₦airaland Forum

Vikin:

This case is different.
The guy gave a photo of the billy goat, not the goat itself

7842I: And you must be munching a kunthole, bwhahahahahahahahaha

7842I: and you are fool.....simple and short

7842I: You had to pull a ficticious story to prove what? OK, its his words against mine, no Igbo man from my community less than 60 years is married to 2 wives, its extremely rare here. We even have 40+ guys who refused to marry and you are talking of 2 wifes in this enlightened world of educated peeps.

7842I: You are just lying. Igbo men dont even marry their first wives early, and they stay that way. If they have a woman outside its strictly on a cash and bangg arrangement, try his family and you are yesterday's news.

obowunmi: Stop being a tribalist.... it shows your lack of competence.

Ujujoan: There . . fixed your post!
Now the difference between an Igbo guy and a yoruba guy is that the igbo guy will chop and clean mouth, but the yoruba guy will get her pregnant and marry her second wife . .
That is a FACT!

obowunmi: didn't know that you are a tribalist.

7842I: Igbo men dont marry two wives, period.

Ujujoan: Haba . . resorting to lies just to justify your claims? And I thought you were above that!

Ujujoan: Lol . . you dey vex
ME I don talk my own!

IF you are a real igbo man, then you'll know what I'm talking about!
Of cos there are men and there are men

Ujujoan: Oga Coogar tot we've settled that ni? I'm a Vilagger, agreed!
That's why I married an Ibo man, no time for long grammar . . .

Ujujoan: Sheeh . . . save that crap for that gullible chick you plan to make your wife! Even if it's an old rickety car, I'm not about to let it go to some husband snatcher . . . suck on it!

As for the husband who (God forbid) decides to marry another wife, he's free to, but not with my hard earned money! If that makes me a local Nigerian villager, then so be it!

Ujujoan: At least I can pick out fakers like you from the crowd . . . If that's all the 'formal education' has helped me do, I'll say it has done enof!

Ujujoan: What
Are you going to turn what I just said into some tribalistic comment

Ujujoan: You are being myopic as usual . . . this is NOT just about fighting for property, it's about preventing those greedy people from reaping where they dis not sow!
After years of deprivation and hard work, another woman comes from no where to take over? That's enough to drive anybody insane!

Ujujoan: Let me guess, the perpetrator is a yoruba man!
This is one thing I dislike about those people . . . their inability to keep 'the other woman' away.
Igbo women don't usually worry about thing like that because a real igbo man knows how to chop and clean mouth!
Any Igbo woman dating a married man knows she's not going to last, sooner or later he's going to dump her for the next available chick.
But a Yoruba man will get her pregnant and then go ahead to bring her into the home as a second wife, tufiakwa!

montelik: DDG has surely learned the hard way this season, Vidic doesn't understand "keeper's ball".

bebe2: ok, this is something that has been causing trouble btw husband and wives especially in d diaspora. i will give u a quick story so u can understand my point.
a lady living in one european country decided with her hubby that it was time for them to build a home in nigeria somewhere they can live in wen they both return home finally. the plan was the man shud start doing business to nigeria and the woman wud work and send money down to 9ja. they man kept shuffling between europe and nija.

few years later the house was built, during the opening ceremony one lady kept dancing wit the woman and her husband, thinking shewas just a well wisher the wife was hugging the lady and dancing with her until someone called her to the side and told her that d lady was her husband's wife.

the man called his family to help him beg her saying he still loved her and wants her to accept the situation and take the younger wife as her sista.

each morning the new wife wud greet the first wife wit both knees "good morning mummy" on one occassion the first wife called the second wife and started to scream at her "wat kinh of respect are u resoecting me, at night u will jump on my hubby's pe.nis in the morning u will call me mummy. they had a big quarrel and the first wife left the house she is now back in the europe, in her late 50s trying to work as hard as possible to build a house that she would retire to in nigeria.

following this incident lot of women here have properties in their names, but some pple think dat is wrong. but in a country like nigeria can really depend on ur husband for security in ur old age

dayokanu: ^^ The same friend closeness was what helped her in her exams, It was what helped the husband settle down in the UK

2hours might be too much but I get irritated when people start giving me ultimatum, And once the ultimatums start coming you never know what next. Maybe stop spending time calling your parents or I would divorce, stop staying long at work or I would divorce, Stop watching football or I would divorce. If she wan divorce let her go ahead and divorce

He was that way when they were dating if she went ahead to marry him like that why insist he changes now?

