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BABYharder:
And here we go again!
So hanging out with my buddies now makes me gay? So whatever happens to a Man's Space?
Seems you don love up finish. I wish you well

nah
U said most niggas love hanging with fellow guys rather than girls

BABYharder:
It's really gonna be painless cus my moniker could be confusing to some persons.

not pain. Ridiculous

Who takes FG outrage seriously?

BABYharder:
Madam OP, I'm not a rp but your write-up is devoid of logic. Maybe you watch too much fairly tale movies. Women are not useless but the whole smile, chatting and bla bla bla you crowned them makes me sick. Most guys fancy being with their homies more than their babes cus guys are more real.
Ladies are just dramas that get boring with time. The pretence is just too freaking much, hence a guy will wake up and start asking if his babe was the same person he chyked.

maybe you've been hanging out a lot with gays

BABYharder:
The OP is female, don't waste your keyboard.
The emotions that saturates her comments gave her away.
Maybe the BF recently turned redpill and she's here to protest

Do you know how ridiculous it sound to say I'm a woman?

Let me help you, try imagine someone insisting that you are a woman

pizzzy:
echoke it's because of people like you that woman think that just showing up is enough to offer in relationship while they expect the man to provide heaven and earth for them.If no be the effects of cheap drugs how can you mention smile as something a woman can offer in relationship, something that a year old baby can also give without breaking a sweat

Well you need a woman to get that year old baby

Felixalex:
Hmmm

Sometimes I de reason to organize beauty pageant, make I chop small

I support you sir if you have the money. All I ask for is to be a judge.

You're overdosing on the Redpill. E choke

ahnie:
THE ONLY time some Nigerians are humble is when they need your help badly..you would hear them even answering you sir/ma.


The annoying part is them using the word **God bless you**just to gain empathy.

what's your point exactly

jimmychang:
If you dey find concrete evidence go buy cement

weak. As all your other lines

pizzzy:
Op is obviously high on cheap drugs. Every man is not lucky to be in a relationship with a good woman. The issue I have with most guys is when they have a good woman in their lives they will automatically think that whoever is complaining about his own woman doesn't know how to play his cards in the dating game. If you've never met or dated a unless Nigeria girl thank God for your life. We are taking about core values op is mentioning presence, laughter, conversation and smile as values. Anyways a fly will always support the shit.

Redpillers are just too empty. Insult before they say anything. Insult when they say what they want to say and then insult when they conclude.

Is that all Redpill is about, browbeat men till they accept your position on a matter?

They should kill them all. Bloody terrorists. Destroying everything they ever touched

vulture griller went outside to call his darling daddy so he can give y'all official updates

Shift abeg. Naso buhari lying career take start.

helinues:


Open ticket wasn't the agreement..The agreement is between North and South...

With Buhari, North would complete their 8 years in 2023.. It's logical and sensible for the Apc to microzone the ticket to the latter South, which all region from the south SE, SW and SS can contest for the party presidential primary..

Open ticket would cause more confusion and division in the party

E shock you?


Arewa no go give Yoruba pawa... Not unless it's by violence

Brings back memories of governors residing in Abuja instead of the state they are meant to govern.

Nigerian politicians are very useless to the core. If there's provisions, most of them will like to govern their state from dubai or London

womenareapess:
confederate SIMP

just wanted to know which cave you came out from?

looks like Redpill is a disease. One that insults men, shame them into accepting a particular argument.


That's all everyone is doing on this thread. No concrete argument just insult. But I won't be shamed into accepting a point until I get a concrete evidence.

jimmychang

ZiiVentures:
You're really high on weed bro. Easy with that shit! It ain't helping.

But seriously, if a woman is a value by herself just as you said then don't you think? She's basically a commodity and nothing else? Well, that's how our ancestors see women. Nothing more than commodities to be bought. Hey. See we're on a different paradigm. this is 21st century. Women need to act up. They're not liabilities. They should see themselves as assets in a man's life. What stops them from helping a man to build up his investment strategies, linking him up with connections in life, encouraging him to take bold steps in life and standing by him even when he makes business mistakes and fails?

As a lady, if you expect me to be chasing after you because of your smiles, laughter, and conversation. You are on your own. My time and business are really demanding for me to do shit. So don't be deceived by this op. Be smart!

Now op, like I said before, you're high on weed!

insult and insult just to shame me. Anyways, everything you listed women already does it, so what's your point?

