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Romance › Re: In Your Opinion? by CsRockefeller(op): 4:04am On May 08, 2018

Bluezy13:
You are not yet ready to settle down.

Whenever you are ready, you'll settle down without asking people unnecessary stuff like this

Lol, so everyone that is in a relationship are ready to settle down? Very funny opinion.

Romance › Re: In Your Opinion? by CsRockefeller(op): 4:03am On May 08, 2018

Berlyn1:
Didnt read all that

Come on, it isn't too lengthy.

Romance › Re: In Your Opinion? by CsRockefeller(op): 11:12pm On May 07, 2018

Your take guys?

Romance › In Your Opinion? by CsRockefeller(op): 10:50pm On May 07, 2018*

Good evening everyone, trust that the day was splendid, here in Plateau state its been raining all week but we are coping. I have a little issue of concern, and u will like to sample some opinions here.

Last year in school, I met this girl, she's a hairdresser, young, beautiful and Godly. I took her number down and since February of 2017 we have been friends. We recently got close this few months and i just asked her out some days ago, she hasn't given me a reply but I feel its going to be a yes.

But, I'm concerned about some things;
First, she hasn't even gotten admission, as she is currently re writing Waec, while I'm a lover of education, I can't believe I'm about dating someone who isn't yet in school.

Secondly, I'm serving in Plateau state, while she is in Otta in Ogun state, when I was still in Lagos we met a few times, and I'm not planning on coming back to Lagos for the next six months.

Thirdly, this is where I'm most confused, I've seen a lot of girls/ladies in school and after school but no one comes close to her in character, she is virtuous, very spiritual, simple and hardworking.
She isn't the normal Nigerian girl, very respectful and sets boundaries when it comes to physical contact.

She's just 2 years younger than me, which means she is likely to graduate at least the age of 27, I'm thinking its too late for a lady.

In your opinion, what will you do? Should I forget about getting an answer from her? Do you think its a wise thing to do? I'm in between a good girl with character and a girl with education, which is more important?

Thanks for reading

Romance › Re: What Do You Hate About Your Current Relationship? by CsRockefeller(m): 1:27pm On May 07, 2018

victorian:
I know not all men, cos I have two close female friends who are happily married to men who truly appreciates them. Very Beautiful ladies. They put on light makeup, dress very decent. If they attend weddings of colleagues or families, and they apply makeup, mehn come and see eyes following them upandan , with their wedding rings boldly fitted on their fingers. Men have tried wooing them, thinking they will cut shows like some married ladies but fortunately, they always turn them down.
One is a Muslim, the second one is a Christian. Both doing well in their careers and also managing the homefront well.
They are my role model, secretly smiles.

I can vouch for them anywhere, and their husbands always look fresh, relaxed, and robust .likewise them too.

My brother, It's good to marry right. You will enjoy marriage.

Don't worry, be watchful of ladies who will stroll into your life and choose the best for yourself

Thanks sis.

Romance › Re: What Do You Hate About Your Current Relationship? by CsRockefeller(m): 12:27pm On May 07, 2018

victorian:
I wonder why Nigerian men don't appreciate good women, when u have them in your lives. Do you want to have a bad woman?
God bless u with woman, that loves peace and wants the best in her relationship, you are doubting her and u feel she's scam.

Lemme tell u, out of 1miiion Nigerian women out there, only 10 women are like your gf.

Men who end up marrying them, always thank God everyday for having such women as wives. You are very lucky to have such gf. Only wise matured men will know, u are indeed lucky.

If u like breakup with her, because she doesn't give u Wahala, na u sabi.

Nija men sha! And see the number of likes on what u said.

I pity Nigerian men, they don't know what's good for them. Throwing away good women and loving bad women who ends up making their lives miserable.

That's main reason good women don't easily get married, cause most Nigerian men will never believe they deserves good women .
E dey una bodi.

Not all men o, I have been looking for a good girl and can't see, d few I've seen are already taken, its really frustrating. Oh! Now I remember, I once had one, but she is earning big at Unity Bank and I'm just a wretched corper, we never dated but we were very close, right from sec school she got admission straight, while it took me over 3 years to get admission. So are worlds are currently world apart, she is d only one I have ever loved and I guess its mutual but life happens, if wishes were horses.......ride. Her name is Daluchi, I really miss her, a very good lady, but na 19,8k I dey collect compared to her 150k, I'm sure her taste for men has gone up, sometimes I think, what could have been if we got admission at d same time? A question that i may never have an answer to. Still haven't met a Lady like her, how many have I even met sef.

