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dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

If you don't leave, I'll find you and knock your head...

Wickedtruths:
"A brand plucked from the burning"

Still read this yesterday during my study and reading it now in context of the topic rocked me...a tree snatched from flaming fire...God help me. God help us all. God help Nigeria.

Liispa:
It is sufficient. Faster, even.

Thank tons Liispa.

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Sorry bro, all the good doctors are far away in the UK, USA, Canada, UAE and other good and humane nations.

Let your dad ask him again nicely.

If after, he is proving stubborn and unreasonable. Write a petition against him to the NBA Legal Practitioners Disciplinary Commitee. Subsequently, write a petition against him to the Zonal Police HQ.

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MillerJnr:
my brother this your comment is too poor and totally off point,
they simply meant you should keep all 12.5kg cylinders outside and connect a hose to your kitchen,
trust me , you don't wanna see how the explosion of 12.5kg cylinder would be like.

Really? It must be so awful.

How will they get such huge size to a camp in the first place? Is a camp not for prayers or have Nigerians started camping in the woods too? Like Halloween?

Yaoli:
I’ve informed my dad and you know he’s a typical Nigerian full of ITK he will keep remembering me this issue till I die that i’m a fraudster I know that already ..

I really wanted to be very severe with you but I won't. Maligning your dad is not the way to go.

chibaby1985:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1848452395298623&id=444807728996437

That is my church.

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Remember - God is not static. He is the unchanging Changer! Enjoy your Sunday evening.

lx3as:
Head, Leader, General, President.

Oh, thank you lx3as!

lx3as:
If it's the meaning of the name you so cherish, then these are cool for female: Ọnà (if you're from Ekiti or Ìjèsà; that's where Aluko, a male surname, is popular; Ọnà [Ẹwà] means beauty or what one uses to beautify) and Ọ̀sẹwà. Better still, Àlàkẹ́ is a beautiful female name also.

There was a time a friend wanted to name his daughter 'Àrẹ'; when people around started saying it's for male, he changed it to 'Areola' and the name is so perfect for the girl.

What's the meaning of Are?

Omooba77:
That is exactly what I copied.

You're right. That is all there is on that link. However, there is more actually. There's a PDF attached at the bottom of the page where the links lead to.

I'll share tomorrow a summary of the broadcast. I'll mention you if you are interested.

Omooba77:
I cant fathom anything from this State of the nation address

This is the link to the full text of the State of the Nation broadcast that was made this morning.

http://tundebakare.com/resetting-nigeria-on-the-path-of-predictable-progress/

Femiblacky:
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DeHitMan450:
Wow!this is a miracle by the almighty GOD that since the closure of the Nigerian border,we dont hear anymore sad news about Fulani herdmen killings,that shows that mercenary were hired by team WAILERS to creat division among ethnic and tribal groups in Nigeria.
To even show how evil minded that they are,they killed pa Fasanrati's daughter in order to set the Yorubas against the Fulanis.
I pray that the border should be closed if this measure will make us sleep with our two eyes close and bring peace to our beloved country,1LOVE.

Your foolishness is superlative.

I'll explain for those who care to now.

Buhari is the 15th number one citizen of Nigeria. Tunde Bakare is the 16th.

Say what you will. You're all coming back to eat your words.

LIES!!!

Mekenz:
I'm not advocating violence in a marriage, my points is that some women can push their men to the wall,to the point of you laying hands on them. I have some of them around.

Quite unfortunate that you're surrounded by such poor examples, I'm surrounded by couples who enjoy their marriages without ever resorting to physical violence. Your outlook on OP's post is very very unwholesome.

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Glory to glory!

nairalee:
But really do ladies do this? I don't think so. How can a lady meet a guy for the first time and ask for iPhone? I think people exaggerate ladies behaviors nowadays.

I think we attract our likes. If as a guy you're acting as a sugar daddy looking for a lady to just rubbish then u may be seeing such girls on a regular basis

But as a serious and responsible guy you'll meet at least relatively reasonable girls.

I've never met the kind of girls Apostle Suleman is talking about in my life

God bless you bro.

Eti osa

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SageMK:
That man isn't a begger.
Beggers cannot be choosers.

Wrong!

https://reddit.com/r/choosingbeggars

ReneeNuttall:
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Ese gan
U can add the rest..... Thanks a lot.

You're welcome.

ReneeNuttall:
Most of these online beggars are lazy people who do not want to labour but want to enjoy from the benefits of others who have laboured for their money.



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The dude's account is incredible, incredulous and sounds so contrived.