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FamilyRe: Childfree In Nigeria? by Coolabbie:
[quote author=post=88241980:]Hmm...

Well, I lost my Mama some years back. The pain I felt and still feeling is something I don't want any loved one to feel.

I am a worrier. And as the first born, I already have three 'children' I constantly worry about especially with this covid ish. I can't imagine how intense it would be if I decide to have a child.

Besides, I am selfish. I cannot sacrifice my peace of mind just to have a 'mini-me'.

I am also a control freak. No child deserves me micro-managing their life and I can easily see myself doing that. I don't think I have the capacity to raise well-adjusted children. I'm still finding my way myself.

My threshold for pain is very low. nuff said.

Yea yea, I will grow old alone. But as an introvert, that does not scare me at all. Besides I already have a substantial financial plan that is expected to see me through retirement. God willing.

People say I will change my mind when I get to my thirties but the joker is I already knew, way back in secondary school.

Caveat: I have never had sex and from my last checkup, I am perfectly okay. So this is not a decision borne out of dAmAgEd WoMb from abortionsssss. Nor from heartbreaks.

I live a charmed life, daddy spoils me a lot. I am happy and life's good.

But if I had an option, I will choose not to be born because after all the pleasures, possessions, and qualifications, what is this life?

So yeah, let dem babies remain in heaven, we will have a grand reunion when we meet. grin[/quote]
PoliticsRe: Nigeria: No Police, No Military, No Media. Just An Order. (photos) by Coolabbie: 8:55pm On Apr 08, 2020
Foodforthought:
Don't mind those mumus. Took pictures of Lagos and Abuja to post to say Lockdown is effective. Come to rural zones and see movement. Soldiers and Wafi boys were fighting wwe the other day.
Since you are in the village, take pictures of your ghetto and post on nairaland.
Instead of complaining every time like the fóól that you are.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria: No Police, No Military, No Media. Just An Order. (photos) by Coolabbie: 8:52pm On Apr 08, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr Nice
We are the the real niggarrrs of Africa
grin grin grin
HealthRe: 70% Chicago & Milwaukee Coronavirus Deaths Are Black by Coolabbie: 8:31pm On Apr 08, 2020
That is because those areas are densely populated by blacks.
If you look at most areas in America, blacks dying from covid are not even up to 3%.
It is simple science.

The fùccking media should show the true picture and stop fear mongering
HealthRe: BREAKING: Chinese Medical Team Arrives In Nigeria (Photos) -Channels TV by Coolabbie: 6:55pm On Apr 08, 2020
God please we should not hear negative news.

Let the recovery process continue as it is because our government don't have sense.
HealthRe: Coronavirus Victims Were Burned Alive In Wuhan – Report by Coolabbie: 6:39pm On Apr 08, 2020
Jakumo:
China is the only nation on earth whose government sells the internal organs of executed prisoners, as a matter of state policy, so it is not surprising at all to learn that the Chinese government recently burnt perhaps thousands of their own people alive, in a profoundly evil step beyond anything that was done even by the notorious Nazi regime during World War 2.

Those who welcome the pathologically greedy Chinese to Africa, have either been blinded by the propaganda machine that is the Chinese government, or perhaps are a just little slow mentally. Chinese nationals in Africa are there to steal natural resources and kill anyone who gets in their way. They are criminals through and through, therefore any African nation that boots them all out, will have prevented a whole chit-load of grief in the future.

Say NO To Chinese annexation of Africa, and to any Chinese reading these words in Africa, please just phuck off back to China, and stay the phuck there eating those diseased bats and baby rats to your heart's content, you greedy-asz, devious motherpluckers. Y'all ain't wanted in BLACK Africa.
Thank you!

Those slant-eyed basstards are responsible for the decimation of wildlife in Africa.

Our elephants, rhinos, leopards, lions and other wildlife are going extinct because the Chinese man was cursed with small prick and needs 'medicine' to enlarge it.

They are a nasty breed of people without soul
HealthRe: Please I Need Urgent Advice. by Coolabbie: 6:29pm On Apr 08, 2020
I have nothing nice to say so I won't say anything.

Op, God help you to come out of this.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Coolabbie: 6:06pm On Apr 08, 2020
Heigod!

I have watched and re-watched that scene Ike stood up and slammed that door.
I don't know if it's because of boredom or because of ovulation or something else but damn...

