Politics › Re: Geoffrey Onyeama Presents Letters Of Credence (Photos) To Ambassadors by Coolgent(m): 10:45am On Mar 06, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Soldier & Girlfriend Who Supply Ammunition, Uniform To Bandits Caught In Zamfara by Coolgent(m): 10:00am On Mar 06, 2021 |
Tell us their names.
NCAN |
Family › Re: I Disowned My Mother by Coolgent(m): 12:40am On Mar 06, 2021 |
You disowned your own biological Mother instead of correcting her with reasons that will make her change towards your wife. U can disown anyone but not your parents considering what she has past through for your sake. |
Politics › Re: Court Remands Seven Yoruba Men Over Shasha Market Mayhem, Killings by Coolgent(m): 12:30am On Mar 06, 2021 |
duro4chang: Can you see injustice? What injustice are you talking about? |
Politics › Re: Women Kidnapped As Bandits Hit Dingyadi, Hometown Of Police Affairs Minister by Coolgent(m): 8:59am On Mar 05, 2021 |
AsomughaChuks02: The north will implode if they don't tell themselves the truth and put an end to radical islam which they are using nepotism and sharia to advance. 90% of those bandits aint practicing any religion, they are wicked souls imported from various african countries |
Crime › Re: Ekwegbalu James: Nigerian Sentenced To Death In Vietnam For Drug Trafficking by Coolgent(m): 8:50am On Mar 05, 2021 |
Fahdiga: Some of these people are from other tribes but they usually change their names to Igbo names before traveling out See this one  |
Family › Re: I Broke Up With Her by Coolgent(m): 1:07am On Mar 05, 2021 |
bwambasolomon: I have a fiancée whom I started dating about two years ago. We work together and we are on the same level, and earn the same salary. Each time we hanged out to just have fun, if we got to a place where prices were too expensive, I would say to her but this things are much cheaper elsewhere.
For example, we went to a place though inside the same premises, one part of the lounge sells bottled water for 250 while the other one sells bottled water for 500, she then suggested that we go to the part where water was sold for 500. Note that it was in the same premises and there was absolutely no difference between the two, it's not like one was VIP area and the other was not. We ended up going to the 500 naira side. All that we ate which of course was double the price, I paid.
Each time we went to the mall, we buy things normally. But there's something about malls which some of you may have noticed, certain things such as pots, plastic rubbers, electronics, and so on are usually unreasonably exorbitant. So I said it would be better for us not to buy things that were too expensive that we could get outside for cheaper prices, but we could buy other things whose prices were reasonable. The next thing she started saying was that I don't have class, it's classy people that buy such things.
So one day we went to a pharmacy in that same mall, because she wanted to get some drugs, the price they called for her was about three times what it was outside, so she said it was better to go outside to buy it. So I just told her that since she has class she should buy it now, the next thing she started insulting me, she gave me the insult of my life. That wasn't the only scenario, there were many other cases like that.
She had started to stay with me after a while. Every thing in the house belongs to me, and I made sure everywhere was conducive for us. Air conditioners every and so on, good house, good compound, surveillance cameras and so on. Initially I was shouldering all responsibilities like food, the car washer who washes the both of our cars, the security man, fuel in the generator, NEPA light, repairs in the house and so on.
Please note that we work in the same place and earn same amount. Sometimes when I was short of cash, since I knew that her own money would still be there, I would borrow from her to buy food stuffs and other miscellaneous, and pay back by next salary.
She contributed just about 10% of expenditures in the house which was majorly just food stuffs. Note that I buy much more foodstuffs 5 times more than what she buys.
That was not just it, the relationship was usually filled with arguments, I can hardly have a conversation with her, she would begin to argue.
I want to ask few questions here: (1)please is there anyone who doesn't know that Egusi causes pimples for those who are prone to having pimples? (2) Is there any one who doesn't know that if something is very hot, it is not advisable to put in the fridge? (3) here anyone who doesn't know that garlic is medicinal? (4) Is there any one who does not know that it is not advisable to put on a generator when it has been drenched by rain?
But this girl will argue with me, insisting that I must put on the gen when rain has beaten it, because apparently, it is not her property. And the fridge is also not hers which is why she won't care if it gets spoilt. In short there's usually too much argument over what is clear for everyone to see, thereby it is always difficult to have a conversation with her.
I was later transferred out of the state we were, so I decided that because of her, I won't take anything away from the house, I would buy everything I need in the new place I had been posted to. So I bought a bigger TV for the house we both shared and took the smaller one to my new place of posting. I bought my mattress, kitchen utensils, got an apartment, and bought every thing I needed in the new place. So now, I have most things in two pairs, just so she would be comfortable.
Please note that we aren't yet married, and I agreed to not having sex with her because that was she wanted, I respected that. The only thing I know we do was romance.
