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bjcole: Some f our women stil behave in this their fishy brain actitude, even going 2 d man's house can be dangerous, if he is alone. I ve seen too many things among bank ladies that i always ve little respect for d married ones. Lots of our married women r compromising these days & its annoying. D other lady working thruout d night wit her colleague in a hotel, more grease 2 ur elbow. As a married woman, there things u cant do, common sense.

you can see why men in nigeria never pity them when they get räped....
this is why the nigerian police never enforce the räpe law - the average nigerian woman has the fish brain - some of them want to be taken advantage of: what type of friendship exists between a tom cat and a rat? i am starting to think the attorney general has a point when he said 90% of the räpe cases in nigeria are caused by the women. reading some of the comments on this thread - it makes you think the average nigerian woman secretly wishes to be räped!

an uncle wants to see you in privacy in a hotel and a married woman wants to go - the same nigeria where most men don't believe in doing any favours without expecting a return.....the same nigeria where the police expect the victim(not the alleged) to show proof the sex wasn't consensual......they expect her to come to the station in tatters, bloodied, bruised with the räpist's semën still all over her pubes before they can believe she's räped!

she's comfortable....
when people are comfy to a point, they would start looking for discomfort. the brother has not mentioned a word about the past - and there she is trying to be holier than prophet mohammed!!!

did she not think about this when she was kissing the groom in church? how would any man truly forget this kind of incident? if the husband travels and the brother is visiting, would the man not be suspicious? how long is he going to be suspecting his brother could still be attempting to "shåg" the wife?

there's more harm if she opens up than if she closes the mouth......

chamotex: Your ban log can be viewed by moderators...you were banned in August 2012.

I don't know why the restrictions but those are the rules forwarded to me.

august 2012? meeee?
for what reason? are you sure it's not spambot?

dayokanu: Guffanti you don start again? Can you go 24hours without a goof?

coming from a tool that said mourinho played 4-3-3 with drogba and shevchenko, i find the above comment a bit rich. point remains torres scored those goals believing chelsea were still in it. had shakhtar pummelled juventus as expected by most pundits, chelsea woulda qualified and since torres has no control on that, only a billy goat like you would say his goals were meaningless....olodo - 10 kobo.....why should i care what the situation is in their group? only dayokanu leaves the main point and pursues pedantry!

never been banned in this section - i am a law abiding citizen. besides, why restrict prolific career criminals like dayokanu and bluediva? they are the salt of this section - without their crimes and numerous offences, this section wouldn't be the most intellectual section on this forum!

Ujujoan: There's something to be said for a man who cannot simply accept when he's wrong. Rather prefers to make unfounded accusation and baseless conclusions to justify his obviosuly marred perception. I rest my case!

how am i wrong in stating my opinion that the man shouldn't let his wife go n meet a yeye uncle? i think you have got issues bothering you. the op asked a question - i answered to the best of my knowledge and you are saying i am wrong? you need to be flogged @ the market square!

Ujujoan: 1. You are the one making assumption that the uncle wants to rape her, could be your imaginations. If that were to be the case, who cares how he feel about her showing up with a colleague If can take a hike in the lagoon if he doesn't like it. He he refuses to give her the money, then she is free to assume he wanted to rap3 her and desist from further communications with him!

it's not an assumption - it's the usual modus operandi.
you are talking as if this is the first time these rich men have been using this ploy to get gullible women molested.

2. So if she were single, is it okay to go to a hotel room and be rap3d

if she's single - she can bloody do whatever she likes with herself. some nigerian ladies love to be räped with the way they toy with risks. after what happened to cynthia, should this thought even be entertained?

3. Why can't she go herself WITH the male colleague, instead on sending him to go for the cheque Because she's marraied and not single So it's okay for a single woman to meet a man in a hotel room and not okay for a married woman So in order words, she's going for something snister like prost1tution . . . Which, according to you, is ok if she's single!

with a married woman - at least acknowledge the fact she has a husband and some level of decency is expected. single women can do whatever they want to do - no man would be held responsible for her stüpidity - that's not the case for a married woman.

[quote author=app_lord]^^^ An Important summary of a £ 50 mila center forward achievements, in CL glory.
*clapping*
mtcheew! coogar a CFC football ignoramus ...[/quote]my toe nail knows much more about chelsea than you do....

PLS KEEP WATCHING THOSE THAT CAME TO WATCH FOOTBALL IN A VIEWING CENTER. Pundit ma ass!!!
"common chelsea" correction noted AND taken.
Come on chelsea!!! CFC 4 LIFE

at last, the buffoon realises his folly.....
ewu ara.....

