₦airaland Forum

Lovelydaisies:
Oga, shey you know your idea is wrong? You don't have to accept mine either but wanting sex from a lady or a guy isn't about whether they bring money or not, are chaste/decent or not, are self sufficient or not. It's a psychological thing and a matter of discipline. What about lecturers who demand sex for marks? Does it mean there's nothing else those ladies can offer? It's not about sex being 'what you ladies can offer ', it's about sex being what the guy or guys wants/want. Even if the said lady is in a relationship with the guy, he might still ask her for it.

I'm not going to pretend I understand what you said.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You have one business which is to keep mute and stop opening countless thread of boredom..

Stretch forth your hands lemme pray for you.

Rest IJN.
Amen

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FERNANDEZISBACK:
What do you burn tho..?

Not your business go play with sand or something.

or you can go have sex, cos the weather allows it.

See how all those evening newspapers are laughing because they have succeeded in manipulating those simps to marry them after whoring around.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Because you men are naturally simp and can never do without a lady..
Y'all live revolves around them..you was birthed by them..you always get confused around them..so it's normal..

Quit smoking that shii

If the average man approaches 100 women, if he is lucky he maybe succeed in getting 20.

If the woman approaches 100 men, she would get at least 98.

So why are women afraid of rejection when they have a higher chance if success?

Animegirl:

Have seen post stating that women love sex more than men, this is a lie. Men can do anything for sex. They can sleep with anything with holes.

The reason why most of these Redpillers are frustrated is because no free kpekus. Using Redpiller and insulting their fellow men for simping as disguise.

I can go on but this is a known fact men love sex.

Men love sex, women enjoy sex more. There is a difference. Men have a higher drive for sex, women have the most fun.
Sex is just like an exercise to men, to women it's an experience they savour.

Godmother:
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Islandlady:
[b]ohh shut up pls, @bolded sentence is stale, not all women offers sex in a relationship, well maybe all the ones you've being dating offers sex tho, even if your friendship with a man is useful, productive and cool they will still think of having sex with you! Don't you get it, stop twisting the narrative

If your friendship with a guy contributes to his making money, he will not want to ruin it with sex.

But you offer nothing else that's why you keep complaining about sex sex sex, but your emphasis on men wanting sex is just an indirect way on advertising what you have to offer. it's your only source of pride, your only bragging asset, that's why you keep talking about it, so we don't forget you have sex to offer.
If you had other things to offer you'd talk about other things.

Islandlady:
Seriously! Sex is what most men think about everyday of their life! Men think about sex all day long even the so called redpillars

Most times, I'd have different male friends I wish to remain good friends with but all they will be thinking about is how to have sex with me, too bad

Men pls think about something else apart from sex!!! T for thanks

Lalasticlala

What else can you offer them apart from the sex? You want to be friends so you can be asking for favours without offering anything in return... at least offer what you have to offer which is sex.

Preach!
This guy summarised everything.
Nice, Redpill 101
Introduction to redpill.

Jonathan is your next president.
They all know the agenda.

They would all pick Jonathan at the end of the day. All these delay is for Jonathan. But Jonathan doesn't want to bring himself to start dragging anything with anybody, so he is doing shakara because he was humiliated before.
So he wants to sit back until they offer it to him on a platter.

placeofallure:
You should keep your mind open. I work in an office 8-4 where you're required to dress corporately and decently. Without meaning to be immodest, I'm one of the most resourceful staff the establishment has got. My boss doesn't joke with me cause I can multitask.
I wear tattoos (non permanent) in some parts of my body. I have double piercings on my ears. I wear leg chains on some days that I feel like (not to the office on official days). I can dye my hair if I want though I haven't. I wear wigs and weaves whose colours contrast with the tone of my skin. I wear waist beads. I am married. I'm 95% responsible and efficient at work, not one query in my file for all the years. In my first year, I won the staff of the year award. I've won it several times after.

Now the question, would you crucify me, refuse to hire me for being a tattoo-wearing, multiple piercings fielding business executive? It's your loss bro.

And the man that married me? It's been a decade now. We renewed our vows just yesterday on his birthday. He can't wish for another. I'm a Big asset in the marriage.

Those things don't define you. They don't debilitate you in anyway, rather they enhance. Everyone should be free to express themselves in whatever way that pleases them. Just know how to dress to different places where you need to be. That's my take. Again, keep an open mind, you will see beyond your nose if you do.

You didn't answer my question. I asked would YOU employ someone like that? or would YOU be comfortable if your daughter or sister follows someone like that? Does your husband have tattoos or does he keep dreads? Is your tattoo visible to those in your work place? Do you wear your leg chain visibly to work?

You may be the exception, it doesn't invalidate what I'm saying cos exceptions don't make the rule.

So like I said before on a balance of probabilities women who have tattoos, leg chains, piercings etc are a bad gamble for long term relationships.
Not because they are bad people but because they are impulsive and go with trends, which means a new guy can start trending in their lives and they would cheat on their significant other because of their free spirited nature.

placeofallure:
I don't know about dating a prostitute, it's men issue. But I disagree a bit with your post.

