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Nikrose:
Yes, calm down and read! I know most of you guys entered this thread with violence

Apart from some ladies suffering from low self-esteem n inferiority complex. Nigerian men are one of the major cause of dark skinned ladies bleaching their skin!
It is obvious and glaring that most Nigerian men have set their beauty standard of a lady to she being fair skinned, once a lady is fair skinned she is automatically beautiful and attractive!! Most men are guilty of this!!!

Most men seems to prefer and attracted to a fair-skinned ladies than the dark skinned ladies, which will end up making them bleach their skin to be attractive and preferred.

Gone are those days, when true African/Nigerian beauty were being appreciated, we are African and we are mainly dark skinned people as a black race! In the good old days where people like Agbani darego are seen for their true African beauty unlike nowadays in the model, fashion & beauty pageant world where once you a lady is light skinned, she have higher changes of winning and succeeding!

Foreigners & Outsider Men now appreciate and cherish our true African dark skinned ladies more than most of our African/Nigerian men!!! Just like how 5yrs old Jare Ijalana was made the most beautiful girl in the world for her true African beauty few years ago!

Well to the beautiful dark skinned ladies out there, appreciate and rock your skin with pride and confidence, stop the bleaching that is not who you truly are!!! Let's appreciate our African queens.

Seun
Mynd44
Ishlove

You females and hypocrisy.
You claim you don't do anything for men or because men like it.

You claim you don't do your makeup for men, that we shouldn't flatter ourselves, we are not that important and that you don't care if we like it, you do it cos you like it.

You women also say you don't dress sexy for men, and that men shouldn't concern themselves with what women wear that you dress sexy because it makes you feel good and not for men.

Keep that same energy with bleaching, after all bleaching is a form of skin enhancement, which is similar to makeup. because of how bad bleaching is you women have come with you victim mentality to say men are the cause because of their preference for light skin.

So women don't bleach for themselves? Oh it's for men now? I thought our opinions don't count?

And you said most men are "guilty" of this, as if to say men it's a crime that men prefer light skin. Women also have preferences like tall men and rich men, alot of women even prefer dark skin men, can we say they are guilty of their preference?
Black comes in all shades, we are all black people.

Women should learn how to be accountable for their actions...that most men prefer light skin women is not an excuse to self harm.
Look around there are dark skin beautiful ladies that don't bleach, do they have two heads?

If I carry gun to rob, and I'm caught can I say I did it because women don't like broke men?
That is just stupid.

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Running Ads for businesses on Facebook and Instagram is what has been paying my bills in this buhari era. I kid you not.

I want you to also benefit from the ebook that taught me the A to Z of Facebook and Instagram ads. I bought it for about #7.5k few months ago,But you can have it for #1k only. The sky is big enough for all of us to fly.

DM, number in my signature!
Don't miss the opportunity of learning a profitable skill...The Economy is not smiling.

BoredBerry:
Three days ago... My specially cooked, undeserved yet expected breakfast was served to me...

A whole me simping for a man! My feminist maternal great grand mother would be rolling in her grave...

I attempted suicide my NL family... Your own daughter nearly died! By now, you all would be invited to my burial to eat rice and cow meat... But almighty God prevailed! The lord is good...all the time!!!! Amen...

So... I'm a very intelligent human being... And I would not die an ordinary death... Though that was not my intention (this suicide attempt wasn't premeditated)... I'll explain in the next paragraph...

I was not exactly happy... Not miserable, but sad enough to ditch social media for two days... And I was bored af! I had lost someone I loved... He didn't care for me though... But that's not important...

Back to the topic... I decided to conduct an experiment... (I am a sscientist)..

I had a sachet of Hypo and a sachet of Hypo Toilet Cleaner ... The chemical composition of Hypo is Sodium Hypochlorite (NaCLO) ... And the composition of Hypo Toilet Cleaner is Hydrochloric acid (HCL) ...

I'm not a genius... But when you mix both, the gas Chlorine is realesed... Which is poisonous...

I did that... And waited... While Hypo is a colourless liquid... Hypo Toilet Cleaner is a thick green liquid... The mix was a white... With a gas (I mixed them in a transparent plastic bottle)...