Ujujoan: Why are you still arguing
You claim you are not saying she's going to prost1tute herself, and yet you ignore when I say she should go with company!

and you think this uncle would be interested if she goes in there with her colleagues? naivety should be your middle name. it seems some of you naija women have a rapë wish on yourselves....

Isn't going with company (could even be her husband) going to prevent any planned molestation, which you claim to be worried about, from happening
You should just say "okay no problem, she should go only if she's got company". Stop arguing unnccessarily! pheeeeeeeew!

if she had to go with colleagues to feel safe, why go at all?
she's married - she's not single. if she can go with colleagues, why not ask a male colleague to pick up the cheque and remove any doubt completely?

Sam Milla: When did Gulder and Star became your product?

the nigerian gulder and star is different from what is sold else where. the alcoholic content is different. the nigerian version is miles stronger!

Ujujoan: Peple get knocked down by hit and run vehicles everyday, should I stop going out
Cynthia was killed by stranger, the man is no starnger to her . . .

so only strangers can räpe and molest women?

Like I said, if she's worried about being molested, she should go with her colleagues, or even her husband!
What I dont agree to is you guys claiming she's going there to prostitute herself . . . that's not neccessarily true!

i didn't say she's going there to pröstitute herself - i only said its not appropriate knowing the kind of society nigeria is. the society does not protect women who get molested by men...rich men! any man who allows such is offering his own wife to be molested and the same society would turn around and blame him later for allowing such in the first place..

Ujujoan: Not realy . . .
I've worked in short project where the office was actually a hotel room!
It's the only sure place to get constant power supply. No extra costs since you are already paying for lodging! When you think about it, it actually makes the most sense!

in this case, you are the one in the hotel - your territory and you would have some safety measures in place in case your visitor tries any stunt. in the topic of discussion, the wife wants to visit a man in his hotel room. when cynthia did this same thing and was räped and eventually murdered, 90% of the nigerian population blamed her including her own father!

nigerian women - you would never learn!

Ujujoan: You guys are only foaming through the mouth because the case here is a woman. If it were a man, nobody will raise an eyelid! That's the double standards that irritates me the most.

men can take care of themselves, women cannot!
it seems you people forget the society you live in.

This is Nigeria, bankers have a hard time meeting their target. While she's waiting for oga big man to send the money to her account, some other sharp marketer (could even be male) have gone to collect the cheque sharp sharp.
Now if you were the customer in question, which would you prefer? Going to the bank to send it or asking for the Marketer to come pick up the cheque

i would never ask a married woman to come to my hotel room to pick up any cheque - it's so disrespectful. why can't they meet somewhere else to do the transaction? if this woman gets molested - is there a law in nigeria that would protect her?

Except you are outrightly accusing the man of wanting to sexually molest the lady . . .
In that case, she shouldn't go alone. Markerets are advised to move in a group anyways . . .

only a man with an ulterior motive would ask a married woman to come to a venue where there's privacy and a bed......

Richvkunt: @OP,
Anything involving two parties is no secret. The only option to save yourself from emotional and mental torture is to open up and confess your sins to your husband and hope he can find it in his heart to forgive you.
I can not predict the out come of this confession,but for the sake of your sanity I think it is the only solution to your problem.

would you forgive your own spouse if she comes to you with such tales?
why do nigerians advise people wrongly? she decided not to tell her husband before marriage - why is it appropriate now? you people are focusing on the relationship between the couple - what about the relationship of the man and his brother? would this man feel comfortable having his own brother in his house? jeeeeeez - nigerians are clueless!

Ujujoan: Does it mean he doesn't trust his wife to be faithful to him
If my husband deprives me of such, I'll assume he's accusing me of possibly sleeping with the man in question, and that alone is irritating!
Not saying bad things don't happen in hotels, but so does lots of business e.t.c
I've had meetings in hotel rooms with MEN sometimes till late into the night . . . Thank God I don't have a don't have a paranoid husband!

you would have to explain why this uncle cannot simply transfer the money to your account or meet you somewhere else to complete the talks. nigerian women are the roots of their own problems. you live in a society that oppresses women and yet you people still get lured by the tricks of the evil men.

at least in the saner world, there's maximum protection for the women. should this woman get räped now, people like you would blame her for going to see a man in the hotel. police would not arrest the culprit as the burden of proof is on the woman to prove it wasn't consensual. any man that allows his wife to meet another man in any nigerian hotel is a rëtard!

