₦airaland Forum

Thank God for you @op. may your testimony be permanent in Jesus Name

servantofGod22:
PICK ANYONE YOU WANT FROM GOD BEFORE THE END OF THIS YEAR.

AND TYPE, God pls, I need ..........,.....before the end of this year

1. Deliverance!
2. Healing
3.Financial Favour!
4. Good business!
5. Good job!
6. Fruit of the womb!
7. Good partner!
8. Wisdom and knowledge

deliverance, financial favour, wisdom and understanding

servantofGod22:
I pray for any one that can type Amen right now ,Receive unexpected signed cheque, unexpected favour, unexpected healing, unexpected blessings, deliverance, In the mighty name of Jesus.

Amen

superCleanworks:
you nova secure the connection you run go dismantle your marriage.

Because she is not a Nigerian!

You've done the marriage already, let it grow. the other lady might not be any different. your wife was just smarter but then, one has to be smart sometimes to get what he/she wants.
Our parents do arrangee marriage and it works. please focus on your young marriage and grow it, all that glitters are not gold, remember that!

God bless you and see you through. Nice One!

May God help us.

what is difficult in politely telling your aunty to knock before entering your room, as you might be without clothes. you can add 'abeg no vex' to it to sound OK.

[quote author=mastermaestro post=117878245]Your head should be examined. I doubt you have read five percent of the Bible. If you haven't, let me give you an assignment. Look up these names in the Bible and find out what befell them after engaging in such sexual folly: Reuben, Amnon and Absalom.

Maybe you think incest is a joke. Dude has to confess and bear any shameful punishment that follows. As it stands, he is cursed. And that curse could open him up to sudden death, series of failures, marital failure, dysfunctional offsprings, and so much more.

If he still has parents, he should let them know. They would be able to help him make amends. [/quite]

next time stay off my mention Mr better head. Mr Bible scholar, I'm sure that you're aware that though the law is not been thrown away but we are not walking by the law but by Grace through faith in Christ. Are you also aware that mercy triumph over judgement and God can choose to be merciful to anyone He choose and that mercy supersede any judgement?
Christ came to fulfilled the law, through the law non can be righteous but we no longer live by the law but the grace through Christ Jesus.
Mr correct head, stay off my mention next time. thank you.

#op, no allow anyone put fear in you, ask God for forgiveness and try not to repeat it again. ask for God's mercy, it surpasses any judgement or punishment If God chooses to be merciful to you. fervently ask for His mercy.

DollarBag:
Thank you very much dear

you're welcome

DollarBag:
[[b]quote author=culf post=117863359]no need telling anybody. He should just ask God for mercy and stop the act.






Thank you my dear. He's actually looking at the traditional aspect of it. Does/would it have any implication?

forget traditional stuffs, its only affect those that believe in it. God mercy is all we all need.

1. ask God for forgiveness and deliver you.

2. If both of you love yourself that much, now that Oga is out of the way, why not marry her and she will be legally yours.

this cannot be true. Very funny!

I think she is being diplomatic, the reason is certainly not 6 packs

SMH. we are beginning to lose it, please you don't need to get married because in marriage man take full charge while a good wife will support without being asked.

if you're sharing percentages, hope you will also share house chores and stuffs too.

obembet:
Most men don't understand that A woman's need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking.

Some men don't even know how to care for woman after having quality time. a friend of also complain that her man fall asleep immediately after the act. I know that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high. But what Man need to understand what woman need after love making.

To me, I see it as wickedness.

Nlfpmod
Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44
Mukina2
dominique

its both sex. ladies do sleep off immediately after orgasm especially if its more than once.

ricson11:
I went to court they said it will take up to three weeks and I should go to bank or the POS provider for them to freeze the said account that received the money but now both the bank and POS said they need the court order. I don't just understand

they can't freeze account without court order. why should court order take 3 three weeks, go to another court.

no need telling anybody. He should just ask God for mercy and stop the act.

akanbiaa:
Directly or indirectly you support the husband and perhaps you will see nothing wrong in the future if you have a daughter that struggles to send you financial support and ends up with guy that dupes her like the OP's husband.

