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Science/TechnologyRe: Mysterious Beast Washes Up On Greek Island. Does Anyone Know Its Name? (Photos) by coolsegun2002: 8:13pm On Nov 19, 2020
Raydos:
Mammoth I think??

SportsRe: Yakubu Aiyegbeni: 'Gernot Rohr Is The Worst Coach In Nigeria History' by coolsegun2002: 7:52pm On Nov 19, 2020
Amotolongbo:
grin grin

https://f5p3e9e4.stackpathcdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/Yakubu-1.jpgHow will I tell my children that this ball didn’t eventually enter the goal posts

PoliticsRe: Do The Lekki 'dead' Have No Relatives? by coolsegun2002: 3:01pm On Nov 19, 2020
Is that not the same question we asked about the corona virus death statistics.?....yet u guys said corona virus killed thousands in Nigeria and we had no choice but to believe
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by coolsegun2002: 2:24pm On Nov 19, 2020
truespeak:
grin grin ; This is Resting! grin

Na Madam be this!
It doesn’t matter...Ur gender doesn’t render ur hypocrisy and double standard nature non-existent...
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by coolsegun2002: 2:08pm On Nov 19, 2020
truespeak:
grin Tenant wey don park commot for house na still tenant for your court! Okay oh grin
Oga, shebi u said u have rested....carry ur hypocrisy and double standard else where Abeg
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by coolsegun2002: 1:53pm On Nov 19, 2020
truespeak:
All I have said is clearly stated up above and they stand for me.

No Where Did I Ever State, that the Children had No Claim. No Not One!

I Clearly Said That the woman had "No Claim" and Neither can she have one, for she is a stranger to the deceased by her departure.

So, as I Accused you earlier, it is not beyond you to Lie and Pervert Judgement, and now you have added Falsification of Evidence to your growing list. Alas you have Proven me Right in my Accusation!

I Rest!
Here u are claiming u ddnt say so....that means u half knowledge of this issue...Since u ddnt even know the premise of this discussion why rush into conclusion...

So it’s ok for u for to use law to render a woman’s years of marriage non-existent....

I know your type..holy than thou only when it’s convenient...Abeg Park well...
CelebritiesRe: Paul Okoye Blasts Lola Omotayo For Being A 'Manipulative Pretender' by coolsegun2002: 1:07pm On Nov 19, 2020
Chirowman:
Paul just hate this woman , but I believe everyone should respect people's choices . you can't tell me what to do with my life, Paul is just been the manipulative one here.
U will not die young jare
CelebritiesRe: Paul Okoye Blasts Lola Omotayo For Being A 'Manipulative Pretender' by coolsegun2002:
backnbeta:
If you love your brother, you'll learn to live with his choice of woman! You Paul are too petty and unforgiving!
Don’t mind the guy...he wants to blame his inability to patch things with his own twin brother on the wife...wife that u never wanted your brother to marry

Infact the guys are annoying me.....
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by coolsegun2002: 12:44pm On Nov 19, 2020
truespeak:
Have you seen your works?

For now another desires your evil fruit!



Then he went on to query your position.
See, even a lay man queries your position, how then shall you stand when Lawyers come?
....

Did Jesus instruct u to marry in church..?
marriages are approved by families since the days of Abraham....it’s the mordern state that authorized churches and mosques to conduct marriages and give certificate In mordern times.

And the same law recognizes marriages without certificate so that women are not cheated just becos there was no paper.....

Then u came quoting The Law that "A Stranger to a Contract cannot take the benefit of that contract" donu even know what it means to exploit law??
Aren’t u the one exploiting this law by trying to tag this woman and her children as strangers to the contract(union) becos she left for a while....

.if that’s not wickedness, then I don’t know what is....how can her leaving for a while nullify her years spent and children that came from the union...

Since u know how to exploit the law to render a woman’s right and that of her children nullified... I only told u the same law can be used to prove that she left on grounds maltreatment...

... and since then...Uve been quoting Bible like I wanted to cheat u.... where as u are the one that started exploiting the law to render the years a woman spent with a man as non-existent...
FamilyRe: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by coolsegun2002: 10:25am On Nov 19, 2020
Skepticus:
Come clean, dude. You are a masochist.

I won't hate on your choices but as a weak man, you'll serve a great purpose of being a doormat in the world of dominant men and alpha-women.

I've seen some threads in the romance section where some guys share the same fantasy of seeking dominating and aggressive women for love.

You should check them out.
It’s not just about sexual attraction and pleasure for this dude....the damage in his mind extends to his work place...ddnt u read where he said prefers working with a violent domineering female boss...he’s heavily dependent on on the women gender
HealthRe: Check Pathology Department Of LASUTH If You Are Looking For You Loved Ones by coolsegun2002: 10:17am On Nov 19, 2020
They should just close Nigeria down and move the citizens to Canada...
FamilyRe: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by coolsegun2002:
nwaezeemmanuel:
It's quite expected. A lot of people seek validation here.