The testosterone that Ike showed in that small scene alone has me salivating grin grin

Ike smash me I am your door

Abeg lemme go and be productive. Satan I rebuke you.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by Coolabbie: 5:43pm On Apr 08, 2020
Mehn!
I just watched the preview of the reality show.

Ike slamming the door and Mercy telling him that she can smash his car got me really hyped.

Whew, I can't wait grin grin

signed
#AMessyBitchThatLivesForDrama grin grin
HealthRe: Lagos Discharges One More Coronavirus Patient by Coolabbie: 1:09pm On Apr 08, 2020
theostarboy:
grin grin grin
Something that is killing many in UK that's what we are winning, abeg make una no DE use us please, lagos treating malaria with Amalar not Corona
Go there let it kill you na.
waste of space
HealthRe: There Is Something Sinister About China by Coolabbie: 12:56pm On Apr 08, 2020
Witchersunited:
do you have any evidence aside from propaganda sources to back this submission?
Keep on defending them. Kiss their arsé very well and lick it clean

It will never change the fact that the Chinese see you as a monkey and despise your entire being.
FamilyRe: Lockdown Starvation by Coolabbie: 8:22pm On Apr 06, 2020
What is the name of your former moniker?
FamilyRe: A closed mouth may soon turn to a dead body.Please your help is needed by Coolabbie: 8:13pm On Apr 06, 2020
favoryte33:
You could be d one to be banned. you dey call moderator mad abi? As for dat roseb1,it seems 2 me she's one old,unmarried, bitter fowl.
So this Alfa mail dey beg too?

okokobioko grin grin grin
FamilyRe: What's The Most Painful Thing Someone Ever Said To You? by Coolabbie: 2:13pm On Apr 03, 2020
Dagger111:
Looking at u, i am very sure that your hole can accommodate a whole building. U only proof that woman wrong by aborting a dozen of abortions. U too dey fvck, that's why. If nt, she wouldn't have said so. Pele Iya Masters.
E pain you say at your big age, you are still writing jamb while she's done with school? grin grin

Ntoor gi
FamilyRe: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by Coolabbie: 6:54pm On Apr 01, 2020
Op good thing you told the girl to forgive him.
Since he's done with her, he won't go near her again.
You are a good Christian woman.


Please come back and update us when the animal rapes your children both the boys and girls.
And don't say god forbid because it will and must happen.
HealthRe: Ghanaians Abandon A Chinese Man In Bus Because Of Corona Virus(pics,video) by Coolabbie: 10:14am On Mar 23, 2020
See all the inferior slaves that just commented above.

Go and research what Asians were doing to Africans during the time of ebola.

If you like kiss a Chinese man to show you are not racist, it will not stop them from hating your black àss.

Dolts
HealthRe: COVID-19: Burkina Faso Politician Dies. 'Prepare For Worst', WHO Warns Africa by Coolabbie: 2:10pm On Mar 19, 2020
DropsMic:
Lol... It doesn't change the fact that I am a liability to my parents. God kill me
HealthRe: COVID-19: Burkina Faso Politician Dies. 'Prepare For Worst', WHO Warns Africa by Coolabbie: 12:28pm On Mar 19, 2020
DropsMic:
Africa is a liability continent
I know it's frustration from selling your cheap wonky websites
HealthRe: COVID-19: Burkina Faso Politician Dies. 'Prepare For Worst', WHO Warns Africa by Coolabbie: 11:51am On Mar 19, 2020
DropsMic:
Africa is a liability continent..
Then kill yourself
BusinessRe: Why Is Nairaland Not Monetized by Coolabbie: 11:20pm On Mar 17, 2020
^^ Chest beaters as usual
FamilyRe: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 7:51pm On Mar 15, 2020
Vyvyanvyvy:
We are already at home and nothing has happened. My son is happy to be home and he is happily playing with his sisters
God bless you.

Protect him, Mama.

Spoil him with hugs and kisses.

Thank you for doing the right thing.
BusinessRe: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Coolabbie: 8:34am On Mar 14, 2020
teemy:
I opened a new transfer account and selected Naira. When it arrived on my account next day, it went into savings at N366/$. (Though on payoneer it was written it would be at N359/$)

Thanks for the advice.
Which bank please?
I only get 350/$
FamilyRe: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 1:05am On Mar 14, 2020
sweetdude001:
Some people dont write to get likes..
I know. Wanted to get a rise out of him.

