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Biafrareform:
Let me start by giving you a background story to what you are about to read.

In 2015, the girl I love left me in a disvastating manner. I was so heartbroken. I decided to be careful so as not to have such experience again. I changed completely.
From 2015 to March this year, I comfortably and effortlesly walked in and out of 5 relationship. Leaving the ladies heartbroken,

It was in March that I realized that am finding it difficult to love a woman. So I consciously try to change it and settle with my future bae.

Last week, I met a dreamed girl. She is hot and well endowed from the back. She is the perfect girl I want. Within 3 days, I discovered she has fallen in love with me. I reciprocated by showing her care. Then I discovered she is the jealous type.
She told me she left an abusive relationship with a rich guy and have made up her mind not to go into any till I showed up.
I invited her over to my place today, the moment we walked into my apartment, she was all over me. She followed me to the kitchen while I prepared food for her and started kissing me.
While we were together, her ex called and she told him that she has found rest of mind with someone else.
Done eating, we set to talk and we started kissing. Then she asked me to make love to her. I declined and explained to her that is too early for it and don't want to rush into it. She was angry and mad at me, accusing me of sleeping around with my school friends, she couldn't believed I said No.
She started crying and made me to understand that I just have to make her cum. That's she is feeling that way cos she is totally in love with me. That I shouldnt make her remember her past.
I decided to play with her all through till she was satisfied.

Am left confused. I really love this girl and I don't want to have sex with her now. She may end up like others. My love for her hasnt matured yet. I need grow more in love with her.

a jealous woman can kill without thinking. glee from her insecurities and run for your life.

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fynestpotato:
As a man if u are still below 30 years of age marriage is not for you.

just like maturity marriage is not an "age" thing. Depends on the person's mental and financial strength

NairalandCS:
10MB crew be like:
Abeg make una tell us wetin happen for the video.

Abeg make una tell us wetin happen for the video.

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Lalasticlala please come and move this to fp. it's educative. if I haven't searched for cc blood genotype on Google I wouldn't have found this

oga, Shey you know say na sexuality section fit this story?

ikbnice:
what's her Facebook id. She posted it publicly, why not include her name. Those who commented have their names all out. That's not fair

simple Google Image search and this was what I found

Last week, the Nigerian cyberspace wash awash with calls by guys (including me) advising other guys to go DNA test done on their kids, one of the Guys who also advocated for the DNA test (CANICE DIM) wrote this on FACEBOOK

Dear Ladies,
If your man cheats on you,
Stop blaming men.
That tactics has expired.
PUT THE BLAME SQUARELY ON THAT MAN.

The DNA revelation has revealed that women are very much deep into the game too.
In equal proportion...
Shaken together...
Or even running over.
Same goes for men too.
If you catch her doing weeweechu somewhere, it is not women.
IT IS HER.

99% of nowadays lovers are cheats.
Only 1% will not cheat on their partners.
And none of those 1% will come here to claim holy.
But if you believe you will not cheat,
Don't Try To Prove It On Facebook or Nairaland.
PROVE IT TO YOUR LOVER.

To many men,
Love is dead.
They just marry to have children and answer a family man.

To many women,
Love is dead.
They just marry to fulfil societal norms and answer person wife.
It is a hopeless situation.

Source https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1343074532396520&id=100000819577243&refid=8&ref=opera_speed_dial&_ft_=qid.6430711751781130039%3Amf_story_key.9219634200643464761%3Atop_level_post_id.1343074532396520&__tn__=%2As

just 2 days.
Panicking and worrying will only delay it further. The flow will not always be regular.

Change in food consumption, stress and even change in habit may affect it and cause it to adjust.

sometimes her flow may have come 2/3days early and it's just trying to correct itself.

Besides most girls have pre-menstrual symptoms he tender breasts, painful nipples. Ask her if she have those symptoms.

It's too early to be worried. it won't solve anything.

