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[quote author=too-much link=topic=51014.msg1074999#msg1074999 date=1177709158] Cute ass
Your words forced tears out of my eyes freely. I feel on top of the world. I have made up my mind to love her with all my heart. Thank God I asked for advice and did not let my ignorance take away my joy. I will carry out your love tips to treat her like a queen . Am already thinking creatively of what to buy for her next week that keep her mouth open for minutes. I don't know what to say u have touch my heart. God will touch yours too, because u care , God will take care of your own relationship. I really appreciate u my friend God bless.[/quote] now that was real sweet of you, thanks for the wishes of hapiness, i wish all that and more for you. Always thank God Cos he has blessed you above others. They say you don't know what you have until you loose it, i'm happy you weren't one of those cases, just cling on to her, i believe she was sent to stay

So yes dear, feel on top of the world because you are on top of the world Take care, friend!!!

Well i think they know Ini is doing great for them in the industry, so if they could forsake and forfeit all her talents, and bann her for a year, then i really have to give them thumbs up for being persistent enough to keeping and protecting the standard rules that are set!!

If a rule is set, and an offendant party isn't purnished as stated, how on earth will you begin to tell someone else, old or new to desist from the act??

If she caused it then let her carry her cross happily, they say: as you make your bed, so shall you lie on it

kellorah:
wot a load of BULL!!
let her dress the way she wants to. HABA!!!
u don't hear anyone banning actors and actresses abroad, only in Nigeria
GROW UP!!

I know they don't do it in abroad, but the last time i checked, Nigeria wasn't abroad. Today some are complaining of africans trying too hard to be like the whites, the the topic of tomorrow is "the whites don't do it,so why should we?", we have to stick to one, we can't just keep doing a "round about" turn, each time the case at hand proves our system negative

Dear i get ya point , but you're aware of the saying give unto ceasar what is ceasar's!
Every place has their policy, and if she wants to live by the white man's policy, then she had better book the next flight to hollywood
Even though i like watching her movies, and it'll pain me to miss her for a whole year, i'll spaek the truth when i see there's one to be told. First of all the "sun news"story wasn't very detailed, her offences were more than one, which makes me want to believe she wasn't just banned for her dressing-code (which i know many on this forum have condemned hands down)

Now if you want to play a game, you've got to stick to the rules, if they have some "star/celebrity rules" that they have to abide by to be counted, why the hell won't she just do it?? Afterall she's not the only actress there, is she?? some have been there before her, yet they didn't find themselves too high to abide by the rules, did they?? what makes her bigger-headed than the 1001 of them that have been there and still are??

In Europe its not allowed to spank a child, not even the parents are allowed to, right?? Well go to most nigerian schools where spanking is the order of the day and tell them that

wunmex:
u guys dnt need insult me am a new member on nairaland so i need to look before leaping am sorry to hv upset u.

Darling we didn't mean to insult you, we just found it a bit awkward, but now that we know the reason to why it happened, we're sorry too if we hurt your feelings

wunmex:
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my problem is just that this guy is always asking me for sex and am really not ready to hv iv but he seems not to understand

How long have you guys dated or known each other?

wunmex:
maybe because he has other girls that are giving it to him

has had or has?? past tense(as in the ones he date[b]d[/b]) or present (as in he goes behind your back to have some)??

@ issue

Any guy that loves you enough will not force you into doing something you're not ready to do. I know his body is not some firewood esp. since he's been in and out, but love-making should be about two people's heart, hapiness and pleasure melting into oneness , , ,

where's the oneness if one party is doing it for the sole reason not to loose the other party?? where's the oneness if one party isnt sharing the right passion and freeness that should be shared during such a heart bonding experience??

You might love him so much, but believe me love and hatred are few steps apart. You might end up hating him for taking away your moment of joy, and then you'll find out it was so so not worth it. But you know what?? then, it would be too late to bring back the hand of time

Having sex with someone you love is a big step, its not something you should do out of pressure but out of a mutual feeling of irresistable hunger, both of you have got to be ready, its not good enough for just one party to be ready, both hearts have to be in agreement

_{*smiles to herself in excitement Cos this nairaland brother's tea has been sugared big time lol*}

@ too-much

Dear please do not for one second doubt or question the heaven that God has skipped to your place, this is the most precious home-delivery ever, and you might want to know very few are that lucky

Only a few get to meet that person that is willing to go to the ends of the earth to find the key to your heart, wherever the former one dropped it. Its so normal for some guys to develop a strong heart after their love was thrown back in their faces by some girl, most of them vow never to love nor fall in love, but make it an assignment to ruin the lives of many girls

You my dear have found the heaven-sent-super-glue to your broken heart, let her heal you. Its too good to be true, right?? Believe me some are that lucky, and you happen to be one.

