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Stargurl20:
Your girl is even more loyal

if I hear, my 2 hands dey up for you ooo. double twale to her royal Highness stargurl20.

Stargurl20:
Your face show, your show shine

na your back i dey na, I loyal ooo, your boy is loyal!

highchief1:
lol .bros I Dey lash o but carefully wetin really Dey this life?we all go stl die weda u enjoy or not so me no Dey that one.if I see fine girl I chew her but wetin I know na steady condom then once once check for infections if any then u treat.i don’t intend to die with an unused body.

hahahahaha, mad oooo! you don make me laugh tire for here.
Happy to know you're playing safe. Truly nothing to take too serious for this life ooo, enjoy your life and try to be happy.
unuse body ke, body wey you don dey overuse, lol. keep playing safe boss, nothing do you.

highchief1:
anybody when argue this with u no really know women.them get sense pass us.a man will cheat and be caught but who are u to catch a woman that is cheating.In all na sickness Dey fear me for raw sex with woman.pregnancy is the least of my fears.Though I can never have kids outside wedlock and as I don marry so another woman no go born for me.it’s against my principles

you're right too bro, they are very coded. Na to do our part dey CD oooo, the level of infection out there is alarming.
Hmmmm, bros me, no think am ooooo, not this age ooo. I'm married too and trust me, some women no send you oooo. Some na the married ones their eyes dey chock for. Somebody once told me that a lady approach him, he told the lady that he is married and she said she know, that it doesn't matter. Make God just help person, that's all.

Stargurl20:
Well, maybe you're right. Thank do much for your advice so far.

Hahahaha, you're funny jor, which advise, these are things you already know, you're welcome though. Nice conversing with you too.

Jovialjune1:
Exactly, I also don't approve of divorce, but when push turns to shove, being alive should be the ultimate reality.

God bless you for that. That's me!

missimelda01:
It's been two years since I made this post and I've been with a first son, would never do that again if I had to choose.
My point is that it goes both ways, being with someone who has to carry the burden of his family and dealing with my own responsibility is a lot even though it's just ‘dating’.

It takes love, patience and the grace of God to keep it going.

lol, you're right but with understanding, openness and love, it shouldn't be an issue, just like you said. please Don't shock doors to first sons abeg, some will blow you away and you will be shock the level of love your MIL will show you cause women tend to have deep love for their first boys and that could be easily transfer to their wives.
never knew the post is this long, I should be checking that henceforth.

If not for abusive marriage and probably a chronic cheat, divorce shouldn't be an option

na just heart break, he will survive. I pity the lady, her lover guy will soon ditch her. her eyes go clear.

Heathrow44:
Thats naija women for u, they would rather die dan walk out of a marriage without stealing and reaping where they did not sow, during d whole of d relationship my money is my money and ur.money is our.money and yet she said she made him.who he is today, typical naija girl mentality

how did you know she did not sow? how many women today can start a home and build with a man from zero level. We should appreciate people like her, its unfortunate she is late.

missimelda01:
So I get this awkward reaction when a man asks for my position in my family and I say I'm the first child. I really want to know what the issue is...is it just the bride price??

Some parents will never allow their first child to marry far.

2. Responsibility: some guys are afraid of responsibilities, in Africa we marry the family not just the person.

3. marriage rites. I know a guy that wanted marrying an IMO lady, first daughter. his colleagues from the east were the first to discourage him though they love themselves dearly, Bros no gree oo. As first daughter that is a graduate, we heard you will pay tire.

but love conquer all

CeeJeckydivah:
I no dey hear say woman dey die under man o. Na man dey always die untop woman.

because na man dey always wan impress, some take a lot of substances though they are not physically OK. Again, watin most women dey do, na to just lay on dey bed na.

highchief1:
pregnancy no Dey fear me na hiv.if I give u belle I advice u to remove it u no gree it means maybe e get wherr u keep money.u can’t force upkeep money from my bank na.

lol, funny guy. They are both not pleasant, though HIV is worst. Some women are codedly looking for baby, both singles and married ladies, so trust me, if e enter, lie lie, they won't remove it. For the married ones, when it enters they won't even let you know, they quickly take it to Mr at home.
Almost all women know what they are doing, they are very strategic unlike men

statesman6:
You don't know anything. Women like going far away for there secret to be safe. You can see a woman shading men that we're scum but codedly them dey bang her steadily. Another thing I noticed in women is that do there shit far away to avoid catching feelings

so if I may ask you, between sleeping with an anonymous person and paying an uber man that all their details are documented, which is more secretive?

Stargurl20:
I guess that's why. But make I no lie, I feel bad at times, coz I feel I should be the most loved as her first and only daughter, but unfortunately, we do not always get what we want

jealousy jealousy... see you. You should be happy. technically so. You may not be what you're today or be as sound as you're today if you were treated maybe more specially. Most children that were overly treated special and were not allowed to do anything can hardly survive on their own, imagine a girl in such situation. Your mom is a good mother, you really need to thank her for not spoiling you. Today you may not be Able to cook, take care of your house or do anything. you may not even have the least of courtesy for others, so you should be grateful and not feel jealous.
Also try to train your children in such way too, the only difference should be that you don't show them that any of them is special. Most parents that do that do it unconsciously so you have to be meticulous about it.