So I started insisting that it was high time for her to be responsible, that we can't both be working and she won't be buying reasonable amount of food stuff because I noticed that sometimes, she would go out and buy 3 packs of spaghetti, which doesn't make sense to me. She said her dad is the one that buys food stuffs in her house and her mum contributes for petty projects. But I am not her Dad, I have my own mind. Also note that she didn't volunteer to bring any amount for my project oo, because I won't want a woman to contribute 1 naira to the houses I am building. All I said was that she should be contributing reasonable amounts for food stuffs in the house. We hardly stay two weeks without fights, she must look for one insult or the other.
We went for counselling and the pastors said she has to be contributing for expenditures in the house, we agreed on 60% to 40% sharing formula for all expenditures. So me as the man would contribute 60 while she will contribute 40. Please note that rent was not inclusive, as I volunteered to pay for the rent in the house we were and for my apartment in my new place of posting. Later on, when she began to see the brunt of the responsibilities that I used to bear she started saying we (Me and the Pastors) are forcing her to contribute. But I didn't know these Pastors before, that was my first time of meeting them, she was the one who knew them before me. But simply because they told her the truth, she started saying we are forcing her.
Please I need your honest opinions on this issue. Thank you. Screenshot this... If you ever marry that lady you will surely regret evsr been married in your life. |
Celebrities › Re: Samuel Ajibola Married His Primary School Class Captain (Photos) by Coolgent(m): 9:52pm On Mar 04, 2021 |
Nonexistent: Liars. When did primary school pupils start to dey write names of noise makers? Bro which primary school did you attend? |
Politics › Re: No More Congratulatory Messages For Bawa - EFCC Warns by Coolgent(m): 12:29am On Mar 04, 2021 |
AGF Malami from Kebbi state appoint Bawa from Jega LG Kebbi state. Tinubu must ne capture and face full wrath of the law |
Christianity Etc › Re: Man Donates His Family House To Christ Embassy, Family About To Be Thrown Out by Coolgent(m): 12:26am On Mar 04, 2021 |
It's high time for efcc to start hunting for motherfucking yahoo yahoo churches |
Crime › Re: Kidnappers Who Pose As Women Online To Rob, Kill Victims Arrested In Rivers by Coolgent(m): 11:29pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Three of the suspects arrested by FIBRT include Micheal Eneji (30), Nwachukwu Emeka (22) and Success Okeke (27). If they were not caught... We will blindly concluded that it's handwork of Fulani  |
Education › Re: Kwara CAN: Hijab Use Will Expose Christian Pupils To Terrorist Attacks by Coolgent(m): 12:37am On Feb 28, 2021 |
CAN hipocrisy is really astonishing |
Health › Re: Tracy Kiss, Bodybuilder Drinks Semen Regularly To Ward Off Coronavirus (Pics) by Coolgent(m): 12:27am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Chai make them no start Kidnapping to havest semen o, Our brothers go soon start selling their semen, new or tokunbo one |
Politics › Re: Zamfara Bandits Leader, Halilu Speaks On Ravaging Insecurity Make Demands by Coolgent(m): 7:39am On Feb 27, 2021 |
70% of those bandits aint Nigerians they are important from Niger, Chad, Mali and other African countries. Thats why they covered their face to avoid detection (cos they have distinctive face marks) |
Politics › Re: Sunday Igboho Finally Arrives Lagos, Meets Afenifere (Photo) by Coolgent(m): 7:33am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Agbero turned to our brothers hero |
Health › Re: Man Found Dead Alongside His Girlfriend In Delta Left 'Suicide Note' by Coolgent(m): 7:30am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Broken2020: I don’t believe it. Even if he had to commit suicide did he murder his girlfriend before committing suicide or was his girlfriend part of the suicide plan?
I conclude he was held hostage and made to drop that suicide post on Facebook before they were murdered. Exactly. |
Education › Re: Kwara Approves Wearing Of Hijab In Public Schools by Coolgent(m): 10:20pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
Welcome development! Those against it should ne ready to relocate to Rivers |
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman: COVID-19 Comment On Private Jets Slipped From My Mouth by Coolgent(m): 3:22pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Chronic womaniser! |
Family › Re: Is It Right For A Man To Marry His Sister In Law? by Coolgent(m): 3:02pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Cuttycool: It is totally wrong for him to marry his wifes sister, it is an abomination. The man deserves a sound slapp to bring him back to reality. He is wicked and has betrayed his wife. Madam you can't just criminalize something without genuine reason |
Family › Re: Is It Right For A Man To Marry His Sister In Law? by Coolgent(m): 2:59pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
nnewa: Hello NLanders, please help advise me on how to counsel this brother of mine who lost his wife about 2 years ago during child birth.
