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LiteratureRe: The Beautiful B.itch by Cuddlemii: 4:34pm On Jul 10, 2012
@nevderek, what would I make of your thread now? Is this a poem or rap? cheesy
I like it though, very unique but the vulgar word, b.tch is the only clause.
What would you classify it as?
LiteratureRe: Literature/Writing Complaints Thread by Cuddlemii(op): 7:40pm On Jul 09, 2012
Rocktation: Yeah, it sure needs some serious revitalization. It sometimes feels like the diaries section here. Everybody just passes by.
We would work on that. If you also have suggestions, feel free to let us know. Thanks!
LiteratureRe: Food For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op):
TODAY'S THEME IS: LETTING GO

“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that that situation is over, you cannot move forward.” ― Steve Maraboli

“Sometimes the hardest part isn't letting go but rather learning to start over.”[/i] ― Nicole Sobon

“If people refuse to look at you in a new light and they can only see you for what you were, only see you for the mistakes you've made, if they don't realize that you are not your mistakes, then they have to go.” ― Steve Maraboli

“Pain will leave you, when you let go” ― Jeremy Aldana

“The day I understood everything, was the day I stopped trying to figure everything out. The day I knew peace was the day I let everything go.” ― C. JoyBell C
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things That Annoy You On Nairaland by Cuddlemii: 11:39am On Jul 09, 2012
Idowuogbo: Cuddle miiiiii!!!!!! was d bolded necessary?

Say wot u got to say and bounce.

Do you always have to write in essays and reports to prove a point? u calling her out was personal and childish.

Grow up!
"Nairaland especially Romance section has stopped been a place where you can bare your opinions straight and plain because of the highly biased moderators in charge!"

The bolded was what I just did!
Apparently you are making your observations known as well and I appreciate that because there were a 101 comments on this thread but you had to pick the most childish one.
So whenever I observe you going contrary to your own mediation skill, I will hold you to it!
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things That Annoy You On Nairaland by Cuddlemii: 11:01am On Jul 09, 2012
r231: Next time read the title before commenting undecided

You can take your rant back to romance complain thread or better still open a thread and deal with that issue
r231: Sound more like a personal attack to me but I hia you sha
Personal attack? I don't have any issues with her! She made a complaint about what she is a defaulter of, I was only passing an observation. If you want a change, you start from yourself first. In fact your turn around can inspire others.
FamilyRe: Nairaland's Cutest Baby Contest by Cuddlemii:
[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Cuties![/quote]Thanks!
FamilyRe: A Wife Or A Car: Which Is More Expensive To Maintain? by Cuddlemii: 3:47pm On Jul 08, 2012
It all depends on the brand of the car and wife. Are they of high maintenance? Or not?

A car is meant for mobility and not for showing off or unnecessary luxury. If you purchase an affordable car that is durable (meant for naija roads, doesn't consume a lot of fuel and has good longevity) and also drive wisely, then a man should be fine.

If you marry a simple woman who is independent, resourceful and not a liability, a man would be fine.

They are both not comparable. It is the taste and acquisition for both that would determine how you disburse funds or maintain them. So choose a realistic car and a woman of integrity, once you have a happy peaceful home, irrelevant questions like this wont crop up.

A husband should also be a good manager of resources,invest, spend wisely and cut cost when necessary. Once you are a good economist and accountant, both the wife and car would be affordable to maintain.
LiteratureRe: Food For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op): 3:21pm On Jul 08, 2012
“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” -Maria Robinson
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Love Someone Dat Doesnt Notice U?? by Cuddlemii: 7:28pm On Jul 07, 2012
jay bee: see ya sexy mouth tongue tongue tongue tongue
The one you have refused to kiss!

