₦airaland Forum

spoilt:
@davidylan
why should a raped woman allow herself to get pregnant?
u are supposed to report to the police station pronto and from there straight to the hospital where they know what to do. the talk of pregnancy and dna wont even arise!

like i said earlier, some people have been victims of inaccurate results, only to later assume the baby came from the hubby

dearie, things happen, sometimes we're unable to control them. That makes us human

another lovely day

nairaland is dry

but hopefully,

soon they'll all

creep out lol

hi there @mohawkchic

jbuoy:
@cutie,you were right only for the last one, am just fine my dear.

one right answer is better than nothing

well lets wait for the "professionals" to enter the building

so you're now in naija?

@ jbouy
i'm cool dear,you?

Btw, you mean i'm not right at all, not even one?

Jovial

@ jbuoy

no.1 - 100 yrs
no.2 - Panama?
no. 3 - Cat?
no. 4 - October
no. 5 - Camel's hair
no.6 - ?
no. 7 - George
no. 8 - Purple
no. 9 - ?
no. 10 - 30 yrs

@ Davidylan, now isn't your wife(to be) a lucky one?
Unfortunately, not every guy will take the situation that lightly

davidylan:
If you are faithful to your partner DNA should be no problem to you.

still another thought:

a lady breaks up with her lover, gets married to the guy she considers mr.-right.
months later, she's delivered of a baby. Yippie!! everybody is overjoyed. They all live like one big happy family, with more kids during the years

The guy is all-grown-up, married with kids sef. One fateuful evening, driving back from work, gets into an accident. He needs blood transmission. The dad's blood does not match. A DNA is carried out, chei, he's not the father afterall
Unkowing to everyone, including the lady, she was pregnant with her ex-boyfriend before they went their seperate ways.

Thanks to DNA, the man is furious because he feels betrayed by his wife, they actually got married because they found out she was pregnant . The ex. is mad because he lost all these years with his son, years that can never be regained . The son is angryx10 because he grew up with a wrong identity, his mother betrayed him

Actually this lady wasn't unfaithful, just a victim of ill-luck and fate

Zandra1:
Cute-ass, actually I left the school for US so I couldnt finish there. If I was there I guess I would have been among the 2004 graduates by God's grace. What yr did u graduate? Whats your full name cause its likely I'll know u. Talk to u soon.

I was among the set that graduated 2001, had valedictory service in July 2001, i was actually one of the "utility prefects" of my set

uyai:
@ cute ass thanks very much. You have a lot of knowledge. i wish you the best in your love life too

anytime dear

thanks for the wish, appreciated

davidylan:
If you are faithful to your partner DNA should be no problem to you.

I agree, but just a thought

a lady is married to her one and only, she gets raped. Goes to the hospital, results prove her clean.
Couple continue in harmony, moths later she's delivered of a bouncing baby boy, man and wife are all happy to have a son.

Many years later, the boy is not his afterall (thanks to DNA), the tests taken at the hospital were inaccurate, no tests are 100% sure afterall.
It becomes a blessing because they now know the truth, but a curse because the guy might despise his wife for being raped(something that was totally out of her contro), even if he doesn't, it takes an extraordinary man to take in the kid with all opened arms.

Now tell me, in that kind of a situation, does your above statement still apply??

mohawkchic:
~Aww Ty cute-ass,have got me day lined up watching Nigerian movies all day,now ave discovered these links,i'll let my mum know,she got me hooked on them,she mails them 3500 miles from ATL to me ,not that we don't have them here but i guess its just her own special way of doin something for me,bless her shes sweet like that

ewwww, bless her ooh

but now you can enjoy a taste of both worlds

my opinion? FIND ANOTHER ACCOMODATION and move . . why you ask?

there is a saying that "too much visit to a place lowers the amount of welcome"

believe me with the way things are going on (from your story), the chances that you guys will be cat and dog are higher than the reverse

and they say prevention is better than cure, prevent the family clash

Move in on your own, then go pay him a visit from time to time. With that the family bond is presereved, and at the same time both of you are happy on your own.

He couldn't cope with a same-age-group family member, let alone a younger generation who obviously has a different view to life.
Immediately you guys start with "she said, he said, and then she said" believe me it will take a lifetime bringing things back to normal-

Quietly and respectfully tell him you'll like to move in alone, yes ooh he'll be sad and all that but not compared to what the outcome of the family disagreement you guys might face in future will result to

But if you're ready to abide by all his rules, i mean each and every single one of them then don't move an inch

zigbo:
embarrased? why would he be embarrased,i mean everybody knows that grinding,wining as said by one or two people on this thread is a way of life for the trinidadians.why on earth will he feel embarrased since what he did was considered splendid by some people here.

darling, didnt mean embarrased as regards the wining or shaking (whatever) but

[quote author=cute-ass link=topic=49792.msg1058828#msg1058828 date=1177206869]in my opinion?? well the girl dressed "to kill", the girl to me looked gorgeous( didnt like her sense of dressing though), but i did think she was physically attractive, now its not unnatural for his "thing" to have been carried away in an unproper manner if you know what i mean esp. after dancing that close with her (his "thing" might not have known they (it and Akon) were on stage/public)[/quote]regards that ^!! (his "thing" sticking out)

me too dear

One:
Elelia nwa ite, ya agbonyuo oku - disrespect the small pot, and it will boil over and quench the fire

babyosisi:
One of my mom's favorite

haven't heard it before, but loved the sound of it lol

mohawkchic:
~Just to say Thank You for the link ,i love Nigerian movies,am so so excited, *off to watch Silent Burner part2 which i didnt even know existed , loved part 1

after you've been there, visit www.onlinenigeria.com. They have all the movies on the above given link and even more

Happy viewing!!

zigbo:
everyone has their own opinion on things, that looked most inappropriate to me.