At some point, I decided to open the bottle and smell the gas to test if it was chlorine... And it literally knocked me off my feet! It made my eyes water and I kept on coughing... For hours... It was horrible, I thought I had damaged my lungs! I slept thinking that night was would be my last...

But I recovered!

Ps...Chlorine gas ain't no good way to murder an ex...


I'll continue my research...

Expressive, open minded, somewhat articulate? Yes!
Very intelligent, a very big NO!

There are no pros
Only cons

Men and women prioritize different things in each other for long term commitment.

Women prioritize a financially stable man, men prioritize chastity/purity/virgins.

Women want a man with a good future (potential to gather resources), men want a woman with a good/decent past(sexual history).

You cannot say that a man who is not a virgin has no right to want virginity in his wife just as you can't say a woman who isn't rich has no right to want a rich man. we prioritize different things, because men and women are different.

Lies. Don't insult our intelligence please.

Marriage

siofra:
Why do they pretend like they don't like false lashes on ladies?

Ever since I fixed it on Saturday, I've not been able to rest.

I get at least 10 toasters a day.

But online all of them pretend to hate it. Why

Guys see ladies who wear such as people that are loose...and easy to bed, so guys would try their luck. But they won't consider them for any serious relationship.

This kind of girls have no issue coming to your house to sexx you just give them small change when they are going.

IgiveLadiesBj:
Please don't call me babe. I'm a fellow man like you ...

lmao

Islandlady:
Storyyyyy , i attract only rich men not broke ass guys, that's what I mean by intimidation

k

A friend that allows a woman to control him is someone you should avoid.

Look for any event they are sharing food go and seat down and wait for your share, remember to be greeting people so they think you are part of the family.

Or you can offer to wash plate in a restaurant for a plate of food.

If e hard you to do then the hunger never hook you for neck like bow tie.

After he would go and apologize to her privately. Weak men.

That guy wey wear red scarf for neck na body guard o, do anyhow you go see anyhow.

cherryCola:
I don't know for the OP ooh .

But why do girls acts arrogantly around me,
some says I have too much pride like..... .

You carry yourself well, but try to keep a more friendly face, doesn't mean you should open your teeth and be laughing all the time, just relax you face to appear more approachable. Their arrogance is a defense to your "pride".

Islandlady:
Partially true I am very a beautiful and classy lady! Most guys do get scared and initimidated to approach me!!! But I don't care

it's not your beauty that "scares" them, it's your unfriendly countenance that you deliberately use to discourage guys that you are not attracted to, but even guys who you are attracted to see the countenance because you get so used to carrying the look it's always your default look even around guys you would like to approach you....and you think it's your "beauty" that scares them.

They just think you'd be rude and difficult and they'd rather not deal with that. A beautiful girl with a friendly and accommodating countenance would always be approached.

And you do care!! You don't have to admit it.
Work on your countenance, try not to carry this look like everybody is beneath you. Because even guys who look good and have money would hesitate to approach you, not because you are beautiful but you look unapproachable. Ask yourself how can the beauty of a woman intimidate a rich handsome man, if guys like these are not approaching you then look inwards.

Nwatulee:
You guys should please easy on me... I might not be stable or lost control @ledrock
@sonnobax15 @czarr

It's tough love bro. Do better cos you deserve better.

You are a weak man. Sorry to say. Even if I'm caught red handed cheating on my girl I would never kneel to apologize.

You mess up big time, and why are you qouting scripture for her, making yourself look sad and pathetic as if that is supposed to make her feel bad, that is only strengthening her resolve to do away with you, cos of your weak, sad and pitiable disposition.

If she wanted to leave, you should have let her leave or forcefully make her stay cos it was late. By kneeling down to beg her in that weak manner you also embarrassed her in front of her friend, cos her friend would probably laugh at her, like what kind of soft weak man are you dating.

No amount of advice can make you change, you have to unlearn and relearn. Consume redpill content on the internet for about a year so you can recondition your mind and learn how to deal with women from a position of power and not be so emotional, so that they respect you, whether you're broke or not.

I just weak bro, getting harder to advice guys sef, I'm tired, it's not like they are paying me for this.

She go dey use her thumb and forefinger dey make am cum.
Because if this guy say make him nack am, we go use torch dey find where him fall enter...

