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IBDat:
@nnenneigbo - have u nominated?

yea . . great question, have you dear??

nnenneigbo:
cute-ass its open to interpretations. i know you didn't nominate him, but boy i've being LMAO to buygirl's nominations, i fell she's a wind up LOl. well she cracked me up.

@Cute-ass. your posts a hilarious as well actually, makes the day pass quicker at work LOL

LOL . . well hope i can keep up the mood-brightener job, lol
but seriously, Happy to hear that though. Thanks for the compliment

nnenneigbo:
Chai this girl was playing with you and y'all thought she was serious. no offence meant about the pic but

Dear pls do you mind being more specific, you kind of speak in riddles??
was it an ironical post?

anyways if it was, someone else nominated him:

ife9ja:
Why is chiefoh not yet on the poll ? he's really cute , tot the poll was going to be edited i want to vote for chiefoh,


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=25603

_{chiefoh is the cutest chiefoh is the cutest chiefoh is the cutest chiefoh is the cutest chiefoh is the cutest chiefoh is the cutest}

IBDat:
So how many contestants are there in total now?

9 in total, the poll will be edited soon.

as follows:

YOUNGIES
FERLIE
TMONI
JBUOY
IBDAT
CHIEFOH
TOSIN
$HADEX
FEMI

crazyT:
Hey guys I am new here, my friends call me crazy T because of my first initial T. I am a filmmaker (Nollywood) by profession

You highly welcome too @ crazyT, but you should have created your own personal welcome thread, to avoid misunderstanding and hard feelings, you know now

well this will help you get started: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-1062.0.html


Again, you're welcome to nairaland Catch fun!!

@ sweetstjoy

Dear please and please speak up before its too late, please make hay while the sun shines. Now one impossible thing on earth that we all wished was possible, is reading other people's mind to know how they really felt

Now you've got to use the ones you have, your mouth and your heart Talk to him, tell him you're in love with him, you can't love another the way you love him and that he's all you want in a man

If he feels and wants you the same, believe me he'll be the happiest guy on earth and he'll not hesitate to make his intentions known. You see he might be feeling the same but out of fear of hurting you if you didn't feel the same might be what's holding him back. Like you said, you guys have a lot of "unsaid stuff" in the air, and its about time one of you did something before someone else does the talking which might end up reaping you of your mutual happiness together If you guys bear the feeling together, and somehing is not done or someone does not speak up on time, then it might lead to a future of regrets and "what ifs", darling hope you won't jeopardize your future, love and happiness like that??

If on the other hand he sees you as nothing more than a sister, then there you'll have all the closure you need to move on and open up your heart to someone else because then you know the feeling is not mutual and no point in pursuing a one-sided dream

IBDat:
Cushty - muchas gracious

Vær så god, bare hyggelig

IBDat:
All the previous votes nko?

@omogenaija - At least if i loose let it be gracefully as opposed to a landslide

I see your grudge, darl. I'll ask Seun if he can delete the already existent votes too. Are you happy now??

IBDat:
Cute_Ass n Omo_Eko - so that's where my pic went - this contest is rigged just like the elections!!

Why now dearie, how can you say that?? Don't worry the poll will be edited and modified in not a so long while. Sorry for the delayed justice though, not intentional at all

ife9ja:
Why is chiefoh not yet on the poll ? he's really cute , tot the poll was going to be edited i want to vote for chiefoh,

He is one of the contestants. check out page2 of this thread, we just have to get the "poll" up and doing, and like i just explained it will be due in a jiffy I apologise on our behalf once again

Hi Sisimama

@ LEADMYSTER

I totally share your point of view

@ sweetstjoy

Dear please and please speak up before its too late, please make hay while the sun shines. Now one impossible thing on earth that we all wished was possible, is reading other people's mind to know how they really felt

Now you've got to use the ones you have, your mouth and your heart Talk to him, tell him you're in love with him, you can't love another the way you love him and that he's all you want in a man

If he feels and wants you the same, believe me he'll be the happiest guy on earth and he'll not hesitate to make his intentions known. You see he might be feeling the same but out of fear of hurting you if you didn't feel the same might be what's holding him back. Like you said, you guys have a lot of "unsaid stuff" in the air, and its about time one of you did something before someone else does the talking which might end up reaping you of your mutual happiness together If you guys bear the feeling together, and somehing is not done or someone does not speak up on time, then it might lead to a future of regrets and "what ifs", darling hope you won't jeopardize your future, love and happiness like that??

If on the other hand he sees you as nothing more than a sister, then there you'll have all the closure you need to move on and open up your heart to someone else cos then you know the feeling is not mutual and no point in pursuing a one-sided dream

Dear i'm so sorry for the tragedy that befell you and your friend, take heart. I'm even more relieved and happy that you guys are alive, the rest can be achieved over again.

If you have the money to help her replace any of the lost stuff, then be my guest, That's very genuine and kind of you, you're like one in a million, and i'm sure she'll highly and totally appreciate it and you as a friend. A friend in need, they say is a friend indeed

But darl. make sure, and i repeat make you're not doing it because you feel guilty or responsible for what happened, because you're not. People get robbed everyday in different places, that you guys were together while it happened i believe is a coincidence. It could hae happened to her anywhere.

You guys just have to be there for each other, even though her loss might have been a step higher than yours, lets not forget that you were still robbed yourself

Good luck in your endeavours, and may your loss in helping others be replenished ten folds . . AMEN!!!