_{why did he run off of the stage after that was the show over?, he dint even wait to take a bow before jumping off.}

yes, it might be inappropriate, sometimes being a star warrants you to do "inapropriate" things, believe me, some girls would kill to get that treatment and even more. Akon unluckily got the wrong girl

why he ran out?? well there could be a 1001 answers to that which no other person but he can answer

in my opinion?? well the girl dressed "to kill", the girl to me looked gorgeous( didnt like her sense of dressing though), but i did think she was physically attractive, now its not unnatural for his "thing" to have been carried away in an unproper manner if you know what i mean esp. after dancing that close with her (his "thing" might not have known they (it and Akon) were on stage/public)

well if that was the case, then i'd say he was running away from embarrassment, because its not totally unnoticeable

@ neel

_{so you were the one coming?? and the window scraped my left leg sef lol}

well dear, on this one i'm fully with you, if he had raped her, then my song would have been a different one. But i honestly did not see anything "mole" not to talk of "st" in the whole thing

the girl went up to dance, the song changed, and the dancing changed. (no jokes, some "ballroom dances" do go like that)

in Akon's dictionary he was dancing so?

THE RESON WHY ALL THIS IS BEING A TOPIC OF DISCUSSION IS BECAUSE MAYBE THE GIRL MADE IT TO SEEM SO( BECAUSE SHE'S 14 RIGHT?), WHAT IF IT WASN'T THIS GIRL, IT WAS A 25YRS OLD GROWN-UP, AND AFTER THE DANCE, THE GIRL STARTED JUMPING UP WITH HAPINESS, WOULD THIS HAVE BEEN A TOPIC OF THE DAY??

that takes us back to, if she was 14, why the hell was she there in the first place??

_{*sneaks in and peeps, seeing its quiet, takes a breath of relief*}


Yippie !! everybody is offline!! out with my 2cents @ topic. Anybody opposing?? oops, no one here lol

some asked what a pasor's daughter was doing on stage?? should it matter whether she's a pastor's daughter or a truck-pusher's daughter? what was she doing there in the first place?

she's 14 right? Akon is no fortune-teller to have known that she was underage. The girl did confess it was "21 years old" boundary

what if it was my 14 years old sister (actually i have one)?? well if she solely thought it a wise decision, then she solely has to swallow whatever comes her way

If my eyes weren't decieving me(someone tell me i saw double if i did), he was just carrying her with each leg on either side of him, and running around the stage, What is "molestful" about that??

that is something anybody could have done, or is it because it's Akon?? in some places, thats a part of "ballroom dance"

Her dressing sef was crying out for attention (and don't tell me it doesn't matter, because it does)

If someone goes out, gets drunk, jumps into the lagoon and gets drowned, who would you blame? the drink, the lagoon, or the person that went drinking in the first place??

neel i'm with you ooh, for every action, there's a reaction (infact i like the girl, she understands)

   _{*sees someone coming, and escapes through the window*ouch, i hurt my feet lol}

sweetthang:
@cute-ass,are you married? you sound soooo sweet! thanks,i think i agree with you somehow and i've always doubted that it's a spiritual strong hold,don't think she's that bad.Will try snd i've tried some of your suggestions,will keep trying.She disturbs usme everytime,home and abroad! Right now,i'm not in naija and i've spoken to her three times today!

lol . . no ooh dear, not yet

well one of life's constant fact is that nothing, absolutely nothing can be perfect. We just have to choose the option where the good weighs more than the bad

in your situation, your good is triple the size of the bad. When your wedding and building construction is over, what else will she have to be "cheif of the armed-forces" over? lol.

Before something else comes up, she'd have been taken by other things e.g grand-children

Don't worry dear, it shall work out fine

@ D Truth
sent one back
to you already

@ zigbo darl
i'm just there

about to view
a movie though
when i'm through
here on NL

@ D Truth
got it now
about to respond

yes ooh lol
how did you
guess? or you're
a customer too?

ooh aight cool
will'b expecting it

nothing much ooh
about 2watch amovie

Like every other thing in life, DNA is both a blessing and a curse with advantages and disadvantages

some get hurt by the outcome, while for some, it makes their day

it depends on which side of the boat you are on

@ zigbo dear
thats nice ooh
what did you
do today ??

@ D Truth
it should be
there by now

hello dear zigbo
what's good with
you today dear?


@ D Truth
about to reply

@ busy sweetie

my day has been a lovely one ooh, went for dancing lessons, and some other stuff

been a lovely day

what's up with you?
i noticed you saying you moved to some other place to study?
so how's it been?