And, truth is, to avoid shortening your life span over what you can't do anything about, use a condom.

lefulefu:
op made valid points.even today my dad says his best friend is my mom and its been the best for them both.those one seeking one help or another from their pastors,best friend,ex etc when they have little marital issues are digging the grave for their marriage.if ur partner is ur best friend u will be able to iron out things with him/her.yes i had rather get married to a female friend i am attracted to than to some random girl i saw on the street .

That's the spirit

ifex370:
Before I asked my girlfriend out.. We were already very close friends .. She was almost like my best friend..



She still is

when I am a little bit chanced I will do an article on why we should date our friends.

Good day romancelanders

This is a reason why I always advice my friends to date their female friends... especially the ones that opens up to them. I know the the talk about being friendzoned... if you are friendzoned it's cause you're too nice (or is it too good for them) and their conscience won't allow them date you. we will talk about that another day

Today is meant for those guys and ladies who always love complaining to their boos friends about a bad behavior or a problem. I am not saying it is wrong to complain to a friend, but be careful.

for some reasons I don't like being close to my friends' girlfriends. I happen to have lots of crazies as friends and I am the softie among them. I typically restrain them. in order to avoid comparison, I don't get close to their girlfriends, in that way, they don't come to me when they have problems with their boyfriends.

I know relationships of nowadays are worse than before. players, cheats, heart breakers, whores, haters are everywhere. and If you manage to get yourself into a relationship, troubles and trials abound. for that you may want to seek out the help of your boos friend. Now that's what happens when you don't date your friend.

Or better still, make your boo your friend. instead of sitting down to talk out things, we run off to their friends or Social media first (which is supposed to come last)

so you can tell his/her friend about his/her mistakes but can't tell tell them face to face abi. you are dating a stranger then. Believe it or not, a shoulder to cry on is a shoulder to ride on. I wouldn't be happy if my friends come over to talk to me about something I have done wrong that my girlfriend told them about when she haven't talked to me.

My grandma once told me: the key to every successful relationship is communication and sorting things out yourselves before asking for others help because what other people may advice you to do will contradict your feelings.

Trust me, by complaining to their friends, you are pouring out your heart to someone else instead of the one you claim to love. Relationships grows stronger when the people involved in it take time to solve problems facing them together and that leads to understanding.

Biko, before you come crying to us on social media and the rest, answer this question; "have you truly tried talking things out "? trust me the problem might be simpler than you think.

Every relationship has its ups and downs. but in a matured relationship, people don't shout, curse, snub, fight or call each other names, they talk things out.

source: http://iniwrites..com.ng/2017/06/before-you-run-off-to-their-friends.html?m=1

Doesn't make any sense.

Temmi001:
Entrepreneurship is an art, it's disruptive. Entrepreneurs live on creativity, not memorized tips. If you're a budding entrepreneur, here's a quick tip:

Forget all these stuff OP put up there, just mold the pitch to comply with the status quo

sorry bro, those were from strive masiyiwa, probably one of Africa Greatest Entrepreneur, the guy that brought econet to Nigeria. Those tips are vital

I love that pink tie. And that gown is fit-ting and gorge-ous

ZarZar:
I've not dealt with that issue because I'm not much of a cleavage exposing person. However, I found out that guys will focus on whatever they wanna focus on. You look at them a certain way, they'll say you have the "Bleep me eyes". Perhaps you react to this by curling your mouth & they'll say you have "cock sucking lips". It's ridiculous. You'll need to wear a potato sack & a balaclava to avoid the scrutiny altogether. But I'm sure even then, they'll still find something to sexualise.

lol. that's true. Though others will stop staring immediately you catch them

Hmmmmm. Some people deserve to come out as mensuration

most Guys love staring at b00bs. it takes special grace and self control for a guy not to stare at a babe with great bosoms. Me too, I stare SOMETIMES. sshhh! Before you start screaming pervert, check your heart if you haven't done it before.

