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FERNADEZISBACK:
Men cheats on their wives but can't endure being cheated on. My uncle estranged his wife over rumour that she have a secrete lover at her work place without visible evidence and has begun divorce process in the court...it baffles me because this same man has been cheating on his wife openly for so long.

1. not all men cheat.

2. I believe its an orientation thing, a lot of our people have this wrong orientation, I was shocked when an elder bro told me its OK to cheat or marriage another lady because one is a man (this bro did white wedding in church oooo). so some men see it as normal to cheat while ladies are not suppose to cheat. Our culture too is not helping in that regards but thank God for Christianity, true Christians men are getting better.

its not about being divorce though it count but the real question is, can you cope or live with all you have seen and complaining about?
This is why courtship is good before marriage, so make your decision. If you're a religious person, I will also advise that you pray about it.

what a piece! awesome

This change of Naira notes is beginning to make sense...

@ahnie, you are a good cook jare!
Deliciously Yummy!!! Oga suppose give you special gift Tonight for this.

Abeg package my own send Sha Sha, I no wan hear stories oooo.

so your wife don't know your your card pin and you don't know her own too I guess?
its unfortunate oooo.

ahnie:
Ok o.
But I must say....nor be every waistbead be ordinary Sha.

Thank you my dear, a lot are not. one need to be careful sometimes. I had a lot of tales about it from ladies. it is well ooo.
Good to know you love rocking it, most guys find it sexy though.

this one dey surprise me ooo, baba go pay bride price first. Call the man or travel to go see him, nothing go do you.

ahnie:
Chai tell me you're not serious.

I'm oooo! I'm not just a fan of it. maybe because a lot of females abuse it, I don't know but not me. Though I encourage people to put on whatever they feel comfortable wearing (but certainly not a waste bead for my partner, maybe later on sha)

he probably wants to use your account to move cash! Thank God you didn't give him the correct details and be careful with him before EFCC go com move you.

it might not be anything but I'm not a fan of waste beads and I don't see myself allowing my partner to Rock one.

Starz825:
He is rich na why....

If na poor man ... omooo

not only poor, some average men and some rich with core African mentality will not take it.

CLATHRIN:
I once boarded a vehicle from somewhere(can't remember now) to ph, three guys were seated at the back, the most demonic conversation I have ever listened to in my life were from those guys. They couldn't even keep their secrets hidden in the public. They were coming from a spiritualist who gave them instructions on what to do so their "yahoo business can click". One described how he once had his hand up his girlfriends anus when she pooed on herself and had blood exuding from Buhari knows where. Men! Those takes where gut wrenching. They even talked about how some spiritualists had failed them and the little expeditions the had with one.

Many people in the vehicle where so gutted listening to those boys and the worst part of it is that they cared less about anyone feeling disgusted. This lasted for about 3-4 hours while on transit. Abeg, girls, no be everything be money.

When fuel stations start tampering with their meter, they usually think they are smart but on the long run when their customers figure out that something is wrong and there are other alternatives, that business is dead. Think about your future, money from prostitution doesn't profit you on the long run. How many people around you have made it with prostitution?

they no dey fear guy. Na road this guy stand the talk this thing with normal loud tone. Them no send anybody.

I dey pity for this country, now for some parents encourage their kids to go learn yahoo, do they know most of these yahoo guys no dey use ordinary eye.

#Love Of Money

JOACHINpedro:
It's too late to give this advice esp when olosho influencers torments young ladies with flashy assets they got from their partners, to make matters worse they have started advising them to go for already-made guys.
My prayer goes to those that believe in hardwork and sustainability make them no loose guard cus oppression dey every corner now

Amen to the prayer

Starz825:
Na this same thing cause fight the other day.... For family section here wey one wifey wan get land give hubby money... hubby pansh 200k for pocket

Women who want asset...no dey tell their husbands....

And they make sure their husbands must not find out...

Na so Dem dey do am...
Na woman little secret...

