe communication will do the work NOT NAGGING,YELLING,CRYING OR SCREAMING.talk to him gently maybe like after dinner,tell him everything exactly the way you typed it and dont forget prayer too.pray before you go and meet him

chelseabmw: Who will win the Player Of The Year Award ?
My thoughts :

- It will be between Mata and Suarez. Both have been consistent through all the season while RVP has been good just in the first half of the season and Bale in the second half.

- Hazard will win the Young Player of the Year Award.

- I don't have any clue what Carrick is doing on that shortlist !

mutter: I was always under the impression that a woman would love doing all those things for her husband when newly wed!!!
You probably nag so much that it is straining the marriage.
It is wrong to demand your husband picks up his shoes..a loving wife brings her husband his shoes and takes them off his feet when he comes home from work. Then she deserves more than one round in bed.
Keep nagging the bed is not made.. one day you might wake up to find the bed empty.
Please do not mislead yourself or let anyone mislead you because you do not have much clue about your duties as a wife.

Idowuogbo: ^Oga Deborah, if I no get Facebook nko?

debosky: How to deal with it? Quite simple.

1. Be firm - if a married man approaches you for friendship, say no and mean no - don't collect any numbers, facebook/twitter ID's or bbm details. Also do not collect the 'good things of life' as well.

2. If a man approaches you, before getting into a 'friendship' with him, try to verify he is indeed single - it should be fairly easy to do. At least if you've tried to verify, you can proceed with a clean conscience.

3. I'm not sure how/where you constantly encounter these married men (outside NL I mean) but you may want to consider whether there is anything you can do to limit these encounters/avoid them altogether.

Wish you all the best.

Idowuogbo: Lmao! Madam, stop trying to make sense out of nonsense.

Tashamania: I really hate to say this but this is becoming a constant for a while now.
I try as much as possible to stay away from married men who approach me for friendship, knowing fully well that their "friendship" all bores down to one thing and that is : Spoiling you with good stuffs of life and at the end, demanding to see or have a taste of what is underneath!


Seriously, Why wont this married men let us be and enjoy our youthful lives just the way they've enjoyed theirs?
Is this some kind of wickedness of some sort?
Dont they know that by such doings that they are putting at risk their marriages?
Do they want us (the youths) to suffer the same fate in our marriages (i.e, our own husbands going after young girls too)
Do they want to marry us as 2nd wives or they are just out to spoil our future?!
Is it that they are not happy with their marriages? I dont get it!


I face these almost in my everyday life,the single guys keep coming with the married men ( even those that pretend they are not married) what da heck?! I received the most embarrasing call of my life #days back at about 10pm when a lady called me to stay off her marriage and if not, she knows all my details on where I school and would come haunt me down and am like what the heck again? Whose fault is it this time? The saidman told me he wasnt married! Nawao!
And I wonder where the silly man was at the time his wife was using his cellphone to make this call and threaten an innocent girl like me

Not just that am facing it in the real world, even here on NL, married men who dont even deny the fact that they are married keep disturbing for "FRIENDSHIP"! What kind of friendship do you wanna have with a single lady and online?! Abeg and abeg, I dont entertain married men as friends. I'm sounding this clear because of any married man on here that might have been harbouring such intentions! For GOD's sake, Na Swear? You have a wife - for the s.ex and companionship and kid(s), so what again do you want?
I'm tired of all these, I dont know what method to use in telling you people off again o!!

I want to know what such men want. What abeg? This is beyond me!

Afam4eva: American was not really colonized in the truest sense because American is also made up of a lot of Britons. If you say American Indians were colonized, it will make more sense.

Canada is cheaper because they don't rip people off like they do in the UK. The taxation in the UK is someone between abysmal and astronomical. Was it not your fellow Britons that were bitching about that from the first page of this thread? I really don't blame the UK. There's nothing you can do when you don't produce much like Germany for example. The UK exists on taxation through various means. Foreign students have to pay through their nose to attend the mediocre schools setup by immigrants. You don't even need to be brilliant or smart to school in the UK. As long as you have money, you'll be given an automatic admission. Even Nigeria is not that bad.

Afam4eva: Here we go again...it's not about what Britain, Greece, Egypt or the Romance did in 100AD but about the current situatio of things. Nobody cares if Britain colonized the whole world. Do they still wield such powers? Power changed hands before you were born and there's a new sherrif in town.

Once again, hardly do people say they're travelling to Lagos when they're going to Nigeria but the same cannot be said about LOndon.

Canada is a prefered choice than the UK. You have to be in NIgeria to know. Some people even choose Canada over the US. The UK has become redundant in some way. Canada is one of the most progressive and sane countries in the world.

shymexx: Then, speak for yourself - all the cities you listed(apart from Glasgow and Edinburg) can't compete with Birmingham, Manchester, Liverpool, and Brighton... Anyway, Dublin isn't part of the UK - it's part of the Republic of Ireland....

No, modern democracy was invented and perfected by the Brits...