Though I realized ladies react differently. some just smile, some frown, others go just snap you carry your matter come NL or fb and report you to awon angry Girls. Food for the day.

That's why guys love sun glasses.

According to EagleHeadline, here are 11 replies ladies can use to put guys off if you catch them staring #sigh

Here are 11 sarcastic things to say to men who stare at your boobs!

1. ‘No, they don’t talk.’
What do you think? They’ll start speaking if you stare hard enough?

2. ‘Do you have X-Ray vision? Do you use it to fight crime or just to be annoying?’
Use your superpowers for better things than this, please!


3. ‘Hi! (Pointing towards your mouth) Only this part of my body does the talking!’
I sometimes have to deal with the back ache and men like you all because I have br3asts!

4. ‘I’m sorry but I think you’re drooling!’
And you need to stop.

5. ‘Do I have something on my shirt? Oh yes, your eyes jackass!’
Only if you could have something on your face like my palm when I smack you!

6. ‘Are you checking out my bo0bs or just making sure I’m breathing?’
He might just be a good guy worried about your health. *Eyeroll*

7. ‘I’m so sorry I can’t stop my breasts from staring into your eyes!’
Do you really think your eyes are not the problem and my br3asts are?! #SassMeetsSarcasm

8. ‘Was it on your agenda, to make me feel uncomfortable today?’
Stop it, buddy, just stop it!

9. ‘Is this a new way of flirting with girls? Why was I not informed?’
Why else would you be staring at my br3asts shamelessly?

10. ‘Do you want bo0bs too? It’s so easy! Just get breast implants!’
I’ll even help you pay for them if that stops you from staring at mine.

11. Say nothing and stare right back!
Actions always speak louder than words.

em before you use them, please remember Nigeria is not a civilized country. I prefer 11 so that person no go plan you. I doubt some ladies will even use them.... since they need ATTENTION.

So ladies have you caught a guy staring before? how did you react?

em bros, have you been caught staring before?
http://www.eagleheadline.com/archives/3935?transsion=1

julimartins:
Good morning y'all.....a friend of mine has had series of abortion and she is still having one right now.....she claims it is menstrual pain but I know it's not,a lot of things gave me the conviction that it is not and she keeps coming up with excuses.....more like she is trying to fool me,thinking I don't know what's going on.

while she was washing clothes outside, I decided to check the drugs she was using and I browsed about it and there it was!

I really feel like talking to her about it because of the serious pains she is going through and i am scared that the next one might be her womb or even death......Buh another part of me is telling me to mind my business.

and the most annoying part is that the guy she is doing it for is going about telling his friends about it and it is spreading....... please what do I do?

Truth is, that guy will never marry her. speaking from observation

Good morning beautiful girls and boys that know how to cook (@ least prepare a simple meal), the rest of you (saintsammuria included) can go and collect yours from your buka joint.

Well if you are thinking this post is aimed at ladies only, think again. I know many guys and ladies hate cooking, simply because they don't know how to cook.

If you know how to cook but your job can't allow you to do that, you are excused

why should you learn how to cook?

Cooking is a survival skill. I realised that when I was dead broke and the cash I was expecting haven't arrived. With the last N700 I managed to orchestrate pot of soup that lasted 3 days. Imagine if I had spent it on fast food (which leads to fast hunger).

We are in recession, that aside most families feeding allowance isn't up to 30k. I know we are all planning to be rich men and women but face reality fes, don't you think cooking is part of management skills? seriously you save little money by cooking.

Dear sis even if you hate cooking can you please learn how to cook because of your kids? It will be great injustice for your kids to grow up not knowing what their momma's food tastes like. noodles and spaghetti doesn't count as food biko. Scrambled eggs and fried eggs no join too.

Plus house girl no join. most guys are looking for a way to bring up a case of "edible catering" and "na you bring am come".