Odebayo4010:
The enjoyment and the money they will get wouldn't let them Realize until they lost there Glory

God bless you jare.

advanceDNA:
Dont get stuck up in 1992..this is 2022...some women pay for sex....if ive not seen it ...i wont say sooo.... u think say na girls wey dey look for men to buy her her iphone we dey talk

Oga make we dead this matter....no need to argue

hmmm, have you seen a Lady that don't have men around that want her, both married and single, super rich or average. Yes, I agree they pay for sex especially for the ones that are restricted or lack time and exposure but most times, its questionable.

highchief1:
I Dey always turn down.it’s like a woman begging me to sex her raw I have never accepted.i do raw when my instinct tells me to go ahead.

that one too is questionable, why is she asking for raw? maybe for pregnancy, you may never know. Thank God you didn't agree, believe it or not, most women know what they are doing, no matter how innocent they want it to look like

Stargurl20:
Lol... Yinmu. It's a clear thing. Although she's not mean to me, but I know she loves my immediate younger bro most

you think so, you don't know so, you'll be shocked. Women usually have strong attachment to their first male child though.

Awesome!!

highchief1:
bros e no easy again.most men are no longer comfortable so they don’t think about sex.it takes a happy mind to have an erection.so now women have to put it to us.u won’t understand.

hmmm, I understand but not free sex. Only very few guys will turn down opportunity for a free sex.

advanceDNA:
Go abuja or come island where many divorcee and rich mama dey wey no fit stay husband house cos of pride ....they do coded runs alot...women pretend like they dont fvck so some keep their sexcapades ddiscreet by paying

which abuja? na story bros, most will rather collect money from guys though they have or start a relationship with someone before sex rather than paying for it.
you guys are getting it all wrong, most lady, married or not, meet men everyday trying to have sex, so why then should I pay another guy for it.

Stargurl20:
Too much petting kwa. Well, my own different o.... In fact, I sense my immediate younger bro to be my mum's fave sef. It's clear cut. Even when she scolds him, she scolds him with love

don't be jealous jor, lol. I won't believe that though. she was probably being careful not to get you 'spoilt' as her only daughter.

WowSweetGuy:
the ladies know d kinda man they like to have sex with...their own fantasy

maybe a fantasy as you said...

colizee:
Maybe for anonymity

she can readily get an anonymous guy almost everywhere for sex without paying. Haven't you heard stories of anonymous sex in clubs, transits, fun places etc. Its just some few minutes of gisting and probably few minutes or hours of bonding if all that will be necessary.
I have share a story here about a friend of mine that met a lady on the road while coming to my place, they got talking, came to my place together, I wasn't home so they went back to his place which is close by, condom was exhausted and he went raw, people that are just meeting themselves for the first time. So for a lady, any lady can have anonymous, unplanned sex with the next guy without paying

oglalasioux:
It's because the guy is lying. No such thing happens. The closest to this happening is ladies trying to get into relationships with drivers so they can use them as their personal drivers for free.

Abuja woman offer you money for sex? Maybe in a parallel universe not here.

Thank you jare.

highchief1:
read ur Bible well it was written that a time like this will come.It’s no longer business as usual for women.if u know what some of us men go through.

that is marriage not sex, they are 2 different things. Most guys are not ready to marry but will hardly turn down opportunity to bed a lady.
An average lady have numerous guys around that are looking opportunity to have s*x with her.

The person that wrote all these on instablog is evil minded, how can someone sit and arrange all these evil in his/her. Mehn!!

Stargurl20:
Lol...married by next? Lol ... Don't crack me up pls.

I'm the first born of my mum and her only daughter. I've two younger brothers

no wonder! crack you up how? in life anything is possible. you can meet a guy you really fancy before end of the and may end up been married before end of next year. Never say never.

Only Daughter, too much petting and love! you will be shock she won't bother you. As only daughter, I believe she won't stress you, she might talk about it but she won't bother you much. You no get problem sef...by the time you will tell her 'mummy you want me to rush and do mistake', she will be the one apologising and telling you to take your time.

Stargurl20:
Thank you

you're welcome

[quote author=Stargurl20 post=117619951][/quote]hmmm, wow! I understand you pretty well, you can't obviously go into a relationship you're hoping to take to next level without any likeness, fondness or love for the person, such relationship won't last.
you're not asking for too much and I believe soon you will see someone that you will be all over him. Its not too much to ask dear.
its good to be a realist, a lot of fake people and relationship these days, setting things straight as is ought to be is bae. Its always good to go into relationship with a friend, someone you like, you respect or you're fond of so that when 'love' reduces or vanishes (if love use to vanish), other things like the friendship, respect, fondness etc can keep the Union going.
you don't need to be worried too much, you're also not doing anything bad. preparing and planning for your future is not bad, it put you a step ahead and may prevent bad incidences in future, only you should be praying more and worrying less while you go about with an open mind. you should consider making more friends, even when you want a relationship with someone, its good if you guys can take it from friendship level....