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the posture of his hand is like dat of his father.

xp17:
@the bolded,
There's dignity in labor. Never disrespect or look down on anyone regardless of his/her status quo.

You'll make a terrible boss

watever, but be reminded that respect is reciprocal.

ima30:
Hello. I have been with my guy for five years now. We are getting married next year. The thing is we are going to live in his family house, with his extended family. I didn't like the idea but I found a way to accept it seeing as its quite comfy and it means we won't have to worry about rent. Its basically a two bedroom apartment. The only thing I share with the rest of the family is back yard and staircase. He said we would do three years while he is building his own house.

His elder brother who is married lives in that same building. It's the maid THEY hired this year to take care of their sick dad, that worries me. The mom is late. She is very disrespectful to me. So many things happen and when he speaks to her about it, she won't bulge. All because it was the elder brother that interviewed her so she doesn't listen to almost anyone else. I spoke to my guy that I would not live with a maid that has not greeted me for almost a year or has no regard for my home or wouldn't obey him. He said he can't tell her to go because she is close to his brother's wife and she takes care of his dad.

This may sound petty but it's serious. All this family house wahala, if I tell him to rent a house he would say I'm not appreciating all his efforts to make sure we marry next year. I did laundry the other day came back and met the clothes soaked on the clothing line with all the rain that fell, meanwhile she brought in every other persons cloth inside. It might not be a big deal, but I don't want to resent any body I live with in my future home.

I need that maid gone, how do I get rid of her? The worst part is that since they all live together, he needs his brother's approval before he does almost anything, if I complain it would seem as if I wanna cause friction between both brothers. But there has been cases where changes were made by his brother and my guy wasn't even consulted. The maid before her was paid by my guy for two years straight, she didn't insult anybody. She left cuz his brother told him to sack her. That their father needed better attention and she wasn't a good cook. Na so my guy sack the girl. No question. They brought this one now and my guy paid for some month's and stopped because she was rude to him and me. His bro has been paying since. But my guy still pays nepa bills and those other things to run the house. Yet when he talks to this maid she won't listen.

How do I get her go? I don't like her one bit. She just basically work for the brother and his wife. I can't even send he to buy me matches. She calls me by name, would not greet. My guy told her to stop all these things, she still didn't listen. Please.

she will com bak to her senses the moment u decide to ignore her and behave as though she does not exist! but wait how can u allow a common housemaid to give u hypertension? God forbid! pls place her where she belongs to jare!

anoda blessing in disguise.

wen did being nude become an embarrasment to tiwa savage? is it because she didnt do it deliberately?

I love this dude! John dumelo.

Whenever u r on ur menses avoid him for those days till u r done, otherwise pack ur load and run for ur dear live.

nawao! if I talk now dem go say I dey jealous.

so how can vehicles move? one of nigeria wonders! may God protect motorist on that road. Amen#@/÷

They shuld have wrapped it at least let only the young man know wat is inside.

NKFOODVERIETIES:
Old mama

remain young forever! watever insult u sow u shall reap.

chocolateme:
After baby mama episode comes high blood pressure.

sure! d kind annie idibia went through and has not recovered!

ednut1:
Sure, dat one na teller salary in some banks. 70-80k nd dey hv jst ond

seconded!

onila:
she used to cry for years

worried, desperate

there was a time, she wanted to marry a poor man with a broken leg, just because she was so desperate

at 39 years old, she met this rich Yoruba guy who has never married before, he was like 41 years old

they got married and she got pregnant in less than a year and had twins . . . .Amen!

he said they shldnt have kids again
that he suffered when he was small and he doesnt want to have many children
good, dey had twins. no worries of having kids esp when his wife started having kids old


ladies never settle less, marry the right one
even if it will take you years

congrats to her.

lilmax:
Nobody can take care of your child except you

Op is here saying she can't believe what the mother is going through, nonsense

Continue hiring maids, your career is more important than your child

Maids are not nice as you see them, they are bitter (lack opportunities) so don't expect the best from them

sure they are bitter, they always have a way of transferring their aggressions from parents to these kids. Parents pls try and be nice to ur maids, if u cannot cope with dem pls show dem the way forward without much ado!!

pheeewwwww!! fine guy, wish dem hml.