I want to believe we are derailing this thread?
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Love Someone Dat Doesnt Notice U?? by Cuddlemii: 7:22pm On Jul 07, 2012
jay bee: yes....cuddlemii hasn't noticed me in months despite all the signals
Oga no be so O! You are a very busy business man! cheesy
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Love Someone Dat Doesnt Notice U?? by Cuddlemii: 7:14pm On Jul 07, 2012
Try noticing someone that loves you from now on. Give attention to who deserves it and not who you can't have!
RomanceRe: Give It To Me, Pls by Cuddlemii: 6:23pm On Jul 07, 2012
Lmao at give it to me, pls. Sounds kinky and I like it!

@topic, she does not need a child but marriage. That is the new vice women deploy these days, as men are not as committed as they ought to be.
LiteratureRe: Food For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op):
TODAY'S THEME IS RELATIONSHIPS

"Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take" -Anthony Robbins

"Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Don’t over-analyse your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness" -Leo F. Buscaglia

"Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow" -Swedish Proverb

"A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart" -Leo F. Buscaglia

"Address the issue and not the personality"(For instance, if you partner breaks a plate,caution him/her for doing that but don't use words like, "you this person, you are used to things like this, you are clumsy, useless etc)- Myself
LiteratureRe: Literature/Writing Complaints Thread by Cuddlemii(op): 1:35pm On Jul 07, 2012
Ndyoo: please i notice its hard to post a story here without it appearing in blocks that are compressed and unreadable...will it be nice if we post referrals too that allow fellow NL reading it....like an fb page.thank u
It is your responsibility to make your story readable for your readers.

A little paragraphing, spacing, punctuation, bolding,italicizing etc would go a long way in achieving that and posting on here has all that enabled. You need just a little patience to review your post and modify them.

If you refer readers to your fb page, not everyone would have the time to redirect from one forum to other to read your story. Why do you want to give readers so much work just to appreciate your art. A good writer beats challenges and adapts to changes.

Tell your story here and if you need assistance, that is what I am here for!
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CareerRe: Common Interview Questions And What They Mean by Cuddlemii:

FOR THE SALARY EXPECTATION QUESTION:

Never give a figure or salary range in an interview except you were pressured or compelled to.
The answer I always use is this, "Based on the industry, I am sure you are/your company is competitive. My priority is to gather experience and contribute to the company's blah blah blah blah" OR "industry standard"

Any good interviewer and HR person would commend you for answering wisely.


OTHER LIKELY QUESTIONS:


1) Explain a time when you excelled as part of a team:- They just want to know you are a team player (collective effort and good interactive skills)

2) Explain a time when you exhibited leadership qualities:- They want to know if you can live by example and motivate your colleagues

3) Explain a time you failed in your duties and how were you able to resolve it:- They want to know if you have perseverance and result oriented

4) Where do you see youself in 2/5/10 years?: Your goals and aspirations (If it will fit with theirs or improve it)

5) If you have an angry/frustrated customer/user, how would you handle the issue?- They want to know your personality, tolerance level and persuasive skills

6) What kind of Supervisor would you like to work with?- They want to know if you can work with the supervisors they have there or not

7) Do you function better independently or as part of a team- They want to know the pattern of your work or delivery.

cool What does empowerment mean to you?- If you think of the company as your own, you are liable to make sure it functions right. They want to know your entrepreneurial skill and risk taking skills to improve the company.

9) Define Customer Service in one sentence- Customers are the reason we do business. They want to know you have all the qualities to satisfy their wants, come back for more and refer others to your company's services.

10) How do you relieve stress/What do you do for fun?- [/b]The need to know they are dealing with humans and not robots. If your life outside work in not pleasant, your life at work would be cold. They need vibrant workers. Be realistic and don't use the I go to church or mosque or read the bible line.

[b]11) How many nibble are in a byte-
Tricky question. I was asked this, I didnt know the answer instead I started chewing/nibbling and got my interviewers laughing.

12) You have your manager, a customer and your friend on phone at the sametime. How would you handle that situation?-[/b]They just want to know how you prioritize in a work environment. The right answer is to inform you manager that you are handling a customer and would get back to him asap because a customer is top priority. After you have attended to the customer, you then return to your manager. Your friend is last on the list, you can chat some other time.

