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Dear, wish i had good news, i have searched abd searched abd seached, the whole internet, above and beyond, outside and within, to no avail

Sorry darl, really wish i could help, all i could come up with was some film covers featuring her, i guess its because she's not that famous

registered september 1st

fun-loving

And @ poster, i do believe taking her back might be a better choice and decision, than the self-destruction drain you're going down. 21ladies? still

Of course, its unfair to say you can't make your own decisions. We're all different, so are our choices

crazykid:
Is that suppose to be a joke

lol

Btw @ crazykid, i love your signature. Infact let me qoute it incase you ever decide to edit "real men don't insult women"

Just for the records, i'll hold you to it anyday, anytime

I'll call you creative, your heading: Re: Who Will Be My Paloma, And Let Me Be Her Diego? was the best so far

For that, i give you my sincere best wishes in finding your "Paloma" lol

Both are wrong, infact they both committed big time

What was she doing in the "old pastor's" bed in the first place, it takes two to tango(some girls sef), a virgin for that matter. Did the pastor rape her?

the pastor should have kept his "thing" to himself. Geez, he's a pastor for crying out loud (what God will judge on earth, is becoming inumerable by the minute) Doesn't he have a family to think of? When he steps up the altar to preach for the next months to come, he should cover his face in shame. And that same hand he'll use in giving is congregation holy-communion. Chei, Abomination!!

They should both go on their kneels ooh

Infact i'm so annoyed that i can't think straight, what rubbish

The deed has been done already sha, there's no going back (no matter what we say here is of no consequence), so what exactly are we supposed to do with this thread

ThiefOfHearts:
lol whatever.

best behavior indeed. I'm sure the OP is question isnt a "horrible" person yet look at what she's going through. Nonsense.

@ ThiefOfHearts

dear, ok, maybe the "behaviouor" theory wan't the real thing but there's absolutely nothing wrong in dating an only child or only son. Every situation whether dating the only boy or dating one of 5 boys, there's no guaratee to hapiness. You have to create your hapiness in whatever situation you find yourself.

Love is a feeling, feelings cannot be controlled. Are you saying you'll turn your back on love and hapiness only because the guy in question is an only son.

Come to think of it, you can become a daughter to the lady, playing your cards right because she sure wouldn't say no to a daughter. But not every daughter-in-law can be a daughter

DewDrop:
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And I'm supposed to feel sorry for the girl because
Akon "fake-raped" her?
The girl is the daughter of a preacher man and he spoke out
Pastor Dave Alleyne of the Flaming Word Ministry of Chaguanas said,
"She likes dancing and won a competition."
Her own father- a preacher is not making a big deal of it- its just dancing-
WHY ARE WE?!

Check out the pictures!
Notice the first one, he's just laying there and she's doing all the 'work'

The girl is 14!?
Has a tattoo
Belly button pierced,
can wear clothing like that,
wanted to wine on stage with Akon!
And the media went mad and called it sexual assault!?

WHATEVER!!! I'M SO OVER THIS WHOLE THING


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@ DREWDROP: FOR THIS WONDERFUL POST AND PICTURES YOU DISPLAYED HERE, YOU'RE MY GOOD FRIEND ON NAIRALAND FROM TODAY

Anyone who cares to, can go to "page 9" of this thread and read every single post i pasted there, because thanks to Drewdrop i can still strongly and proudly stand on each comment i made there.

Unlike some, who practically made mockery of our posts only to turn around and change their opinions. While we were being laughed at yesterday, who now is in position to be laughed at??

Thank goodness that i now have evidences to back up my opinion, which is that the girl called everything that happened to her upon herself, she started wining on Akon's body first, didn't she? (pix 1)


i said yesterday and i quote; an igbo adage says he who gathers fire-woods filled with ants, is inviting the lizards for a feast

Aproko:
the boy no fit find another work? the 5m no go finish?na wah oh

my dear, that's the same thing i thought ooh. But my sole fear and concern is that she treathened his life, i was like "i'm sure she's kidding", but what is she's not??

A desperate lady is capable of anything

I wonder how a human-being can be such a "plague in the skin" to another, i'm sure the guy'll be cursing the day he stepped his foot in her company for the first time lol

How can it be worth it when you know she'll be out the window once she finds out well some will say its worth it for the time it lasts well the $2 million fact is that you might get a girl, lie to her, later find out she's not a materialistic one, you fall so so deeply in love with her and decides to confess

now know this, not every girl will forgive. Thereby making him loose the love of his life

Btw whatever thing you might have in mind to lie, know that the truth always has its way of popping out, can you face it then??

