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VellyG:
My parrot ... Was bought b4 I was born 33 Yrs old . Speaks Igbo , pidgin and English lang.

dasean1:
mine smokes weed

My house is already noisy, to add a parrot is suicide!

IseOluwa777:
Okay, budget increased to 700k. That should handle it all.

Mokason28:
Wicked people ... I wish I could share my experience in Maitama District Hospital Abuja on 23- July-2020 ... Nigeria is a devilish country

tetralogyfallot:
Stopping masturbation is a very very difficult thing cos it can be so addictive. The worse is that the western world always have a way of encouraging it, they keep saying it has some health benefits blablabla which I find to be a pure farce. Just get married and fulfil every erotic desires u could ever think of. But the question resumes again do married people masturbates? Of course some do, that means marriage doesn't make one stops masturbation but it may reduce it sha. Look bro, it takes a serious discipline, as in very very serious one to stop that very sweet energy sapping rubbish. May God help us.

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

traware:
If any of the ladies in the OPs story ever behaves towards me the way the OP described,Insha Allah I shall beat her to death

xperiencelove:
That is women my brother. They claim gender equality when the situation suits them and play the weaker being to gather sympathy when they have messed up. Even house wives are worse.

NockMedia:
I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

UbongCR7:
The account number he dropped, copy it and search on nairaland.

Also, he was already exposed on nairaland betting thread

Obierika:
How were you able to find out about his second Nairaland account?

kingzizzy:
Is there no longer freedom of worship?

Realtord43:
As share by Hadiza lmas El_rufual

She caption it "My (then) boyfriend and I"

Are they not lovely

El_rufai Afro hair look good on him

https://twitter.com/hadizel/status/1276908423200808963?s=19[/quote]When love was sweet

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Osmotouch:
Mod, please help me move this to front page

I bought this crate of eggs not less than 2 weeks ago and after 5days the eggs started to change and on the 9th day this is the nature of the eggs. Am totally confused but my friend is suggesting that it could be because I covered it, and yesterday I saw the woman that sold to me and complained to her but she was surprised saying the remainder of the eggs is still here and nothing has happened to them.

Please I need answers because I bought a crate to save money.

Heiterkeit:
No, I am not a harlot. It's only a harlot who can deem a man good enough once he has money and can provide for her. It takes something more than a man's money to attract someone like me to him. In this part of the world I come from money is the least of our worry. Well, I don't like harlots who pretend not to be, I have nothing against harlots who own up their profession, so you can look elsewhere for another person to exchange words.

Ybaby:
Who are you that I can annoy ?? Donot impregnate anyone until you can pay fees.

I am annoying to lazy men

Ybaby:
Lol

What does marriage mean? Marrying your mummy?

Ybaby:
I donot give money to a man neither do I pay bills

A capable man of valor sorts it all out on my behalf.

I am proud of that and it is sweet.

cococandy:
How about if you support each other financially? You know like two people who want each other to succeed and not to over work themselves.

What category does that place the woman?
Queen or donkey?

Asking for a friend!

nobone:
Hubby is into biz, while I did a bank job.
I pay the nanny monthly. 90% of times, i paid the kids school fees before hubby would even know.I make sure I stock the house with toiletries and some groceries every month. I buy clothes for my kids, when I see their uniforms/ school bags, shoes and food flasks/lunch bags aren't good enough, I change them straight without looking back. I buy my clothes. Sometimes hubby does. As I do all these, I wasn't ever compelled. I wasn't either asked to. Out of my church mind I do these even more.
On Hubby's side, he stocks the house with foodstuffs every time. He doesn't give me money as most times I don't need it. I have access to all his accounts and most times we run his little business together. When I lost my job, I didn't have need for a nanny again, I paid her off cos she was a nice lady. Hubby took every responsibility 100%, but I still feel bad cos I don't want the biz money to run down.
As for your question, it depends on understanding. Be sincere to each other and in that way, you won't mind who pays what.

Meanwhile, I'm an applicant o! I can do any genuine job.

blinking001:
Ah!! women don Join the show too now? Is runs no longer paying them again? I'm in shock.