Young Man, I am very conversant with the happenings in Uyo. That town is an empty town, unless you have some reasonable amount to come with, probably start a trade, like provision store, and if properly managed can grow to mini supermarket. You can be managing it with your wife. Better still you can go into phone fixing if you have the skill. With your 60k budget per annum for accommodation, that means you will settle for "Face me I Face you", and it has to be a bit off town. Getting a paid job.. I say, No No... Uyo is just a place you can hibernate, gain your grounds a bit, then decide on what's next. If you decide to remain there after you must have found your levels, I wish you well. Most Importantly avoid the girls/women, HIV is very rampant there.
IRuinUrDay: Good morning, Nlder's. Pls, I need your advice. I created this account just now to hide my identity.
Without wasting time on this, I need your advice as I want to take a blind step because i don't know what else to do.
I graduated since 2018 and since then, I don't have a good job till now. Just surviving that's what I am doing.
Currently, I asked my mom to help me secure loan of 100k while I source for another 100k from friends and relatives and repay in 6 months time. I have planned with my wife to secure a room apartment with at least 60k for 1 year and use the balance to hold ourselves till we get something better doing. This is because I want to relocate to Uyo to hustle with my woman and our only daughter. I can't leave my woman aside and travel to Uyo alone. I want her to join me either in 2 weeks time or 3. She is a stylist and can work as Chef. She is also educated with O'level and I have been taken her through computer lesson's.
Now, I don't have any job assurance in Uyo but I have made some contacts. The 2 person's I contacted said once I relocate, I should let them know to help me get job. Also, I don't mind dropping my certificate just to do any job till I get my dream job. I am also working to get myself a driving license certificate and ID in case, I get a driving job in Uyo.
Pls, I want to know if it's wise to relocate to Uyo without any job at sight?
Also, my current state is one of the worst ever as firms here don't pay there staff good money. Like some pay Accountants here 25k/month to work from Monday to Saturday.
Your ideas will be great. My other areas of relocating is Enugu, Port Harcourt, or Anambra. Pls, help a brother.
FUTA Jallon... Ayes be representing the Fulani herdsmen..no wonder too much blood on their hands, you're also not left behind, since you're part of them.
Change your diet, eat more of vegetables and fruits for vitamins, wash your face with warm water, morning and evening, before retiring to bed. Get a good sunscreen (facial cream/moisturisers) for your face, apply very little. Most Importantly: STOP EYEING PEOPLES WIVES 🤪😜😝😛
Young Man, believe me, your mother doesn't have much love for you, because if she does, knowing you have come of age, she would want you to ,and also assist you in locating your dad. She is selfish and being economical with the truth, probably she must have erred somewhere in the course of her relationship with your dad, and wouldn't want you to find out what transpired between them. Since your mother had threatened to kill herself if you keep pressing her to open up on your dad, I guess you should threaten her you Will take your own life if she refuses, and if that fails to work, get a gun. Yes, you heard me right; get a gun and threaten her.. let her feel the cold steel..act up something, be a man!! In all these all I can say is, your mother must be WICKED, SELFISH and VENGEFUL.
Yedidea: Yes I have done anything to convince her to let her tell me every Truth, but, I brought her to my own house and pampered her alot , but no confers, it's reach to a point She told me that if I keep pressing her about this of my father she will kill herself, that even made thought of maybe she did something wrong to him but she denied, I'm not in good relationship with her because of this thou I don't like it that way, it only Left with police which that Will be the biggest step in her life and to her family members
Put a gun to her head. She will talk when she feels the cold steel, she will spill it all. Most women are wicked, unforgiving , psycho-tripping murderers.
