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WowSweetGuy:
the ladies know d kinda man they like to have sex with...their own fantasy

maybe a fantasy as you said...

colizee:
Maybe for anonymity

she can readily get an anonymous guy almost everywhere for sex without paying. Haven't you heard stories of anonymous sex in clubs, transits, fun places etc. Its just some few minutes of gisting and probably few minutes or hours of bonding if all that will be necessary.
I have share a story here about a friend of mine that met a lady on the road while coming to my place, they got talking, came to my place together, I wasn't home so they went back to his place which is close by, condom was exhausted and he went raw, people that are just meeting themselves for the first time. So for a lady, any lady can have anonymous, unplanned sex with the next guy without paying

oglalasioux:
It's because the guy is lying. No such thing happens. The closest to this happening is ladies trying to get into relationships with drivers so they can use them as their personal drivers for free.

Abuja woman offer you money for sex? Maybe in a parallel universe not here.

Thank you jare.

highchief1:
read ur Bible well it was written that a time like this will come.It’s no longer business as usual for women.if u know what some of us men go through.

that is marriage not sex, they are 2 different things. Most guys are not ready to marry but will hardly turn down opportunity to bed a lady.
An average lady have numerous guys around that are looking opportunity to have s*x with her.

The person that wrote all these on instablog is evil minded, how can someone sit and arrange all these evil in his/her. Mehn!!

Stargurl20:
Lol...married by next? Lol ... Don't crack me up pls.

I'm the first born of my mum and her only daughter. I've two younger brothers

no wonder! crack you up how? in life anything is possible. you can meet a guy you really fancy before end of the and may end up been married before end of next year. Never say never.

Only Daughter, too much petting and love! you will be shock she won't bother you. As only daughter, I believe she won't stress you, she might talk about it but she won't bother you much. You no get problem sef...by the time you will tell her 'mummy you want me to rush and do mistake', she will be the one apologising and telling you to take your time.

Stargurl20:
Thank you

you're welcome

[quote author=Stargurl20 post=117619951][/quote]hmmm, wow! I understand you pretty well, you can't obviously go into a relationship you're hoping to take to next level without any likeness, fondness or love for the person, such relationship won't last.
you're not asking for too much and I believe soon you will see someone that you will be all over him. Its not too much to ask dear.
its good to be a realist, a lot of fake people and relationship these days, setting things straight as is ought to be is bae. Its always good to go into relationship with a friend, someone you like, you respect or you're fond of so that when 'love' reduces or vanishes (if love use to vanish), other things like the friendship, respect, fondness etc can keep the Union going.
you don't need to be worried too much, you're also not doing anything bad. preparing and planning for your future is not bad, it put you a step ahead and may prevent bad incidences in future, only you should be praying more and worrying less while you go about with an open mind. you should consider making more friends, even when you want a relationship with someone, its good if you guys can take it from friendship level....

Stargurl20:
I foresee it, especially on marital issues

you shouldn't assume that, I know a lot of parents that don't put pressure on their kids.

running won't solve anything, they have your number and they know your address, so they can visit anytime and continue from where they stop.

When it happen, make them understand, asked them, if they want you to rush, make mistakes and end up divorce? just calm them down and on your own, try to go into good relationship, when they see you in a good relationship, they won't pressure you but in all, never settle for less in the name of pressure, stand your ground but don't push them away, parents will always be parents

#What makes you believe you won't be married by next year?

(are you the first child or daughter).

blackpink22:
I'o

You're an adult now, talk to them, know their fears and try to assure them. don't blame them, parents will always be parents but let them know its better they give you free hand but let them know who and who is your friend, in that case its a win win situation. some 23 years old are married but don't tell them that and stop praying stupid prayer because of your parents trying to keep you safe, pls go edit your post and be careful what you carelessly wish or hope for.

marriage is not for children or feeble minded.

We take a lot of things, that's what we signed up for so we are not complaining. Peace of mind and happy home is the goal...

1. Its not every family that put pressure on their daughter, what made you think your family will put pressure on you, my family don't and no one cares.

2. For whoever that want to pressurise another, distance won't be a barrier. its just to develop thick skin and make such person to know that their is time for everything and mounting pressure on people makes them do serious mistakes.