You don't need any strategy for toasting.

Just talk to her normal as you've always been talking to her.


If you have not been flowing with her then try and make up chance to be seeing her from time to time.


Say hi to her with a smile. Shake her hand if you get the chance and hold it a little longer.


If after a few weeks or days and you see that she is comfortable with you or laugh a lot with you, then call her to a quiet and private place and tell her that you like her.

Say something you love about her. Something about her character, smile or even her eyes and how it makes you feel.

Then tell her you'll like you guys to be more than friends, that you'll want her to be your girlfriend.

It's easy actually. Just flow with her normally. Remember she'll be scared or shy too when you are talking to her. So she might be very quiet and the job of keeping the conversation will be on you.

You are the man so you'll need to lead in the conversation.


It's good that you are trying to learn this early but my advice is, stay away from sex. It's a sweet thing to have a girlfriend and sex will be sweet but it can cause a lot of havoc and problems for not just you but her as well as your families.

So please make her your girlfriend but don't include sex in it.

All the best

Seems you don't know what it means to let go and forget.

She's not feeling you bro. It's like she's doing you a favor by dating you.

Get out of the relationship. Look for another girl. I'm serious about this.

OLUPET009:
Just move to a new area base on change of job, there is this single mother who own a boutique close to my place, this lady always wave at me with a smile anytime she sees me, even from a distance. No b say I get money like dat Shai, just dey clean Shai. Please is the light green enough or I should wait for another, What's your take?

she's just been friendly bro.

Try getting closer. Talk to her. Get to know her. Flirt. And then you can tell probably if its greenlight or not

RENOWNED2:
I know you are female. You even created other monikers replying yourself. Now, look where your narcissism, low self esteem and quest for validation has left you; creating stupid threads on nairaland and embarassing your lineage. Them tell you say ashawo no be work, you no gree.

Do you know how ridiculous you sound since I'm a guy reading and replying this?

CsRockefeller:
You are delusional. "Women are the final reward"?

You must be a man who fantasizes about women always.

All I see is insult upon insult with no concrete argument.

Is the end goal to shame me into accepting your position on the matter?

Casham:
I totally disagree with this. All of the girls I've dated so far except one did the chasing and approaching. We talk of women as if they are the final reward for a man's hardwork. As if their presence is all you need. Talks like that makes it look like they are doing the man a favor if they "agree" to date or marry him. I will say it is our culture that makes it seem that way. The truth is that it is the man doing her a favor. The earlier we accept this truth, the better for our children.

they are the final reward.

Kings have been chosen the prettiest women for ages and till date, Ned nwoko will choose Regina Daniel over your sisters just as she would choose him over you.

MJBOLT:

do we not have women chasing after men,is it not the same women that you claim have value that come online complaining about "how they can't find a man", these same women constantly talk about how they need a man in their lives the same women are the ones putting on make up, putting on body revealing clothes,fake hair just to grab the attention of men but according to you they don't chase men.If the presence of a man means nothing to women, they wouldn't be the biggest patrons of plastic surgery and cosmetic.

there you get it wrong again.

A woman wearing fake whatever is accentuating her assets just as a man makes more money to upgrade his looks.

Clearly, you've never heard men say a girl is out of their league not because she has money but because of her looks?

A woman is a value by herself. That's why you'll continue chasing them forever.

MJBOLT:

The kind of rubbish people come here to type is astounding,so because she's a woman she instantly has value and you even went further to say more stupid things like she brings presence,laughter,smiles and conversations so your fellow guys that bring all these things are useless because they are not women

You still have not counter any thing I said just using insults to elude the argument.

If a thing has no value, why do you chase after it? If it is worthless, why go after it at all.

If the presence of a woman in your life is nothing, why squander so much of your sweat for it?

Well they sold their manhood a long time ago because of feminism

cybriz82:
So he can continue viewing her bobi...

He probably want masturbate cum remember him long lost fantasy love

RENOWNED2:
Okay. Easy on the stupidity though. Goodluck!

easy on the shit you vomit though

Vikinatty:
And that is how u will be dumb for life. u are just been jealous. dont worry someone that will shower praising on u is coming.just keep calm and don't allow ur dirty mentality to forstrate u.

you can't put two and two together eh?

RENOWNED2:
This is the stupidest shit i have read in a long time and i have read some pretty stupid shit lately.

Well, you've finally become what you read. No offense.