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Some people that cannot write nor read are more accountable and industrious than others that can.

Stargurl20:
You're not wrong. I'm only acknowledging your majesty's words

hmmm?

DreamSonInlaw:
Oh thanks chief. I have been following nairaland for years (because of the werey wey full here ) I don't engage a lot though, the few times I have..I found out there are amazing people; you & one girl like that.

I am a firm believer that good girls abound. Thanks for your kind words..I want arrange one or two before I get out there..almost there.

nice and thanks bro, you're an amazing guy.

Stargurl20:
Hmm

what's is it my Royal Highness? let me hear it please or am I wrong?

imadiyi:
Rushing into marriage is completely out of the equation as far as this subject is concerned. If you want to be marriage in 3-5 years time, you have to start preparing yourself for it now. You don't prepare in marriage, you prepare for marriage. A journey of 5000 km begins with a step. So also is marriage. That first step that starts a journey, is that periods you get to know your prospective suitor.

Your intuition of regarding her to that "she is indeed very young", I don't know how you classified a woman at 23 to be very young. In men, yes it's indeed young. But as for ladies, that age is the prime time or the period needed to stabilize in a relationship.

nobody is saying she should not start relationship, if you follow the thread, you will see where I was even encouraging starting relationship from friendship level. I'm only against pressure. I:m totally against pressure and everything about it is bad.

Stargurl20:
Maybe it's because I don't flatter myself

am I flattering you?

Its good not to flatter oneself too much but sincere flatter or let's use praise, is good once in awhile.

Stargurl20:
Lol

hmmm, you're laughing at me appreciating you or being honest, which one? I know most ladies don't like truth and I pray you don't join that list, after all, you're royalty not just a Lady.

Stargurl20:
Aameen. God bless u too

amen and thank you Mi lady, her royal Highness and the one and only Stargurl

Stargurl20:
Good morning, your majesty. thank so much. I sincerely appreciate you.

you're welcome your Highness and you're highly appreciated from here too. God bless you for us.

Stargurl20:
My boy? Oh come on, sir. It's time you stopped this modesty. Too much modesty is a sin.
Good morning, majesty. I'm fine, you?

Hahahahaha. modesty ke, I'm actually very loyal, my Royal Highness.

I'm OK, thank God and thank you too.

DreamSonInlaw:
Ah you be correct guy oh! I can hear dem ladies say; ' why are all the good guys taken'?.

I no sure say i get time for women matter now.

lol...thank you boss Mi, they are still good guys around just that they are not usually as conspicuous as the players and I think you're one yourself.
Bros, try oooo, they are still good ones out there(and I think my lady here is one. Truly, they are good ladies here but you will never know, most of them are usually quiet because of the unfriendly nature of this place now), try and its good to start on time too even as a guy.
Have a good day sir

highchief1:
we all must try and grove sha.that’s the whole essence of coming to this life

you're not wrong oooo, even Bible said we should enjoy our life.
Have a remarkable day ahead boss mi

Stargurl20:
Lol... I never knew your majesty. Cheers

I noticed it yesterday! how is her royal Highness this morning, the one and only stargurl20, your boy is still very loyal. Have a remarkable day ahead!

Stargurl20:
Lol

good morning her royal Highness? Its no laughing matter oooo, they think I'm sweet mouthing but I'm only being truthful. you deserve the best and you will get the best.

omo, it is well ooo.

The day i know we are in for a serious something is when I saw boys Hawking fuel in front of nnpc towers in abuja, central area. May God save us!

Congratulations! God is awesome!

imadiyi:
Continue to dey sweet-talk her. You are slowly killing her. Make she nor worry, reality will soon done on her. We are watching!

no one is sweet talking anybody, everything has time, rushing to get married is usually a mistake. It's a life time journey, afterall, she is indeed very young.

wow, what a thread. God bless you @op and may He continue to keep and protect you.

highchief1:
lol what I mean,if person die with brand new unused organs or person die with organs when e don groove well well no be same grave?ppl when no Dey enjoy na em Dey even die pass.life na scam.see pastor adeboye son when preach finish come go die for sleep.

hahahahaha, boss why are you like this? lol. It's the same grave jare! But You know whether the guy too groove before he die, you can't tell ooo.

Stargurl20:
Lol ... Your majesty

we made front page you know... cheers to that my royal Highness!

DreamSonInlaw:
Sugar boy. The way you dey talk sweet sweet so..you sure no be you go be the guy she fancy?

naaaa, she deserve better, she will get a brand new fresh guy, I'm taken and old fashion.
Who knows, it might be you, after all you're a 'dream son in law', only don't break her heart else I will come for you... lol.

Stargurl20:
Your girl is even more loyal

if I hear, my 2 hands dey up for you ooo. double twale to her royal Highness stargurl20.

Stargurl20:
Your face show, your show shine

na your back i dey na, I loyal ooo, your boy is loyal!

highchief1:
lol .bros I Dey lash o but carefully wetin really Dey this life?we all go stl die weda u enjoy or not so me no Dey that one.if I see fine girl I chew her but wetin I know na steady condom then once once check for infections if any then u treat.i don’t intend to die with an unused body.

hahahahaha, mad oooo! you don make me laugh tire for here.
Happy to know you're playing safe. Truly nothing to take too serious for this life ooo, enjoy your life and try to be happy.
unuse body ke, body wey you don dey overuse, lol. keep playing safe boss, nothing do you.

highchief1:
anybody when argue this with u no really know women.them get sense pass us.a man will cheat and be caught but who are u to catch a woman that is cheating.In all na sickness Dey fear me for raw sex with woman.pregnancy is the least of my fears.Though I can never have kids outside wedlock and as I don marry so another woman no go born for me.it’s against my principles

you're right too bro, they are very coded. Na to do our part dey CD oooo, the level of infection out there is alarming.
Hmmmm, bros me, no think am ooooo, not this age ooo. I'm married too and trust me, some women no send you oooo. Some na the married ones their eyes dey chock for. Somebody once told me that a lady approach him, he told the lady that he is married and she said she know, that it doesn't matter. Make God just help person, that's all.

Stargurl20:
Well, maybe you're right. Thank do much for your advice so far.

Hahahaha, you're funny jor, which advise, these are things you already know, you're welcome though. Nice conversing with you too.

Jovialjune1:
Exactly, I also don't approve of divorce, but when push turns to shove, being alive should be the ultimate reality.

God bless you for that. That's me!

missimelda01:
It's been two years since I made this post and I've been with a first son, would never do that again if I had to choose.
My point is that it goes both ways, being with someone who has to carry the burden of his family and dealing with my own responsibility is a lot even though it's just ‘dating’.

It takes love, patience and the grace of God to keep it going.

lol, you're right but with understanding, openness and love, it shouldn't be an issue, just like you said. please Don't shock doors to first sons abeg, some will blow you away and you will be shock the level of love your MIL will show you cause women tend to have deep love for their first boys and that could be easily transfer to their wives.
never knew the post is this long, I should be checking that henceforth.