[b]13) I have interviewed several candidates today, tell me one good reason why I should pick you?-
They need you to sell yourself.

14) What do you know about the company?- They need to know you not just interviewing all over the place randomly. You are focused and mean business.
Research the company you are interviewing with, its history, mission statement,operations etc just incase you are asked about the company.

15) Why did you leave your former company? They need to know who they are hiring. Just to be sure you have no mental problem or have never been convicted of a crime that your slate in the labor market is clean

16) What didn't you like about your former manager?- Just to know how you function with your superiors. Not an avenue to start giving bad reports about your former manager. Its better you use constructive criticism to distract the question.

17) When you don't know the answer to something, what do you do?- Research and Google it(its the easiest way)
FamilyRe: Nairaland's Cutest Baby Contest by Cuddlemii:
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LiteratureRe: Food For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op): 10:39pm On Jul 06, 2012
Swit up: hi there.... Just passing by
Thanks for dropping by. Don't you have quotes that you live by? Quotes that inspire you?
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LiteratureRe: The PACKAGE by Cuddlemii: 10:37pm On Jul 06, 2012
[quote author=st.okolie]i have been trying to update, but all my post are coming out as hidden,i dont know what is wrong.[/quote]Sorry about that, it was the spambot. I have made it visible again.
You can try reviewing or arranging your post again to avoid repetition.

Nice thrilling story by the way!
LiteratureRe: The Male Madness: A Short Story Please Criticize by Cuddlemii: 5:04pm On Jul 06, 2012
@op

Please try spacing your story to aid reading it.
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LiteratureRe: Literature/Writing Complaints Thread by Cuddlemii(op):
Billy Rubin: Here is unbelievably boring! Is it that we have no writers and literary enthusiasts in NL or what? It's appalling, really.
Yes, you are right about that. I just became the mod here and have some ideas but because of an exam I am taking next week Tuesday, I haven't carried them out.

I think the first thing is to create awareness and then re-organize the section. Also, with the help of useful contributions and suggestions, I am sure we can make it more active and exciting. Your suggestions are also welcome. Thank you!
LiteratureLiterature/Writing Complaints Thread by Cuddlemii(op): 3:14pm On Jul 06, 2012
How can I be of help?

I am all ears as long as you keep it Civil!
LiteratureRe: Food For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op):
TODAY'S THEME IS LIFE:

"Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself" – George Bernard Shaw

"Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are" – John Wooden

"The greatest threat to freedom is the absence of criticism" - Wole Soyinka

"Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds you plant" - Robert Louis Stevenson

"I have found that if you love life, life will love you back" - Arthur Rubinstein

"Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and go do it. Because what the world needs is more people who have come alive" – Howard Thurman

"There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle" - Albert Einstein.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life; define yourself" - Harvey Fierstein

"No matter what, no matter how, where or who - you can almost always turn around and get a second chance" - Anony-mous

"The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and let it come in" – Morrie Schwartz.

"To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance" – Oscar Wilde.

"Self-worth comes from one thing – thinking that you are worthy" - Anonymous

“The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.” - Tom Bodett

“Let yourself be open and life will be easier. A spoon of salt in a glass of water makes the water undrinkable. A spoon of salt in a lake is almost unnoticed.”- Buddha quotes

"But the ultimate lesson is just sit down and write. That's all" - Wole Soyinka
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LiteratureRe: Interesting Short Stories On Ramblersinc. by Cuddlemii: 3:21am On Jul 06, 2012
teeid: Hello folks. I'll like to introduce you to my blog. ramblersinc. where you'll find the most interesting poems and short stories. The latest post is titled ... FORGIVE ME FATHER, FOR I HAVE SINNED .... Please read and don't forget to add your comments. www.ramblersinc. Thanks.
Introduce your blog here- https://www.nairaland.com/816382/showcase-blog-get-more-comments. Thanks
Literature/Writing AdsRe: Post Your Write Ups And Read Write Ups Free by Cuddlemii: 9:29pm On Jul 05, 2012
Oyeleke Mary: Please, i have a nairaland account, i don't know how to write a post or a topic.
Please someone help me
Click on the create new topic tab.
LiteratureRe: Food For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op):
"When I hear about negative and false attacks, I really don't invest any energy in them, because I know who I am."
– Michelle Obama