I don't think lies is a good foundation for anything, but anyways whatever rocks your boat as far as you're ready to bear any possible consequences

@jesu-seun

Thanks for sharing the nightmare with us, and i believe God to prevent every plans of the enemy against our country.

If the Lord does not watch over our country, the watchmen watch in vain.

No weapon fashioned against us (Nigeria) shall prosper, and any mouth that rises against us in judgment, i already condemn



AMEN!!!!!!!!!!

This topic has been here before, and just like i laughed there, i have to laugh here too ROFLMAO!!!

well dear, you're not alone on that one, Die for naija _{yea right} but i'll leave you the pleasure of viewng opinions for yourself;

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=18524.msg1042216#msg1042216

Happy viewing hun!

@ tega78

was just missing someone, and remembered you.

Had to drop a greeting sha, so how have you been?? Long time, no see talk

Well holla back when you're here, aight honey??

Well if the guy isn't interested in the lady and her promises, then it would be heart-breaking for him to just get tied down for life because of the threats. I don't think he should go into any marriage just because of the material promises either, for some it would be a reason enough but i don't think so.

What happens when the riches are gone?, then both of them will now spend eternity in hatred and misery?? doesn't sound like the ideal thing to me

If this lady persists and will not quit her desperate and wicked hunt for marriage(Geez, some women make me wonder , what is she thinking, "to hell with his present girlfriend"?), then i suggest the guy should set her up and throw her behind bars (not that you can trust Nigeria to render justice, not when the lady behind bars is the one with the cash)

But i can't help to feel for his girlfriend either, infact i suggest he dupes the lady of a HUGE amount of money, arrange and get both he and his girl out ofthe country

I don't support theft but the lady asked for it, she's threathning his life for Christ's sakes, so he has to use her influence to protect that same life

Mychoice:
I don't see anything wrong with dating an only child or only son or whatever,it's upto you to put up your best bahavior.

seconded!!!

Both of them seem unserious from where i'm standing

The girl thinks the world will wait at her feet til the end of time, well such is life

The guy on the other hand, instead of making something good out of his life, is cruising around with 21shameless girls (something i'm yet to believe). but he seems to have turned to a "player" which will take an extraordinary girl to turn him around.

I'll want to believe that he became so because of the girl's uncommitted attitude, but comm'on it's not the end of the world because you end up decieving no other person(not even the girl)) but yourself

If he still has any atoms of feelings for the girl, then i think he might want to give her a second chance, she made a mistake, has hopefully learnt from it, has finally found out that the clock cannot stop ticking because of her.

And maybe she's realized that she didn't know what she had till she lost it

And the guy in questuion, is he willing and ready to forsake his new found wasteful life with 21ladies and plan a more promising life with this young lady

I don't know if there is an age limit, haven't heard of any though

but come to think of it, who is there to check IDs and legitimation cards to kno who's saying the truth and who's not. Anybody and everybody can lie about their ages to get in, so if there is an age-limit, i can hereby say its just a waste of time

Btw setting an age limit will only make does below it want to join, you know how it is with underage folks and the desire of doing the "forbidden" lol

Ow dear, i for one, i'm doing alright. Thanks for asking, hope you're cool too

Welcome to nairaland,

hope you came prepared, lots of fun going on in around here, hope you get your share of the fun lol


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D Truth:
@ cute-ass
how u dey today.
Well i agree with u on that.
infact the girl should be jailed.

lol . . no not jail though, but Akon should not be blamed!

What i find absurd is that the girl in question has apologised for her actions and decisions, so what the hell is it that her father "our so called pastor" and others are defending.

I see no case for defendance when the "victim"_{yea right} has pleeded guilty

read this: and please take note of her dressing

Well it's out. The official media damage control interview with the girl and her loving daddy showing how much he loves her in spite of her "mistake" and she apologetically saying "I should have listened to my dad"

Below is a link to the story in the newspaper.

http://www.trinidadexpress.com/index.pl/article?id=161132916 - Deena apologizes

http://www.trinidadexpress.com/index.pl/article?id=161131763 - Church members/pastor blames Akon

http://www.trinidadexpress.com/index.pl/article?id=161131759 - Deena's pic with Akon on stage, pre dry hump.
http://www.trinidadexpress.com/index.pl/article?id=161129187

4 Play:
It doesn't matter and shouldn't matter whether you know the person's age.Ask them in Norway whether you can raise the defence-I didn't know the boy's age-if you were to be caught molesting a 14 year old boy.It is irrelevant whether you knew the age or not.

this is not a case of seeing the person on the street, he saw her in a gathering where all were supposed to be matured, in this case over 21

hence he treated her as such, a matured one of course.

