Romance › Re: Man Gifts Lover N30 Million Tesla Car For Valentine's Day Celebration (Photos) by Coolgent(m): 2:42pm On Feb 15, 2021 |
Bola146: God please bless my future husband financially and abundantly  Chai why not pray for yourself to buy it fir your future husband |
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests Ex-Oyo Deputy Chief Registrar, Jailed Her Over Dud Cheque(photo) by Coolgent(m): 2:36pm On Feb 15, 2021 |
PaperTubes1: Maybe she didn't do it on purpose or the check bounced Really? So EFCC doesn't follow due process before her final conviction? |
Family › Re: My Sister Is Missing (photos) by Coolgent(m): 8:50am On Feb 15, 2021 |
Trimjos: Rabi has been missing since Friday 12th February 2021.
Last seen was at Suleja Niger state. Please if you have any information, kindly contact us on 08118921337. God will bless you very dearly. Has she left home with her mobile phone? If yes quote me |
Crime › Re: Mother Dumps Her Newborn Baby With A Written Note Along A Road In Katsina (pix) by Coolgent(m): 5:33pm On Feb 13, 2021 |
tit: Nice one. Keep her safe from mallams, Yahoo boys, and baba ijebu Malams has 3 meanings which one? 1. Malam = Mr 2. Malam = Teacher 3. Malam = Schoolar |
Crime › Re: Imo Hotel Set Ablaze As Commercial Sex Worker Kills Customer by Coolgent(m): 12:19am On Feb 13, 2021 |
madridguy: It was gathered that the commercial sex worker was enraged when the man (customer) refused to pay the agreed amount after several rounds of sexual intercourse and stabbed him to death.
The source said, “A prostitute killed his male friend because he was unable to pay him after marathon sex. This is what happened.” Hand work of quack journalist |
Business › Re: Abdul Samad Rabiu: BUA Petroleum Refinery Ready In 2024 by Coolgent(m): 12:08am On Feb 13, 2021 |
Dangote and BUA singlehandly increase price of cement to 4k With monopoly and refineries expect fuel to reach 250 naira per litre |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Angola Decriminalises Same-Sex Sexual Relationships (Photos) by Coolgent(m): 12:03am On Feb 13, 2021 |
Danhoys: This is a welcomed development. Just yesterday, I saw a video of two adult males on Facebook, been beaten because they were caught having sex.
Why are Nigerians this backward? How is it your business what two consenting adults do with their body?
We seriously need to learn how to mind our business. Gays have come to stay, it's only a matter of time before it becomes a norm.
America you cast today was even more homophobic than Nigeria. If you think Nigeria wouldn't succumb, you're delusional.
It's just a matter of TIME. Lesbian seen  |
Crime › Re: Aminu Tafida, Son Of Tambuwal’s Aide, Two Others Circulate Nude Video Online by Coolgent(m): 11:58pm On Feb 12, 2021 |
BetProf: What kind of headline is this? It is not Tambuwal, it is not his aide, rather the son of his aide. Why not mention the culprit's name and stop dragging people unnecessarily May God bless you. |
Travel › Re: Hours After Relocating To Ireland, Engineer Vows Never To Come Back To Nigeria by Coolgent(m): 2:54pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
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Crime › Re: American Lady Who Killed A Nigerian Man In A Lagos Hotel Arrested While Escaping by Coolgent(m): 2:29pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Who open with thread with the sole intention of seeing the culprit picture? |
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Properties › Re: Landlord Shoots Tenant Over Rent In Lagos by Coolgent(m): 2:24pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
Nwodosis: The landlord must be a crossbreed of Fulani herders! Or baby factory product by Inyamuri  |
Food › Re: You Can Eat Only One Thing From This Plate by Coolgent(m): 2:10pm On Feb 10, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls by Coolgent(m): 11:32am On Feb 10, 2021 |
sapien: Good evening, Romancelanders. It's quite a lengthy read, so bear with me.
This lady and I have been dating for the past 4 years, and I am planning on making it official later this year, though Covid-19 made my finances quite complicated recently, but things are getting back in shape.
Recently, specifically over 2 weeks ago, she suddenly stopped picking my calls. Prior to that, we haven't seen each other since September last year. She always comes up with one excuses or the other every weekend whenever I tell her to come over to my place or if I want to go over to her place to see her. I always have busy schedules during the midweek, so we usually have only weekends to see each other.
I have gone to see her mother and her siblings last year. They accepted me as a prospective in-law. The mum said she queried her daughter and she told her that I was the one she would like to spend the rest of her life with, hence the mum's invitation. Her mum usually calls me from time to time, and I do talk to her, too.
Couple of days back, I had to call the mum to report her daughter to her regarding the uncharacteristic change in her daughter's behaviour, and how, despite living in the same city, we haven't seen each other in 4 months, and how she has refused picking my calls in more than 2 weeks.
She promised to talk to her and ask her what the problem was and get back to me. I waited for some couple of days, but when I didn't see the mum's call, I had to call her back. I had to ask her to give her daughter her phone so I could talk to her and ask her some salient questions regarding our relationship. She kept saying there is no problem and that I didn't offend her, and our relationship is still standing strong. I asked if she was going through some personal issues that she could share with me and we might find a solution; she said she was perfectly okay. We settled our issues right there and then, and she promised to call back the second day.
I waited for the second day and I did not see her call. I had no choice than to call her back. Ladies and gentlemen, this girl didn't pick my calls. When she eventually picked after multiple missed calls, she was talking to someone else, while my airtime was burning out. I became enraged. I had to call the mum the second day to tell her I was no longer interested in the daughter, that she was probably seeing someone else, and she didn't have the guts to tell me.