Reason for separation My only biological bro died from malaria My dad was unable to come up with money for treatment
My mum moved out took me with her She remarried 2 years after Gave birth to 4 leaving me with 4 step sibling Some years back I heard my mum saying my dad has other children ( I don’t even know them ) I don’t even know my dad
I am a graduate now
So comfortable in life Got lands houses and cars to my name
My problem now is I feel empty whenever I think of my dad More like I don’t know my root
I plan on visiting mums home for Christmas The problem is she hates my dad so much any thing about that topic gets her angry
I don’t know how to convince to go show me my dads house
I don’t know possible ways to get her to show me my dad hus
Don’t even know if my dad is good Don’t even know his family Don’t even know my village Everything I call family is just from my mother side
This guy was my school mate, and in the same faculty with me. I am not surprised at his utterances and hypocrisy. Anyways I want to believe he's acting up a script, just for the penny. His late dad and my late grandfather were friends, and he paid tribute for my late grandfather. I knew his late dad for what he stood for; Onoh Nwa Ngwo would never vote nor canvass votes for Tinubu if he were to be alive today
I do not blame the man. He's trying to see if he would have a Male child outside wedlock, after having these disrespectful trio. The girls are all cheats, they are not genuine just like their mother. For their mother not to ask them to stop...too bad!
damilola4162: "I want to kill you dad" Children call out their father after finding proof that he is cheating on their mother (video)
A father was humiliated by his daughters after they found proof that he is cheating on their mother again.
The daughters, said to be Ugandans living in USA, found their father's chats with his mistress so they read out the chats in the presence of other family members, including their father and mother.
They told their father he ought to be ashamed of himself, they also told him that he can't keep putting their mother through that while she is trying to work on the marriage.
At one point, one of the daughters begins crying and tells her father, "I want to kill you dad."
She also said to him, "You should be ashamed. How many f******* times are you going to put my mum through the same f****** bullsh*t?"
Another daughter then goes to their mum and gives her a sweater to keep warm.
While all this is going on, the father, who has a cup of tea sitting on a table before him, is seen silently looking at his daughters.
When the father tries to interrupt, the daughters refuse to let him speak.
One daughter is heard saying: "Daddy, you are a cheater and you gotta listen to what she's saying."
Another daughter says: "You are not that father figure. I don't care who you are to me, you are nothing to me."
The camera zooms to their father's chat with the other woman at some point and it shows them sexting.
The woman talks about sending him "nudes" of "those big boobs" and encouraging him to look at them.
She also wrote: "You know it when it's wet."
After they read out the chats, one daughter says to their father: "I found out even before Jane but me and you don't have a good relationship. So, when I saw this, when I read this, it didn't hurt me because I already decided that fourteen years ago, I lost you as a dad. So, when I saw this, it didn't hurt me."
However, she said her sisters were hurt when they found out.
The daughter continues: "She found out, Tyra found out the day we got back and Tyra cried. Ashley found out today. And Ashley loved you, Ashley loved you, that's why she's so mad like this because she loved you."
Ashley then begins crying at this point as she calls her father out and tells him that she wants to kill him.
The video has gone viral and has elicited mixed reactions.
Yes, it can. Withdraw the one million from your bank, bring it home. Take enough alcohol and go to bed. You will have a dream, where you're in KFC in Texas, and at Nandos in Johannesburg.
You shaved his hair, changed his outfit, brushed his teeth and gave him food. It doesn't make him sane, rather, medical checks and treatment should also be included in the process of healing, and not just prayers. The looks on his face still tells that there's small kolo remaining.
Oga, na just small poverty dey do you. £13,000 na big money, but equally small money, and na APC cause am. When you're rich, there's no way you no go live large, unless you hate yourself. It's your type that gives women millions and we call people like you- afu Nwanyi, ata isi ewu. Even Solomon in the Bible, he lived in affluence. Mtcheewwww..poor boy [quits author=Mide70 post=117449278]11million? Hmmmmm. This is what I don't understand. How will you just blow 11million on wrist watch. Either true or not , will the watch tell about rapture ? Or the watch will be making money for me daily ? Those money can be channel into something meaningful I think. Even oyinbo no dey over do like this . Don't quote me if you don't understand what in saying[/quote]
Light up your life with the night sky Always bright, filled with life A look at your present past with wishes you never had Behold your dreams; inhale, exhale Yet, another birthed
Believe... believe it never happened Shed not stream of tears You are thy jokes and thy laughter Forever thy heart, not theirs Applaud thy killer, maker of sorrows Embrace with your soul
The voices you hear I once heard, To the voices, I plead, heed not You lead in your battle, with thy shield And glittering armor Defend yourself from the arrows Then, thy peace returns.