Romance › Re: I Have Fvcked More Than 30 Girls Since This Year Yet Am Still Broke by CsRockefeller(m): 9:07pm On May 05, 2018

gracile:
Hi

Hello Grace, good day, trust d weekend has been splendid. I've been reading ur post and also went tru ur blog(nice write-ups/stories) though I'm also a writer, but my reason of chatting u up is outside that purview, you seem to be one of d very few cool heads here, and I wouldn't mind if we could be friends.

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Politics › Re: Umaru Musa Yaradua Died In Office 8th Years Ago by CsRockefeller(m): 12:08pm On May 05, 2018

Ugosample:
Will you keep shut!

Yaradua will never come out in the open to classify people as 5%

Yaradua admitted that the process that brought him in was flawed

A man who has a plan for the country

A man who jettisoned the do or die politics of OBJ and allowed the courts unseat PDP govs

who will not like such a man?

Don't mind them, they can't see clearly, can't be objective, always sentimental, everything about them is Ipob, Yaradua was a good man whether he was Fulani, Hutu or Tutsi. The fight against Buhari is different, to me asides Tarawa Balewa, Yaradua is the best politician ever to come out from the North.

We are not blind to call a spade a spade, Buhari is a bad leader.

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Romance › Re: Mention Ordinary Things You've Never Done. by CsRockefeller(m): 7:34pm On May 04, 2018

androidroot:
Don't mind me. I'm a Gunner, truth be told we ain't trying, the best i do to reduce depression is to troll my dear club

Crime › Re: Banker Drugs And Impregnates 13-Year-Old Orphan In Abuja by CsRockefeller(m): 4:37pm On May 04, 2018

vickydevoka:
If name Bleep been him problem. him for relocate come Banue, Calabar or Jos. Here for Jos we the Bleep sotey our prick the curve

Guy, u get pm, I need ur help

Science/Technology › Re: How To Create A Locally Made Inverter With Ease by CsRockefeller(m): 4:05pm On May 04, 2018

lorhema:
Pictures please.

Hi, u stay in jos?

Science/Technology › Re: How To Create A Locally Made Inverter With Ease by CsRockefeller(m): 4:05pm On May 04, 2018

Anyone who is willing to teach me solar power installation in jos?

TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by CsRockefeller(m): 1:42pm On May 04, 2018

sod09:
these new generation horror movies ain't that scary again,and most of them concentrate on haunted,ghost ,black magic theme.
I prefer slashing,gory, graphics theme horror e.g saw, wrong turn,Texas chainsaw massacre, hill have eyes, final destination, hostel.
I miss this type of horror

final destination!! I had goosebumps all through watching it, a very very scary movie, a great movie though.

Romance › Re: Mention Ordinary Things You've Never Done. by CsRockefeller(m): 1:05pm On May 04, 2018

androidroot:
I've never seen Arsenal win a major trophy í ¼í¿

Liar, what of the Fa cups, pls stop telling lies.

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Family › Re: None Of My Fiance's Family Members Likes Me. Please Help by CsRockefeller(m): 1:10pm On May 03, 2018

jacyhelen:
you are from IMO STATE,there is no need!!!..He will never marry u....people despise IMO wella.

What did we Imo people do to you?

Family › Re: None Of My Fiance's Family Members Likes Me. Please Help by CsRockefeller(m): 9:52am On May 03, 2018

DEBJOCH1:
. For a very long time I have never come across such a mature way of dishing out advice to some one, had it been I am still single I would have look for a possible way of trying to entangle with you so as to see if we both can mingle. Bravo sis, infact you are matured at heart. I love that.

Lol, thanks, I'm honoured with your words, Im a guy though.

Family › Re: None Of My Fiance's Family Members Likes Me. Please Help by CsRockefeller(m): 8:46pm On May 02, 2018

Gasa84:
Thanks all for not using harsh words. I appreciate.
I kept thinking it ll get better..... Maybe it's the money or sex... Am just miserable and stuck. God help me! I don't know how to start afresh. I don't know how to let go. Oh God help me.

My dear, I understand your fear, frustrations and doubts. I don't want to go so much into detail but I can tell you, you are not the only one there, we all are, we are sacred of making some moves because we have held on to some people or sth, and anytime we take a look out of the window we see no hope outside, so we shut ourselves back in. It is currently happening to some time of us, in our career, in our relationship, in our communion with God, in short, in our daily lives.

