₦airaland Forum

Happy birthday ma. The rest of your life shall be the best.

Our leaders are well known for misconduct and lawlessness, what a dysfunctional system.

NCDC be changing their modus operandi like fashion show.

Emilokoiyawon:
Hope he rots and dies in prison

Or he should be killed by hanging.

No much issue now as na man kill woman!

phransix2:
U and phoork them use am do u

No sir, I just like it that all.

I had they even engage in phoorking romp in isolation centres.

Yenefer:
I guess That's why we have light for like three days without the one hour off between 4 and 5 pm

Yea, but it could be initial gragra.. I hope we don't go back to status quo.

Anni3e:
Hi, I have been married for 9 years now, the problem I have with my husband is that his family members keep sucking him dry and the way he neglects us his immediate family.

He is the first child of 7 children, his siblings even the married ladies keep asking him for money. He keeps spending money on them and their husbands. His brothers keep crying they are broke, they keep leeching off him.

His two junior brothers that always ask him for money, one of them built a house in Port Harcourt and the other one built a big house in the village. Still they won't let him rest.

His married sisters are the worst. If they cough they would call him to send money, every minor thing they would expect money. Just this evening his sister called him to ask for money. We don't have a house of our own, I keep telling my husband to stop giving in to all their demands and invest the money on something, he would say I am turning him against his family.

We have 2 kids and I have told him we need to start saving for their future, I pay the electricity bill, foodstuffs, and most times the children school fees, he pays the house rent and rarely keeps money for home upkeep, he sometimes drops two thousand and that's it for the whole week. He always complains he has no more, but once his family calls him he sends money immediately.

I have saved enough to buy a land and I am not planning to include his name in the property. I don't know what to deal with, his family entitlement mentality or the way he neglects the kids and I and treat us like outsiders.

I am really pissed off and tired.

Sorry for the long post.

Stop confronting him, or complain about his family members device subtle means of getting money from him without any row and start a secret project pay attention to it till you are done. Otherwise you will loose at both ends eventually.

Afamed:
Did you read the article or you read but you didn't understand the write up?
The new process, as it was detailed in the thread, was it not about giving the food items to their parents and guidance now in the present face of lockdown or you read another thread entirely?

Ok.Are you happy?

Afamed:
But you all applauded the UK and US government when they few weeks ago took foods items to their citizens in their various home. Why is the same process now not necessary in Nigeria?

Because there is almost nothing done by our government with sincerity of purpose, everything has an undertone of fraud.How does it sound to label an expense as feeding school children in the face of this lockown and the children are out of school session? Don't these children have parents or are they orphans under the perpetual care of FG? Other climes did same, but they labeled it appropriately and distributed accordingly.

Ok, agreed it is not a scam, is it necessary at this material time? Loopholes!

phransix2:
Lucky you...

Thanks!

phransix2:
Aswear I haven't... What abt u?

Yes, I have never lacked phoork before and during the lockdown. I was in my boyfriend's house all through I am expecting him now in my place and i am getting ready for a romp.

TheKingIsHere:
Tested by WHO abi?

Better wake up, WHO does not have your best interest at hand

Which WHO? Who is WHO? Are you not aware how WHO recently confirm positive a specimen of goat, quail and papaya leave positive and could not defend it?

phransix2:
I can't wait please I have been fun starved... Malls, cinemas, beaches and other funspots should pls open abeg!!!

But you have been Phoorking anyway?

Abeg they should wait for validation jare, how can Nigeria pay for what has not been tested and proven? Them no get common sense?

Lekan239:
My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.

It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.

Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.

My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.

So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.

2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.

So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.

After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.

Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.

Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.

Going by your story three of you are old enough to give him some good punches in the face may be that will reset his medulla oblongata .

Na wao Femi has found himself in a boiling point, cos Gambari will always remember those word and dish out all the hatred his heart can hold against Femi.

The arrogance of our leaders towards the masses is unprecedented, they control the masses like robbot, when questions are thrown to them on vague issues all they do is throw tantrums, i wonder when our leaders will become accountable to the masses.

Richardonald:
op you just describe a little about me, especially the girls side, but I do care for my siblings and people around me.

this part describe me..
Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me,

You are unconsciously attending a witchcraft class, you will soon graduate. Congratulations in advance!

Alero3Arubi:
Congrats.
I am happy for you.
Please i would like to have an online focus interview with you.
I am on a research about socio-cultural impact of childlessness among married couples.
Your story will go a long way in helping me out.
Whoa, congrats ooo.
Didn't know people bought into surrogacy in Nigeria.

Surrogacy is fast taking hold in our society, i know a couple of people who did and are happy parents today.

nony43:
I am not an Atiku fan, but he is making sense, Buhari was saying he will sell off some Presidential jets when he becomes president till today he is yet to sell one. Sell the Damn jets and fund the budget, but oga is bent on borrow borrow, Those Jets plus Abacha loot are enough to fund the budget let's not even mention revenues coming from IGR, Customs etc

Buhari said a lot of things he didn't do, well "easy is to say and difficult is to do"

Now he claim he doesn't know the whereabouts of the Chinese doctors. But he was fully involved in their transit process into the country while taking pictures with them upandan, why didn't they tell us the doctors were not our guest? a lot of bruhaha when this so called doctors arrived, when will our leaders learn to be accountable for their actions, well i really don't blame them sometimes because we are gullible citizens and allow anything to go.

Seriously i am trying very hard to understand the rationale behind FG claims to feed school children out of session in the face of this lock down , this is just one of their numerous loopoles for embezzlement.

From frying pan to fire...

Is the man in navy blue auto resistant to covid 19? He is not wearing a mask.

Davash222:
I'm not talking about Sudanese, Ghanaian or Chadian girls. There's a big difference between foreign girls and Foreign girls.

See this olodo rapata, foreign girls indeed, are you foreign?

Davash222:
You did well.

Try and get yourself a foreign girlfriend when you're ready to hook up again. Stay away from Nigerian girls.

Ignorance is bliss!

Localemperor:
Its is no longer news that I have been declared insolvent. After all effort to maintain my liquidity level to no avail I decide to let her go.

Just as organization retrenched worker during periods of economic downturn in order to cut cost of operations, I sent her a massage expressing my regret and reasons.


I feed her
I pay money for hair dressing
I buy clothes
I take her out every weekend
I buy shoes
I do everything thinkable

She works and earns but I still wonder why she would want me to do everything for her. I compiled my income statement and statement of financial position for the first quarter and found out that expenditures have exceeded income and debt is on the rise.

So I wholeheartedly declared my self insolvent yesterday and decided to cut cost in order to protect my goodwill.

Commendable.

Federal government have finally deleted shame from their dictionary, who are they deceiving? Disgusting liars! How do you claim to feed school children out of session or are they orphans under the perpetual care of federal government?

Exmilitant:
Sowore is becoming annoying. The position of cos is the exclusive of the president. You appoint your confidante to that position not just anyone.. Gambari was only protecting Nigeria's image not defending abacha.

Just like Abba Kyari did and was labeled a demon.