Succeeded
FamilyRe: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 12:25am On Mar 14, 2020
Kiezodumah:
If u write and live for likes then u must be more stupid than I thought. I shit u not, dolt
E pain am well well grin grin grin grin

Nonsense writer
FamilyRe: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 12:03am On Mar 14, 2020
unimagin:
@Op
I'm very very mad at you. I don't know a befitting negative adjective to qualify you. Infact if I can see u now in person I must really really deal with you. Id.iot you want the innocent man to accept a thief that even your siblings rejected. God punish you
Even this useless single father raising a bàstard is also talking.

God also punish you and that your born throway.
FamilyRe: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 12:02am On Mar 14, 2020
Xkale1234:
Madam take him to his father or put him in boarding school or if you can bring him to kano there is school for stubborn children you will be paying the people monthly for feeding and you will provide clothes for him, no going outside the school premises they are all inside you keep him for more than 1 year for him to change e.t.c
What have your school done for all the useless almajiri born throway in Kano?
FamilyRe: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 9:17pm On Mar 13, 2020
hohafrank:
Then rent one room apartment for him close to you for proper monitoring.
It seems your nagging wife has nagged out the remaining sense from your brain
FamilyRe: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 9:07pm On Mar 13, 2020
Kiezodumah:
Madam let's be sincere here. If u knew ur husband had 2 kids for another woman ,would u have accepted to marry him huh Lets say u agreed to marry him despite having kids outside wedlock, would u have allowed those children to stay with their dad,ursef and their step siblings huh. Let's assume u allowed them stay, wud u have loved them
unconditionally like ur own without discrimination huh
I won't ansa those above questions for u cos u know them already in ur heart .
Humans are selfish by nature. However, most women are selfish, wicked and inhumane when it comes to reversal of roles in this same issue. They treat househelps with disdain and inhuman tendencies let alone the children of their husbands from another woman: those ones are dead already.
Women always want to have their way all the time. Let's call a spade what it is; madam even if u were the richest woman on earth ,ur husband did u a great favor marrying u and even accommodating of ur children .
You hurriedly came to NL to condemn him and garner sympathy. If u like pay 100% of those children's bill, I don't care.

The greatest,honest,most sincere ,best and most responsible thing u can ever do for ur children espply you son is to locate his biological father or his relatives. I don't mean to sound judgemental but u shud cover ur face in shame.
Except u want to be totally elusive to ur responbilty as a mother or u want to be overtly stupid, how wud u open ur legs to conceive for a man whose relatives u don't anything about huh Then u come here and pass judgement on ur husband for even allowing u to bring home one of ur kids ..
All u wud be doing now is playing mind games on that man, denying him sex or food etc. God wud judge u if u do that : I no curse u o,na the truth I tell u so.
Go find the relatives of ur ex husband. Go back to where he used to live. People know him there ,his friends ,his work place etc ..so many ways to search for him... His tribesmen..Somone close wud know his village..
That is the best thing right now u can do for dose children.. Not threatening ur current husband that u want to leave the house to go and protect ur son out there .And u will think when he comes home someday ,he doesn't meet u 1st day , 1 week u yet to return ,then he wud be forced to tell u to come home with him.. If that happens ,it just dey plaster over the cracks on a pillar holding the building of a house. One day he go collapse again and u go to square one..

Many of us here just dey talk selfishly. Ask her about her first marriage ,that's if she even did any proper wedding sef.
U claim not to know ur in-laws whereabouts and ur 1st 2 children's father travelled out. That means u didn't do any traditional rites to say the least. Cos if u guys actually did, his people wud come/ go over to ur family house to do the custodial things..Both families wud get to know one another and the rest is history. That's where the foundational problem emanated from. Not until that is solved forget it, nothing u do now wud profer a lasting solution.
Your story is not complete madam until tell us about ur first affair with the oda man.. U can't tell us that u guys don't communicate @ all... Ur husband try sef.
From history ,most women tend to still sleep with the father of their children from previous marriages whether he is the country or not. When he comes back, things go still happen normally like they used to..
All this long thesis not one single like.

It must be filled with nonsense then.
I jump and pass
FamilyRe: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 9:03pm On Mar 13, 2020
ronaldbecky:
i was reading this as a guest,bcus of this i have to login and quote u,which i normally dont do..u r very stupid and most foolish person to ever come across...u r an ass hole..idiot
grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Coolabbie: 8:54pm On Mar 13, 2020
liverpool72:
Let dem come and stay with u and see how it feels, evening newspaper
Men are talking, this idïøt with carrot dîck is also putting mouth.
You don increase your dick size?

Oponu

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