₦airaland Forum

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation.

Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well.

Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for.

She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores, clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her.

I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues, stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for.

The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment.

Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for.

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

You still get time upload pictures after the long epistle.

Now I know this story is a lie you just conjured out of ya anus.

FreeStuffsNG:
https://nairametrics.com/2024/08/26/nigerias-gdp-grows-by-3-19-in-q2-2024-nbs/#google_vignette

I no read am, but normally, I know say na lie.

Nothing grow, must have been a backward growth .

Anither563:
The fiscal deficit is a reflection of the fiscal reforms and transparency that this administration is committed to.

I believe that in no distant time, we will get to a point where we will be able to fund our budget largely through our revenue and not through borrowing.

😆 you go believe till you die…keep supporting rubbish government.

Useless agbadorian .

Great0ne1:
Anuofia !! Do what ? What exactly did you do in 2012 ? Ewu awusa!!

some people were engaging that idiot thinking he is a normal person

Glimpsetv:
Any Nigerian Man Who Is 30 and Above and Unmarried or Childless Is Irresponsible, Says a Man

A man has sparked controversy online after stating that any Nigerian man over 30 who is unmarried or without a child is irresponsible. Do you agree with him? Watch the video to hear his reasons for making such a declaration.

Share your thoughts in the comments.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-iaKfNAO4P0?si=nZYmU4P93XQIIKfZ

Him and his dada hair looks more irresponsible than an over 30 years old unmarried man or one without a child .

Max24:
Thank God govt is not handing over the fuel industry into Dangotes hands otherwise same woulld be repeated there. Fuel price would shoot up and then the cartel would start telling us cock and bull stories as Dangote and other producers are spewing now. Never trust hard core capitalists. They don't care about the masses. To guarantee cheap fuel prices, govt must continue to import cheap fuel to counter the likelihood of Dangote forming a fuel cartel with other players to charge high prices

Fulish boy… how much are you buying fuel now that it’s not in the hand of dangote?
I’m sure you don’t even believe what you usually write here.

Deltafirstson:
As production cost shot up 121%
•Manufacturers’ profits down 4.1%
•Naira depreciation, smuggling fueling price increase -Manufacturers





https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/08/nigerians-hope-for-lower-cement-price-dims/

The earlier the masses know that there is a deliberate and well orchestrated plan to keep the masses poor by the elites, in collaboration with our useless politicians, the better.

The government is not going to do anything to better the lots of its citizens.

They are trying to develop a system where the people depend on them for survival. That’s why they keep sharing palliatives upandan.

Thundafireseun:
Truth be told…this administration is still far better than what could have happened to all of us if OBI was declared winner

Lies…. Nobody can be worse than Tinubu.

nairalandkachy1:
Zagazola Makama

Hmmmm….. when them cry out from captivity like this, the next thing na to kill them if they don’t receive ransom .

nairalandkachy1:
https://ait.live/supreme-court-reaffirms-hope-uzodimma-as-governor-of-imo-state/?fbclid=IwY2xjawE1qnhleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHdVbVZAEVXnj3NEQnqsaOaODmUDkfUqnQvo2P38NpM8cAN7pPhgzhwTogw_aem_xfpTPpdnAEY-AqTPLGT9mA

Product of kekere-ekun.

It’s not a coincidence that he was affirmed the same day she was sworn in.

fergie001:
She is the second woman to be sworn-in as CJN



Landmark decisions
Kekere-Ekun upturned the decisions of the lower Court and tribunal, thereby preparing and delivering the judgement that sacked Emeka Ihedioha and affirmed Odidika Hope Uzodinma as Governor of Imo State.

She also prepared and delivered the judgement that affirmed Yahaya Bello as Governor of Kogi State following the imbroglio between the APC & Yahaya Bello against James Faleke after the death of Abubakar Audu.

She prepared and delivered the judgement that affirmed ex-Osun Governor, Gboyega Oyetola against Ademola Adeleke in 2020, citing the absence of the Tribunal chair in one of the sittings.

Kekere-Ekun also prepared and delivered the judgement that affirmed PDP's Nyesom Wike against Dakuku Peterside in 2016, after the tribunal and Appeal Court had nullified Wike's victory and called for a fresh election.

na so…..KEKERE-ekun, AGBA, IYA NLA in corruption!

fergie001:
SOURCE

One Criminal CJN leaves, another criminal CJN is sworn in.

No be this woman help Uzodinma win election that year, and since then, IMO state has never been the same again?

Omo, this country is in for a long bumpy ride to nowhere. So sad!

Racoon:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/08/top-10-airports-in-the-world-for-2024/

https://www.worldairportawards.com/the-worlds-top-10-airports-of-2024/

anybody Dey come up with their own list.

Nothing spectacular about Paris CDG airport jor.

The airport in Istanbul qualifies to be in that list mhen!

Supers:
https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/8/photos-of-21-year-old-kwara-college-student-celebrating-her-sign-out-3-weeks-before-she-was-found-dpsad-in-a-refuse-site.html


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/8189982/awesu-mojisola-morufat-murdered-pastor

this was the same girl a pastor and his son killed in a thread posted yesterday nau .

