₦airaland Forum

dinachi:
A woman who loves and cherishes her husband will see nothing stressful or wrong in serving him the way he wants to be served!
This is definitely not an issue worth discussing. Only a woman who has no regard for the husband will make issues out of it.
Do you know that most men find absolute joy in eating their wifes meal? Why did our parents teach us that the best way to a mans heart is through his stomach?
Only a foolish woman argues about what gives her husband joy instead of doing it!

pls get me right pllllsss I never disagree on serving my husband, of course its every womans joy, all am saying is the man shuld not make it look as if its a do or die affair, plus did u read the post properly at all? d man shuldnt make it such a big deal if he is not served just once in a while, dats absolute arrogance and immaturity.

dinachi:
I hope you wont mind also when he ignores you and focuses on important chores with his secretary at the office. Get into your skull, if you do not make your husband your priority then he wont also make you his. What is stressful in serving your husband his food? Simple you do not love your husband! If you do then serving him his meals should be one of your best moments.

how thoughtful of you, a man who appreciates and understand a woman who prepares a meal will see nothing wrong in serving his meal by himself. Seeving the meal is not my challenge, but always insisting it must be done even wen u know it may not be convinient.... $@%÷teammenwithtoomuchego/$%÷

lionphil:
If this will be an issue in Ur marriage, will u prefer a divorce to dishing out the food?

God will not give me such a man to marry who love to stress women at every instance. ×÷=+teammenwithtoomuchego^€% €=÷

lionphil:
What's overuse in dishing a food that won't take more than two mins...personally, I won't mind going to the kitchen to get my food because I grew up learning to cook and steal meat from the pot. But if that act of dishing food is what will cause the marriage to break, why don't u just dish it?

dont get it wrong, wat is in dishing food dat a man cannot do? after all the cooking from ur wife? @%=÷teammenwholovetostresswomen$#@%

Joy1706:
Please I will want to know the opinion of people.
My husband insists I dish his food. For instance, if I set the food on the table with plates and cutlery, he prefers I dish onto his plate, that it shows complete service.i think otherwise because I might be busy attending to other chores. This morning he almost left for work without taking breakfast and when i asked why he was leaving, he said the service was not complete. So I had to leave what I was doing to dish food for him.

What are your views on this?
*culled from facebook*

sincerely I have issues with men who like to overuse women. its a serious matter pls watchout.

makzeze:
"No be today e start, e don tey"...Nigerian women dancing at a popular night club in Yaba, Lagos in 1967. The Popular club owner said: “We don’t care What Part Of The World you are From, we are all friends. Yoruba’s, Hausa’s, Ibo’s, Edo's All Come To my Club To drink Together As Friends”.

The difference between then and now is the dressing....The women were properly covered back in the days unlike the unclothedness which is seen today in most night clubs in the country...

source:http://www.nationalhelm.com/2015/07/historical-pix-nigerian-women-dancing.html

ladies dont even dress this way to church these days.

Later she will start running around with bottles of annointing oil for prayers ssshhhheeewww....

seunlayi:
i wish something can be done on nairaland to stop all this madness about ftc and rush to make fp. it is just disgusting.

you made it anyway..

alexistaiwo:
Had a heated argument with my girlfriend today. In the course of exchanging words she said that she is always approached by guys better than me, guys I can never compare to. she made it sound as though she is doing me a favour by dating me.

Though I love her and she loves me too, some words are relationship deal breakers. I just can't get that statement out of my head even after much apologies and crying on her part.

pls watch out for that babe! bad sign, I repeat bad sign... the eyes that goes blind at nite begins to bring out pulse in the morning.

did dey actually go there for a snap shot? other are busy eating.....

ketekete:
Dear Mod, pardon me as I have no idea which category this photo belongs to.

This is a photo of a German lady that loves Nigeria so dearly. She was pictured last Sunday in Bremen, Germany during the African football cup organized by a Nigerian, Chief Tala Awolola, which is also the most popular African gathering in Germany.

source: http://ketekete.com/beautiful-german-lady-puts-on-nigerian-dress/

https://ketekete.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/DSC_0036-e1440840031131.jpg

na she know who she dey copy...

I left for the airport straight from my friends wedding, the table knife I used to slice her cake was right in my handbag, as my bag passed thru the scanner behold the knife and dat was the end of the knife. then in the aircraft I stylishly used my experience frm the luxurious buses I had entered previously to sort myself out and also eagerly watching and copying others. lols!

experimentist:
Which kain dirty house be dis?! and who piss for that place?

