₦airaland Forum

I wish our leaders will suspended so many issues and pay attention to the security situation in the country.
Until it starts affecting them directly, they will never take insecurity seriously.

Exactly how they killed my son in University of Agriculture Makurdi😭😭😭
May God comfort his immediate family, I cannot forget the pains my family went through that period.

This is right time for another air strike!

That is if he even think at all after talking

Obaofaba:
This guy is not fit to be a class captain in a secondary school in Nigeria.

He talks before thinking.

It they like let them hold their legs that one no concern me, all I know is that they're all same recircled old thieves.

Ghana are still lagging far behind shaaaa......

It all depends on the kind of jollof rice you want to cook.

Any house wen haunt me I will haunt you back.

2face can't mess with Natasha, she will finish him kpatakpata!
Edo girls no dey carry last

nlfpmod:
Chidimma Adetshina has won Miss Universe Nigeria 2024.

Make South Africa rest!

People that commit crime in abroad have mind, I can't even think of it not to talk of trying, chances are you will always be caught.

Why giving her upper hand?
You missed it already!
Be the man, but do not maltreat her.

officialwdhtv:
Davido & Chioma jet out of Nigeria after their amazing wedding ceremony ♥️

#chivido2024 #wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tGCaMB9SE60

Cubana chief priest no follow them?

AyobamiOluwole:
So this girl has been coming to my place, eat the best food and all that. I've asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said no. I do give her money without asking her for anything on return because I could see she is not the lazy type and she is really hardworking. I am very much ok with finances and I see no issues with some of her demands.


Yesterday I called her and told her that I'm not happy and that I need cuddle only and not sex(I lost so much Dollars from futures trading that night). She later called and said she will come to my place for that reason. In my mind I was thinking this will go down as sex and all, but I don't really want sex.

All I just needed is someone to cuddle and get distracted with that's all. This is the only time I am demanding something from her.

So she came during the evening time, and later that night we went to supermarket and I got her something's to eat at home for the night. We got back home and everything was going well. We were both on the bed when I reminded her why she came. This is someone I've been doing quite a lot for without even thinking twice out of pity. She wouldn't give in and wouldn't let me know why she can't just allow me to cuddle her.

Mehn, from the loss I had earlier and all that, I got infuriated and called another girl telling to pls come over for the night. Then I told this girl to leave my house since she can be that selfish. I sent her out of my house around 10pm. She was telling me she doesn't have money to go home, I didn't care and I shut my door against her. Though I was scared letting her out on that road and that time of the night but my anger got the better part of me. It was later after getting over the whole thing I confirmed nothing happened to her from someone else.

Pls is there anything wrong with what I did?

Modified: Anger is a bad thing. I am wrong sending her away at that time of the night. This is probably the judgement I'll get 😔

Something is definitely not right about you.

money121:
In all honesty, it can't happen to my son in the first place, but if they chose to dare me, the teacher and the principal will go in for it.

No need to jail you, I will request to do same to your child, if you don't have any child then you go to jail

Missowombo:
Dear Family landers. I am here to seek your advice on how to rescue my car from my neighbour.
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I bought a car, direct from abroad, a very clean and sweet ride, and registered in September, 2023 (5months ago). However, due to the high fuel consumption( V6, 3.5l engine) and the ever unstable fuel price today, I decided to put it up for sale to get a smaller engine capacity. A neighbour expressed interest in buying the car and decided to pay in installment which I agreed. I was also searching for a replacement at this time hoping to use the money realized from the sales to get my preferred ride. My preferred ride prices were shockingly high such that even if I doubled the price I gave to my neighbour it will still not be enough to buy the new ride. Prices rise by the hour these days in Nigeria and I have no hand in this crisis. I returned to my neighbour to inform him that I will not be selling the car anymore due to the present crises in prices of goods in the country. I apologized profusely for every inconvenience and transferred his money back to him. He got angry and said that I must submit the car key and documents to him. He even threatened to send his community and area boys to beat me up and extract the above items.