Now the man wants to re marry and is considering his late wife's sister. (Whether out of true desire, wish that the sister can take better care of her late sisters baby or another reason) it's worthy to note also that the lady in question is also advancing in age and likely to settle with any available man.
Please is it morally, culturally or religiously permitted to do so, he has been asking me In Islam it's allowed, it's also allowed in our tradition/culture. If i set both of them aside... It's morally right so that she can take good care of her nephew. |
Career › Re: Why Do Morticians Knock At Door Before Entering The Mortuary? Scary Experiences by Coolgent(m): 2:45pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
engrchykae: Some guys came to buy moi moi (the one in peak milk can),paid the seller and while they were leaving they told the woman to come around this side and collect her tins. When the woman finished selling,she was short on time,she now remembered that some guys told her to come around for her tins,she now found the tins on the door of the morgue,she parked her tins,she saw the chief mortician and narrated her story,the mortician asked her if she can recognise the guys,she affirmed ,the mortician opened the door and let her in,she saw the three guys lying on the floor with fragments of moi moi on their shirts. Her head swelled up. Life is bigger than what we can see Brother dont be offended, are you Lie Muhammed senior/junior brother? |
Politics › Re: Oluwo Akanbi To Yoruba: Address Ritual Killings In South-West With Your Energy by Coolgent(m): 2:39pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Uzodinma: I Begged Buhari To Help Me Deal With IPOB Militants In Imo by Coolgent(m): 7:34am On Feb 25, 2021 |
U did what any sane leader will do |
Crime › Re: 12-Year-Old Boy Shoots His 15-Year-Old Girlfriend Dead In Jigawa by Coolgent(m): 7:30am On Feb 25, 2021 |
oz4real83: Not surprising, one aboki said getting guns in the North was just like buying bread across the street. Unfortunately these people hide under religion, who will even imagine that a 13 year old and a 15year old are even in a relationship in the North of all places? Who will imagine an Hisbah commander being in a hotel with a married woman, also in the north? Hipocrisy at its maximum  Lies from the pit of hell! That person must be from Niger Republic. You can't used the action of just one person to judge thousands, can u count the numbers of Pastors that was caught in the act? Let alone ordinary Hisbah official. Well i dont blame your ignorance |
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Woman For Trying To Sell Her Baby For ₦40,000 In Ebonyi (Photo) by Coolgent(m): 7:25am On Feb 25, 2021 |
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Education › Re: Inside Edo University, Iyamho, Hostels (Photos) by Coolgent(m): 6:53am On Feb 25, 2021 |
compromise: Edo University, Iyamho, Hostels Not Observing COVID-19 Protocols
New hostel complex built withing 3 months by the Obaseki administration is substandard. Lacks class and is already falling apart even before being inhabited.. Students are cramped 6 to a room as against the COVID-19 guidelines it was never this bad during Oshiomole's tenure. Simple repair that can be done with the money u used in buying powder foundation, u are expecting govt to do. Show us something big abeg |
Politics › Re: Ayade’s Aide, Freeman Godwin Threatens Suicide Over Unpaid Salaries by Coolgent(m): 6:41am On Feb 25, 2021 |
Prussian: Ayade has more than 500 SAs. That shouldn't be an excuse i knew a state in the north that has over 600 S.As and SSA but he usually paid salary on or before 24 of each month |
Romance › Re: Lady, 30, Dupes Lover N10m, Dumps Him For Another Man (pic) by Coolgent(m): 12:30am On Feb 24, 2021 |
Gold digger@ Handle her to Vaseline crew |
Travel › Re: N100 Daily Tax: Kano Keke Riders Begin Indefinite Strike, As People Climb Trucks by Coolgent(m): 4:37pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
NaijaOlosho: I don't care about the North
All of you get out  Olosho shut the Bleep up  |
Travel › Re: N100 Daily Tax: Kano Keke Riders Begin Indefinite Strike, As People Climb Trucks by Coolgent(m): 4:36pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
edochie12: Here in onitsha,a keke driver will pay nothing less than 1000 a day and ordinary hundred they cant Don't mind them. 80% of our people dont like to comply when it comes to issue of paying tax and yet the expect government to cater for all their neeeds. In my state Keke napep/Okada aint paying any kobo to government � |
Politics › Re: Hijab Crisis: Kwara Is Muslim State, Take Your Mission Schools To Rivers - MURIC by Coolgent(m): 4:33pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Nice one |
Nairaland General › Re: Confidence Imuo: Surviving Car Accident That Somersaulted 5 Times Is A Miracle by Coolgent(m): 9:18am On Feb 23, 2021 |
tsephanyah: Scammer. He will now use this to fool his gullible followers Don't spoil his business o |