You see dyed hair, pierced nose, leg chain or tattoo doesn't make one a prostitute. It's just a fashion choice. Something like you preferring short-sleeved shirt to long sleeves or me preferring lace material to Ankara. Those things don't define your character. Be flexible in your thinking.

Let me ask you this and answer honestly. If you daughter comes home with a guy with tattoos, a gold teeth, dreadlocks, dyed beards etc. Would you bless the union even if he appears to be a good man?
Or say you have a business would you be comfortable employing a man like that to handle your business?

It's not that all women with tattoos, leg chain or piercings are bad, it's just that enough of them are wild and free spirited (which is another word for loose, someone who goes with the wind) they can be fun for hookup but not for long term relationship that leads to marriage. E get why.

And let's keep it 1000, 90% of women with dyed hair,leg chain, piercings etc are runs girls, let's not act dumb. I'm not saying girls without the above are innocent. But on a balance of probabilities girls those "fashion" are a bad gamble for long term commited relationship.

I love thigh gaps. I've seen curvy women with thigh gaps. Brazilian women have it. At least air can pass through and there is no thigh discolouration due to friction.

Dorwadora:
Rest in Jesus name
Amen

Rest!!!

Nice one.

Dorwadora:
You mean your mother right?

Or is it the mother of your father or the mother that gave birth to your mother?

Which one of them are you referring too ?

Rest in Jesus name.
Amen.

Dorwadora:
Okay....

As long a woman is not stealing before she can meet her needs then all her hustle is "Legit".

olosho done drop quote.

Animegirl:
Teach her how to drive.

Help her to apply for jobs.

Support all her dreams with money and emotional support.

Encourage her to acquire more knowledge.

Invest in her businesses with money.



If you do this, your woman can never cheat on you.

You don't know your gender, obviously.
Speak for yourself.
When asked what women want, Chris rock answered "Everything".

Today's women don't understand the concept of sacrifice, they want everything you can offer them and more than you can offer them.

The idea of forgone alternative is alien to most women.
A guy can do all you listed above and maybe he is lacking in the bedroom department, if the circumstances align themselves if such a way she feels she won't get caught, she doesn't mind denying her man sex while giving it back to back to some tout out there that can use drugs and rearrange her insides just the way she likes it.

It is the man....90% of the time.
3 reasons for this...

1. The man usually invests more into the relationship, especially financially, men being resource gatherers expect a return on investment where they invest financially and when there is a break up, he sees it as a bad investment and men don't like to loose money.
So yea it's painful. The women who invested next to nothing except her vagina (which is not an investment, because it's a mutual exchange and the guy does most of the work) gets to move on faster, and heal faster.

2.Their biological clock is reading fast so their body produces enough oxytocin to bond quickly with a new partner so they don't miss their chance to reproduce.

3. Monkey branching, in redpill philosophy the term monkey branching is when a woman already has your replacement at hand towards the end of a relationship, she is already bonding with your replacement and trying to get some form of commitment from him, whilst slowly detaching emotionally from you. So when you finally part ways she just continues with your replacement from where they already are, because she has moved on whilst still in the relationship.

Eyesore.

It will be good luck Jonathan

Parisian:
Nairaland boys will swear they're redpillers who hate women but they just can't go a day without opening threads talking about women.

Redpillers don't say they hate women. If your parent call out your bad behaviour does that mean they hate you? So because a girl has pussy we should not tell them where they are wrong?

Cmanforall:
I pity this young lady. I feel its poverty that's pushing her to this. And she doesn't seem wild.
I wish to help her if she's got any business plan or educational development interest so she can stop this behaviour

You are very naive, sorry to say. Go and help your family members that need help. Girls like this would always go back to this lifestyle, she doesn't want to be saved. She would use your money to improve on the olosho business by renting somewhere nice her clients can come and see her or buying skimpy dresses to help the ministry.

She can be a sales girl, or learn hair dressing or something from the little ashawo money she has made but she won't because the olosho lifestyle is addictive. Save your pity bro.

Divay22:
But everything isn't about sex...

You think that way because you have it in abundance. If you have enough food in your house, it's easy to tell a person who doesn't have food that everything is not about food.
Just the way some rich people would tell you everything is not about money.

Ask married women who are sex starved by their husbands if everything is about sex... they'll tell you they crave more sex the more because of the scarcity of sexual options.

luluosas:
I don't care what you think about me, but that doesn't remove the fact that the guy harmed himself and he knows it. He must have been cautioned along the line, but he refused to stop. Now, he is suffering from what he wilfully started, so let him stop it the same way he started it. Peace

Does he sound like he doesn't know he harmed himself, he is willing to change and should be encouraged.
Even sinners know the consequences of sin yet jesus didn't condemn sinners.
And it doesn't matter what I think about you.
It only matters what the Christ you preach thinks.