To love her back?? let her know how much you appreciate her and her love, tell her she's the best thing that has happened to you in years(yes ooh), sweep her off her feet (take her out, buy her a little gift not because its her birthday but because its wednesday), respect her with all you gat, let her know you can't imagine life without her, that she's your life-time gift from God, and you'll be damned to let her go, let her know that her being makes your heart sommersault, she takes your breath away. Be gentle with her, show her attention at all times, put interest in all she finds worth-while, pay her little romantic surprises now and then(invite her to your house and make a dinner for two, with romantic lights and stuff, when she sleeps over, serve her breakfast in bed), suffocate her with kisses, let her know you can't get enough of her, assure her that with you she's secured and safe. Be understanding and show that you care

Now all that listed above will be an empty sack if you don't do them with love,you just got to open your heart completely, she's put hers on the line, putting all risks aside, you my friend have to do the same Cos it takes two to do the dance , if you know the pleasure you feel about her, then put it into action while doing the above, free your heart from the past and hold on to this "fresh breath" you've been blessed with

Good luck!!!

spoilt:
im impressed too. i always knew we had good guys no matter what people say! thank you guys!

My dear, i knew that too ooh, but the fact is that its not everyday you run into them

When the topic was set up i expected some guys to run in here, dispose trash and spit disgust as usual, saying things like "do the sister, and bone up. afterall you're the man "

These two succeded in proving me wrong, and i couldn't be happier lol

@ earth tones

now that was much better, at least anybody that wants to give an advice will know what its all about

Now if you want my opinion??

I'll say, if your heart is with him, i mean if you have feelings for him then there's no harm in giving it a shot

How old are you Btw?? Cos if you're like very young then i won't say its an ideal plan ooh(i think 10yrs should be the age-difference limit). Cos to me a young girl with all her life in front of her should settle with someone in the same age category, so that you guys get to spend life together, mature together and grow in the relationship together.

But if the age isn't an issue for you, then who am i to disapprove?? whoever said it couldn't work out with the right efforts? and Hey, look at Celine Dion and her hubby, Catherine Zeta-Jones and the hubby. They're all doing splendid

earthtones:
I actually like the guy, but and because I am American I can only speak to what is common in U.S., so I was asking members of the forum their opinion. Many of my friends have said, "what is wrong with him that he has never married ot had kids" is he gay, selfish, and the list goes on.

And let your friends not cloud your judgement, you've been around him, does he seem to exude those characters listed by your friends?? Like i said earlier, people have their reasons of doing things, it could be that he hasn't seen that one person that makes his heart sommersault

If you ask me, i suggest you ask him outrightly, thats what a relationship should have , COMMUNICATION! His answer might blow your mind away but until you've asked him, no one can give you the answer to his decision!!

Its a bit eye-taking that someone would stay that long before committing but dearie there's nothing abnormal about it

spoilt:
make sure he hasnt reached male menopause!

Haba you eeh

But seriously, i think for men its a bit later than women, something like in their 50's - 60's
they could go for a test, if the lady wants kids herself!

ThoniaSlim:
well i guess your right.

. . glad we finally agree we're all here to help!

Well it seemed so.

I've read through JuneJemini's post, and the big big mistake i found about his post was the generalization, that pisses me off. Infact i can't stand generalization.

Apart from that, he was giving his 2cents in the way he saw fit.

You said "you don't go about clearing other people's farms, when yours is not cleared"

sorry for asking dear, but do you know JuneJemini in real life?? how sure are you that his farm isn't cleared?? well when you present your farm personal problem/case/topic/thread on nairaland, isn't it because you need us to help you clear it??

And right now the person we're clearing her farm is elohor1 atimes the truth hurts, but when the person asks for it, you just have to pull it out without hesitating!!