Believe me, here in Norway, if you did anything with a minor in a night-club that was tagged 21yrs lets say, first of all the minor will be questioned
Btw, here in Norway, the minor wouldn't have been there in the first place because they take their security jobs and laws very seriously

People "molest" artists too, jumping on them and stuff, have you ever sat back and asked, if the artist asked for the treatment?

she went up on a dancer's stage, so she should have been ready to dance to any tune of the music. (like i said earlier, what they did is a part of salsa on "so you think you can dance"

4 Play:
I am sitting here tearing my hair out! I can't understand you people

ROFLMAO!! . . why not pull out yout teeth too lol

4 Play:
I am sitting here tearing my hair out! I can't understand you people

A 14 year old girl gets sexually manhandled by a grown person and its her fault? No wonder black women,statiscally,constitute one of the world's biggest victims of sexual abuse

dear, you are missing the point here big time.

you said she was 14 right??

what the hell was a 14yr old doing in a consert which she herself confessed was a "21 years old" boundary consert??

Akon knew of the boundary, how on earth could he have smelt his fingers to know she was 14??

the girl's dressing which is my main dissappointment says nothing to suggest she was anything younger than 21.

and 4play please in your own dictionary english, kindly explain to me what "molestation" is, did he touch her inappropiately? the only thing i saw was him dancing with her, each of her legs to either side. Is that "molestation" in your own words??

if you want to blame it on blacks?? that is why the blacks will always lag behind in matters of civilization. I can proudly state the fact that if the consert was to be held here in Norway, or a ny civilized white country, in no way would anybody who is below the boundary age, slip into a consert like that.

That is why "blacks will always remain blacks" they bluntly go against the law

men please wake up from your sleep and call a spade a spade!!

4 Play:
Should it really matter that a 14 year old willingly enjoyed a "sexual encounter" with an adult?

Why then do we have laws that say no matter how the minor behaved,any adult who has sexual contact with such minor could face the wrath of the law?Since when did a minor's culpability have anything to do with it?

WHEN SHE CAME TO THE STAGE, DID SHE IN ANY FORM OR WAY, TELL HIM OR THE PUBLIC THAT SHE WAS A MINOR, SHE WENT TO EAT THE ADULT'S FOOD, AND GOT AN ADULT'S MEAT, CHIKENA!!!!

9ja4eva:
I feel so too.It depends on upbringing too.What if her father didnt see her?

when he finally saw it, what did he do about it?
why in the whole wide world would he start defending the daughter, who actually is the head that led to the sowing of the cap and start blaming a man who was doing nothing other than enjoying him self (which was actually why he was there in the first place) with the daughter who was advertising her body free of charge

I'm so disappointed over the girl's father aka "pastor"'s reaction and point of view

sorry to say this, but infact i'm totally ashamed of his stand on the issue, he's not worthy to be a pastor and if he actually governs his church as a whole in that manner, then that church should be closed down because he would end up leading his people astray

if he couldn't call his daughter-of-a-girl and lash her out for her degrading act and dressing, then i wonder
if people now want to rest the case on her being a pastor's daughter (someything i find irrelevant), then she should have been a role-model to christianity instead of portraying everything that would be considered the opposite, a disgrace to christiandom. (the father too)

how could a 14 years old girl be dressed that way? has anyone taken the time to see that she's 5mins to naked? what is a 14 years old girl doing in a consert dressed like a h*re? (anyway i actually don't believe she's 14 , she looks 18 or older)

Akon should not in any manner be blamed for his action, the girl called for it. Her dressing was crying out for a treat and even more


an igbo adage says:he who gathers fire-woods filled with ants, is inviting the lizards for a feast

bagoma:
@ cute-ass,
hmmn, you've got a point and i agree with most of what you've said but i just want to chip this in.
i would think that if a guy truly loves a girl then he should make out time for her!
she has said that he thinks she is complaining for nothing which i interprete to mean, he doesnt see anything wrong with his behaviour. he is not feeling her.
if he is under some kind of problems he needs to let her in on it. she aught to be his friend too not just a lover and that means they aught to connect nearly on all fronts. she should be hi listening ear, confidant etc. if not then he's probably not the one for the big M word.

darl you have some lovely points too, seems we're coming from the same view, but like i said no matter how you love someone, atimes you can't cheat nature.

His saying "she's the solution, not the problem" in my opinion might meanthe thought of her being his reason to pull through those difficulties.

And yes you're so right. i said it too that "communication" is huge in a relationship, but some people unlike others need time to come out of their shells, i've always believed in spitting it out, and making your partner known to whatever it is that is bothering you

but i can't forget the fact that all human-beings are different, that's why we have the word "patience", don't take it to the point of hurting the person but take your time