Many people will despise u here, but they are going tru such or even worse. Don't be deceived, you may leave him and never see anyone a for the next 5 years, you may leave him and your prince charming will find you, it's all 50-50, the question is are you ready to take that risk? When I was much younger(I'm still young 24) there were certain things u will do and damn the consequences but as I get older wisdom has thought me to be very patient and stop throwing caution to d wind.

One thing that limits us as we grow older is age, I can't do d things I did when I was 16, my boss pays my house rent, but I don't like d job, but is there a better job outside? Am I willing to take that risk, knowing well that I can't run to dad or mum anymore for shelter.

My advice to you, especially knowing that u are not young is to still stick with him, if u leave, u will be like a person who took a parachute out of a plane that was having turbulence, you never can tell where it will take you.

Your man hasn't told you to leave, so stay back and crawl your way into the family, or take a walk and accept anything that comes with it.

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Politics › Re: Even As President Buhari Meets Trump: What I Noticed At A Yoruba Introduction. by CsRockefeller(op): 8:22am On Apr 30, 2018

grandstar:
Can't you see its a joke? Can't you sense the humour in it? You're just crying over nothing.

Yes, its a joke, tell that to kids in primary school.

Politics › Re: Even As President Buhari Meets Trump: What I Noticed At A Yoruba Introduction. by CsRockefeller(op): 8:16am On Apr 30, 2018

horsepower101:
I don't take any smiles from Nigerians in good fate. Because I know that the same people smiling to me in public will celebrate my death if I say I want to be on my own.

Every pro-Biafran used to be pro-Nigerian at first...including Nnamdi kanu.

Its a phase most Igbos go through in Nigeria before they realize the truth.

Nnamdi kanu has sewed an important seed but paid the ultimate price for it.

This coming generation is beginning to see the light.

God bless you.

Politics › Even As President Buhari Meets Trump: What I Noticed At A Yoruba Introduction. by CsRockefeller(op): 7:13pm On Apr 29, 2018

So, about 3 weeks ago, i was at a marriage introduction involving two Yoruba families. It was my first time being at one, not that i wanted to be there anyway, but, i had to, duty compelled me.

Since both families were Yoruba it wasnt really a thing of surprise that everyone present were from the zone of great coca farmers, even though it was held in the state where the lands are so close to the clouds.

As proceedings began, a woman stood up (she was the moderator anyway so she was always up on her feet). I didnt pay too much attention to what was going on, to be honest, my mind was on the food(smiles). This moderator began to pray for this intended couple, "you will not die" everybody said Amen including your faithfully,"Fulani herdsmen will not see you" we all said Amen, "Boko Haram will not see you" and the Amen was louder, then she said the most shocking thing i heard that day "Biafra will not see you" at this point, everyone but me said Amen. I was shocked, i looked round to see if it was only me who just noticed what happened, to be fair on the moderator it was a Yoruba introduction so she felt everyone present was from the West side of Nigeria, but everyone but me went on with the prayers like nothing has happened.

So, i began to think, why will anyone but the word "Biafra" in the same context as Boko Haram and Fulani Herdsmen? I began to ask myself some questions, who represents Biafra? The Igbos. Are they violent? No. Do they kill people especially intended or newly wed couples? No. So why will anyone tag or see us as violent or killers or terrorist. I wanted to confront her after the programme, but i just felt i let it go.

She was just one in a gathering of about 50, if we do the maths, in every 50 people that are not Igbos, there is someone who thinks that Igbos are violent or killers or terrorist, not including the number of people she has passed her thoughts onto. i can imagine that woman will never employ Igbos in her establishment, her children and relations will not marry Igbo, she wont even vote for an Igbo person if he/she decides to contest for an election. It was then i realized how people really hate the Igbos. Even if she meant to say IPOB, they arent a violent group.

This was said in a place that doesnt belong to neither the Igbos nor the Yorubas, It was said in the open to all hearing, It was said in an atmosphere of celebration, love and merryment. What do you think will be said if was done in the South West?, if it was in their bedrooms, their offices, their closets? If it was an atmoshere of hate and war?