For the records, some give advice out of experience, so even if he has been down that path, he still has the right to call back someone else doing the same, remember our advice is to save her from misery, at the end of the day only the involved will carry the cross of consequences

IBDat:
Triple dating 3 guys without their knowledge is wrong (fact) - if they chose to accept it and still remain is a different story - well it's all good until u get caught n end up with none.

On the flip side they might even be cheating on u as well!

It is ironic how women are now defending this act, when asked on the other thread of what they dislike in a guy CHEATING filled the pages, umgh

thankyou jooooooo, i wonder how some can possibly think what she's doing can be defendable

Is it a crime?? No, you won't be sent to jail. Is it a rude and heartless act?? YYESSSSS, because nobody not even the person doing it would want to be treated that way

Someone doesn't have to put their finger in a fire to know it hurts, likewise you don't need a forum to know that "cheating" and leading different people (3 in this case) on at the same time is neither a cool nor likeable act!!!

She wants our honest opinion right?? she got it!

youngies:
O doro m anya na isi ezu chaghi gi oke I choro ira nwanyi ugbu a, ga aga n'ulo ndi akwuna, ha ga enye gi ihe i choro ma tinye kwara gi jara (HIV)

ROFLMAO . . even double jara if you want (brothers and sisters to HIV)

youngies:
Cutie though you didn't answer me , I shall keep it rolling

I did ooh! Check again

_{*clears troat*}

Ihe ôkenye nô ala hu, nwata kwulu ôtô, ô gaghi ahu ya
what an elder/adult sees sitting, a child does not see even while standing

Isi na isi ha bu n'ônu maka na mmadu ka ibe ya
all animals are equal, but some are more equal than the others

_{let me know if you didn't see the message youngies!}

First it was jaguar1, now its Dr. Dre

I'm impressed, really!!!

iice:
Hmmm those kisses usually mean something else to me

exactly what i was about to say!!

teee:
bros i dey feel u jooo

see if you wan process admission(cuteass) i fit help you apply ooo

i just dey dig your flows

keep it cool bro

LMAO . . what won't i hear on nairaland, so i'm now an admission to be processed?
you're not serious at all

iykegomezi:
@cute ass, so have you made loads of friends on nairaland, or you just go with the flow, like it might be the last time i chat with you tonyte thing,

well the thing is that both go hand in hand, yea i go with the flow, while going with the flow, you run into very good friends that you know you just have to keep (i've made some of those ), but i'm still going with the flow, knowing and making more friends

iykegomezi:
@ikamefa and seun are dey still online,

you can see that by vieing below their user names, its either "online" or "offline" or the "not online" with "online" written below. The last mentioned means the person is online but maybe not on nairaland page at the particular minute

iykegomezi:
@cute ass, hey it worked i have got some topics in my mailbox but i would allow some messages go through before i participate, so what do you do for fun cute ass

I'm glad tp hear you're melting in already, don't worry nairaland would be an experience you'll not forget in a long run

for fun?? well the list is unending. Swimming, dance classes, go to movies, have a ladies' evening with friends, novels, go out to restaurants and diners.
infact 1001 more to be listed

iykegomezi:
this conversation was all innocent, shey cute ass

yes ooh . . just a friendly innocent chat!!

kellorah:
ye, cuteass is a great hostess

chudy:
i can see u'all are really crazy about me the don. not to worry about it anyway, because i'm enough for everyone. omo eko you really are a cute ass (cute ass ) and i really would like to know you better. so let's sset up a date somehow, somewhere, anywhere, and i will rteally treat u like a prince.

what's with the mix up of names?? omo eko cute ass, cute ass omo eko. Can't you see they're two different people, hiya ooh

please get your words and sentences straight before posting, i'm not in the mood to read minds

the person that wants you is omo eko, , , cute ass doesn't

iykegomezi:
cute ass, i laugh any time i have got type "cute ass" you are chating with experience, i think it the best thing to do copy first, before you send, you know what i could really be addicted to this site you know, i am at work and chatting away, how long do you stay online before you call it a day

Well that was my intention, to make people laugh
but seriously i never thought in a zillion years that the name "cute-ass" would draw so much attention to itself, it was just a name picked non-challantly and for fun but you can't even imagine, from today till tomorrow how many that have had one thing or the other to say about the name , i've decided to accept my fate

And yes, its almost impossible not to get addicted to nairaland esp. at the beginning so welcome to the club of "nairaland addicts"

how long i stay online before i call it a day?? wish you didn't ask but since the question already is on the table, i have no other option than be honest!!