Yes bros that can't cook, the kitchen utensils wee not run if you enter kitchen just cause you have peen!s. What if your wife falls sick or have to travel and leave the kids for you? All you know how to do is sit down, see movies or play games and wait for your babe/wife to bring food abi? The day she's not around you will be dying. leave xvideos /goal. com/facebook/twitter/ps 4/bet9ja Go and learn how to cook. if not for yourself but for the sake of your kids.

Besides the house is more fun when you say things like "honey do the stew, I'm in charge of making soup." Family that cooks together stays together. It doesn't have to be all the time, just learn it.

Besides if you don't know how to cook you have no right to complain over any babe's meal. no matter how horrible it is. Doing that is plain hypocrisy.

So if not for yourself but for the sake of your kids or survival, can you please learn how to cook now?

Johnbosco77:
and how much does this test cost??

Asked a few doctor friends online, most claimed it is between 70k-90k now. seems fair enough when compared to the millions spent in raising a child

bellotaofeek:
Thanks for the tips . But what if the kids resemble you a lot ? Raising someone else kids is total waste of time and money .

It is fair to say that at that point only character will tell

obikirinoni:
Be careful ooo.

My sister's Oga did it two years ago, somewhere around computer village in Ikeja.

All four kids, none were his.

He willed his properties to his family and committed suicide.

suicide is a weak way out.

OKANGPRECIOUS:
You should equally know that some babies are exchanged in the hospital immediately after birth when the woman is not yet conscious of her self by dubious Doctors/Nurses who make deal with families that want a particular sex of baby.

In that case, who do you blame

in that case I blame the wickedness of man

Xcelinteriors:
Some men deserve it my dear, they deserve to train up another man's child

so you mean some guy out there deserve to unknowingly raise kids that ain't his and pour all his love on them, dedicate his time only to be told about 20 something years later that the kids ain't his. bravo.

vargasvictory:
How about not putting your prick in anything that moves Or Goddammit



USE a Fuxkin protection!!


You think DNA tests comes Cheap? That cash for it would get you sth else

Think cheating is tied outside the wall of marriages? think again. Besides I have asked some friends who are doctors. it costs around 70k-90k

Nobody deserves to raise someone's else's child without knowing. I am not here to complain about the cheating or who cheats most, na na na. most of us are cheats by the way. some do it emotionally, others physically.
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The frigging annoying thing is that a woman cheats successfully, gets pregnant and ties the baby to another guy. WTF??
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if the guy wanted to raise someone's else child shouldn't him make the decision himself? And it's getting worse. I fear most ladies of nowadays.
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The way they tell their stories in my hostel. Here one had unprotected sex with her so called "fiance" two days ago, and then had unprotected sex with "an online friend that came to visit yesterday" and guess what, today is her ovulation (according to her).
And all her friends are telling her to hold her fiance if she gets pregnant, insisting that's what they will do. wawu.
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There's Odartey Lamptey who thought the three kids he raised were his. There are so many other cases out there. You raise a child, take him /her as yours, only for the lady to come and tell you later that the child is not yours.
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And how about the girls that goes around collecting abortion money from different guys, do you think they if they killed their conscience to come claim abortion money from you for what you didn't put in there they won't kill their conscience to make you raise the child if she wisely refuses to commit murder?
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Abeg, to avoid stories that touch, start saving for DNA test. If the result shows that the baby is yours, congratulations, love your wife more, else you can decide to either take care of them or move thrash aside.
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Don't tell me about homes that will be broken, is it the home that you have already broken before?
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Since the ladies are now making sure that we can't trust them anymore, make we distrust them.

Oyindidi:
when mummy's boy marry, sorry iyawo you marry mummy remote control.

that's not always true. Most guys have a thing for their mothers, some don't just show it. That's the only woman whose love they can be sure of.
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He can only be mummy's boy if his mom influences his decisions. I see myself crying with my mom on my own day

of course. just cause the relationship didn't work out doesn't mean I should throw you in the trash. As long as that ex doesn't pose a threat to my relationship, we are good to go

the guy is reliable. just got mine.

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