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1. How long do you see our relationship lasting?

Well, depending on how you behave...could end a moment from now

[b]2. How much do you love me?

Baby, do you seriously want me to answer that?...cos there's no standard measure to quantify love

[b]3. What is your opinion of marriage?

People that rush into it rush out!

[b]4. Do you see us ever getting married?

Yeah...infact I'd like to invite Bill Gate and Obama, those 2 are like my closest buddies

[b]5. What do you love about me the most?

The way you look, reminds me of the rabbit I once had...I love that one

[b]6. If I died in a horrible accident, how would you react?

Baby, that will be sad...but thank God, you have a sister! And she's cute

[b]7. How can I prove my love for you?

Hmm...can you escort me to Liberia?

[b]8. Do you feel like you can tell me anything?

Ofcourse...if it concerns you

[b]9. Do you still remember our first kiss?

Yeah, that was horrible..you almost swallowed my tongue

[b]10. Do you remember the day we met?

You mean when you insult me for barging into you?

[b]11. What about me were you first attracted to?

I'm just naturally attracted to smart girls, has nothing to do with you "backside" and besides know some "g" with bigger

[b]12. What song reminds you about me?

My heart will go on

[b]13. What’s is the craziest thing you would do for me?

I'll buy you a sachet water instead a bottle water if you ask me for drinking water

[b]14. Would you sacrifice (something) to keep our relationship going?

Absolutely, if it's not relevant

[b]15. Would you be my lover in the next life?

What?...maybe, if I come in as short guy

16. Would you be loyal even if your celebrity crush tried to sleep with you?

Like seriously?...I aint even gonna look at Kim's as* when you've got one just like that

[b]17. Will you be with me no matter what?

Will you?

[b]18. What memory of ours do you never want to forget?

The moment when we both stood on the alter...oh wait, we've never been there

[b]19. Am I perfect in your eyes?

Perfect?..I thought that's a myth

20. Where would our dream honeymoon be?

Sambisa would be nice...calm down, it's gonna be after we clear the vermin out

Passion22: 1). Test Of Time: Love benefits and grows through time; Infatuation ebb and diminishes with time.
2). Test of Knowledge: Love grows out of an appraisel of all the known characteristics of the other person; Infatuation may grow out of an acquaintance with only one of those characteristics known about the other person.
3). Test of Focus: Genuine love is other person centered; Infatuation is self-centered. Infatuated people are all caught up with themselves.
4). Test of Singularity: Genuine love is focused on only one person. An infatuated individual may be "in love" with two or more persons simultaneously.
5). Test of Security: Genuine love requires and fosters a sense of security and feelings of trust. An infatuated individual seem to have a blind sense of security, based upon wishful thinking rather than careful consideration; Infatuation is blind to problems, or he/she may have a sense of insecurity that is sometimes expressed as jealousy.
6). Test of Work: An individual in love works for the other person, for his/her mutual benefits. By contrast, an infatuated person loses his/her ambitions, appetite and interests in everyday affairs.
7). Test of Problem Solving: A couple in love faces problems frankly and tries to solve them. Infatuated people tend to disregard or try to ignore problems.
. Test of Distance: Love knows the importance of distance. Infatuation imagines love to be intense closeness 24/7 all the time.
9). Test of Physical Attraction: Physical attraction is a relatively small part of genuine love, but it is the center focus of infatuation.
10). Test of Affection: In love, affection is expressed later in the relationship involving the external expression of the physical attraction I just described. In infatuation, affection is expressed earlier, sometimes at the very beginning.
11). Test of Stability: Love tends to endure. Infatuation may Change suddenly and unpredictably.
12). Test of Delayed Gratification: A couple in genuine love is not indifferent to the timing of their wedding, but they do not feel an irresistible drive toward it. An infatuated couple tends to feel and urge to get married instantly. Case study, Ammon and Tamar, (2Samuel 13). Jacob and Rachel, (Genesis 29:1-20).

I know this present generation will think other wise. A generation that wants everything easy. A generation that wants the short cut. A generation that doesn't wanna work hard, but wants everything good thing on a platter of Gold. But it doesn't work that way, "We all will reap what we sow" if not now, but eventually.
Choose life that ye may live.

If I may ask "which tools of analysis is this?"...and where is "test of homogeneity?"

tpbehappy: are you saying you re tall. I dont understand why people cant appreciate little advice tht can save a generation. Pls appreciate the simple message and stop this bad boy attitude. It can even be tht i am taller than you re. So pls lets appreciate her and pass the message to our people. With this we might help a sis. Gbabeski

Oga na wa for you o
Where did I say I'm tall in my post there?(Actually, I am...almost 7ft tall and handsome too *tongue out*)...and what bad boy attitude exactly are you talking about?....and mind you " this message can not even save a cycle let alone a generation" cos she's like trying to influence peoples opinion cos she settled for less

100Cents: Finally, in the end, you will have only yourself to blame...

Since you are a trophy who deserves free food, free ride, expensive dates and BIS/recharge card for doing absolutely nothing. Please do not settle for less.

The way our young ladies carry themselves shows that marriage is not their ultimate goal but scouting for the richest, most handsome and most successful man in the society who is willing enough to pay the imaginary value she has placed on her love.

These sort of ladies do not take corrections for any wrong. They are always right and the last thing she expects from you, her date, is saying that what she did didn't go down well with you, instantly her mind tells her, " it is time to dump mike for John ".

Some of them go as far as dating every single guy who says hi to them seeing him as a potential maga to be kept on the ever long list of those under her false promise of, " I will come and see you ". Because he is a potential goldmine and will serve a future purpose at a future date. This keeps the stu.pid gullible man calling and sending recharge card to make sure he out performs or outsmarts any other competitor for the elusive girl. It is all a game. But it ends in confusion. It takes deceiving oneself first to be able to deceive others..