I came back from work to see my car jacked up, surrounded by 2 other vehicles to prevent the car's exit. For the records, there is no written or signed agreement between him and I concerning this sale. I refunded all his money 1 day after he paid his last installment and kept back my car. I have no hand in Nigeria's current problems. I am pushed to use force here but I am thinking that some initial peaceful resolution could be an option.

How long did you keep his money?
That could have contributed to his anger.
That your neighbor na agbero shaaaa....

God I pray he comes back alive!
I would prefer he stay indoors and let others tell him the scores.
The kind of excitement football gives is not for everybody, especially those that have underlying ailment.

The kind of excitement football gives is not for the faint hearted, he probably had an underlining ailments which couldn't match such excitement.
May his soul rest in perfect peace.

Raydave:
Someone is earning 150k, wearing suit and going to work from Ketu to VI every morning.

Is that life?

I had to move close to my office.
15 minutes walk.
Tired of spending transport to work.

The solution to a problem is in the problem.
Just exposed yourself to circumstances that will keep getting you angry, dem go beat shege comot for your head.
This is a tested and trusted solution.
Thank me later!

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

Firstly, be civilized enough to stop using the word "throw her out"
Secondly if your story is true and you didn't pamper it, please end the relationship ASAP it will surely end it premium disaster.
A word is enough for the wise!

2023 my year of divine intervention and supernatural open door.
I will never recover!
Grateful heart!

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

Why asked her if you know you didn't have the psychological and mental stamina to take it?

Edipet:
how did you carry the baby alone on the road, Because in some areas man is not allowed to Carry a New born baby alone, if Police catch you, you go explain tire

No need to carry the baby around, just a sample of hair, blood or saliva will do.

PrinceOfLagos:
I'm a free spirited person and want to send something to my boss for Christmas. Is it appropriate to tell him to send me his account number let me send him something for Christmas even when I know he doesn't need it?

You dey play enter express road!
Better get your boss a gift and rest!

Congratulations to her, but is it necessary?
Luxurious lifestyle only reminds me of eternity and how vanity life is!
Moderation is key!

Omooba77:
What Are your prayers God have answered in year 2023?

God surprised me with a wonderful job in June 2023.
I will never forget!
Forever grateful!

callmemakaveli:
Opening Nigeria Paypal account is as easy as ABC, except there is something you are not doing correctly. And also take note, you can only send and spend with a Nigerian Paypal account but you can't receive payments. Paypal is very complicated if you don't how it works. I will advise you use Payoneer instead for your Kdp earnings.

Thank you.
Most appreciated

callmemakaveli:
Be specific when asking a question.

Which country Paypal have you tried opening to no avail? And what is your purpose of wanting a PayPal account, Is it only to send and spend, or to send, receive, and also spend?

I tried opening Nigeria PayPal.
I want you use it for receiving online payment and also spend.
I want to start selling books on Amazon.

Good evening mods, kindly help and move to front page as I'm desperately in need of solution.
I have been trying to open a Paypal account to no avail, please any suggestion on how to go about opening it?
Please someone should come to my aid
Thank you all in advance.

Handsomejok:
I have been a victim of fake proohet which has destroyed my home in the past.

My wife and I were separated before and we have reconciled although our marriage is not the best but we are managing staying together for the sake of our children.

I have a problem bothering me that I keep dreaming about her wanting to kill me this dream is coming more often and I strongly believed she has no intention to harm me but I remember once when we were arguing I asked her why she has decided to come back to me if she doesn't want to do any effort to amend our marriage.

She said she cane back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children. When I think about what she said and also the way she treat me like her enemy I am scared and I started to think of what if she came with a plan to harm me to revenge back all the suffering I have put her through. I am confuse and I don't know what to do right now please advice me?

A good thing you know you have put her through so much suffering, you will surely not escape it.
BTW why do men think only women should do something to save a marriage?