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"I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of their ingratitude (kufr).” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allah?” He said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1052).

does it mean people of the past knew more about the nature of women than men this days, the book of proverbs warns about women, even the koran also, were men of those days misogynist? what are your thoughts?

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
....I have a lot of 'em. Think I shared one before (dat kwale babe). Let me find it and paste here

One after making out for some minutes, I went to look for condom before the do...got angry and said she's not doing again o, left my awzz at 3am

Another one...she said we should wait till exactly 4am, like WFT? what's special about 4am. She claimed that's when she's always hot. I slept off and drove her away in the morning

Another one..during my year one in uni, she was naked completely when it was time to do, she no gree o I tried & tried, the babe no fall, someone that's already naked o,

Another one...when I was thrusting away, babe saw her period o, blood everywhere...my d..irk was soaked. My anger that day eh

Another one....she was saying weird stuffs in her sleep like ogboni, I left the bed for her to sleep on the floor. Never called and I never saw her again

Another one....my dick refused to get erect, we tried everything, dick no gree o. Thought something was wrong with me til the next day when I went down with another girl...I think the first had a spiritual husband or something lol

Another one...she was screaming, like her shout was so loud, the entire street and even the next could hear her, my neighbours were shouting we should keep it down

One wanted only Anal...

One wanted to do like a hour long prayer be4 the do...

One woke me In the middle of the night that she was hungry and their was no food In the entire awzz...even salt no dey. We ate takeaway dat night before everything o

Gosh they are so many, I mostly attract weird girls, all my guys knows this. I can even write a book about it

another one,another one u be dj khalid?

Guys, men mold women into something they love, while women try to fix and mold men into something they despise.....Think about it, If you were so bad why did she fall for you in the first place why didn't she just find a better guy, because she is not attracted to a better guy.

Women want to fix a bad boy to be a good boy for her and turn a strong man to a man emotionally weak for her....and when she is done she is not attracted to and doesn't respect him anymore. remember women for the most part are not aware that this is what they do, because women lack self awareness, it's subconscious.

If your woman left you or cheated on you for no reason, chances are you changed so much to what you thought she wanted you to be till she couldn't recognize the guy she fell for.

Change her, don't let her change you.

HuntSon:
Hey that's not what they said. They didn't say the fight is centered on the LGBTQ community.

They said that fighting police brutality against queer folks is inclusive too!!!

I agree, they are human beings to and should not be brutalised by the police, instead they should be handed over to the relevant authorities to face the law. as long as they are not protesting to change the law and be accepted in our society, they have a right to not be brutalised.

Stacyomolola:
Lol it seems u guys aren't talking about simp and those stuffs again
Now masculinity has taken over
There's now much sense in most of the posts on romance section

chasing is simping.

jesmond3945:
I think you showed desperation that's why she lost interest.

That act of desperation alone showed her he doesn't get female attention, and women want guys that other women want.

virginprincess:
Your post became senseless to me after reading the last part

I could careless how you take it, you are not the target audience. move along.

The best and most rewarding relationships i've had in my life were with women who i didn't chase. when you put yourself out there with a positive vibe and just having fun, you tend to meet some women who you just vibe with and you'd find that those women don't have time to play games(with you), because they are genuinely attracted to you.

some of you just go from house to your hustle and back to house hoping worthwhile women would fall on your lap, and some who even manage to go out and have fun usually do it with the intent of chasing girls for their numbers, that is the wrong energy you are putting out in the universe.

Go out and have fun for yourself and if you happen to meet someone without making an effort to interact with such person, there would be no chasing trust me.

Indifference to the outcome in your daily interactions with women is the key to attracting worthwhile girls who you won't have to chase.

Remember that girl you are chasing and giving your resources is chasing another guy and probably sharing your resources with him.

If i meet only 2 women that are genuinely attracted to me and make an effort to be in my life and help my growth, it's more rewarding to me than chasing 100 women and losing productive time and resources in the process.

Wonders shall never end.

No one should have to chase anyone...people should only have time for people who like them, and you won't have to chase anybody that likes you....you only chase who doesn't want to be caught.

Focus the time and energy it will take to chase a girl and convince her to like you into other worthwhile things, and if you put yourself out there enough you'd meet women who are genuinely attracted to you that you won't have to chase.

OMOJOHN001:
Please help a brother, I think i am falling in love with this babe. Please help a brother, I think i am falling in love with this babe.

You are not in love with her, love takes time, you are just infatuated with the idea of having someone you find attractive.

She is not feeling you like that, because girls usually make it easy for guys who they fancy especially if she doesn't know if she would see you again. so i guess she is just trying to be polite, don't be hard on yourself she could have a boyfriend or be engaged, you never know with women. i'd say cut your losses and move on but there are no losses to cut.

because you know the worst thing that can happen if a girl doesn't like you?...NOTHING!!!, How about the best thing that can happen to you if she likes you...still NOTHING!!!

carokan:
Hello Everyone.

I am dating someone is three years older than me. We have been dating for a while now and things are really getting serious. I really do love her and she loves me.

However I am still looking at the age difference.

I would like to know from guys that their spouse are older than. How has it been coming up? How do you manage it?

Don't do it...how old is she tho

HuntSon:
This is the dumbest opinion I've ever heard! So you don't like gays because you're so afraid your child may grow up in a world where they respect people's choices?? You still wanna advance a society where it's okay to hate and bully others because they're not like you in the next generation??