God punish all the gold digging ladies. All the men you have wrecked with your lying tongues and pretences will hunt you later.. Keep searching for Mr. Right. He has already passed you by when you treated him as dung..

Nonsense..

It's nothing personal man...when you get a better serving job, it's just natural you swap or if you are a Nigerian, you run both...that's just what some ladies do

Kachisbarbie: Fear God my brother...why lie against a sister.
I do comment, check yo archive well...lol

Loooolz...you do, now I see

Kachisbarbie: Hahaha...thanks for pointing that out. People can like to twist a write-up shaaaa

She just went totally off-line
Looks like you just read comments only these days ...been long I see your comment

Onyiridike: No!!! And none of my daughters will date/marry a man simply because he is tall. Ask yourself the following questions:

1. Is Dangote or Mike Adenuga the tallest man in Nigeria?

2. Is Obama the tallest man in the world?

3. Is Lionel Messi the tallest player in the world?

4. What exactly does a lady benefits from a man's height which an average or even a short man can not offer?

5. Do we cook human being and eat them like yam or meat so that a tall man will full the pot?

Ma'am...no one is saying tall guys are superior here o...all we saying is, "it's just natural that girls prefer tall guys"

And if you don't....tah!

Exjoker: What if she ment to kill all ur exs so dat u dont go back to them , some things re unpredictable esp wen ure dealin wit a psycho

Cos they are my boo's ex...let's kill them all!...sounds like a plan

Yeah, I've cried for a lady before...it was a very sad day for me, lots of emotions running "when my cousin sister stole and ate my meat!"

Gentlemen...lemme analyse the origin of this thread


She's *light* skinned and went out with her bf and bf's friend but her bf's friends don't seem to like light skinned girls so much and she feels insecure cos she probably thinks her bf's friends opinion may influence her bf's perception about light skinned girls.


Madam, if this is not what happened...make I no see Abacha for heaven!

Since it's a game of touch...I'll just feel the face shape and nose, height I can measure from my function...God help me I make the right choice!

Cos your guy have some faulty behaviour doesn't mean you leave him to it, people can make people change...you can't underestimate what love can do. The only moment when you can consider leaving is when he/she seems to be made with it and you've tried your best and never works out, then fine. If you don't, someday you may regret not giving it a try when another person have and succeeded...and he's in an elevated position.

Afterall:

Girls are getting smarter every day "no girl wants another girl to overthrow her government"...God knows I love smart girls

My biggest fear is that "I may wake up one morning and the love is gone, or she doesn't love me anymore"...I'd hate to have a broken home and my children raised by a single parent...that's horrible

Smart girls don't get jilted cos before the guy makes the call, they do...I like smart girls

I don't see anything wrong in that joor...you see a girl you like and you know the odds of seeing her again is either very slim or non-existent, why not?


Just don't be st*pid in your approach and be a gentleman

I'm curious, who was your cell room mate when you were in cos you look like somebody who's just outta jail

I wanna cry
Touching!

solomonbrown64: ....You are lucky to get a second chance.....
....Sure ,height, sometimes is overrated.....your quote sums it all up....

This one is short!

Onyiridike: And what makes you think that all ladies want a tall man?

You may be referring to little girls and not ladies who understand what life is all about.

Tell me there is not the most slightest desire for a tall man in the most innermost and deepest longing part of your heart

It may not be your priority but it's still there...and if not, you are the exception then, not the rule

The fact of life is "There is difference between what I want and what I get"...if all ladies get their wish, imagine the number of short guys that will be lady-less . ...how many people wanted to study medicine, how many ended up studying medicine?...everybody with own priorities, it's just the order of things...I know what I rate 1st in a woman, doesn't mean I won't find someone with it and good character too...because someone, didn't find doesn't mean others can't...it's your biz if you settle for less

But if tall guys don't like you or you're not attracted to them, toh you settle for short na

@ comb your hair....is this guy in primary school?...so you need mummy to tell you to comb your hair and brush your teeth?

Smh seriously

Arva: You just have to move on. Such is inevitable in a relationship. They'll always occur and getting over jealousy is what makes a relationship stronger.

No...I don't think they always occur and even if they do, it still wrong to do...it means the person have absolutely no regard for the emotions of the man which could mean she probably doesn't love him...minding your partners emotions is best way to show love, IMO

Kachisbarbie: Very disrespectful... is she a photographer?
Or does she promote male models? Lmao

Loooolz...
You are funny, aint you?...true sha, if she's not in that professional line, I don't see any valid reason for that

Loolz...@Minister of Married women affairs and Yabaleft

Making your partner excessively jealous is the shortcut to self induced problem in a relationship...why would a girl use another guy's DP when they are not blood related or she's not congratulating him on something?...IMO, it's disrespectful

For me, when something keeps hurting me...I either move away from it or cut it out

Usually when I see long write up like this, I just walk outta thread but this one is different...I feel for the girl but then what some men go through in hands of women, you'd think if roles were to be reversed,half of women will be hanging from the ceiling of their room...but you don't see men whining about it, do you?...they deal with it and move on!
And to people who does this, you don't tell people you love them when you don't just to make them feel good, it's like adding excess sugar in tea for a diabetic patient just because it tastes good but you killing him.

In sociology, conflict sometimes brings change...look to the positive side!

Yaheeeeeee!!!!!...he's alive!...Mrcork is alive!!!!

Mr "Ogogoro"...na wa for you o

But wait o...do you seriously what somebody to answer that question?...I be "love calculator"?...how I wan take know?


Guy,man up and go do your thing with her and find out joor...men just have to start taking the bull by the "balls" this days

But are you "Granted"?...I thought you are "marinel" o

Tell whoever is taking you for Granted that you are Marinel...end of