Bimbilla:
What is the implications of sleeping with a married woman's?

its very very tempting, just pray you don't fall for such temptations and don't judge those that fall for it, its not easy oooo, na help of God

doggedfighter:
Being caught by her angry husband and facing whatever punishment he metes to you .

Aside that nothing.

are you sure? even if we don't want to go spiritual, kama is a bitch you know, if someone is not fortunate enough.

As a guy, when a lady wants to offer you money for sex, you should think critically about it, because on a normal day, a lady will have so many men around (admirers and even strangers) that wants to get down with her, both married and single, so why will such person pay you for it, something she can easily get anywhere and anytime for free.

I don't know why are the different negative post about late marriage or choosing not to marry at all.

Some marry late and have the best of marriage life. No be who marry first oooo, everyone has his/her time.

@op, nice one, sincerity is good, your man that you blow you away and wow you is coming, don't allow anyone's post get to you to make you change. meanwhile, its also better to love or go into relationship with someone that loves you very much, maybe more than you love them.

RealMarv:
This is a trend that has been going on for a long time! Mind you, it's not limited to guys, even ladies do call themselves names all in the name of jokes. Names like "weyrey, fool, idiot, bastard" and lots more. It's common even in chats, as some of them screenshot their chats and put it on their statuses to reply. You see a long chat and all they do is call themselves all sorts of names including curses. What is it with the names calling?

I know most of them would say they don't really mean it but must you call yourselves negative names all in the name of throwing banters?
Let me hear your thoughts guys!

that's guys for you, it is what it is

Very humble and humane, I'm happy she won. Who dey....

I remember someone advised me when I was going to sch to leave women and focus on my education, that if you're doing well they will come themselves even if you're married.
In school, I didn't have much time for my studies but I wasn't into ladies either and like he said, though I don't have money, I wasn't a top performer, nothings really but they were everywhere.
I can tell you that till today, I didn't really woo (toast) any of my woman.
It goes both way, whether male or females, Just do your thing and live your life, don't waste too much time and energy looking for relationship, it will come naturally.

havilla:
. pls help me!!!!

Quickly reach out to him and have a heart to heart talk, he possibly feel the same way you're feeling but respecting boundaries. It's better to talk now that he is not yet married. The discussion will also help you a lot. finally, your meeting point should be online or an open place because meeting in a secluded play means their is a very high chance of sex based on the way both of you are feeling now and from experience, such sex leads to pregnancy and complicate everything.

Good luck girl.

Blackdeewhy:
Who dey advice this guy?!
Well, the most important thing is to have money in this life. And obviously, he does.
So make I pocket my opinion.
Ire oo

That's one of our problem, money is good, very good but not the most important thing and majority of us believe it to be.

I am disappointed. This is suppose to be a wonderful, enlightening thread.

Onewayup:
A friend of mine in Lagos found out that her husband is gay on their court wedding night. Can this type of marriage be annulled(instead of divorce) so that it does not enter the book that she was once married? Such annulment is possible in abroad if marriage is less than 2 years. Today is less than 3 months to the marriage

She is suppose to cancel the wedding immediately.

QuinModah:
20k

oya oooo, send it sharp sharp

we are all human and to think of the fact that you were once actively involved in sex means the urge will always be there. You try, to be honest, 3 good years is no beans.
Why not try your gadgets if the feeling is much, it will clear your head and calm your nerves.

#How is your baby? #All the best.

so ladies that go under the knife, do it because of men? SMH....

Bros no rush marriage oooo, loneliness can cause that. Make good friends first, especially male friends and when you finally meet a lady you think you can marry, I advise you date her for at least 6 months let that "butterfly feeling" go away first, so you can make the decision to settle with clear eyes

Beverlyjean:
Those are low value men ... high value men will never take that type of woman seriously... and the moment that low value man rises to high status abd becomes a high value man , he immediately drops that woman for a better one that matches the type of woman men really want...thats y u hear things like he dumped me after 3 yrs the moment he made it big

You haven't seen 'high value men' acting stupid because of love. True Love doesn't know classification. I pray that you will experience such strong love, then you'll know how far?