Really concerned for him, it's okay to want a woman that isn't overly dependent and can handle herself.

But this needy attraction to violent women from his love life to his workplace is concerning.
Exactly

.being sexually attractive to violent and bossy women is not totally unheard of actually..I’ve read and seen it a few times....a little bit of consuming sexual content(dominatrix p0rn) that present domineering women as cool usually connects to their past childhood experience of being maltreated as a child by their pretty sisters, seniors at schools , teachers etc.

However, the OPs condition has morphed beyond sexual attraction to desiring this dominance in his professional life...

I believe Its a dependency issues caused not just by the abusive sisters but also lack of love from the mother...

It explains why he would also desire such domination from a higher authority e.g a boss..
FamilyRe: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by coolsegun2002:
nwaezeemmanuel:
After seeing his childhood story, i would say it may have affected a part of his judgement reaching adulthood.

Possible childhood trauma suspected. Especially since he solely equates a woman's violent behaviour to love.
The fascinating thing about the guy is that he knows he has been psychologically damaged from childhood....he said so, yet instead of looking for therapy.... he’s looking for others like himself so that he can feel good knowing he’s not alone.....


Indeed.....misery loves company....
FamilyRe: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by coolsegun2002: 9:37am On Nov 19, 2020
Instead of finding ways to heal old pain....the new norm is to find other psychologically damaged people like them and start asking for rights from goverment and validation from fellow humans....


When they don’t get it....they’ll say its hatred and ‘phobia...
CelebritiesRe: Ned Nwoko Teaches Wife, Regina Daniels How To Use A Gun (video) by coolsegun2002: 7:28am On Nov 19, 2020
Regina don sabi shoot!!! Lòbàtàn ......The day you marry ur seventh wife....one bullet below the belt, one in the chest..
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by coolsegun2002: 10:21pm On Nov 18, 2020
seproperties:
.

.The only Area I Do not agree with you is you stating that a woman that has no Children for a man ,A woman who is not legally married to a man can come and lay Claim to a deceased man's Property just simply because they once live together before for several years ,Given the excuses that She could have been Maltreated before she left ,Even after such woman had gone to marry another Man ,Haba ,I do not think that is right . Such Woman does not find it deem fit to endeavour to call on the Attension of any of the deceased family to settle the Matter of been Maltreated ,The solution she finds is to Abandon the Man to marry another man ,No Children ,No Legal Marriage , Immediately the news got to her that The man she once lived with together before Dies ,She just rushed down to lay claims ,Given Kangaroos Reason that the Late man Maltreated her when he was Alive now that He is Dead ,She wanted so so part of the Property for herself ...na Waooo shocked
I never said the above......

I only sighted an example with a Canadian case where a man still had to pay even though kids were not involved....this was just show that the institution of marriage is rigged against men
Christianity EtcRe: Did The Lord Jesus Christ Collect Tithes And Offerings? by coolsegun2002:
emkz:
Folks, I ask this question due to an earlier thread where it was reported that a pastor was jailed for defrauding a UK-based woman.

Is there any record in biblical text showing the Lord Jesus Christ collected tithe and offering?

What is the justification for it in modern-day churches if they are supposed to be modelled after Christ? Why are they emphasized in pecuniary terms (with many churches having envelops for tithes and offering).

I am not a Bible scholar nor a religious apologist nor am I a follower of Daddy Freeze (I am indifferent to him). I just want to understand why it is so important.
Jesus wasn’t a priest/Levite, so he couldn’t have collected tithe from anyone ....however he ddnt condemn paying it either becos he was asked (Matthew 23:23 and Luke 11:42)

As regards offering ... my opinion is that the Bible didn’t record that Jesus ever did a particular work.. but its likely that he would have worked for some time before his ministry started

...the Bible did record they had a money bag kept in the custody of Judas iscariot(which he stole from).
Where did this money come from.? Some scholars suggest that it may be offering or gift from people he ministered to when he and the disciples moved from place to place...but this money isn’t much ..because Jesus was not recorded as someone that huge wealth... infact when it was time to pay tax....he sorted it supernaturally buy sending Peter to go get the money from the mouth of a fish...


The real account of giving offering came from the apostles...when the church age began....people gave to help the move of the gospel, help widows, and others that ddnt have....infact some sold land.....

and Paul specifically suggested that giving of offering be done every sundays so that it’s not collected when it is needed (1Cor 16v2)......

