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ayefele200:
i need to replace her,

so soon

but my dad told me am entitled to 20 wives if not more

With which waist??

Continue crying, serves your ass right

@ Ayefele

I'm telling dime right away

Leave michelin alone

ayefele200:
she even came to ATLANTA , weeks ago, so we hooked up, she;s iight thou,

So you guys are now serious

Kudos to nairaland ooh, please tell her i miss her so much

*singing*

CONGRATULATIONS AND JUBILATION
STAR01 AND DIMEY GIRL
WE WISH YOU GOOD LUCK

teddyface:
@ ayefele
up yours
@ cute ass
could you send me a mail on my email so i could send it to you. can you imagin omo eko said she dose not know me.
Funny how people forget thing so easily

Tell your "kinni" to behave

teddyface:
@ cute ass
could you send me a mail on my email so i could send it to you. can you imagin omo eko said she dose not know me.
Funny how people forget thing so easily

Not to worry, i already explained to her.
You know now, toomany usernames to cram, but i'm sure you're dear to her heart

omogenaija:
@ swet T
step up your game if u want to get with a classy presentable nairaland lady

What are you insinuating?? thay i'm anything beyond classy and presentable?? Child, take your time ooh
BTW who would that so-called presentable and classy be if i may ask?? you?? lmcao

teddyface:
@ sweet T
let her be she my sweet heart and i will do anything on this forum to keep that. if you don't like her posts, don't read them.

Thankyou jare . . as if i was forcing it (my post) down his pants

teddyface:
@cute ass
where have you been?

Aren't I in a better position to be asking that??
You checked out on me after i asked for a picture you volunteerily served

@ omo eko

How are you love

@ thread

One of our contesants, youngies, had his birthday yesterday. Yea, kinda late, but better late than never, right??

Visit his birthday thread and drop some love, will you? - - https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=56096.msg1150758#msg1150758!!

Sweet T:
@cuteass
Ouch. I can be your baby Daddy provided you wouldn't tell Omo-Eko !

Wouldn't pick you if you were the last man standing, now behave before i tell omo-eko to dump your cheating back-stabbing betraying ass

omogenaija:
@ david don't be surpised , brother sweet T is tryin to get a date for the weekend

Sweet T:
@Omogenaija
No, weekend is far away. I need one for the middle of the week !

@ omogenaija
well seems he'll be doing a solo date

@ Sweet T
Test shows you're in the wrong place.

Point of lecture, next time incase: Be nice. Stop creating enemies, and turn around to serve your infected love, its damn annoying
You're doing the same thing on another thread.

And i'm sorry if you feel elected, but yea you're the scape goat. Got it up to here with pok-nosers

Sweet T:
@Cuteass
Give me some sugar !

no sugar or love for you, stop getting people irritated for nothing

If you want some pepper i'll be more than glad to serve you

I was about to move on and pass by quietly, when i couldn't help noticing the new title gr8t gave him

An "Hero" ke??

For where?? Bia, are you just trying to pull our legs or something??

@ moriki

please modify.

bodsibobo:
that's why i like Nairaland users.

chumakk asked a simple question: Do you like this man?

instead of answering yes or no, you are all fighting and go on insulting your parents,

na wah o!!!!

Continue liking them

Sweet T:
aight Baby ! Nothing but LOVE !

What rubbish love? visiting the other thread, i can see you woke up from the wrong side of the bed this morning, keep the frustration to yaself biko

Love ke *sighs*

@ omo eko

Sweet T:
@Cuteass
Why do you write a book when you reply to posts ?? Nobody has time to read that s#!t !!

And you are??

@ bigdee

Is it too late?? Very difficult to tell. But you either stick around and find out, or you walk out not knowing, you choose

Before anything, I have to lash out a bit, my bros and sis(s) on the thread already did enough to last you a life-time, but my post wouldn't be complete if i didn't add some salt to the wound (Cos you sure deserve it)

You were served a platter of gold, garnished with silver and diamond, and with both eyes open you tipped it into the gulley. Assuming it was just a mistake, your stars repeated the treat, but you still proved otherwise.
I pray so dearly that the journey isn't ended, that your realization of mistakes do come across as genuine to her, that her love towads you haven't all been converted to hatred, that you are one of those so lucky to get a "x"th chance . . .

Dearie, if the otherwise happnes, I'm sorry to break it down to you, but you have no other person to blame than the person you see in the mirror when you look into it. And If she does walk out and not come back, go take a seat and listen to AKON'S - - "LONELY", seems he was talking to you

What you should do?? Thats a difficult question, but atimes the truth does set one free. If you really have called a day on your numerous atrocities, just continue being the "new, refined" you. Luckily, she might see that.
A broken trust isn't so easy to get back, but it isn't impossible, you might be destined to have that one last chance. When she gets all high, you have nothing to complain about actually, its all your betrayals taking the better part of her, give her the time and space to digest it.
When after a long time, she does see that your sins are now in the past tense, she might come back as her true sweet self, but do remember that it might be too much to ask. If your back-stabbing has eaten too deep, you might have to wave her old self good-bye, but lets hope it hasn't come to that, right??

