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staicey: Errr.. I don't know.
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But I heard in IMO state, it is been paid according to what the girl studied in school.
Say, #100,000 for a medical doctor
#80,000 for a veterinary doctor
#50,000 for a pharmacist
#30,000 for bankers.. And so on
I don't know o. It is what I heard. Nobody should crucify me please

igbsam: And you call that ridiculous ? My friend got married to an owerri girl last year. He paid a bride price of N2.5million, after which, he bought the wedding materials for all the relatives, from the mother, to the father down to the uncles and aunties, the sisters and cousins including nephews. He was also give 2 family members to train in school and business. After 8months of the wedding.....the bride's father demanded for a car and the father specifically asked for a 2005 c-class Mercedes Benz Car which he borrow money to buy for him. The mother asked for some money to fill her shop with stocks which my friend is still finding it difficult to give her. Isn't this ridiculous ?

idnoble135: I’ve been knowing this
guy I’m seeing for about
ten years. We meet when
we were in high school. We always liked each other
and messed around while we
were in school. So, after we
graduated we both went to
different universities. So, as
time goes by, we run into each other again. So we
immediately hit it off. He was
so sweet and interested in my
life. We just started talking
and catching up, getting to
know each all over again. Then he told me that he need
some money, so I helped him.
So, after a while he began
asking me for money and lots
of it. He has a job, but always
wants to spend my money. Then I asked him since we’ve
been talking for about a year
why won’t he make me his
girl, and he tells me that he’s
not ready for a relationship.
Then he tells me the only way he will gal me is if I give him a
certain amount of money. He
told me that if I gave him that
then it proves that I really
love him and is down for him.
So, I gave it to him and then he started treating me worse
than he already was. Then I told him that I couldn’t
give any more money. Then
he threatened me by saying if
I don’t give it to him then he
won’t ever talk to me again.
Then he tells me that he can find another girl who will do
what I won’t. Then he only
calls me if he wants money,
but tells me that he loves me
and wants to marry me. I
don’t know what to do, but I love this guy. I want to
know is he just using me or
what? I really need some
advice.
.
.
Break. Up with him..he is using u
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FlirtyKaren: so cute

http://www.lailasblog.com/2013/05/picture-of-desmond-elliot-and-his.html

chachacorner: http://chachacorner.com/nollwoods-rukky-sanda-flaunts-figure-in-bikini-photos/

Rukky Sanda's definitely living the life these days coupled with the fact that I never knew she was such a good script writer and producer too. Anyway, before I deviate.. I love her bikini wear. Chic's definitely hot.. You like?

nuelanagha: Dear fellow nairalanders,
Am an 18 year old who started suffering from acne since I finished secondary school and gained admission. I have used all sorts of facial creams and soaps ranging from Nixoderm, Funbact-A,Epiderm all to no avail, it still breaks out again. Recently I started using Neo-medrol which has worked fairly enough, but am beginning to have dark spots lefts by d pimples(Don't know if its cause o the neo-medrol lotion am using) and I try my best not to pop them or touch my face, I have oily skin too. Pls this is spoiling my one spotless/smooth face, have also tried honey, olive oil and all sorts o things. Pls help neeede ASAP!!! Thanks in advance

TechRev: Inspire them to produce what??

BIGVAJINA: i am soaked in sweat as i type this fellow nairalanders. ever since i became pregnant, my husband,s attitude has changed drastically. he no longer kisses me, hugs me nor eats with me. in the night, its worst. i beg him to make lov to me, but he wouldnt. what do i do?

Akpangbon: If its Nigeria, they will heap curses on the government. SA with her incredibly bad crime records still go out there defending themselves on atrocities committed in their country.

Kaymisola: It appears Uti Nwachukwu, winner of big brother 5 is married!
He posted these photos of him with the caption "Shoutout to Flavour and @iam_kcee !! Real brothers that always come thru. Yesterday was awesome. The ceremony was peaceful and perfect. Thanks all" on his instagram page some minutes ago. - if not his wedding, we wonder whose then!
Before then - about 18 hours ago, he tweeted "preparing for the wedding" but we didn't exactly take him serious because we weren't sure - we are still not sure though.
His followers on twitter asked him if the marriage was for real or for a video shoot (Flavour Nabiana - he performed at the occasion) but he refused to answer!
See PICTURES for yourself...http://www.kemifilani.com/2013/05/uti-nwanchukwu-holds-traditional.html
You will recall that this same UTI caused a stir on the social media 2 years ago when he had a royal wedding with Munachi Abii

50calibre: When a man marries a woman, she becomes his property. He owns her completely and gets to decides what happens in the marriage.

You are violating the sanctity of marriage by trying to rub shoulders with your husband. You have to understand that a woman isn't equal to a man.

Go and read the bible, you would understand better. Pray to God to change his ways, worship him as next to God and he would change. If he doesn't then accept your fate and carry your cross gracefully.

DnigerianPrince: I recently met this girl and she was honest enough to tell me that she cheated twice on her ex twice

First time with a guy, second time with another. They eventually broke up and she attributed it to her ex finding out and breaking up with her and how she was also done, according to her, she wasn't getting enough attention, care and love and had been long over the relationship before it waas over. As a matter of fact, the guy has been begging her to come back which is kinda weird considering she cheated so, might be true about the neglect.

To be fair to her, it was a long distance relationship (same country) and the guy never for once attempted to see her for over 3 months.
She was very honest with me about everything and i'm not sure many girls will do that.

With that said, this girl likes me a lot and seems to be in love with me, i'm falling for her as well and she's said the ball is in my court. My fear is that i've been a victim of a serious infidelity in a relationship, my ex cheated on me which was shattering and left me scarred

It's been a long time since that and i've pretty much been single since my ex and i'm long over it but is this the right way to get back in the game? For those hwo have cheated in previous reltionships, do you see/find yourself doing it again?

Serious reponses only