_{i'm online until 3.ooam and the worst part of it is that i have to wake up at 4.45am to prepare for work}

Well dear poster, i know lots of men from other countries, ranging from africans to blacks to whites (name the colours) that are 39-40, not married and without kids. Or your amazement was just based on the fact that he's nigerian? lol

Marriage is a thing of choice, either he's not cut out for marriage (yes my dear, some decide to remain bachelor and childless for the rest of their lives for one reason or the other best known to them) or he feels he hasn't found "Mrs. right", either way its his life and his nationality has little to do with it

Re: 39 And Never Married, Should I Run?

And what do you mean, should you run?? run to where?
has he made any intentions of marrying you or having kids with you??
Or are you male too, wondering if he's gay? (your gender is yet to be known)

dear please fill the blank spaces in your story, i hate speculating other's lives, you're likely to jump into false conclussions which are un-called for when the person could try and elaborate more

Seun:
Aww. So sorry about that. You need to use the browser back button and the preview key more often.

After i found out that one could loose their replies in a jiffy due to one server fail or the other, now before i send my replies, i copy them. If they dissappear i'll just have to go back to the topic, click reply and paste and copy again till i'm sure the post went through successfully

Its so down-spiriting when you've made a reply, you know you hit the nail on the head and it varnishes into thin air, worst situations are when the posts aren't just two lines if you know what i mean

eee yaaa thats sad, try compose it again, it will never come out as the first but you'll only be some stone throws away if you concentrate and try remember some things from the previous one.

I know how it feels though, has happened to me on some occassions and i feel so pissed that i'm almost close to tears, it happens to the best of us lol

iykegomezi:
u have a beautiful child

thanks for the compliment hun, my brother Btw

Well dear, you should go and view the "homepage" of nairaland, then notify on the sections where you know will be of interest to your mind.
You do that by clicking on the section of your choice, then click on the blue "notify" button above, to the right of the section, then all the new topics on the various sections will be sent to your box!

You should also notify on the sections " nairaland" and "offtopic", its always happening on those sections

After you've notified to desired sections, honey believe me the fun will come to you,and thats when you make friends, some you agree with, some you oppose to.

either way stay away from them trouble makers, i forgot to tell that here is not all bed of roses, a survival of the wisest lol

And you're most welcome to the "community" of nairaland!!

I hope now that you're a member, the forum meets up to all your expectations and more. Wishing you a whole package of enjoyment and zero troubles

you're definitely in the right place

eeeeennnnnnnjjjjjjjooooooooooyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!

LMAO poor man!!

So this is where you ran to after the fire,  . lol

now that is what i call "desperation", thumbs up, you're doing great bro

whoever said desperation didn't have its climax, let them come and see you (the living example) . . LMAO

Gonorrhea??

honestly, that's one of the symptoms.

Well you could try going for a urine test, they'll be in a better position to tell you what exactly is wrong. Don't sit and speculate darling, it can be deadly dangerous

please do not be a victim of ignorance it could be anything, the sooner you found out what, the better!!

McDoe:
cute-ass, I will narrate my experience much later in this thread. I just want to hear from members of the house first.

ok then dear, i'll wait patiently like the patient dog

McDoe:
On another note, I love your baby, cute-ass

awwwwwwwww thanks hun i love him too

Wonders shall never end ooh, Bia "mr. groins", go do your biz. somewhere else. Don't even insult yourself ooh What rubbish

Did anybody tell you there were "steam-coolers" on nairaland, you can ask in the market

If your groins are on fire, we should start dancing abi?? isn't there somewhere around you were they sell "pure water", so you can quench the fire??  

dele9000:
@cute ass
u should be doctor love, damn see analysis, u good at this.

Doctor love??lol . . you sure know how to put a smile on someone's face Cos you put one on my face and more (i was choking with laughter)

But honey thanks for the compliment though, it's appreciated a long way


_{from councellor, to romance consultant, to doctor love, Nairalanders you're too funny}