People give a lot in mordern times that the olden days...It’s just bad that these days some of our pastors has turn it to an opportunity to enrich themselves only...
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by coolsegun2002: 9:05pm On Nov 18, 2020
seproperties:
. A woman that has Abandoned a man for several years showing up immediately the man dies with No Marriage Certificate ,With No Kids for the man ,Can you tell us the likely things that she could come to lay Claim to....As an experienced person who could Help such woman prove to the Court to make a case ...Please we want to learn ........I understand a Woman who had Left a Man with Kids could come back to lay claims for Her Children ,Secondly ,I know a woman who was Legally married to a Man could get back to make a case on the Ground of Maltreatment ,At least when such woman hire a Lawyer like you who can Defend her to get Claims ,Well I still wonder how the Claims of been Maltreated will be made even when the man she Claimed Maltreated her is Dead . The only Mention you made that I don't agree with is this " A woman who had lived with a man for several Years ,Left a man for Several Years ,No Children,No Legal marriage ,Got Married to another man ,Became another man's Responsibility ,After about 13 years when such woman heard that the first man had died .Are you saying such woman has something else she is coming for to Claim ...Well if you still say you can Exploit the law to make a case for Her ,I think Judges that would Listen to U to make the Final Judgement is not the Same as You .
You are just jumping around the place....the condition here is that this woman has children for the man... the OP and the man’s family wants to cut them off becos she left at some point, therefore, saying she has no claim......that’s wickedness...no one knows why she left....She could have left for any reason...it doesn’t matter...the family of the man should do what is right.....

She has claim..her leaving for sometime does not nullify the fact that she has lived with the man for yearS with kids to show....why is this difficult for u people to understand.....
FamilyRe: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by coolsegun2002: 3:46pm On Nov 18, 2020
CalliDora1:
Tarnish your image? Who knew who I was talking about until you showed up? You gave yourself away and it breaks my heart.

Ok... What Happened to me before. I stole? Or slept with anyone here? Then let that fellow come and say it. I'm a free person and have nothing to hide so don't know what you're talking about. If you don't like my online personality, simply maintain your lane. What will be will be.

I'm so disappointed you came showing up.

I'm sorry though but I needed some advice and never intended to drag you out, my dear.
Hey nairanlders come and look at this.....she’s still interested oooo
FamilyRe: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by coolsegun2002:
kalufelix:
E-shock-you-say-manipulation-withered-before-it-could-germinate...e-shock-you-say-the-guy-no-play-to-your-gallerycheesy...e-shock-you-say-him-no-ask-you-to-send-acct-number...nne-this-thing-really-shock-you....e-shock-you-say-your-sexuality-has-become-inconsequentialcheesy....nne-this-is-2021...change-your-game!
Boys don wake up....on a normal day...na wetin Girls dey do be that, once them see say u no get money... dem go just ghost u....So i no get why the thing dey Shock the babe

FamilyRe: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by coolsegun2002: 3:00pm On Nov 18, 2020
harmony75:
why will anyone ask me if I have eaten? I pity this generation o � what a very dumb question to ask, have you eaten?!?! it's just like saying have I had my bath? is only a dummy that could ask such question so unnecessary � and irritating.if you don't know what to say when you call friends or someone don't waste your time nawhuh you asked the silly question and if no will you buy the food for them?
Have u eaten is normal line in Nigeria dating world...
it’s like.....how are you...infact women use it more ....

... it’s not an opportunity to say u are hungry so that the person can come and buy u food....
If u respond u have not eaten for 3 consecutive days...a guy will feel like u are codedly trying to runs him...
FamilyRe: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by coolsegun2002: 2:53pm On Nov 18, 2020
pocohantas:
You are overthinking things.

How can you keep saying you haven’t eaten for 3days without any explanation? Haba! Don’t you know that is Naija babes intro to ask for urgent 2k?

The guy is not psychic to know you were fasting. Whenever I tell a man I haven’t eaten, I always make sure I add the reason (e.g) Busy day, I am trying to watch my intake/weight...etc.

While it wasn’t so nice of him to disappear, we should remember that building relationships is hard in Nigeria because we suspect ourselves too much. Imagine if he kept telling you he is lonely.

It is okay if you want to block him, I just want you to know you are not entirely blameless. It takes time and trust to unlock certain aspects of a friendship...
Nigerian babes and 2k...

FamilyRe: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by coolsegun2002:
Did any one see where the OP said “I naturally began to feel relaxed against my wish”

Lol......Women...they will always look for a way to make it look like U forced them....


Somehow ....she’s shocked the guy was uninterested becos she’s not financial okay at the moment...

Is that not a normal script from a woman’s playbook??.......now its shocking them...
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by coolsegun2002: 2:31pm On Nov 18, 2020
truespeak:
The Judge is whom you seek to Wrongfully and Wickedly Exploit! Shame on you! Proverbs 17:23
A wicked man taketh a gift out of the bosom to pervert the ways of judgment: therefore, the lawyer who perverts Judgment, is Priest of Wickedness!


