₦airaland Forum

Borno too

Today u cant even be a Governor between 31 to 41yrs, some are even trying to become ward councillors

What is Gonort Rohr?

Wasted effort cos they cant use it judiciously.
There is air force based, Police Headquarters, DSS, SARS, NCSDC, 2 army facilities in my state but Fulani kidnappers are terrorizing the entire state.

maynation:
As far as PDP wins.
Ba wahala

Nagode!

Na them vote for change!
Bubu abeg keep the boarders close till 2023!
Infact add more tax to anything imported via ports.

My thoughts...
Those mines resistants vehicle were smuggled by the white men to support boko boys but fortunately out securities intercepts them, the came up with the lies that those vehicle were meant to be taken to Niger Republic.
Wait a minute why not ship those things to Niger directly?
How those vehicle arrived in Nigeria in the first place?

kweenkong:
What sort of marital life are you promoting , its very disheartening considering that marriage is to unite two families ,
1) So a mother bringing food to the childrens house is wrong , waow , you guys need to check your ego and focus on the right thing bring garri, yam, palm oil etc for you daughter and her family is wrong .
3) Giving attention to your husband is wrong , i dont know how to deal with that .

1. Her husband took offensive for that singular act, she is not inder any obligation to bring food stuffs to her Inlaw besidesince the guy is agaisnt it why must she brings it.

2. I said too much attention not attention.
U should understand that there is individual differences.

NB: am married since 2014 without any serious issue, so I knw what am saying

ginaolo:
Hi

I’ve been with a lady for some time now but I’m starting to have doubts about this girl.

My main concern is that she is too reserved and she doesn’t like to do anything that involves people. I come from a big family unit and she’s always avoiding family get togethers, outings, even to meet my friends and socialise with them is a huge problem. We’ve gone out very few times, she’s met my mum and a few friends, but she avoids meeting them most time. I addressed it to her and she claims she has social anxiety but for how long can I continue like this? All she wants to do is be at home. My family are already starting to get the wrong impression of her and they believe she is proud. I know my older sister is not too fond of her because of her quiet nature and I think this will take a toll on us in the future if we get married. I don’t want a wife that cannot do basic things like go out with me to events or represent me well. I don’t want a wife that will be hiding in the house 24/7.

Another thing is that she has some stubborn traits in her. She’s a lovely woman, she’s very kind, compassionate and she motivates me a lot. When she’s around me alone she’s very cool, but when it comes to going out and doing things, she starts acting up. I cannot deal with her shy nature as it’s too much and it’s becoming embarrassing. She’s 24. What do I do please?

Abeg if u dont love her they way she is then give me her number. Thats the type of Woman I need.

If she is too social you will come here and accuse her for being wayward

Zhuhilat:
How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband

Dear all

I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.

Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.

Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,

i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.

On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.

Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .

But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.

I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.

I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.

Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?

Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all

Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.

Emotionally, i am done.

1. Your Mother should on no circumstance voluntarily give anything which your husbands is capable of buying i.e foods stuffs.
2. Keep yourself busy: work or go back to school.
3. Stop giving too much attention to your husband (personally i dont like too much attention)
4. Review your marital relationship weekly then monthly so that u can find flaws in it.

Now if the Federal university Gusau start lecture and meeting on Sunday 8 to 4pm they will start wailing and shouting Islamisation!
There should be tolerance in our day to day lives

Fulani are the most wicked people in Nigeria, 90% of Northern Kidnappers are Fulani, but an average Northerner will not tell u this.
Mutanen banza!

Local 15k, foreign 17k

Congratulations!
This guy must be 40 to 47yrs

JubrinElSudan:
Which government agency regulates pay TV? Just like cbn-banks, nerc - discos, ncc-telecoms. Send them a mail/tweet copying the regulatory body and see them running "hecta seckta" to resolve it

Nigeria Broadcasting Commission NBC

I am still wondering how a sane human celebrate the death of his loved ones through lavish entertainment .
Anyway culture and religion differ.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Her body has not even healed properly and she's pregnant again!? That you married doesn't mean you can't use condom or practice withdrawal method.

My Sister leave withdrawal method alone, condom and implanor are better options.

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

Bro,
If this pregnancy defied family planning then my advice is leave it alone just take very good care of your Wife and have your or her Sister assist her in running the house.
Next time consult a Doctor for proper family planning.

NB: Before u take my advise go to Hospital and seek their advise first.
If u a Muslim remember Islam legalise abortion only if the live of the future mother is in great danger.

95% of those Kidnappers in north west are Fulani

Kill them asap

They are: Okafor Samuel Obinna, Chigbo Pascal Chidi, Oha Chukwujekwu, Ahamefula Francis Izuchukwu, Ugonna Nelson Owete, Ikenna Henry and Chinyere Aniobi Jessica.

Always

Former Nairalander

cashcity:
It is no longer news that Nigerian government just passed the bill to increase minimum wage from N18, 000 to N30, 000.

I'm currently employed in one of our country's ministry agency 2yrs ago at level 8 on a salary of about N121, 000 per month.

My fellow nairalanders please help me to understand the modalities in the calculations and how the minimum wage increment is going to affect my current salary..

If Labour accept FG increment of 11% to level 7 to 14 your salary will be 134,300

Offpoint:
Only an aboki will wash a CAR with DISHWASHER

Tribal bigot, keep on using klin to wash your legs cis u sound broke

corperdonga:
Please recommend the best soap to use then.

LB car wash is very good, I have been using it since 2007

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Bros
I once experienced something similar to yours but in my case we resolved the issue amicably;
Approach her politely let her understand that u love sex very much, and there are various ways of sex not necessarily penetrative, If she is not in the mood for penetrative sex ask her for Mouth Action, dry-hump or even couple masturbation.
If she fail to oblige tell her that u will get sex tou if she wouldn't mine.

#Stop masturbation at all cost#

They should start doing the same to Fulani Kidnappers in Sokoto/Zamfara: their atrocities is getting out of hands, must disheartening thing is people over there dont want to reveal whats going on for fear of some elites.
Allah Ya isar muna!

Smart Gold digger!
U dont love him but u love it when he spent his hard earned money on you right?
How i wish i knew this Maga, i could have teach him how to handle broke ass Girl like u.
Karma is coming for you.

idom101:
Hello everyone,
it's really my first time to ask for help here.

I will be 35 20 days from today and I intend to get married very soon, but after a bitter break up more than 1 year ago, I finally make up my mind to love again but I am caught up in between two lovely women.

Note: I am not dating any of this girls but they are my friends and wonderful people character wise.

I have known the first one since childhood, she has turn out to be an amazing young girl always supportive when I need her, living with her I know I will definitely be very happy in my marriage but she is less of a goal oriented person, which means I will have to work more, she is more of an extrovert also very loyal.

The second girl is very okay character wise, very submissive and is great goal getter, marrying her means I will do less for us to achieve our goals but she is more of an introvert, she is this kind of girl that can keep to her self, and she very loyal too

both of them outwardly does not carry the body I would like but inwardly they are amazing people. both of them support my vision in life so well.

Please marriage expert in the house help me, as I don't want to make mistake in my marriage. I am still praying but I feel I need to also find a way out.

which of this girls would you chose to marry and why?

matured advice are welcome.

thanks

I was once in your shoes when i was 28yrs but i end of marrying 2nd Gal, we are blessed with 2 little guys now after 6 years of 90% happy marriage.

NB: in Islam there is ISTIHARA (seeking Allah's choice/guidance over any matter).
In my case i opted to be praying for God guidance over the matter.