igaro: Is it proper for a guy to allow his wife, a God fearing woman, the leeway to go meet an uncle (not related o, just family friends) at a hotel he's lodged in, simply because he wants to assist her with a deposit into his account which will inturn reflect as a boost on her own target in the bank for that month?

in nigeria - it's plain adultery!
anywhere else on the planet where men are less depraved and women have rights, then no biggie! the husband should not allow such.

the wife's mother should stay.......
she would know best how to handle her own daughter...

basher: Yes there is Agege bread in London but it's only nigerians and some other (wide azzed) Africans who eat it.

white people living in nigerian communities eat them too.
canning town, old kent road, woolwich, dalston, deptford, hackney - you would find caucasians in some of the nigerian restaurants in these areas eating jollof rice, pounded yam, porridge and agege bread. they love gulder and star too with isi ewu peppersoup!

[quote author=app_lord]moooooron![/quote]you are a tool......

U knw nothin abt chelsea. Is it torres and this crop of players that won champions league last seazn. Where was torres when drogba and company limited was making history?? Ans- warming the bench. Mtcheew !!!

but you know much more about chelsea from that mud house in gombe state, anuofia! was it not torres that got the goal that nailed barca's coffin? was it not torres that won chelsea's only corner when he came on in munich? how can you say torres did not play his part in the victory of last season?

keep watchin back of tv. Anu!
jobless chelsea hater. Chelsea is out, leave us in peace and walk out of this thread.
Common chelsea !!! CFC 4 life.

keep foaming in the mouth like an epileptic patient.....
you sound like a chicken trying to lay an egg - "common" chelsea? ibime should really educate his wards on this section. ibime disgraces this forum by letting agbero okadamen share the same membership with well meaningful pundits like myself!

the nairaland crew should visit cheshire this weekend - kidnap giggs/scholes till the end of the season....honestly, i would be so pissed if i see giggs/scholes in the line up. carrick is a starter and so is fletcher or cleverley! young, van persie and rooney are also starters. cleverley felt his calf - hopefully it's a precautionary move to sub him last night.

PortHarcourtBoy: Bros no vex oh, you dey Prison?

do i have to be in prison to know what happens in there?
bros no vex oh, you get common sense?

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Why do Nigerian articles read like a primary 1 English composition (no offense to those little cuties.....they at least have the excuse of still learning).

Aren't there editors anymore? [/quote]leave naija editors alone jor - go and buy your agege bread.

agege bread and ewa agoyin have been in london for more than 15 years. this is no news....what should be news is the fact that nigerian foods like eba and egusi have now been included in prison menu to cater for nigerian prisoners.

Ibime: The Michael Carrick (cant run, cant defend properly) of Chelsea (Obi Mikel) is given new 5 year contract.

mikel obi is chelsea's most consistent player......
it says so much about his quality that 4-5 different super class managers continue to rate his skills. a defensive midfielder does not have to run or snap at heels. mikel is the equivalent of lucas, makelele, carrick and busquets. chelsea's flaws are elsewhere - not at the feet of mikel obi! a contract well-deserved!!!

where is chamotex to post the youtube of those animals debating mikel in naija?

chelsea fans are a disgrace....
before now, they moaned torres has not scored in a millennium. nando got a brace last night and they are still groaning his goals don't matter.....what kind of a crass mentality is this? as at the time torres scored those goals, were chelsea already out of the tournament? had shakhtar copped a draw in ukraine, would chelsea not have qualified? how can torres control what happens in ukraine? instead of the fools to blame di matteo for crashing chelsea, they are busy blaming torres......

shame on all you spastic plastics....i hope roman increases the season tickets so some of you twits just to piss you fools off some more. they even claimed torres goal in barcelona didn't matter - this is the same team that crashed out of a last minute barca equaliser in 2009. torres scored the goal that finally broke barca's resolve and his goal didn't matter? i think chelsea deserve to crash out - this is what uefa get for letting a club that finished 6th last season participate in elite europe.........chelsea should go fück themselves!

[quote author=BABE!]Me neither. Lets make this "Mrs coogar" thing official already


Front row? Nope! We gave idowuogbo the last front row seat .. wedding cake? Yes! [/quote]idowu would finish the whole wedding cake in the front row. i don't trust idowu near anything "baked"

in a nutshell, these 2 brothers have been in your cookie jar? dang - better not tell your husband.....it would fuel jealousy cos his ego would be smashed! if i were you, i would take this secret to my grave....