What about we that grew up in a largely hetero society even without the advent of the internet and shit, why did we still turn out gay, can you explain that? Or what about you that have been seeing gay acts in movies, did it stop you from loving women and liking men??

Sir, your problem is sheer insecurity, if your child will be queer or not, they wil be! Irrespective of influence or anything! Some of y'all don't even deserve children because the planned oppression that seeps from your thoughts are alarming!

Lmao.... "normal issues??" You don't want SARS to keep oppressing you but you wanna keep on oppressing another? Make it make sense!

I stopped reading after the 1st paragraph, i am not interested in exchanging words and my precious time with someone who thinks something as unnatural and disgusting as same sex coitus is okay and people who live in the land of the sane should accept it and respect it....you are disgusting, kill yourself maybe you'll be born in another life a normal person.

HuntSon:
There are different ways gays can have children not that it's your business bro

Why are you mad and angry?? is it because i said you may have paedophilic instincts?? Did i strike a nerve??

You know I'm right with my facts that's why you are so angry and threatening violence ....I win baby

You lost....there is no win for a homosexual pig, tell me what is winning in digging your stick in shit.....it's laughable that you would even think a pig like you can win anything you've already lost in life being gay, deal with it.

funny guy ,win ke

Women just want the social status that comes with having a boyfriend, but not the loyalty and restrictions that comes with it.

women are backwards and sneaky....a woman wouldn't want to cheat on you if she can't derive the taboo pleasure that comes with sneaky behaviour, that's why they prefer to sleep with your brother or best friend. avoid women that love male attention.

HuntSon:
No one is telling you to like gays, but when you support/wanna constantly harm them when they haven't offended you, you cross the line!

Get that into your mucus filled skull!

I don't want a tomorrow where my child would think it's okay because of the sake of ',freedom' to stick his penis in an anus or allow one to be stuck inside him, i shudder to imagine it.

you guys should protest for and island where you guys can go be together and let normal human face important life issues like #endsars

HuntSon:
I'm not surprised, you're a typical stewpid hetrosexual Nigerian male that's doesn't know the meaning of "CONSENT"

Paedophilia, rape and bestiality are consent ridding acts! Take a book a read! A minor can't give consent cos he/she is not up to the legal right dummy!

You're obviously a paedophile because you want us to accept you before you a accept gays! Y'all be always quick to try and equate homosexuality with paedophilia, na una know wetin una dey find!

You are a disgusting stupid homosexual, make i catch you for road na hot iron i go put for you stupid ear.......disgusting being....go to america and dip ur stick in their shit, mumu homo dey get opinion....baskard

What of children adopted by this demonic beings such as yourself....through inception they convince an innocent child that it's okay to sleep with their fellow sex, and tomorrow such child would think he or she is gay or even bi...you have the mouth to come here and defend your people..........dirty stupid buffon

Thanks for your answers?

This is child abuse. tomorrow this boy would grow and see life differently.

Lol....na joke no vex, but If big brother was still on would the youths come out like this to protest?

this is cool.
we are getting closer to the life we want.

Loool, you this boy.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Take your psycho analysis somewhere else

I have seen some redpill posts and do not hate them, a good amount is misleading though.

Empty your psychological mumbo jumbo on some weakly minded guy that will be stupid enough to believe it - I'm not that guy

You are still in my expert opinion a weak minded fellow...who is and remains a weakling, regardless of what you might want to portray here......diss me all you want you are that GUY.

nwaezeemmanuel:
You seem kind to your mother, but your post screams: STOP BEING KIND TO WOMEN

I pity the mindless guys that take everything here hook, line and sinker

You seem like the kind of guy who fancies himself to be a mature, logical guy but deep down we both know you are just a weakling and a mommas boy, you probably have a lot of sisters or grew up in a single mothers household....and you try to convince others that some redpill truths being spilled here is bad....but really it's yourself you are trying to convince because that line of thought goes against all you were thought in sunday school. OR

You are a woman pretending to be a man.

Abouwaza:
Exactly my point who are you to tell me who I fall in love with provided I'm an adult?

you have not answered my question or u don't know what a pedophile is?

Abouwaza:
What happens to their freedom of belief and expression?
So ogun no go kill u cos you are not gay?

what happened to pedophiles freedom of sexual preference.....some underage girls who want to have sex with mature guys, should we allow them because they have the right to their bodies?...why would someone tell them what to do with their bodies?

what if pedophiles start protesting for the right to have sex with consenting minors?....as long as they are not hurting anyone?

ogun kee all of una in jesus name!!

Petyprincess:
Nothing like gold digger! Broke men use the term to make ladies look like a "leech" while we all can agree no one wants to live a miserable life in the name of love!
They refer a lady wanting a financially comfortable partner gold diggers but these same men will marry a white corpse for money or green card!! My boyfriend knows i love money nd told me himself if he was broke this relationship wouldn't work out! Love is sweet o not meant for broke boys that can't afford to feed themselves!

Lol....your boyfriend told you if he was broke the relationship wouldn't work out and you were probably there smiling like a goat , you didn't know it was a jab thrown at you and your loyalty.

I guess if he gets married to you in future and faces financial hard times the marriage would not work out too.smh

that's not love....that's pretend love.

Don't you know there is cold.

Oloro29:
Careless way of carrying the baby. The baby can fall.

Exactly!

something is not going right here...

Looks like we are running out of topics....which one is most ashamed.