Soon now the guy go begin avoid coming home or staying late at work just to avoid such scenarios

zeefa: It has been like that even before we got married. I met her here &
Our courtship lasted for like 8months before we finally got married.
What baffles me is the fact that during our courtship, she never mentioned or complain about us. But I noticed sometimes, she jokingly challenged me of it but later dropped it. But I didn't bother about that then not until she made her intention known now.
Well, I op 2 play maturity on this & if she can't bend her rules, then...

zeefa: I don't really know how to handle this case cos its becoming a huge problem between me & my wife. I have tried to play it to the best of my knowledge but the situation is not getting in anyway better.

I & dayo have been friends for more than 15yrs. We grew up together those days in Ibadan and fortunately, we attended the same university to study different courses. We were in the same faculty of Engineering but different department.

The university I attended is without school accommodation, so we got an apartment close to eachother & sometimes he comes to my place & I go there too.

He loves Beans a lot back then and he happens 2 b a good cook. So most times, I visited him cos of the beans, laced up with Gari egba @ night.

However, we graduated & I was posted to delta state while he went to IMo state. Even at that, he comes to my place. I served in an oil & Gas company and we had enough money to spend.

I used to give him enough money those days cos he was given just a small allawe which cnt take care of all his needs.

After our youth service, I was retained & he moved to the uk for his masters courtesy of the little money I made during my service year.

After 3yrs, I moved too curtesy of him & he helped with part of the bills cos he was working and studying then.

He got married and after about a year I got to uk and I did mine too almost immediately.

But lately, I have been having issues with my wife over the closeness between me & dayo. we have a free calls to ourselves on O2 network. So we talk virtually everyday for more than two hour after work. And weekends,like saturdays, we move from weekend free landline to landline call to skype.

Just yesterday my wife warned me to desist from such altitude or face divorce.

Please, I need decent people in the house to advise me. I can't ask him to stop calling me or visiting me. He once told me about his wife having similar problem with our friendship too. We are just normal friends with no string attached.

Do I call both families together to resolve it or ignore the threat from my wife.

Thanks so much for taken your time to read.

kulyie: mr coogar I AM NOT BIS3XUAL.however there are somethings a lady will look at in a woman too for her to know if shes sexy,afterall i have what she has. she has mamary glands,i have too,she has bom bom,i have too,so what else.there are some intricasies in her laps,hips,br,,e,asts and bom bom i will have to look at critically,probe and asess before i come to the conclusion that she is sexy

kulyie: 1. You are so gross 2.i am not a lesbian,i am straight 3. its not only men that have the monopoly of judging or labelling a woman 's3xy' and 4.what makes you think i am a woman,have you seen me before :p what if i have a tail in between my legs 8-)

kulyie: lmao so i cannot admire my fellow nigerian female again,there has to be a s3xual connotation attached to it.nawa for you people o.perversion has so defiled your minds that you now equate admiration to being bi s3xual

boron10: Are you a Lesbian? Kindly leave the men to make their judgments

adaobi123: Chioma chukwuka nko ? I think she's stunning

kulyie: exactly.mercy johnson is sexy but not beautiful,ini edo is beautiful but not sexy,rita dominic is sexy,cute and beautiful.

kulyie: thats your own opinion.those women you listed are all beautiful in their own individuality,the only thing i dont like about tonto and the 2 mercies is their 'notice me by force attitude.if they stay away from the media,they probably will look classy plus if they stop shoving all their pictures on us all over nairaland,it will be good for them

CFCfan: Anyway, we are all beautifully created and se.xily endowed.

Ishilove: Kindly post a picture of your wife after she has had four kids. Then, and only then will you have any grounds for condemning someone else's wife.

aze: If you don get up to 4 kids, post ya pic here now.

Orikinla: [size=18pt]With her obesity?
Fat thighs and fat tummy?[/size]

CFCfan: She is amongst he sexiest, I'm not sure she is the sexiest though.
That 'award' has to go to one of Tonto Dikeh, Chika Ike, Mercy Aigbe, Rukky Sanda or Omotola.