Tell him to pls take it easy its not as bad as he takes it. I was a one time stammerer while growing up mine was really bad dat I had to throw my head bak and forth before I culd speak, every sentence I tried to make was always broken thereby making my speech uninteresting and discouraged my listeners, it came to a point no one wanted to listen to me anymore but I was not discouraged, my family stood by me and encouraged me greatly especially my eldest sister, I began to talk less and mingle less. However with prayers and anger managment I was able to overcome it, I discovered as I was growing older stammering reduced untill now I speak very fluently without anyone knowing I once had that as a social problem.

Freegift75:
I don't want to open the door of temptation to my junior brother's wife by letting her wailing all about. It could be the beginning of waywardness

as long as your brother is no more alive she is free to live her live, I wonder how that concerns you, the best u culd do is to consider the childrens welfare dats all.

RIP to d dead! but wat happened to the 37, 000?

Congrats to u seun, but I didnt see ur pishure

I wonder wat beauty contest is turning into, was there actually a selection? they are beautiful in their own right though...gone are the days wen u see beauty contestants and u are really confused as to who takes d day!

I wonder wat beauty contest is turning into, was there actually a selection? they are beautiful in their own right though...

dey've gat the same kinda lips.

tyson99:
I wonder how the wailers will be feeling now,it's been a while I hear from temitemi1 or is it only fayose's topic that he comments on

been looking out for him myself....

TheFatOne:
I'm currently 30kg overweight and still adding. I just can't seem to resist food I know I'm going down a very unhealthy path but I can't help eating. Please has anyone been in this situation before and lost weight.

Please how can I overcome the temptation of overeating and lose the excess weight. I don't wanna suffer diabetes or hypertension neither do I wanna die of a heart attack. I'm only 22 years old.

. I already know of the calories consumed and calories burnt thing but I still end up over eating after attempting to count calories. Is there any product that has helped anyone here to lose weight quickly .?



Lalasticlala help me.

pls get AIM alliance slim fast and watch urself beat down ur weight while still lookin good and healthy.

menix:
Certainly in all situation you should give God the glory..

But there are situations u begin to wonder if God exist, u put in all ur best. Yet nothing yielding, u have prayed and fasted yet u feel u were only talking to urself.

Well they said God's time is the best yet u re getting old.

Well I still give God the glory ooo buh I dey use one eye dey look am shaa..

I no fit laugh abeg!

Vig86:
Bad one

How?

Gbawe:
Cut out the mischief. Who suggested that to you? You deliberately chose "the cannot walk" category yet ignored the "do not want to walk" category which would cover even a fit President the host Country hospitably insist should board a cart rather than walk a long distance.

Even if Buhari is 50, why would the host Country allow him and his entourage to walk 1 kilometre from their arrival gate to the airport exit when these carts are available to transport them in relative comfort? I don't know why you guys have be mischievous about everything.

Below are images of Obama and Bush using modest carts on a golf course. Why are they not in Limousines and why are they not walking? Because that unimpressive vehicle is the only one available to use , whether you are a President or a taxi driver, to cover long distances on a golf course. Ditto airports.


https://cryptome.org/info/obama-protect13/pict40.jpg

https://secretaryofinnovation.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/gw-bush-gordon-brow-in-golf-cart.jpg

noted!

lovelyronke20:
yes now, why not?

sincerely I keep wondering the same, something tells me its over exaggerated. She is pretty tho.

Gbawe:
Don't you get the simple fact being pointed out to you here? If you are going to go through normal boarding or arrival, which involves walking through the interior of the airport, then this is the only vehicular transport available to all who do not want to walk or cannot walk - be it a Prime Minister or a tourist. Of course their President will not use the cart because it is his Country and he is the number one citizen and thus likely to be driven directly to the tarmac to board his plane. Anybody else who has to go through the airport, whoever they are, must walk or use the travel cart provided.

hhhhmmmm I see, so this is due to our presidents inability to walk?

But wait, do dey carry their president, prime minister and other world leaders in this cack? I dnt care how much it cost^/$##%÷×