The mum swore that her daughter is not seeing someone else, as far as she knows, and that she hasn't brought anyone to meet her. The mum is a Deeper Lifer, and from my interactions with her, she doesn't condone two-timing. She promised to talk to her daughter, that maybe we should give ourselves more time, like taking a break for a couple of months.
I am not usually this patient, and never condoned negligence and disregard in my previous relationships. However, this girl had been special to me, prior to her negligence. She was quite dedicated to me during the course of our 4-year-old relationship. She was never demanding, and was contented and altruistic, too. She helped me many times in the past, financially, whenever I was broke, and I always repaid her back, too. She was a wife material, and loved by my family as well.
The questions are;
1. Do I disregard the mum's advice?
2. Do I still give this girl another chance after her blatant negligence?
Mods, you might do well by moving this piece to the front page. Ignore her too, if she come back shikenan otherwise leave her alone for your own good. |
Politics › Re: Twenty-Six Nigerian States Record Zero Foreign Investment In 2020 by Coolgent(m): 11:23am On Feb 10, 2021 |
Good one Gov. Tambuwal |
Health › Re: BUA Purchases 1 Million Doses Of Astrazeneca COVID-19 Vaccines For Nigeria by Coolgent(m): 11:17am On Feb 10, 2021 |
Innoson how far? |
Politics › Re: Ette Enugu Community Where Politicians Visit Only During Election Campaigns by Coolgent(m): 11:04am On Feb 10, 2021 |
MASTAkiLLAh: Politicians are useless sha Use your sense of reasoning before commenting |
Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode Visits Governor Yahaya Bello In Kogi (Photos) by Coolgent(m): 7:47am On Feb 10, 2021 |
Ffk don turned to beggar chai |
Crime › Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Coolgent(m): 7:57am On Feb 09, 2021 |
Since u already had a plan to have Premarital sex with him shikenan, he had his way in advance. Forge ahead with you life and avoid going to guys rooms/houses |
Crime › Re: I Killed My Wife & Child Because My Wife Cheated On Me - Evangelist Obijofa by Coolgent(m): 7:48am On Feb 09, 2021 |
Chuku should be hang immediately. RIP to the deceases |
Politics › Re: APGA Wins Rerun Election In Niger by Coolgent(m): 7:40am On Feb 09, 2021 |
SlayerForever: Very nice one. Having lived in the middlebelt I can tell you that if APGA strategises properly they can win even a governorship position there in the middlebelt. Haha my Brother check both APC and PDP Candidates names. They voted based on tribe/religion not on Party. |
Politics › Re: The Story Of Chinaza, VP Osinbajo's 'Daughter' (Photos) by Coolgent(m): 12:05am On Feb 09, 2021 |
illicit: If na Hausa VP now....
na to add her to his harem be next headline smh Is better to marry her at young ages than to be babymama.  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: A Soldier's Face Before And After 4 Years Of War, 1941 - 1945(Pics) by Coolgent(m): 12:12am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Lesson to our Biafrans Brothers |
Politics › Re: Atiku Appeals To Buhari: Don’t Shut Down Cryptocurrency Business by Coolgent(m): 11:53pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Shut up Dubai resident you will never be our President in PDP. |
Crime › Re: Businessman Excretes 83 Wraps Of Cocaine At Abuja Airport (Photo) by Coolgent(m): 11:51pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
Na them |
Romance › Re: Man To Marry 2 Women In Abuja Same Day (Photos) by Coolgent(m): 11:47pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
EnvelopeUs: I think Islam allows more than one wife. That's if they will happily live in marriage. Islam allowed up to 4 wives but only if u can maintain justice among them. My view... Men are polygamous in nature, so that i can marry black, white, fat and slim to avoid eyeing other outside  |
Politics › Re: Adamu Maina Waziri: PDP Presidential Ticket Will Be Zoned To North by Coolgent(m): 11:39pm On Feb 06, 2021 |
That's very fair. PDP POWER |
Politics › Re: AGF Malami Denies 2023 Governorship Campaign Posters by Coolgent(m): 11:48pm On Feb 05, 2021 |
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Crime › Re: Suspected Fulani Herdsmen Kill Footballer In Benue (Graphic) by Coolgent(m): 6:40pm On Feb 05, 2021 |
See how he bleed to dead! That Hospital should be sued Rip |
Crime › Re: 24-Year-Old Man Who Went Missing In Lagos In December Has Been Found Dead (Pix) by Coolgent(m): 6:39pm On Feb 05, 2021 |
LifeOfTrigga post=98 765750: Planned, since he called that he arrived there then his friends should be investigate and not harassed o  You are right. They should ask his Mother has she ordered him to call her upon reaching his destination? If her response is yes shikenan, otherwise he was forced to call her for his Killers to have Aliba. |
Politics › Re: COVID-19: It Is My Right To Be Vaccinated - Ahmed Indimi (Photo) by Coolgent(m): 6:25pm On Feb 05, 2021 |
FalseProphet1: I see the average Nigerian not being able to access this vaccine, I see the rich paying millions to access it, I see the poor surviving covid 19 and the rich dying from covid 19. This I have seen. Even with 1 million i will never receive that injection |
Politics › Re: 2023: Can PDP Bounce Back? by Coolgent(m): 3:35pm On Feb 05, 2021 |
ChelseaArmy: No way , rest in peace PDP They have 15% hope which is failure. Our champion the Jagaban is waiting to take over the crown Screenshot this.... Tinubu will never be President of 9ja. His connivance with Buhari has already ruined him. |