As President Buhari meets with President Donald Trump tomorrow even as IPOB plans to stage a peaceful protest infront of the White House, i can only imagine what the man who saw people who have been oppressed, beaten, marginalised, treated without dignity, treated as slaves, as second hand citizens but still labelled them "Terrorist" will say to President Donald Trump in their close door meeting.

Like the title of Mandela's Biography "Long Walk to Freedom", its going to be a long walk to equality, to justice, to emancipation, its going to be a long lonely walk, but at the end lies our freedom, and free we shall be.

Note: This doesnt apply to all Yorubas or Hauas, only those that hate and dislike Igbos. I have friends in both tribes,but i cant stay silent when i see wrong especially as it affects my tribe and Nigerians in general.

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TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by CsRockefeller(m): 1:42pm On Apr 28, 2018

oyetpel:
favorite guy? Idris Elba?

Seven blessings to you this afternoon....Idris Elba!! How could i forget that name, that guy makes movie thick. Thanks.

TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by CsRockefeller(m): 1:35pm On Apr 28, 2018

mekaprime:
Beowulf...7.5/10....The writers of this animated movie did a great job by bring this Epic heroic poetry to life. Certain worth the data.

Zootopia...9/10.This has to be the best animated movie ever made(my opinion though). Plot was so on point & it was garnished with lots of life lessons. A must see for everyone.

Brave..8/10..This animated movie is what I refer to as a visually stunning masterpiece, with a spectacular setting (Scottish Highland) & a great story...Another great one from Pixar.

Capture the flag.5/10.. This one was just there..

Rango..9/10..Great animation coupled with strong characters, & a spectacular story. Its definitely a must see for all.

I recently saw Zootopia recently out of boredom and I couldn't stop kicking myself, asking what took me so long to see a great animated movie, I love it so much, but i will rate the lion king ahead of it.

Notwithstanding, its a super movie, the best I have seen in the last 15 years, the story line was so on point, I'm not sure, but I think it won an Oscar, what a great movie, will definitely watch it again this weekend. And my favorite guy (forgot his name) was on cast. Great movie any day any time.

Romance › Re: Na Who Your Virginity Help? by CsRockefeller(m): 9:19am On Apr 28, 2018

Stale news

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Romance › Re: "My Fiance Fixed Our Wedding, But Secretly Married Another" - Lady (Photos) by CsRockefeller(m): 7:32pm On Apr 04, 2018

kyutepanda:
you quoted me asking for summary so i thought you were here to help with it......choyie sha uhm?

My bad, I'm sorry, I'm camillus by the way, whats ur name?

Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by CsRockefeller(m): 4:48pm On Apr 03, 2018

XhosaNostra:
What's trash about it? I must pretend to care about what men I don't want, find attractive in a woman? No, I don't! Birds of a feather flock together. I'm not their feather so they might as well flock off. Not all of us look for validation in relationships or men abeg.

Alright dear, I get your point. Its your opinion and you are entitled to it.

Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by CsRockefeller(m): 4:20pm On Apr 03, 2018

XhosaNostra:
I've been in one relationship probably much longer than all your relationships & FWBs put together. Very few men in this world would ever say they have bedded me. That's the point you seem to be missing. Non-virgin doesn't mean slut. We have self-respect as much as the next woman. To top it off, I'm extremely picky. Having a dick doesn't mean you're good enough to Bleep with.

You made sense here though cool

Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by CsRockefeller(m): 4:13pm On Apr 03, 2018

XhosaNostra:
To each their own. Men marry non-virgins all the time because sexuality is not the only thing that measures good character, determination etc in a person. Only if you're narrow minded & backward, would you use her virginity status as a determining factor to her character. Who wants a man like that anyway? To hell with him. Personally, I don't care what men like that find attractive in a woman. My type of guy will find me attractive regardless of whom I've slept with before him.

Trash, nonsense.

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Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by CsRockefeller(m): 4:12pm On Apr 03, 2018

Opentokwowledge:
Keeping the virginity comes with a message that means 'No other man has been here before, I'm not loose, I'm a woman of standard moral principles and virtues'. Whoever is keeping her virginity for her husband is not doing him any favour, she's just showing the man how principled and determined she could be, and that's attractive!

.

A plate of pepper soup for you. cool

Romance › Re: "My Fiance Fixed Our Wedding, But Secretly Married Another" - Lady (Photos) by CsRockefeller(m): 3:51pm On Apr 03, 2018

kyutepanda:
summary pls

Not a polite way to respond to someone who wants to be a friend.

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