She really did do so much for you to deserve the roller-coaster treatment, it was really bad of you
Let her know she opened your eyes to what being true and repenatant was, she made your world, make her see she's all you want and more than you ever dreamt of, that if she ever walked out, it will be your greatest loss in life, that she's your queen among maidens, and a diamond in the midst of thorns. Let her know you were so blind not to have seen the buttered bread you were served, and that you'll use the rest of your life to prove that to her if she finds it in her heart to love you again

Plan an evening for her in the nearest future, make it a momeroble night, and in the cause of things, talk to her from your heart, pour your whole heart and feelings to her, say it with sincerity. Damn your man ego and win back her love for you (what good has the ego done for you all this while anyway )
Use everyday that comes and passes-by to show her you've learnt your lesson, and will never let her down, that she's the angel you necer thought you could have but yet so human. AND THIS TIME, DO STAND BY YOUR WORDS

She's come this far, this last behaviour of yours might be the one to get the cup overflowing, i mean the action to break the camel's back, but hey there's a chance that she still has that last spot for you, now make it a story with the happy ending afterall

Wha a "first" speech, that's all he had to say??

Hmm, na wa ooh.

You're highly welcome to nairaland dearie.

Hope you have a smashing stay here

Make it a blast, and don't be a stranger

Islander:
AWAY from YOU

Islander:
Just kidding honey,

You better be

Islander:
need to pay some bills,

You're not alone, my own cross (of bills) is coming up on thursday, the last day of the month. Not looking forward to it at all
The money i could have used to - - - - (fill in the gaps)

@ IBDat
I kind of want to second you but . .

IBDat:
Well some people will say as long as u're both in love that is all that matters.

I totally hands down, lying on the floor agree with you on this one.
Love isn't all that matters, you got to make the ingredients on the "recipe list" complete

IBDat:
- Her children, have they now accepted and cool with this or are they just moaning under their breaths?

Well if they say they've accepted with a smiling face, then he just has to believe them. If they're moaning under their breaths, thats their own plate of rice, he ain't a mind reader

IBDat:
- Her ex, his is still alive?

The topic did say "widow" which makes me guess strongly that the ex-hubby is dead.

IBDat:
- What of his family? As they would like to see their Nephews/Nieces/Grand children/Cousins etc

Well that shouldn't be a problem if all other things are in their right places, the kids from her earlier husband are adults and should know that they have a "father's family", their mum's new husband notwithstanding.

IBDat:
As long as you understand that this women already has a family be it in a relationship or not and you feel you cool with that and can handle it, then YES go ahead if that is where your heart lies

Yea, i love the sound of that. Both of you should know what surrounds your new relationship, I know many have done it in the past so it wouldn't be out of the blue or unheard of.
Even the bible announces death as one of the causes that could lead to re-marrying. But let her not in the cause of things forget her other family, she has kids with them, so to an extent, she belongs there, and she should also "give honor to whom honor is due" by telling them about your intentions when the proposal is done. If they accept, well and good. If they don't, thats their bone to chew but she owes them the knowledge

If you guys have your hearts in the right place, why the hell not??

BabyCakes:
ou obviously don't have kids cuteass, because u don't seem to see dropping a kid as a big deal?? in that environment, it was the mother's duty to protect the child! i'm sure when you first watched that video, you gasped! the child cannot reason like an adult and thats what a parent is there for. We know kids can be a handful, but when u know d type of kid u have, you will be more careful. i think 2dye4 is d only one who spoke wisely and cuteass, if u ever drop your kid, rush straight to d emergency room and have a good story ready for social services

Thanks for the lecture ma'am, I'll remember that in future

But one thing though, I never knew mothers' middle name was now God/perfect

2dye4:
@cute-ass & sussy 1:

yeah, don't let us crucify the mother too much, but like u guys said, kids do the darnest things atimes, you can't blame it on their age, iq or attention span,thats why they are kids. But knowing this about kids, the mother ought to be a little bit more careful, i for one would av my kid clutched to me like a briefcase or probably would have carried him in that kind of environment. That clip was quite graphic, hope the cutie wasnt badly hurt though, stuff happens!

I wasn't blaming their age nor iq, point of correction.
And i do agree to the fact of "being careful", but no mum is all-knowing, I'm sure if she had the slightest idea that the kid would do what he did, she would have glued him to herself but there are times when your mind doesn't go that far, that's why she's human

Even at home, no matter how careful a mum is, the kid still gets hurt, There are situations we just can't help nor predict, and yea shit happens!!

I still stand though, it takes more than that to call her a "bad mother", it does.

Islander:
Hit me up later, gota run now,

Where are you running to darl??

But you didn't answer the no. 1 question?

So what is it you need our help urgently for??

lilrukevwe:
am i having problems when ever i try to get serious witha chick one thing tends to turn up not that i get to have sex before it does 4 sure i intend to find just

1) To have sex with her before the problem arises??,,

lilrukevwe:
but before u know i just get annoyed of her and that spoils things 4 me i av a bad temper when it comes to lady io feel really insulted by them

2) To help you control your hot bad temper??

or

lilrukevwe:
but one thing 4 sure i intend to find just tat true love

3) To help you find "that" true love??

randa:
hi, just wanted to correct some comments here, first and foremost i did not sleep with her, she wanted it i had to tell her no even though my flesh was willing and the erection was there, i decided to use my head, i know how some of these girls are, just because i allowed her sleep over gave her the benefit of doubt, she threw it all to the dogs, is it a crime to have a friend, i try to b nice gentleman but what do i get in return?
if i tell you guys all the stuff i get to see in this town, u would laughat me, the female corpers e.t.c, u would not beleive me, can write a book about it

I already aplauded you for not sleeping with her, so what's the need for correction??

samiplus:
Hello Marlet01 and Cute-ass (wish I can see how cute are your ass), Thanks for the compliments. I'm here to stay.

Sosongo - oo!!

That wouldn't be necessary