ZaddyJ:
No b lie
I'm a witness to this my brother. Im presently married to a woman who not only romantic but caring and show empathy .
Ve u had a situation where a woman makes u her next of kin for her life insurance ( even her mom and siblings re alive ) before ?
Na me my wife put as her own and shes not a Nigerian.

it’s nothing exceptional, this man. You expect her to put her siblings as next of kin when she’s married?

That’s what a normal woman or man would do…their wife, husband or children would be their next of kin.

mastermaestro:
Leave now if you have the means. Don't say you were not warned. Redeem the time! The days are getting more and more evil.

Abeg, wetin wan happen?

Islie:
https://www.thecable.ng/some-officials-have-no-business-there-fg-to-cut-cop29-budget-by-n10bn/amp/

just watch, you go see drama from these rouges.

Travel Dey sweet o.

Ikaeniyan0:
It's no more August again

I know someone at the Dangote refinery, he said the refinery will start working in 2027

With this government , The more you look, the less you see

FreeStuffsNG:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/08/if-you-dont-invest-in-lagos-now-youll-regret-in-10-years-time-pst-ashimolowo/

Is this a joke or what?

Well, he’s not in Nigeria. He just have some of his business centers here, otherwise he won’t be saying this based on recent happenings.

iwaeda:
https://punchng.com/nigeria-owes-nnpc-4-9bn-fuel-debt-report/

who be Nigeria ? Who be NNPC?

The more you look, the less you see.

SmartPolician:
Source: https://dailytrust.com/ndlea-proposes-mandatory-drug-tests-for-varsity-admission/#google_vignette

when will they propose drug test for the house of rep members and senators?

Na them need am pass, because na mad people Dey lead this country.

phemray:
Nigerians are always impatient and reasons a tougher president like Tinubu is required. Same way they asked how many meetings and approvals will be conducted before student loan is given? Students are sending texts now but its no longer propaganda.
You guys just voted the best president ever that is focused with a stone heart. whether October or next year, I don't care, what I know is that PMS will hit the market from our local refineries and other countries will exchange Thier dollars to naira before buying. PMS prices will crash as production progresses with time. So what exactly is the complaints here and there.

keep dreaming … student loan ko, graduate loan ni.
It’s just that Una Dey craze…. Anybody supporting these demons in power is not with his right senses .

Keep suffering and smiling .

Lithiumite:
Implementation of policies take time institutional changes take various processes and not just by executive fiat.....

idiot … keep making excuses for them because of 30k.

Implementation of policies take time abi? But to remove subsidy was immediate.

You see say you Dey stupid.

Thunder go scatter the fingers you take type this thing.

BeeBeeOoh:
https://punchng.com/breaking-crude-oil-sales-in-naira-to-dangote-others-begin-october-1/

Idiots… they don’t do anything now… it’s always in the future.

They will keep shifting it like port harcourt refinery.

It will never be done.

We have demons running the affairs of this country.

Codepain:
Mr President be careful Some sad people from sad part of the country are still annoyed that you flog their Messiah I stand with you Mr Tinubu

He no flog anybody, that sit was stolen, that was why results were announced in the midnight when robbers operate.

You are deluded if you think your balablue flogged anyone.he actually came last.

jazzman7711:
If Tinubu had come into power and done what EVERY CANDIDATE said they would do, ie end fuel subsidy, and then, in the midst of public hardship, PROCEEDED TO EMBARK ON THE BUILDING OF A SPACE SATELLITE, and then, as Nigerians were suffering the effects of the predicted inflation and hunger, LAUNCHED THE SPACE SATELLITE to media fanfare, would you have supported it?

A simple yes or no answer would do.

common gerrout .
Must it be about launching satellite?

Launching of satellite is an achievement of the Senegalese government in 4 months.

What has the useless government you support achieved in over one year?

Una Dey really stupid sha!

PlayMaker14:
I read that.

Read this. "This is someone who has only been in government for a year and is already making significant contributions to his country."

Don’t mind those idiots arguing with you.

They can’t lay hold of any achievement of this administration.

If it were these ones we have here that assumed office 4 months ago and met the satalite project, he would have canceled it and started another one, just to loot funds.

Their only achievement so far is to look for where to collect loans and steal.

RenaissanceGuy:
I'm unable to help your inability to detect such an obvious sarcasm (where does a bottle of water cost N50k??).

I was surprised he didn’t get that, and he is looking for 1.5m job.

YoungDaNaval:
Exactly. I earn 1.5m per month but bills no dey allow me save above 100k per month. The country is no longer funny. Our naira is shit

Which bills are you paying that only 100k will be left out of 1.5m

Ptreat:
https://idomavoice.com/new-era-for-nigerias-economy-as-shettima-moves-to-restore-cotton-textile-garment-industries/

idiots… always moving to, about to.

You can never point at anything they have accomplished… everything na in future.

Kai !