True story.

I saw him on the seat in a dream.
I created a thread after I had the dream, because my dreams come to pass.

Even when no one believes he would contest.
Look at the date above in the screen shot.

Tombrown3:
Lol... You comment really got me laughing. You are right though, I keep telling guys, there problem is not masturbation but what goes on in their head during and after the act.


And average male produce 3500 sperm cells every seconds, sounds incredible right? It should. So if you think you can be having that early morning strong erection for over 2 months without discharge, good luck!


See... I keep telling them, it's all about the mind set. No addiction is good, smoking addiction causes more harm to the body than masturbation, yet people still smoke and feel cool about it, but same person when they masturbate feels less of human or guilty, why? The mind set.


Religion also play a part in this, cause I always hear people say "pray to God to stop the addiction" bla bla bla... Why? If you can masturbate 3 times a day and still carry out your daily activities diligently and responsibly then why bother? The devil plays with your mind and makes you ashamed even going close to God, now you feel you are no longer worthy, you leave prayers entirely, you begin to feel it has a spiritual drainage, then depression sets in. These are all in your mind! I keep telling them.

The best way to stop masturbation starts from the mind set. Stop thinking it's your problem, it ain't, what you read online or hear people say is getting into you. A girl can have sex with a pastor in the morning yet come to church and sing praises like angle duels in her, but a man will masturbate and feel lesser of a man.


Just like every other addiction and its' pproblem, excess masturbation can cause a guy weak erection during real mating, the cure is to give yourself a break from ejaculating and your body will refactor.

The only time I discourage any addiction is when I has direct negative impact to one's life.

Eg. A drunkard who drinks and beats his wife up or cause nuisance. A smoker treating lungs deceases all the time. Etc..

Sorry for the long write up bro. Peace!

nice one

ifyken:
Putin in 2014 was worth $200bn, elon just bought twitter for $44bn from his $230bn so he has less than $200bn.

Twitter is an asset and networth includes assets, just because he bought Twitter doesn't mean he is less rich. Twitter is part of the valuable asset that makes up his networth.

Alanno:
A girl whom i love so much and she loves me too told she won't call or chat me for the mean while because each time she does that she develops feelings for me. I respect her decision but do you think she is taking the right step ? And should I keep calling or chatting her even though she wants to take a break ?

Lmao.
Nothing we no go see for obodo nairaland.
My friend hear me well, that girl dey whine you.
Any girl that likes you would want to be talking to you any chance they get.

That girl doesn't like you as much as you think, she is chatting with who she likes but she wants to let you down easy and not hurt your feelings.

If you say she loves you, doesn't that mean she already has feelings for you? So what feelings is she afraid of developing?

Bihari economy done deflower them. Hardship and hunger get big prick

csckid:
There's this girl I met few months back...not as if we have anything going on b/t us...she's from a Christian home ; infact her mother is an envanglist....all her mind is preaching, cell meeting bla bla bla and I nor gba du that...I just want a normal girl...all the while I've know her if i tell her I wanna date her she will say am on my own....
I normally dress sharp and neat when I go to see her...
This evening I put on white polo + green knickers to cell meeting she invited me for....after meeting we got talking... her sister was talking to another guy...she was solely on me....anytime she looks at me she would smile...but when addressing the other guy she would be serious....
while she excoted me home ..she put hand on my shoulders and we tagged along..at the junction.. She offered me a hug...which i was surprised....when I got home I called her that was when she told me she wants to get married...that she's tired of guys putting eyes on her body ..what does it mean guys and ladies

It mean she wants you to promise her marriage so you can start eating her forbidden fruit without her feeling as if she is offending God like that, after all she is fvcking her husband to be.

If she is over 25 she is probably a retired but not tired runs babe

Kinzo0917:
May God in Heaven bless you for this. You just said it all. May double wisdom of Solomon, come on you, stay with you and overtake you to your grave. Amen

Amen
Thanks man

This girl is so obsessed with men.
You want masturbation to be bad for men, so that men wouldn't be in control of their own pleasure. But science has actually proven that moderate masturbation is actually good and even healthy.

The only thing that makes you feminist feel powerful is your pussie, and it pains you that men can please themselves, which renders you powerless.

Rest IJN