Frankfurt and New York should never be in the same sentence when it comes to global finance - that's travesty and asinine, 'asi-ten', 'asi-eleven', and 'asi-twelve' lol..*Stephen A. Smith's voice lol****

The City of London is the financial capital of world!! Tell New York City to stay jocking London by naming all the most important places in that hell-hole(minus Manhattan) after London lol...

Hip-hop isn't even an America culture - one of the founders migrated from British Caribbean, and others went to Africa for consciousness before they started it... Ask Kool Herc and African Bambaataa.. Suffice to say: Hip-hop is a black culture!!!

SAS is still the best special forces in the UK - American special forces aren't even in the top-5 in the world lol... I'd choose the Russians, Germans, and French before the yanks when it comes to special forces...

Do you know what the James Bond movie series are about? When the CIA starts getting that type of rep. - I'll compare them to the MI6 - till then, America is just hype!!

Almost every fun-filled thing/experience that America is known for was invented by the blacks over there - from Jazz to Soul, Hip-Hop, Fashion et al... take black folks out of America and you'd have a massive Alaska and Iowa type of country!!

Afam4eva: London is a commercial center just like New York just that it's still learning the robes from the master. Very soon Tokyo will even kick London out. Times have changed my friend.

Afam4eva: Isn't English itself a Germanic language? Why didn't the English create their own language?

People going to NIgeria say that they're going to NIgeria. Hardly do people mention Lagos. Stop lying abeg.

The last paragraph is a complete joke. Go to the streets of Lagos and ask people to choose and see if over 90% will not embrace the American visa. You must be living in la la land. The British embassy may be busier than the yankee embassy because rejects choose UK as a second third choice after the US and Canada.

roccio: That's curious...because in his January interview with Toolz on Ndani TV, D'banj said he was happily dating a very special lady who has been with him for a while. Fast forward to his interview today with Seun Apara of Thisday, D'banj says he's still single because he hasn't found the right woman. D'banj tells Seun:

Read full at http://www.tundeola.com/2013/04/i-have-dated-lot-of-women-but-have-not.html#more

Afam4eva: •America is a country of immigrants, so they had to adopt a language.

•People who say they're going to London know that there are other cities but they say LOndon because they know there's nothing worthwhile outside London. It's just a group of hamlets without any feeling.

•At least you know that the good thing about staying in the UK is that you'll have a choice to run to the well developed countries around it. I'll Choose Dublin, Ireland over the UK anyday.

•If America is a piss then tell me why people are falling over themselves to get a visa. It's mostly because that reject have been stamped on their passport and on their forehead that decide to settle for less(UK). America is like no other.

montelik: If Michu was nominated, I would go with him. Of the present nominees, I would pick Bale or Carrick.

Afam4eva: The population of America is over 250milion while the population of the UK is not even up to the population of SW Nigeria. So, America has more challenges but they have risen up to the challenge and have conquered countries that existed hundreds and thousands of years before them which includes the UK. There's nothing special about the UK. Everybody i know that are their want to come back because it's a shitty country. There's no reasonable place to live except London. People who travel to the UK tell you that they are travelling to London because no other city is worth it whereas people goto the US without you getting hint where they're going to be based because everywhere is the ish. You can live in New York, LA, Miami, Houston, Dallas, Atlanta, DC, Boston, Las Vegas, Minneapolis, Baltimore, San Francisco, Seattle etc. There are a lot of options to choose from. But in the UK it's either it's London or nowhere else. It's a one-city shitty country. God bless America, Portugal and Nigeria.

shymexx: Dude, you worship America too much based on what you see on TV...

There's absolutely nothing special about that country - it's just a rich man's Nigeria, trust me...

America is the developed version of Nigeria - nothing special, tbh...

Feed me more: Same goes with the U.S.... I'm not saying there weren't terrorist attack before 911, but 911 was something unprecedented in the history of terrorist attack on U.S soil. The culprits ( khaled Shiek mohamme, Osama bin laden) the chief mastermind, and so many others were hunted down wherever they were found and either captured or killed.

n0m0705: Maybe you should change the name to spanish football award. What has cazorla done to merit nomination, accepted he is good,but he has not been outstanding, he is always overshadowed by wilshere anytime wilshere is on the field. And you are here doubting carrick who has been an outstanding and consistent performer for united this season. if anyone is going to come close to being nominated in that arsenal team he should be arteta, he's been the silent backbone of that team, just like carrick.

ThiefOfHearts: Republicans make me sick
coogar, who killed Dele Giwa

Feed me more: So where were the cameras, intelligence, Mi5 when London was bombed on 7 July 2005?

Feed me more: Would the British law enforcement agent have done better given the same condition?

Don't forget the the dude is wearing a sucide vest strap to his body...

REALITY101: You're a joke homie, I give it to you

REALITY101: Hold on!!!!!! Say what? From a Nigerian where they're granting amnesty to terrorist. Very funny bro

Feed me more: Boston manhunt: suspect in custody and alive!
What a relief.