22 days, 10 hrs and 7 minutes as we speak

youngies:
Cutie suprised that you didn't show up, maybe it is because that,

look who's talking about being surprised?? when you abandoned me here for ages

youngies:
Darling I bet you there are so many you have not heard, start learning from the master now

Infact that's the only reason i came back, so that you can learn from the "princess of proverbs" lol

anyways

ndi be anyi siri na ôkpatalu nku aruru siri ngwere biara ya ulô ônwu
he who gathers fire-wood filled with ants, is inviting the lizard for a feast

Ôkuô siri na ya kpara chi ya, kpara aka ya, mbge ya ga-akpa nke ya onwe ya, chi ejibido ya
the cock said that all day long it goes aboutgathering for its chi (god) and ancestors, when its time for it to gather for itself, darkess/night befalls it

bia Youngies if you don't show up soonest, i'll be "madder" than i just was

hayofiz:
need a girl,call 080-67507594 in the night
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please audience, notice the high-lighted in the night??

Nairaland females ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


_{*running out of thread*}

lol . . Darling, not to worry, we all once had our share of "mumuness" period. It happens to the best of us

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All the replies are right in their own way, but all individuals are different.

I've heard some guys say they lost interest in the girl because she gave in too easily, some will say "na wa, all this trouble for one girl", at the end of the day girls are tired because you don't know what the "real deal" is

I guess if they're meant to be then no matter what tactic the girl chooses to use, the guy will hold up for it and love it. I know my cousin once said, that even though he's more attracted to girls doing some shakara at the beginning, the girl he was dating at the time didn't but he still loved her more than any before

Every method carry a 50:50 chance, so i'll say : just go with the flow

For the records though, some girls do not play hard to get because they want to, in some cases the girl actually do not want the guy but his persistance makes her fall head over heels

[quote author=ade.f link=topic=50361.msg1064434#msg1064434 date=1177409618]Walk away, or else you will live with the constant anxiety that the same may happen to you----- Quotng justin timberlake: "what goes around comes around". Good luck friend.[/quote]thanks jare

She has a boyfriend, and you want to date her?? if you didn't think there was something wrong with the thought, i'm sure you wouldn't be here

You guys complain of something, but turn back to do the same, if she loves her boyfriend, why would you want to ruin a relationship? and if she has a boyfriend and won't mind jumping to you, what makes you such an extraordinary man that she won't do the same to you?

Now do your homework and answer those questions and i'm sure you'll know what to do

wunmex:
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What a thread?? So this is what we've come to, a blank space for a thread . . lol Nairaland we hail thee

Are you trying to tell us you love yourself??

@ Jenny2007

well dear, i'm not good at taking sides with a party just because they're the ones that put up the story. And i'm sure you'd want my honest opinion, right??

Well like i always say, it takes two to do the dance. Now your falling in love with a 37yrs old guy at the age of 18 is not that out of the blue, so lets leave that.

But dear, when you finanlly made up your mind not to marry him, why in the world's name were you still portrayng the opposite, you damn well knew what he was after, your best bet would have been to avoid him for that time being, treat and act neutrally with him.I also have to say that your travelling to visit and stay with him under the circumstances, was very un-called for

Of course at the age of 37 any guy in his right mind would be desperate to get a wife and create a family. Now you told him you weren't ready to be "that one" but somehow you were still leading him on

His jealous and possessive chararter, well thats how it is with some guys, they can't help it

But come to think of it, maybe that character of his was what you needed to be where you are today , what if he wasn't like that, aren't there chances that you could have gone beyond your will to be with him?? well his turn-off character did save the day, it broke the camel's back and made you realise you had to totally break out from the cycle

Actually instead of thinking vengeance, thank God for your life, and how it has turned out. Use your time to enjoy yourself and your new found love, leave the past where it belongs (behind( and remember that everything happens for a reason and some dissappointments are blessings in disguise [color=#990000][/color]

ruescho:
If girl says she only wants to keep realtionship if u buy her expensive birthday present, what would u do?
I say: money cannot buy love, she argues if man cannnot take care for her he's not loving her enough.

Then she can hit the road for all i care _{that's if i was a guy of course}

not loving her enough she said?? its her kind that can't cook,. because her definition of love is also "lodging at Burger King" and its certaingly her type that end up being used for money rituals because in her hunt for someone that will buy her a helicopter for her birthday and a duplex for christmas, she'll run into ones that are in turn looking for girls that'll do anything for money

Of course, you want something nice for you birthday, but you're are not in the position of making the decisions if you're not specifically asked by the person, and yes its ok to be wishful but greedy is a whole different story

Btw how much money is she willing to spend on her boyfriend?? or she's the "its better to recieve than to give" kind?

Belly Dancer - Akon

My dear Tanasha, its high time you stopped letting people run your life for you, it makes you more insecure for every second that passes

First it were his friends saying he was into drugs and all that, you got yourself out of that, now its your own friends telling you that you'll be a sacrifice-goat if you visit Nigeria. I really do not understand you anymore

What's next? what happens after you've been to Nigeria and returned safely? guess some other story will come out of the blue, right?

Well the honest truth is that none of us is a wizard, so we honestly cannot tell if you'll be used for rituals or not Its your call, so you have to make up your mind if you wanna go or not.

And lastly, dearie if you feelso insecured about everything around your boyfriend, then that's not a good foundation for a relationship . No relationships that is controlled by "she said and they said" makes it. So dear, what's it gonna be? It seems you have very little trust and faith in him? if that's the case then you either turn for the better or walk. You wouldn't have liked it if someone suspected every move you made, would you??