"One of the lessons that I grew up with was to always stay true to yourself and never let what somebody else says distract you from your goals."
– Michelle Obama

“The trouble with not having a goal is that you can spend your life running up and down the field and never score.”
- Bill Copeland

"If you give up your dreams, you die"- Flashdance 1983 (This is my favourite)
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LiteratureFood For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op):
This thread is for daily quotes to kick start your day. Give you that boost for work, prayers, work-out sessions or hold ups on the road that gets on our nerves. Just something to linger in your mind, avert depression and aggression. When those bad days occur, something to cool you off and give you hope.

Feel free to write your favorite & inspirational quotes that have shaped your life and would be instrumental to the lives of others.
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LiteratureRe: Young Authors of Nigeria (YAN) -Join Now! by Cuddlemii: 6:55am On Jul 05, 2012
Peaceworld: Cuddle, I was banned from NL for posting a link to our draft constitution that's why I wrote what u bolded above. If u need to know or join NAYWP, please get info from page one of this thread...smiley
I am sure one of the rules of NAYWP is adherence to the constitution. You should follow the rules and regulations of Nl and we all sail smoothly.
LiteratureRe: An Anthem Poem To The Naija's Young Writers' Club by Cuddlemii:
buzreal: In my own little way, i try to encourage my peeps. pls keep the ball rolling. great dreams are always tough at the beginning, it is like a mother in labour. but after delivery, the pain is forgotten. let bad minds run their mouth, enemy is a must if we must blow.
this anthem poem is just trying to tell us that '' yes we can'' no matter the situation of our country or continent.

THE NAIJA'S YOUNG WRITERS' CLUB
YES WE CAN

Together we shall climb
the stairs of greatness
and ply the rough route to success.
Together we shall restor the dignity
Of the young african writer.
Together we shall sail through,
where it seems the tides are rose.
With N.YW.C as our boat
and unity as our oars.
Yes we can,
We can go a lot further together,
than one could go.

Together we shall make a road,
where there seems to be no path.
Together we shall make a house,
where there seems to be no room.
Together we shall make a stay,
where there seems to be no chance.
Yes we can,
we can go a lot further together,
than one could go.

Together we shall resurrect the greatness,
buried in the tomb of mediocrity.
Together we shall tread the greatness' path
and leave behind; a generational impact.
Together we shall soar higher,
where it seems the storm is raged.
Yes we can,
We can go alot further together,
than one could go.

Together we shall outshine,
where there seems to be no light.
Together we shall open gates,
where there seems to be no door.
Together we shall fly high like eagles,
where there seems to be chicken' ego.
Together we shall multiply,
where there seems to be no addition.
Yes we can,
we can go a lot further together,
than one could go.

With love in our mist.
With unity as our bound.
With greatness as our aim.
With inspiration in our head.
With message in our mind.
With burden in our heart.
With faith on our talent.
With focus in our sense,
We can achieve our goals.
Yes we can,
we can go a lot further together,
than one could go.

With our message to the world,
We shall tell the ethnocentric
that this is not "a time to kill."
With our books in time;
we shall tell that this is not,
"a tale of three tribes."
With the pages of our writing,
We shall gather the "the things fallen apart"
and leave footprints "on the sand of time."
Yes we can,
We can go a lot further together,
than one could go,

(behold the coming light
that lightens the africa's night)
The naija's young writers' club.
yes we can.
Post your anthem here https://www.nairaland.com/920401/naija-young-writers-club-join/21#11333927 for it be seen & appreciated by the Club!
Thank you.

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