Are you married? I will never ask my daughter to leave her marriage because of such reason, never. Who is the man making the money for? if he is not responsible or taking care of his family its a different thing.
Do we even know what marriage entails. Na una make people no wan de marry again! Marriage is not for children.

HardMirror:
the girl is just a girl. Still young and stupid. Women cheat their husbands all the time we over look it. Women are indeed useless.

Husband said you people should buy land together but you must be selfish. Na wa o. The husband is even a good man. Trust me i will never beg such a useless girl

no vex again, calm down please. She needs freedom na so she should enjoy it because I don't see the man going after her to beg once she leaves.

Alwaysachick:
This is just the truth, and the person fueling her obviously envious of what she has and will not stop until she is out of wed lock.

If this is your husband's only sin, then pls go back to him. He is a Saint compared to some men out there.

A woman that will take such advise and leave her home is obviously not ready for marriage. I'm not supporting the man but this is not a good reason to pack out either.

Samakus:
She's plainly immature for marriage. The man did wrong taking the money through the backdoor and he's apologised over and over, yet the "queen" thinks he's not done enough. Imagine someone begging you over and over but you still decided to move out and you're expecting him to run after you. Who are you?

Women sef

Thank you. I wouldn't have don't differently if I'm the man. People are misleading her and she thinks she has money to be on her own so I wish her all the best.

#Maybe marriage don tire her

Slynation:
The husband did no wrong here, immediately she selfishly wanted the land all by herself, it became a pure business and no longer family affairs...

Afterall, a successful business is the one friends and family pays...I stand with the husband full-time and I wouldn't have begged her one bit, make she give me my children dey go her way...!!

I guess she already made up her mind to leave the marriage, because I don't see this reason as good enough to cause separation.

naniawini:
;DGod has done it ooooooooh!!!
My baby girl has arrived!



Cc Dontrulee

congratulations! may Your baby make you so proud and be a great blessing to your family and the country

ricson11:
Good evening all. Please I credited a wrong GTB account .How do I recover this money. Though am planning going to bank to make enquiry on how to go about it .

get a court order and go to your bank asap.

I feel she is probably not ready for marriage or like some said, the money she is seeing is getting to her head.
I wish her best of luck sha!

Onepointfiveodds:
I really do not know who to talk to rn and this has been disturbing me. I am so confused rn.

Our marriage is less than a year, we are not pregnant yet and my wife sat me down to discuss the issue last week. She said i should allow her try with another man outside our marriage to see if she will be pregnant. I asked if she's asking for a divorce and she said no, she wants to try with another man while still married to me.

Why she'll come up with something like that and even had the guts to tell me still baffles me. We've gone for series of tests in a space of 7months and nothing seems to be wrong with me.

I just can't keep the discussion out of my head. I'm so scared for her rn and i dont know what to do.

are you sure she has not ready tried. she is not a prudent wife; sorry.
Becareful of the pregnancy she will bring home to you.

she might be cheating already.

may God see you guys through

Geoabeeys:
God will bless you for this....she felt betrayed because you saw alert of so so amount, so what? I will not be part of conspiracy that will put you into confusion and I can say it very loud and clear that someone is giving you bad advise. Listen to me op, you need to grow up. What happen is just one of the things men overlook and smile.....

thank you my brother

akanbiaa:
No one will pay agency fee of 200k over land of 400k it's pure scam and dishonesty , he should have begged his wife for money or borrowed from her, with this his attitude it means if she dies before him the children will suffer and be deprived of what legitimately is hers under his watch. @Registeredguest

you started very well but spoilt it later. Who is he working for? the money he is making is for who and who? Common sense is very important. Most supportive wives scam their hubby but they don't mind, after all, they usually help when he is cashtrap so why bother, that is common sense. I don't support the man and i'm not in support of the wife's behaviours too, she is not ready for marriage

we read meanings to everything