My uncle wife built a storey building and her husband no know until later later....and he appreciated it by supporting her till she build another one sef......

your uncle is an exception, asked very well, most men, the day they find out, marriage ends.

eeya, the French team need prayers

ahnie:
Amen culf.

as you're saying amen, make owners too stop starving stocked diiks. LOL

ahnie:
culf

me don dey vex here ooo, na my moniker una dey use for una vawulence abi? ahnie if I catch you, na to report you to boko boys(na only them most people dey fear now).

abeg make we take am easy, the country don already dey somehow, make we take am easy biko.

ahnie:
Leave her to telepath to the next guy,na she go taya,she had better managed franciseanointed,that's what we were taught
To manage wandering dicks like Bolton wanderers fc.

lol...why are you like this biko, I can't stop laughing.

I pray the dicks will stop wandering and get stock like Stockport fc to the owner that owes it only.

to those saying all men cheat, please all men don't cheat. They are some good, responsible, loyal men out there.

@op, its either you forgive him or end the relationship and stay single till marriage praying that God should give you a good hubby that will not cheat on you. I said stay single because there is no guarantee that the next guy will be better. I don't encourage cheating back for your own good, if you can't deal, please move and save yourself the stress

Foodqueen:
The other lady might be pregnant.

Aunty calm down, no give person heart attack pls, she never finish one you wan add another one

if you don't want marriage because of your space, quiet time etc, then trust me, you may not want to have kids too, they take practically all your time and space unless you don't intend raising your kid by yourself.
Again you should also know that a child that group up under the roof of one parent is not same as one that have the 2 parents living together.
Polygamy should be better for you if you still wants to continue.
Good luck.

illicit:
Sure
But he will act differently matter what

that's the reason why he nacked, he won't do it if he was sober.

illicit:
If u have never drank before and ur first drink is black bullet with Bailey's

I doubt if u would be able to do such

some people head strong

Chris2863:
How we go take believe this you story op? You can advise ladies without dropping this your lamba. Btw, advising these ladies is a total waste of time, all they are after is how to be the happening babes in their hood. More heads to roll, more headlines to read on Nairaland

I'm not trying to impress anybody, as de thing disturb me reach, naim I decide share, anybody wey no wan believe, naim problem

Starz825:
Na wa ooo

The thing tire me ooo, still thinking about their whole discussion. The painful part is that the guy is a young guy, 25 or 27 years max, what will make such a young guy conclude that its ritual he wants to do because I don't see difference between plus and ritual.

May God help us in this country

ahnie:
My prayers for every single ladies n gentlemen out there is,let God disconnect them from anyone that would cause pains to them,both physical n spiritual.


To our husbands,ABEG make una keep our gbola only for us,it's our properties.
My prayers are with the **community preeks**

LOL


Double amen to your prayers.

detectivejones:
One 'sisi, baby la hot' will read this and ignore it. My prayers are with the long throated girls out there- may benz, well furnished apartment, human hair, iphone and ice cream not lead you to an early grave, iseh.

Amen ooo

Acme45:
will they listen with their level of greed?

that's the problem, some even prefer to date them.

born your own before you criticize. i don't see anything wrong there

I heard 2 guys discussing today on the road close to my house, mainly about hussling (yahoo). The more experience one was telling the newbie not to rush the babe so it won't look suspicious.
What got me worried is that the experience guy was telling the other guy that he is traveling home one of these days, that he have small money in the account, He wants to do plus, that guys doing it don't have 2 heads, that the worst that can happen is to die and the other guys was cheering him on.

why I'm posting this is because as I was going out, I saw someone dressed like the guy in one corner with one babe discussing keenly. May God help that girl because if its the guy (that wants to do plus), then I pity her ooo because the first victim is usually their girlfriend.

Ladies please be careful with whoever you're dating know please know what what he does for a living.

#Enjoy your weekend everyone

This country is mess up, may God help us!

I heard 2 guys discussing today on the road close to my house, mainly about hussling (yahoo). The more experience one was telling the newbie not to rush the babe so it won't look suspicious.
What got me worried is that the experience guy was telling the other guy that he is traveling home one of these days, that he have small money in the account, He wants to do plus, that guys doing it don't have 2 heads, that the worst that can happen is to die and the other guys was cheering him on.

why I'm posting this is because as I was going out, I saw someone dressed like the guy in one corner with one babe discussing keenly. May God help that girl because if its the guy (that wants to do plus), then I pity her ooo because the first victim is usually their girlfriend.

Ladies please be careful with whoever you're dating know please know what what he does for a living.

#Enjoy your weekend everyone

This country is mess up, may God help us!