FTC anyway

I hop its not his house? wall are quite dirty.

moscobabs:
u need a job

lols!

emorse:
I'd accept them, return them intact and score massive points in the fidelity test.

are u returning them back immediately or later, because later may mean u used bought another and replaced it. lols!

na wao, life is truely in phases, no crowd to welcom dem like before and am wondering wat patience is doing at d corner scratching her head. hhhhhmmm who says power is not sweet.

these tribe and their attitude of walking barefooted shhaaaa...

pls find out from ur mum both family history on marriage abuse this could be an evil pattern so u can seek for delievrance asap before ur marriage will crash. kill the evil beast before it kills u. my advice though...

hop he is ok, I dnt like anything brain surgery makes me tink person can never be the same again.... I feel d surgery may affect the modular oblongata... my tinking though.

bravesoul247:
I seriously don't know how it started but all I can say is I love my boss. I started working with this travel agency recently and there is this charming lady I always meet anytime I have issues with a client and we solve it together, so in the process of tackling these problems together I will always tell her she's looking beautiful and all.

One day, a client came with her daughter to book flight, while the woman was with this my boss I was having a light chat with her daughter but I never knew that my boss was watching me, after the whole booking she was like "so I'm toasting that woman's daughter abi, in fact all guys are the same'.

She kept on talking about it and stuffs like I have guts, my voice sounds like a flirt's own( I do it on purpose though). I arrived my office one fateful morning and greeted all my colleagues then a colleague of mine that I seem to be having a crush on told me that my boss told her that me and my colleague are having a crush on each other and that we are always hugging ourselves everywhere, later my boss left her office and came to our office then I purposely started flirting with that my colleague to see my boss' reaction and she repeated that same statement again.

Now I dreamt that I saw my boss in my dream and we kissed, lol. The problem is that she talks too much (make no go cast me for my other ogas front in case I wanna make any move) and she's older than me maybe with 3 or 4 years or 2 self and she's a big and classy lady, she get ride sef while me still de trek. I'm just so confused because I hate it when I love someone and I can't express it or tell it to the person because she's my boss. Please I need you guys to advice me, I don't know what to do.

if u cannot tell her den forgerrit. have'nt u heard dat no matter how tall an okro is, u can still pluck it if u want it.

Omololu007:
pics or i dont bliv it happned

I eagerly expected to see the pic and den saw noting.

Bring the job and I will make the best cleaner in the world! #teamcleaningcareer#

Haba! why lagos girls?

I really hate washing. dnt quote me and say I fix nails because am allergic to artificial nails.

Adesiji77:
Banks Implement Charges On Cash Withdrawals Nationwide (Cashless Policy)



http://businessdayonline.com/2015/07/cashless-policy-banks-implement-charges-on-cash-withdrawals-nationwide/

but dis has been on since. only charges on cash deposit was lifted. every cash withdral in excess of 500 2% charges is taken for the excess.

delishpot:
Tell her the seller did not have the one you wanted and as soon as they get it, you will bring it for her. Then let her know about the messages you saw and tell her you need a break.

you wicked !! lols.

pple will eat the food wit mixed feelings! I will not eat though.... I will reject it.

how can she put a bone in a dogs mouth to keep? I wuld have almost raped her if I were you, she shuld know it is dangerous to live wit a guy in same room who is not ur blood broda.

am guilty ur honour!!!!

sleekman:
This is to bring to your attention the latest extortion and defrauding techniques employed by ladies of low virtue and the police. I recently fell to one of such ladies. She attacked me and went to report at the police station. They cooked up lies and fabricated all manner of charges. The lady claimed I beat her up and stole her gold chain.

Now its especially worse when you have witnesses and no one wants to turn up to bear witness as to what happened. I had to pay her N150,000 on the advice of my lawyer. He advised that going to court will be expensive. N150,000 will be his professional fee to represent me in court. Bail is N120k and I'll need a surety with tax clearance. If I can't produce one then I'll need to hire a professional surety at a cost of N30-50k and then the time wasted.

So I want to advice and inform everyone that the police have a pact with prostitutes to bring them business. If a lady attacks you in broad day light then immediately report to the nearest police station and claim that you had property worth millions or thousands. In so doing you have destroyed her game plan and that of the police. Please share any experience similar to this you might have so that we can all learn from it.

I dont understand the part u said u shuld claim property worth millions of thousands. so sorry for the embarrassment u went thru.

frank043:
You stylishly avoided answering the question... Hmmmm. Diaris god oooo.

sincerely I had to remove my pic cos it was getting too much attention. jokes apart am cute believe it or not.