You may even Wrongfully Exploit your fellow colleagues and laymen.

You surely Exploit your man-made laws, after all you made it, so it is supposed to do your will.

But No One including you has Ever Exploited The True Law, God's Own Law Called Natural Law or Equity! For No One Can Escape or Evade This Law!
Do u even know the context and premise of this discussion? How can u just jump in here and start throwing scriptures indiscriminately .... who does that??
FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by coolsegun2002: 1:13pm On Nov 18, 2020
truespeak:
Wow! You are willing to lie just to win? Do you think that the condemnation of Lawyers by the Lord Himself is a joke? Hah! In fact, I proceed no further!
There is no lie here... can a woman who lived with a man for years with kids for him truly leave him completely..... if she’s not back for her kids, she’ll be back for something else
CelebritiesRe: Lola Omotayo: Whether P-Square Likes It Or Not, They’re Brothers And Twins by coolsegun2002: 1:09pm On Nov 18, 2020
anastasius:
Stop quoting me. Simp
Lol... funny human being....enjoy your day man
CelebritiesRe: Lola Omotayo: Whether P-Square Likes It Or Not, They’re Brothers And Twins by coolsegun2002: 1:08pm On Nov 18, 2020
anastasius:
Here no be sexuality section
You don’t know what happened between them... yet you just assumed the woman threw a wedge between them....and ur reason is becos u lived with one women like that....does that make any sense to you??
CelebritiesRe: Lola Omotayo: Whether P-Square Likes It Or Not, They’re Brothers And Twins by coolsegun2002: 1:01pm On Nov 18, 2020
anastasius:
Home breaker. She broke the bond between them.
See ehn, I used to be a male feminist till I lived with my cousin and his jezebel wife, that's when I knew women(wives) are not to be treated with much respect, they will turn your head and turn family against eachother.
Treat them with iron hands.
Home breakers.

FamilyRe: Can A Non Legally Married Couple Seek For A Legal Divorce? by coolsegun2002: 12:53pm On Nov 18, 2020
truespeak:
Sorry to say, no, she has no claims, having left the union, thereby causing a severance between herself and the man. And the severance having so remained up till the death of the man.

She became a stranger to the man and therefore no longer entitled to claim the benefits of the union she resiled from under The Law that "A Stranger to a Contract cannot take the benefit of that contract"!
That’s why I like law...very open to exploit..
when we get to court to argue... I can proof to a judge the woman only left husband temporarily when she was being maltreated...

remember dead men don’t tell stories

So what if there was a document of marriage.. will her leaving teamproary nullify her marriage? No.. so even if there’s no document, her temporarily leaving equally doesn’t nullify that she had a civil union with the man with kids to show....I say again... she has a claim....and the family of the man can’t win when they get to court....they should simply give her what is due her children....kapish...
PoliticsRe: CNN Confirms That #EndSARS Lekki Massacre Happened by coolsegun2002: 10:23am On Nov 18, 2020
inoki247:
Me I sha know say na on Judgement day dem go play the full movie....

PoliticsRe: Islamic Scholars In Kano Call For Anti-blasphemy Laws by coolsegun2002: 9:58am On Nov 18, 2020
ArewaHero:
mtshww you don't have any knowledge about what you just typed ,
you just read lies from anti Islam adherent groups without confirmation , Muhammad Never took the word to fight against infidels , its even Haram to covert someone to Muslim using force(against he/her wish ) so stop believing ever post you see online about Islam







wink
Infidels... What right do have to call someone infidels... becos they have a different opinion?

Ddnt the prophet fight against those who ddnt want Islam in their location...?? If you call it a lie.. no problem...I don’t know ur religion more than u do...


However its my opinion...u Muslims belive in jihad becos ur prophet fought jihad...infact many of the things u do is becos the prophet either did it or directly told u do it....
Isn’t that why some Muslim feel its right to fight and kill until Islamic state and shariah is installed in their location?? .infact bokoharm kills other Muslims who doesn’t support their jihad...as they belive they are infidels like Christians

I just belive that if mohammed peacefully took his Islam elsewhere instead of fighting back when the nation’s attacked him...u Muslims of today won’t respond with violence...they’ll technically be no jihad....:

My point is...we don’t have to do exactly what they did thousands of years ago...they are humans, everything they did couldn’t have been the only way to solve problems..

For example David is a prophet and king in the Bible who saw visions and revelations of the future...yet he took someone’s wife at a time of his weakness as he allowed his flesh to rule him..
does it mean it’s fine to take people’s wives.??...

If we interprete it the way u Muslims interprete it... then that mean whatever our prophets did is ok.

I know u won’t agree with me.... u may even call It an attack.. but its my opinion...and I’m sorry if it offends you..

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